Are we bound to be like our parents?

I can see myself being a lot like my mother in a sense that I am really introverted and a chronic loner. I winded up to be irresponsible as a result of my absent father who abandoned me. He left me without a father figure.

Can you say what traits were passed onto you from your parents?

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It's at least 50/50 nature/nurture, maybe even 80/20. The nurture part is mostly how you were raised, particularly the first few years of your life. So it's basically all your parents.

my dad tried to kill himself because my mother cheated on him, and specifically spited him by fulfilling his fantasy (by getting shit, pissed, spat, bled and blissed on (bloody piss)) with the other man. He failed to kill himself because he smeared the wire he wanted to hang himself with with bliss (bloody piss) to try and add artistic merit but just slipped on it and fell and broke his arm. so i think we are alike.

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Both my parents were partying fiends and very social. I'm the exact opposite, if only op, if only.

Same but I'm way smarter and redpilled because of the internet. Without internet I would probably be their exact copy

If this is true, I don't even know what to think. It's no surprise you're on this site

Both my parents are depressed and openly talk about suicide now that I'm an adult (independently, they've been separated since I was like 3 so they have no idea what's going on with the other). I guess the nut didn't fall far from the tree, lol.

>Can you say what traits were passed onto you from your parents?
inherited my mom's insanity

God I hope not

>dad was horribly abused as a kid and lived a life full of mental health issues and substance abuse issues
>mom was a barley able to take care of herself due to physical conditions

I'm afraid I'm becoming more like my father with each day passing by. Fuck this shit

I wish. My parents are both outgoing, smart and successful. I am none of those.

I turn out to support same rather radical ideas as my father did even though we had never discussed any of them before. We're on the same political spectrum and also have very similar interests. We're both a bit crazy. I don't know about my mother though.

I inherited the flaws of each of my parents, none of their virtues. I have my dad's selfishness, but lack his ambition and work ethic. I have my mom's depression, but have none of her kindness. I am the worst.

>as intelligent and sociopathic as mom
>as crafty and hands on and ADD like dad
I was so fucking close to actually having the best traits for getting somewhere.

you are very fat then?

Condolences kek

My parents found each other, had sex and had me, so no, I can safely say I won't be like them at all.

what the actual fuck originales del monte

>dad is a well adjusted tradesman
>mom is now a depressed schizo on 500 meds
>i am a borderline alcoholic blue collar schizoid

seems about 50/50

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my dad is successful quasi-chad businessman and athletic

The older I get, the more I realize how much I'm basically just a mix of my parents shitty traits.

My father was a paedophile and my mother is a depressed suicidal loner who suffers with chronic pain. She is on anti psychotic meds and morphine meds with other painkillers thrown in. Not really like either of them

>dad is funny and outgoing around others. but lazy, cheats on my mom, and used to hit her

>mom is sweetest woman in the world, hard working, does 110% for everybody, but very emotional, very social

only part i can relate to is being emotional and also lazy

I always hated this thought and always felt as I need improve myself. My parents, they do love me, but they are full of cons and I would never want to end up like them or at least would never raise my children in solitude. I mean they fed me, they gave me a roof above my head and I'm thankfully for it but , let's just day that there were weeks in which they would leave me with the computer without ever interacting with me as like 6 old me really knows that its really bad for me and all kids these days play like that and is normal to leave him in his small room with the computer hours and hours.
Tbh I also blame and hate the computer for the way I am or act. I'm just not that chatty but I think I'm improving. Now I ended up as a auto vehicle engineering student and joined some voluntary work at a small racing team to make friends and improve the way I am.

parents are arranged marriage, dad 13 years older than mom, they haven't slept in the same bed since i was 4 and they're never affectionate, probably more like roommates at this point

my mom spends most of her days working as a secretary at a clinic and on her computer, mostly watching movies, facebook, and doing housework. dad is usually either working (night shifts), sleeping, watching tv or doing housework

basically mostly uneventful lives. i feel like the arranged factor of my parents marriage makes my existence a fluke and not a result of natural sexual selection and therefore my genes aren't really good enough to be passed on without it being forced which i don't want to do.