>not a virgin(unless she is a widow)
>older than 27
>uses contraceptive drugs/device
>uses recreational drugs(especially alcohol)
>raised by single mother
>involved with shitty family
>shorter than 5'5"/165cm(unless she is Oriental)
>fat
>went to government school
>went to university
>likes hiphop/rap "music"
>has dark skin
>has tattoos
>wears immodest clothing
>has piercings/body modifications(ears are permissible)
>has dyed hair
>has short hair(preferable if she has never had a haircut)
>has dreadlocks
>wears makeup
>has paintedand/or plastic fingernails/toenails
>wears high heels
>eats fast food
>eats junk food
>eats out more than a couple times a year maximum(preferable if she avoids the practice entirely)
>drinks soda
>is a militant gaytheist
>curses excessively
>uses Jow Forums
>speaks in ebonics/slang/bastardized English
>shaves/waxes/laser hair removal
>watches television
>has a Netflix account
>addicted to social media
>is a slob/can't clean
>complains about men having standards she can't or refuses to meet
>doesn't know the difference between a red flag and a deal breaker
If you take issue with something I have listed, please try voicing why you disagree instead of just calling me names.
RED FLAGS FOR FEMALES
is this bait? Here is the real list:
>has always had a vagina
>not fat
If this isn't bait I think I may know why you're having trouble finding the right girl user. This girl doesn't exist and most of this is insanely unreasonable!
>insanely unreasonable!
>please try voicing why you disagree
I just don't get how or why hairstyle or nail polish or netflix could be considered a red flag?
Or drinks soda/fast food, I think eating that way excessively is a red flag but not altogether.
Eating out more than a couple times a year, assuming you don't mean fast food there, why?
Or modest use of makeup, alcohol and other drugs etc. These things usually only signify a deeper problem again when they're used in excess.
Also uni or shorter than 5'5? The average female height in the US is 5'4, but how is height a red flag anyway?
The real question here is why you think anyone who meets this qualifications isn't going to have standards that only a cat will meet once they hit 27.9 years old
Ueno a cute
>I just don't get how or why hairstyle or nail polish or netflix could be considered a red flag?
Do you usually disregard things you don't understand as insane? I'd be happy to explain my reasoning.
>hairstyle
I never attacked hairstyle.
>nail polish
Sign of vanity and poor aesthetics. Nothing is more attractive than a pair of natural and healthy nails.
>netflix account
Speaks to philosophical bankruptcy and low intelligence.
>Or drinks soda/fast food, I think eating that way excessively is a red flag but not altogether.
Eating anything "excessively" is a negative. Soda and fast food are just unhealthy and a waste of resources. You recognize it is bad, but you say "It's okay in moderation" but that is just weakness. There is no benefit to eating these things, only negatives.
>Eating out more than a couple times a year, assuming you don't mean fast food there, why?
Again, it's overpriced and unhealthy food. I also wonder why she eats out so often, and I can only think of negative reasons.
>Or modest use of makeup, alcohol and other drugs etc. These things usually only signify a deeper problem again when they're used in excess.
No, they are indicative of a deeper problem being used at all, and they have surface issues such as skin damage and compromised health(including reproductive health).
>The average female height in the US is 5'4
The US has a lot of brown people in it. With respect, I have no interest in them.
>Also uni
Women LARPing as men is the biggest red flag there is. Add that to purposeful waste of fertility years and you have two giant red flags.
It isn't difficult to meet the standards I have listed in the OP. Normalcattle are just so base and unworthy that they think bare minimum standards of not being a degenerate is unattainable.
Move along, nothing to see here. OP is a faggot who posts this every day.
>Waiting for an imaginary person
Admiring an fictional character that is virtuous is better than sacrificing virtue for an unworthy 3D woman.
>>not a virgin(unless she is a widow)
please explain why it's okay to date a widow
The exception to a virgin is a non-virgin. If she is a non-virgin but has never married, she is a whore. If she is a non-virgin but lost her virginity to her husband, and he died for some tragic reason, then she is a victim of fate and her virtue remains intact and she is still a good person that can love and be loved.
In my opinion.
Imagine never being able to hold the person you love
Imagine deluding yourself into "love" with a morally bankrupt individual.
Uh yeah... there's no such thing as an ideal person, and if there were, you or I certainly wouldn't be a good match
>there's no such thing as an ideal person
I never claimed there was. The standards I outline in the OP are the MINIMUM requirements.
or at least close to the minimum, as some of the redflags can be ignored in certain circumstances, such as her not displaying any of the others.
If my wife had sex with only me but we had sex before marriage is she a whore? Serious question
a widow(er) should mourn their spouse for the rest of their lives and never be with another
Some people might say so, but I don't think so. You don't even really need the "marriage", I'd recognize an equally committed relationship without the ritual of marriage. Marriage itself is just a good tool for expressing your intent to society around you, so that you might be held to your word.
If she chooses to do so, I can respect that, especially if she is older. But if I died and left a young widow, I would want her to find love again and live the happiest life she could.