>stared at a girl I was obsessed with continuously
>She's shy and pretty so this mystery surrounding her made this staring more intense
>She turned around and made eye contact with me
>Act like I wasn't looking at her
>Instead of looking disgusted she smiled back
>Made a weak smile back
>This manifested into a love story within my imagination
>Images of me and her together in love
>Decide to look her way again
>Some dude who's more muscular, hairier, slightly taller and more confident says hey to her
>Her eyes widen and I can visibly see she's in love with him
>And in that moment an invisible round went through my heart
And that my dear friends was when I fucking gave up on women honestly why did I even try it was like a huge smack in the face that told me I was always a loser and forever will be.
Post stories like this so I don't feel alone plz.
Stared at a girl I was obsessed with continuously
>some socialism and capitalism shit gets a load of replies but you get nothing
It seems life don't love me no more fuck this place and I all hope you get bum cancer
IM GONNA FUCKING BUMP THIS SHIT IM TIRED OF THIS
So anyway does anyone relate to this shit? I feel alone and it's the first time I've managed to attract a gal to that extent
Well I guess it's just me in this shitty thread ey anyway how do I get more wimeen to look at me that feeling before the invisible round was glorious
>i can see shes in love with him
you are delusional. your on r9k you dont know fucking anything about love accept your greedy fucked with version of it that most people on this board feel
she threw on her "i have to pretend like im happy and respond face"
you have it, i have it, she has it
>one Stacy roast is already taken
>therefore my life is over
Learn to approach people, start jogging, get Jow Forums, keep your grades up, eat healthy, don't stay up late shitposting, make yourself an ubermensch. Obsessing over Stacies is not only behaving like roasts who obsess over the top 5% of Chads and then complain about foreveralone, you'd probably hate her anyway because Stacies are painful to date for anyone who isn't a Chad themselves.
I've observed her for more than a year, the only time she ever had an expression similar to that was when what I assume was her friend on the bus with her got her a necklace with something personal. This time her eyes widened further and she was much more attentive to what the dude was saying, I wouldn't call it love but she was attracted to a extent it was displayed right across her face and it wasn't a pretend face either she keeps her eyes at a normal level and sets a strained smile. Love? I'll admit I haven't really fallen in love because I never got the chance but I can tell when someone is if I've been looking at them for hundreds of fucking days. This wasn't the first time she spoke with him was something I could see pretty easily but the worst but was the guy wasn't showing any attraction towards her he was asking her about the stops. I know what I say and I know what I see don't question me so harshly faggot.
She wasn't a Stacey, she was a rather reserved quiet person which is what started my infatuation in the first place. I need to gain weight so jogging is a bad idea and I rarely post or stay up late. The only reason I posted was because it genuinely pained to know I was never really liked by anyone, a sort of reminder I always sucked no matter what I did.
>put in 100x the effort to get results 10% as good as Chad's
Fuck that
virgin go to the gym if you are complaining about muscular people stealing your wannabe thots
>mind so weak that one random thot is all it took for you to give up
you don't get to be happy then
>It took one Thot to give up
Jesus Christ I already stated it was something that took me down because it reminded me I was always a sucker you mong's, I don't hear down over on bitch. Except my mother.
imagine, all you had to do was go up to her and ask her if she wanted to hang out, and you could've beat Chad to the punch
instead you're whining on the internet. godspeed.
nah, you claim you are a loser forever in the OP so I have no reason to treat you better than that, you got fuck up cause one pussy wanted a dick not attracted to you and you rolled in here pretending this place isn't normie central
>I need to gain weight so jogging is a bad idea
Are you skelly? You have to understand that just because girls don't like skeletons, doesn't mean that being a fatass makes you more attractive. Better to be skinny with low fat than to have the same muscle mass but with more fat.
Jogging is also going to increase your physical stamina, build self esteem and make you a more positive person to be around. Even just making connections and talking, people feel far safer talking to a guy with a tracksuit who stops jogging to chat than with a skinny nerd in a sweatshirt and jeans shuffling along the pavement. It paints you as a more successful, driven, and healthy person which is one of those subconscious social cues, just like shaving the neckbeard (I'm very guilty of not shaving as much as I should) or wearing clean clothes.
Doesn't matter, if OP was first she would have blown him off for Chad.
>She wasn't a Stacey
then weight won't matter either way. Girls that want just your meat are Stacey's and you'll need the sculpted geek body.
The others by majority just want a productive problem solver that is easy on the eyes. I've seen fatties and skellys land 7/10s or higher but they had a much more committed and determined personality than your average bot/incel
>being this insecure
she didn't want you my dude
you're right, OPs whining in here has really hammered home the point that he's a weak willed drama queen who will die alone
Just like your sticking around to bully him has really hammered in the point that you're a person lacking in empathy and compassion.
>Post stories like this
>nobody does, including me
Nice. Have a bump, OP
If you believe that you need someone else to love you to not be a loser, then you will ALWAYS be a loser by your own standards. Very rarely does one find unconditional lifelong love in someone else, and more often than not it is in the form of a sibling or some other non romantic relationship. The only way to overcome the ridiculous standard you set for your own happiness is to love yourself, because only then are you guaranteed a lifelong companion who will never leave you. Start by removing negativity from your speaking, but do not replace it with ego boosting delusional statements. For example, do not think of yourself as a loser for trying and failing, it was a learning experience. While what you learned is not positive, it opened the path up to a more positive future, one where you aren't dependent on what someone else thinks of you. You are only as alone as you want to be, and loneliness is only as bad as you let it be. Take back the control over yourself that you have given to others, and it will make a big difference.
>You are only as alone as you want to be
People have their means of keeping you away.
I suggest looking for friends but not here, many people here prey on the lonely. Find a community to take part in, I met one of my closest friends on /d/, for example, so any community could work out. One can often find a friend here if they look. It will take some time though and you will meet a lot of people who ghost after a week, do not let it discourage you, keep searching. I have seen many like you pass through, and I know many more will come. I know that it sounds far fetched, but another user in another thread is just now realizing that it really is a numbers game.
>nah, you claim you are a loser forever in the OP so I have no reason to treat you better than that, you got fuck up cause one pussy wanted a dick not attracted to you and you rolled in here pretending this place isn't normie central
I didn't get fucked up because of pussy you fucking tard I got fucked up because I thought I may have been able to make an emotional connection with someone I was obsessing over and I rarely post here so I haven't got use to the fact it's normalfag hub so get off my case. And yes I'm a loser but not a forever alone sort of one I just haven't managed to make an emotional connection yet.
you're gonna be alone for the rest of your days
>I met one of my closest friends on /d/
I have to put text here so it looks like an original post, but there's no text that could really express my reaction here lad
That was known which is why I felt like I just got shot down. I realized.
Thank you user
I have a BMI of 15.6 and I stick to pull-ups, push-ups and squats while eating a load of food so jogging is off the table at the moment since I will only lose weight. I haven't got into lifting yet. All I gotta do is start talking to people and dressing better. Thanks for the push user.
We'll wait and see motherfucker, we'll wait and see if I get anyone to like me as a person until now suck dick.
While I wouldn't give up *because* I assumed she fell in love with someone more confident than myself, this would inspire me to keep up my curtailing of my sexual interest, as well as my desire for human interaction.
Your options are
>status quo
>become attractive
>become a person who doesn't desire sex
I'm going for the last one
Doesn't really inspire me I guess it's more like a signal I'm still a sucker. I never really desired sex unless I hadn't jacked off for weeks after a long jacking session and I guess I can make myself more attractive. I just sorta want someone to hug, hold hands with and say "I love you" to and get the same reply back. Sucks ass man.
I find it funny that you think you love her because she's special but she only loves the other man because his qualities are more attractive than yours.
I don't think she's special at all, it stemmed from boredom and staring at her head on bus journeys until I emotionally got attached to her. I really do wish her the best and I have no gripe with the guy but it kind of hurt because she smiled at me I wouldn't have made a post about it if she didn't. False hope sucks ass plus I couldn't help but notice the dude was just better than me which probably meant he was more confident and nicer. Just insecurities and dead dreams user it really does hurt though.
Reminder the "shy and mysterious" girl you're lusting over is ALWAYS chads whore, same with the "nice christian church girl" retards masturbate over, they all turn into fucking waterfalls the moment Chad walks past.
>I thought I may have been able to make an emotional connection with someone I was obsessing over
So you see the flaw in your brain yes? You don't obsess over people you don't really know
Another bro died in the game of seduction
So you give up after failing a shot you never took?? Most girl lighten up over anyone.
Yeah i have that exact thing right now with 2 people I work with. We're all good friends and I catch her looking at the other mans so amorously and it breaks my fucking heart because for some reason beyond my control I've fallen so damn hard for this girl. He's more her type anf has the bad boyesque feel to him which makes it even harder. He's said multiple times he's not interested but he very clearly is which just makes it so much morr difficult
he's definitely going to fuck her on a day he feels less choosy, and then he's going to never talk to her again
You should have made the first move, I don't think anyone who's shy would make the first move themselves.