Feels

I can relate. All you can do is wait for her reaction. Try to act different than the person she fell for.

I'm still unemployed which kinda sucks but I'm hoping that a mate's connections comes through. On the plus side I'm making good gains and sleeping a lot.

Also I watched Alita recently and I guess I have a new girl to waifufag over

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>be 26 y/o
>was skinny fat throughout college
>only fucked 4-6/10 as a result
>get Jow Forums after college
>meet most attractive girl I've ever fucked
>german girl with a cute ass and big firm DD round ones
>don't sag or droop when she takes her bra off
>we hit it off immediately
>sex is great
>she's a freak who likes to be choked
>purposefully leaves her panties/lingerie at my place
>very into it
>first girl I've ever been fucking that I legitimately want to date
>continue to see each other for about two months
>one day after we're done fucking I tell her that I want us to be in a real relationship together
>she doesn't say much
>leaves apartment
>"user, I don't think we should see each other anymore"

This was about a year ago

She looks creepy sempai desu.

Had a girl that was interested in me a few years back but I was too pussy to make a move. I moved away and and she moved on and for a while I was depressed and became overweight. Started hitting the gym recently and dropped 15 pounds.(I’m about 30 pounds overweight.) There’s still an anger in me that I’ll never get to be with her but I guess that’s what fuels me. I used to be somewhat alpha back then and then just let myself go. I’m slowly getting back there. At least now I know what it feels to hit rock bottom.

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I had a day off monday and ended up joining my gf for brunch with her friends. They couldnt gauge i lift and brought the topic up quite a lot. They invited us to meet at one of their gyms later in the day and we did.

Theyre all cardio bunnies with corporate office jobs meanwhile my gf is unemployed art major. My gf doesnt work out with me, and when we do go together i do stuff that includes her.

I went on a mogging spree at this commercial gym and everyone was stunned at my performance. I mean how offen do you see a 180kg cnj none the less but a skinnyfat manlet. The friends were impressed, i was excited cause i was a guy with a entourage of girls, and my gf was just kind of quiet.

The next day my gf told me how impressed her friends were and she never had a win like this, she never felt like shes the winner and so proud. I told her thats too bad cause being with her makes me feel this way every day and she started to cry. I haven’t talked to her since and today she asked to just break up cause she will never be better than me.

I dont know, girls are weird and you shouldn’t take them too seriously.

I want to go back

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I matched with some thot on tinder and she sent nudes. We agreed to fug but she no showed. I had already told everyone I fugged even though I'm still khv. I'm not sure what's worse, the fact that I drove 100 miles each way for nothing, that I now have to keep this lie up to my friends, or the shame I would have felt for sticking my clock in a random whore.

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does stress really kill gains?

>I told her thats too bad cause being with her makes me feel this way every day and she started to cry.
Thats that good smooth shit bro, that was the chokeslam to finish her off.

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why don't you look for a proper gf instead of trying to fuck thots?

>Had depression and anxiety
>propably autistic
>almost kill myself
>start improving myself
>Lift, reconnect with friends, get job i like, save money
>Dad just called my a failure due to my social anxiety
Why did I even try if 3 years of progress isn't even enough to have my family notice a difference?

"lifting: and "reconnecting" with "friends" is not enoug

Good thing that's not the only things I listed then. And nice autistic use of quotes there.

Sounds like you're making positive changes in your life! I'm sorry about your asshole dad, but you should be doing this for yourself anyway. You're gonna make it!

Your brain can't create faces. This means you've seen her before. Where user where...

i don't recognise her face so i have no idea where i have seen her from. she is a mystery to me

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WHY THE FUCK CANT I FORGET AND LET GO OF ALL THIS FUCKING MEMMORIES?!?!?!?!

My father killed himself when I was 7.

I just wish I could’ve got to know him as a man.

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I fucked up. I caught feelings for one of my best friend's gf. I hung out with them a few times and she was being very receptive to me, asking me about myself, laughing at my jokes, eyeing me, slight touching, all that jazz. I know I might be deluded and all this was only in my mind, but this has caused me to think about her all the time. The guy is a great guy and a great friend so I will never do or say anything to harm our friendship, but I have been avoiding hanging out with them for 3 weeks now because I want to get my crush on her to erode.
What should I do? Should I just keep avoiding him until it fades away?
I feel like a piece of shit but I think that the positive feedback, attention and genuine interest she's given me made me crush on her hard and now I'm feeling like shit.

Women ruin everything lol

feels bro feels.. mine died when i was 13, but parents were divorced so never really knew him that well. i don't know if some of my mental issues are related from having no father figure

Subtlely start joking about 3 ways. Occasionally tell a story about a 3 way you had before. Ask his opinion on all the cuckoldry the internet tells me we should allow. Eventually, outright tell him its beneficial for his relationship to introduce a friend. Boom, now youre in. Eventually during sex, dominate her. Let him have no part of her body. Boom. Mission accomplished. Respect earned

Maybe, can’t tell you how many of my long term problems all trace back to that day :(

Kinda felt "ok" to lift today after 4-5 days of the flu. Got the compound/cardio stuff done but just seemed too exhausted to do any isolation exercises so I went home feeling somewhat guilty.

Also, more or less over my breakup with an ex but goddamn some random memories sneaks up on me and fucking kicks me right in the dick.

Now I'm just sitting in front of my computer sick depressed and doing work.

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Feel ya, let the same happen. It is now 4 years ago, still thinking about it from time to time. But on the other hand, these event initiated an avalanche of events, which made me who I am now.

stay strong brother

damn, that's a heavy feel...
also chick is smoking

You give her a bomb ass. Complimentary and she dumps you... fuck her friends desu

You too :^)

damn you wre skinnyfat and still fucked tons of average looking girls? wow life must have been so hard for you to make it through that

I cant stop beating myself up over how inconsistent I am with my decisions in life.
I took a 8 month break from lifting, and all I can think about is crushing those motherfucking weights. Tips for returning lifters? I was getting pretty buff until I got sick because of anti-depressant induced urticaria outbreak.
Also, I am having the feeling I make my gf unhappy because of my sexual impotence.
hold me bros..

Quit your fantasizing and get that shit done. If you want the results so bad then you'll do the work

>girl in work
>sometimes flirt quite a bit
>then don’t see her for a few days
>remembered my bday n all

Think i’m falling for her but i work with her for the next 6 months so that can’t happen :( also working too much so my lifts are stalling

>27 year old friendless kissless virgin
>too insecure over being a kissless virgin and having a shit life to even bother with girls or making friends
>just stay shut in to avoid people and hide my pathetic life
>when i do talk to people, like at work, just end up being weird and aloof and while i guess im funny i drive them away
>miserable every waking moment because im alone but then intentionally avoid people and see relationships/friendships as not worth it

anyone know this feel

hey thanks, i needed that. Imma get right back to it after I quit my job, which should happen in the following weeks.
cheers

>turned 29
>relise I've never gone after girls I actually wanted
>always just settled for what I could get
>start trying
>realise I'm getting girls now that I though I'd never be able to
>mfw
I'm going on a milk truck spree this year. Fuck it. I've always wanted to fuck lithe chicks with huge tits but never had the confidence. Still don't, but I'm going crazy thinking I'll be 30 next year and having to consider really settling down. Fuck that. Cow tiddies this year boys, I'm getting my fucking dairy farm harem one way or the other.
>also I never noticed how many Indian girls are stacked, what the fuck is up with that?

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I am almost 23 now.

back when I was 19, I dated this girl in my college's cosplay club. for quite a while now, I've forgotten about her. she became a yellowed photo, collecting dust in the back of my head. We used to visit the cafe in picrelated alot.

>few months back I was going through my old folders on my laptop.
>opened my music folder
>heh I used to love these songs
>stumble across a folder entitled "important"
>open it
>there's one audio file
>double click on it
>a japanese song plays
>that old part olf my memories revs its engines and crackles back to life

she sang that song for me back then.
what a strange feeling. sometimes I look at the photos of her I still have. She was my first and probably last girlfriend.

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The older you sre the better user. That is if you gone life,money,&gym gains. Cmon what girl will a chose 20 year old beta simp with nothing to offer over you.

Thanks for your kind words freind :)

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>past a certain amount of gains a man that still visits Jow Forums can be a bad thing.

Any of you also feel like you're still holding onto this place? I'm almost 25, and never thought I'd still be here. This place has helped me get through many lonely nights to say the least.

Is it a bad thing to stay here deeper into adulthood? I don't know if I'm ready/want to let go. I didn't even have these thoughts when I was 20, and here every night.

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Milk. Lots of cows and lots of milk

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Back in school at the age of 30. Kinda still lost in life. I just hope I can pass my classes and connect with people better. I wasted 11 years of my life just working shit jobs, getting drunk/high and jerking off. I want to be able to move out, get a nice job, and get a gf before the age of 35. I've never really had a real gf before. I had a online gf, but we were only together for like 6 months. I never even met her. I feel like because I've never had a gf or sex, the only women I can get are single moms and retired stacys. I guess beggars can't be choosers, right?

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that's a good high test feel

yes

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I've got scoliosis and was advised by my doctor to never deadlift or squat.
I got tennis elbow last april and still feel it's effects.
I had made my 1/2 and was getting close to my 3/4, and now I can't, unless I go against my doctor's advice.
It hurts to sit or stand or walk too long, or use my left arm. I feel so fragile, compared to how I was. Wearing clothes like jeans or suits hurts me after walking around for a short period of time.

This sucks. I wanted to see how strong I could get.

I have been so disinterested in sex and girls in general after I found out my ex gf has a boyfriend now. It really got to me because she was my first everything and I just cant or dont want to face the fact that she was being pounded on valentines day 3 daysw ago when I was drunk and alone. I thought if I was gay for a couple of days but I dont like guys.
Like my dick stopped working and I dont want to jerk off anymore bros what the fuck is wrong with me ?

nigga, fuck what your doctor says. Scoliosis isnt even that bad, my doc told me the same and that I should never lift. But guess what, strength training actually cured my back pain
just make sure you lift with proper form.

>30 years old
>meet pic related in 2012 (I was 24)
>my first girlfriend
>crazy as fuck
>big time drama queen
>alcoholic
>never happy
>starts fights with everyone to make herself the victim
>hoards garbage
>doesn't keep herself clean
>actually sucker punched her 5 year old niece and cried when she got in trouble for it
>can't stand her or her angry white trash family
>break up in early 2013
>*she* dumped *me*
>she has had many other relationships
>she's engaged and has kids
>I still haven't found anyone else
>the worst person I ever met in my life is apparently more likable than I am

I don't know how this is supposed to make me feel if not like a total loser.

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Fuck her friends to mog her even harder.

user you missread the directions, you slam the disgusting slampigs, you don't date them.

That thing was unfuckable anyway. She might look acceptable in that picture, but without her clothing on she looks exactly like a hairless fat guy. She was so ugly and unappealing that after 6 months of putting up with her craziness and her trying to fuck me in the literal garbage heap that was her bedroom I'm still a virgin.

man you are still youbng and have 10 more years of slaying ahead of you just get jacked and fuck some girls then ettle down with a 27-28 year old when you are 40 chill out

fuck all her friend my mans

I don't understand? You know she's trash, you have multiple, irreconcilable instances of absolute trash behavior. Why do you care that she found a garbage can willing to hold her? You'd do well to come to terms with why the fuck YOU didn't drop her at the first sign of trouble, and move on my man

I just don't understand how she can go through so many men while having no redeeming qualities but I can't find anyone else. Are men just that much more desperate for the opposite sex's attention?

reposting because i'm on the verge of the last thing

reposting because i need some fitizens opinion on the last

background:
>dated ex-gf for 2 months again (not a couple, seeing each other)
>she's been acting all weird last week
>last saturday
>at her place
>she's not cuddling, no kisses nothing
>i check her phone
>she's semi flirting with one of her guy friends i know
>ask her why shes acting all weird
>ask her if she's sleeping with other guys
>well i stated that at the beginning user
>there are feelings towards you yes
>it just happened
>you were constricting me asking if i was meeting with said guydude
>b-but user somehow i can't be in a relationship with you but also don't want to imagine a life without you

packed my stuff and just went
deleted everything of her

it's been 2 days without any form of contact

this was saturday

she sent me a long text on tuesday
that we she stay in contact but stop the "liaisonish, physical relationship"
because it's not good for me
because she can't handle the guilt (fucking someone else ofc)
and has the audacity to ask if i'm okay with this

question:
should i tell her "i told you i do not want to continue this like it is now"
why? because her text reads as if she was the one ending it, which is not the truth

talked with a good female friend of mine about her
she described my ex-gf as toxic, just might be the truth

you might not like the answer, but it only fades with time, and is accelerated by meeting other women. so, just get out there champ, but go without expectation. zero expectations, zero pressure, put yourself in social situations and just be

Tell her that you don't maintain contact with traitors.

Classes were canceled for snow, I spent the whole day with my bro, then went on a double date with him and our ladies and ended up making out with my girl in my bed. No sorrows here desu, today was fucking perfect

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Would you rather date some easy to get, low quality girls who's got no direction in life, doesn't take care of herself and you, or do you wanna be single for a bit and take your time to polish yourself and someday stumble on a quality girl that will love you and take care of you? Your choice.

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lmfao epic fail, nah younger me feels this though on a less grand scale

Be honest, isn't that what you're doing right now? Isn't that what kept you with her through her tantrums? Yes. You just need to come to terms that, while we all want that attention, you happen to be able to objectively know that hers is not worth pursuing. To be honest that's rare, you should feel like you dodged a bullet before you knocked her up or married her

Mine didnt die he just didnt care enough to put himself together enough to try. I wish he did die so l could build him up in my head

i'd be fine with telling her that what she texted me makes it seem like she ended things, which isn't the truth

Been diagnosed with glandular fever and told to avoid lifting for a while. Just when my gains were starting to get together.

Struck out with a girl lads but feel happy that i put myself out there

Forget about her dude. She needs to learn that playing mind games on you has its consequences. Another girl will come along

so i should ghost her on her long ass text then

I wish mine did.

>>the worst person I ever met in my life is apparently more likable than I am
Not true, women just have more value on the mating market in our speicies. There's a reason why 66% of our ancestors are female and only 33% are male.
Just look for ways to better yourself and keep trying, maybe learn to be a bit more manipulative. Stupid women are really easy to manipulate into not acting like cunts if you know what you're doing.

has anyone ever had a vegetarian gf
is it worth it, im seeing someone else right now might actually be promising but i can't give up chicken breast and burgers after gym

bro the question is how much of a men are you. are you gonna stay with her and just live with the fact that she gives ass to some other guy but still needs you emotional support from you. you know she does that because she probably sees you as some cuck that will love her unconditionally. stop being a bitch and dont even talk to her fuck that shit you shouldnt even consider what to do next.
the fucking nerves girls got god damn

>stay with her
well i ended that "arrangement" she thought we had on saturday so that's out of the windows
>the fucking nerves girls got god damn
yeah
talked about it with some female friends of mine
boy were they pissed
and quite frankly i was and am pissed at myself for letting her allow to trample on me

she can rot on my contact list for all i care
god damn

my ex gf was pescaterian and she as an annoying feminist and loved talking about this one black woman that ran away from the Rwandan genocide and started living london as a refuge with 2 kids bla bla
other than that every vegetarian,vegan or whatever the fuck i have met in my life were insincere and fucking fake people. annoying self centrist fucks.
so no not worth it probaly

>I wish he did die so l could build him up in my head
This resonates with me

also had an ex who lifted and went from eating meat to vegetarian to vegan, she also went feminist

Just got out of the army and l am fucking aimless. Working shit security job. Shit hours with shit pay. Its hard to get into the gym like this. Im sad and miserable and not even sure why.

I haven't but as long as she doesn't push that stupid shit on you, and once you get to the point of having such conversations, your children, I see no problems. Those people do seem to often be advocates though, so definitely beware and make it known that shit will not be pushed upon your children

meant

I'm 100% sure an attractive girl is interested in me. And I think she knows about my autistic hobbies too.

I need to approach this without miserably screwing up like last time.

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guys?

>needs to learn that playing mind games on you has its consequences.
How do you do that as t. guy who clings on to Hope and has a bad habit of not letting go? How do you tell a girl, who fucked with your feelings way too much, that that is not ok and shit has consuequences

that is actually fucking disgusting.. what do you look like??

What happened to that chick? Don't let us hang like that user...

that feel when i literally met up with a chick because of Jow Forums

sometimes i wonder if she's doing okay in life

>ended up making out with my girl in my bed
are we meant to be impressed? laffin'

Not me but I see this guy at my gym a lot, and between sets he's always got his phone out swiping through photos of the same girl. I just hope he makes it.

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What a weirdly abstract feel

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20yo KHV, no friends, no meaningful hobbies, no social skills or achievements.
Lately I've been impoving my diet and starting an exercise routine, so I've been feeling marginally better. The feeling of hopelessness is still there though. People younger than me are dating and having sex like it's nothing and I'm so far behind that glances on public transport are incredibly meaningful to me.
Sorry for the Jow Forums tier rant but it's really frustrating.

Yesterday alone I caught no fewer than four girls miring me but since I'm a sperg I acted like I didn't care.

I just want a nice girl to talk to at the end of the day :(