To those with a girlfriend how do you deal with the fact she is not a virgin?

To those with a girlfriend how do you deal with the fact she is not a virgin?

You know...
>she will never EVER forget about the MAN who took her virginity

Just imagine the level of intimacy they had on her first time, she was all nervous, pure, innocent, never ever penetrated... he just put the tip of his dick into her for the very first time, she proably said "please slow", that little drop of blood, that very first thrust, that tear on her face, those innocent eyes staring at him, the first time she moans with a man, all those feeling, all that purity, is long lost.
And you call her "girlfriend" are you planning to marry her!? A fucking cuck that is what you are! If you have any self respect drop your not virginal gf right now!!

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I just try not to think about it.
I don't really enjoy intimacy with her.
It's something I have to accept if I want to have children one day.
I think she'll be a good mother, but we'll never have that connection with each other.
It's just not something this generation gets to have, hopefully it'll be different for the next.

Do you ever remember the first monster you kill in an RPG? Some random Lv1 rat or slime? Maybe. Doesn't mean it's a big deal.

Bruh you sound like a mega virgin.

bugman faggot

Virgins like you always have the weirdest cuck fantasies.

Are you stupid kiddo?
Do you know the level of intimacy a virgin girl has with her very first man?
Is something it would never ever happen again, she will remember it forever to the time of her death.
I can understand those cuck normies who get in relationships with roasties, and worst yet those who marry the roastie!!?
I mean WTF, all that innocence, all that purity, is forever lost... back in time she was an used good and will die alone, nowadays cuck normies worship women liberation and are happily willing to take a girl who gave out all her value

>all those feeling, all that purity, is long lost
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THIS IS NOT FUCKING FAIR, THINGS WERE NOT SUPPOSED TO END LIKE THIS

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are you actually retarded or just pretending

anyways youre retarded

It sadly does

Imagin her getting naked in front of a man for the very first time
Getting all blushed, giggling nervously, the guy telling her how to put her legs... that shaking on her whole body when the guy is inserting slowly his penis, that eye to eye contact... that scream of pain mixed with pleasure and confusion, all that purity after that is OVER... all her value is lost... after that she is only useful to pump and dump... however beta cucks still call them "girlfriends" or even worse "WIFE" hahaahahah

tfw gf was raped as a kid
even if she wanted she can't take it back

"Yo freak, you stole my girl's virginity when she was a kid" *blam*

Jokes on you I took her virginity

Lol broken goods whore.

She will remember because it's the franchise mascot

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One of the worst fucking comparisons you could ever make.

same. I honestly tear up everytime i think about it. She is so precious...how could anyone?

>tfw took my gf's virginity and we're still together after 5 years

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you sound like one of those pathetic arab or indian guys who buy sex with a virgin for 50 000$ on the internet

damn is your life sad and pathetic

good on you


now GTFO my incel-only board

I have taken 4 virginities lmao

she a virgin tho

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Me and my wife were each other's first.

You probably still remember the first girl you liked and things like that, but it's not like you're always thinking about her
Just don't date girls that can't leave the past away and don't think about useless shit like that

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The same way she deals with the fact that i'm not a virgin, i guess.

The more sex you have, the more you realise it means fucking nothing. It's not just liberal propaganda. Sex is incredibly overrated, literally just scratching an itch.

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By remembering i'm in exactly the same boat... I've slept with quite a few girls

I've never forgotten my first either, it's a shared pain and I honestly think that's where 'second' love comes from... learning to accept someone you like until the point that love sparks.

You sound like a very degenerate person.

Sluts also think sex means nothing, that's why they have it so fucking often.

Off topic, do you and your gf share that outlook?

and are you a monogamous relationship?

I just want to have children , fuck romanticizing virginity. We don't live in a time where it is sacred.

It's just sad to imagine the very moment when he slowly pulled her panties down.
That's the moment when she realised that there was no coming back.

It's not fair bro, especially because we will never experience something like this.
Probably the worst part of this story is that she doesn't even exist, to begin with.

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I will take all four of your daughters

You are brainwashed by jew propaganda
A man can have sex with all the partners he wants it doesn't matter.
But a woman value is in her virginity, after she lost it she either gets marry or becomes a worthless roastie only good for pump and dump.

Yeah, its hard to forget your first - innocence lost and all that, and some partners leave a bigger mark than others. Had to ditch my last ex because I was 100% confident she'd fuck her ex if he ever came around.

Oooh, how wholesome.

Girls usually never love a man as much as the only who they lose their virginity to

Where tf does one get a virgin wife? I'm willing to save myself desu if she's guaranteed a virgin

I lost my virginity as a teen at a party after taking a Valium and drinking some beer. I know the guys first name, it stung a little and we were in a walk in closet but I don't really remember him much. The guy I will never forget was my first bf and how horrible he was to me when he found out I wasn't a virgin after we were together 6 months. He insisted I tell him everything about the guy and I really couldn't remember but he kept on and on and on and I didn't want to think about it so I made stuff up and that only made it worse. It was horrible and told everybody I was a slut.

I thought people like you were just a meme lmao

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I suppose i am degenerate by your standards. I just don't see the difference between, say, eating and drinking, and having sex. Not in any fundamental sense, any way. It's a basic human need, and its existence as something inextricably linked to love is a human construct.

I'm not in a relationship, nor am i somebody who has slept with an insane amount of women, but my last girlfriend (we broke up because of moving apart for work) shared this opinion.

I don't believe that you believe that.

In heaven you get dozens of them if you are a good boy

This is what I do know about men, virgin and non virgin men. Nearly all of them are sexually insecure. Its baffling because some seem very confident, so confident they intimidate me a little, but when it comes to bedroom stuff the confidence evaporates.

Thats the reason I believe males historically insist on a sexually naive girl. She doesn't know any better and thinks the guys performance normal and when he asks if I had an orgasm and I say I don't know, I believe its my fault because he said so.

Chief you lost your virginity to someone as well and now that's long gone too. Nothing you can do

Lol jokes on you fag, my gf is a virgin. She's staying that way until I marry her.
Doesn't mean I don't tease her though. Her reactions are cute. She's a loud one

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You would probably remember the guy if you weren't drunk and high lol

Did the first guy go raw?

You think it's overrated because you have have sex with random roasties and not with the girl you love

I'm guessing that was it? Or did you stick round?

Potentially, but if i'm yet to meet a girl i love, then how can i know i ever will?

I'd hate to miss out on sex in the prime of my life because i'm waiting, not to mention have to put up with the frustration of a sexless life.

>Potentially, but if i'm yet to meet a girl i love, then how can i know i ever will?
>I'd hate to miss out on sex in the prime of my life because i'm waiting, not to mention have to put up with the frustration of a sexless life.
Sex is pretty useless if you have it with a person you don't care about, that's why you think it's overrated

>She's a loud one
cringe a blue-pilled
>not getting a girl with a quiet/soft voice
nothing worse than a loud woman desu

Fair enough, i don't deny it would be at least a little better if i did it with somebody i love.

>thinks the name robot9000 has anything to do with incels

We as men are consistently exposed to the notion that we're the only person responsible and to be held accountable for anything that could go bad during sex.
We need to be dominant, but not too dominant. We need to be tender/caring, but not too much. We need to last long enough but not too long. But most of all, we need to get the woman to orgasm without her actually doing anything but laying there like some dead fish; if we fail this, we're not manly, we're not alpha, and we're just failures.
Of course this isn't actually true, or rather it shouldn't be in a proper sex with both people actually mature and capable enough, but it's what we're taught.
In entertainment media you rarely see men breaking up with women because SHE was bad in bed, but the other way around happens much more often. HE was bad in bed, HE was not rough enough/too rough, HE was too sappy/lacking in emotion, it's always HIS fault.

Add to this massive pressure by the fact that when in naked you feel much more vulnerable with everything out there for the world - the other person - to see. We're taught that we need a massive dick, ideally a massive flaccid one while at it. Porn claims it, comedy claims it ("I was in the pool!"), too many women on social media claim it, and among men bragging/exaggerating about dick size implies it.
This may be a bit relatable when comparing to women and breast size. Those without well above average sizes and without a lot of experience/confidence in their body will often feel a sense of insecurity/discomfort when they first undress in front of someone.

Women are the selectors, men need to compete with each other. Anything that's not perfect could theoretically have a woman decide to go for someone else. It makes sense we can be insecure over that.

I'm not that guy, but I can confirm he's right.
Sex with somebody you love is a completely different experience from fucking to fuck. It's fucking transcendental. It's impossible to describe. It's butterflies in your chest and colors running through your whole body. It's complete and total acceptance and love and embrace. Time stops. It's eternity. It's an emotional experience. You could laugh or cry and it wouldn't ruin it.
If "making love" is taking 6 tabs of acid to the face, casual sex is smoking half a dirty, dried-out cigarette from a public ashtray while dead-sober and already too smoked out to feel it.

depends on were you live. I live in central Europe and there are still cool girls, usually religious (catholic). I know a lot of young, wholesome marriages. From my experience, the trick is that they usually find a boyfriend early, but there are still some older ones.

>I know a lot of young, wholesome marriages
This is unironically what I want, I don't want to fuck around with a lot of girls I just want a qt3.14 girl that I can marry and settle with and that we'll lose our virginities to each other

>From my experience, the trick is that they usually find a boyfriend early, but there are still some older ones.
Do those girls go for guys their own age or do they date older guys too? I need to know if there's any hope

He wouldn't have been my first if I wasn't. I was with one of my popular friends and this guy was her bf's friend from another school. I kinda went along with it because she and her bf were having sex so I didn't stop the guy.

Raw? What do you mean? I was a little sore the next day and blood in my panties and had to throw them away so my mom didn't see when she did laundry.

No I tried to stay with my bf and thought I was in love but then we graduated HS and he went to a different college and a lot of guys started asking me out so I finally said yes to a few of them. Not like my bf was even texting me or anything by that point.

Did he use a condom or not?

This is why I hate every single one of you ,Women are a scourge on this planet and need to be eradicate .

Art school whore.

>t. pathetic white guy who buys a bull for $15 off craigslist to plow his wife's train tunnel

Damn, you cucks all sound alike.

You've got to be kidding me. Do you know how hard it is to let a guy see us naked? Seriously, and why in the dark is better. One boob bigger or a few pounds that went to my thighs or stretch marks from when I was a cheerleader in Jr High.

As for performance, I know I'll never have movie lovemaking but every guy I've been with only knows porn pounding for less than a minute and him huffing and puffing before porn pounding for another minute then he cums or the jackrabbit hump or the guy tries to bend me in ways that hurt and then pins me in a WWF move. Now how in the world do I sex him back when he pins or twist and flops me and cums before I can even start?

Oh, I don't think so and why I was petrified till I got my period

Wait why tf did you let a guy you just met cum inside you and not use a condom especially when he was your first? Did he know you were a virgin?

I don't understand this at all. I made a teen mistake and had sex, which by the way people have sex. Seriously, how do you think we procreate and there would only be gay porn....oh, I get it you're gay, right.

Nope, math major, I can't even draw a good stick man.

>as a teen at a party
so in 7th grade?

Nope not gay just want to see all of the disgusting being that are women dead. I hope my dream come true whem we have android capable of procreation with another human being.

Honestly, I was taking a one-in-a-million potshot hoping to trigger someone I knew.

Look, I was 15 and naive and didn't really know how all this stuff worked. He didn't know I was a virgin but I doubt he even cared. I ran off and found another friend and cried and they took me home. I saw the guy once after at a basketball game our school played his school and I confronted him about taking my virginity and he said he didn't know and kinda apologized.

no I was 15, ninth grade. I was a cheerleader and everybody went to a guys house who's parents weren't home after a game.

Then you will likely have to fight all the other men protecting me that want real females.

meh because i've taken several and have almost 30 partners now

Good so all the traitor ,cuck and White Knight will die.

my girl was raped at 8 so i have no hangups

>Look, I was 15 and naive and didn't really know how all this stuff worked.
Do girls even mentally capable to take responsibility without blaming something?
>I saw the guy once after at a basketball game our school played his school and I confronted him about taking my virginity and he said he didn't know and kinda apologized.
Wait why blame him? It's also your fault for him not using a condom and cumming inside you, also your fault that you didn't reject him

I'm not them obviously. But what is an artwhore anyway?

Woah, girls actually remember that, I dont remember the girl who took my virginity and it was 3 months ago

More like you would be beatdown soon as you left your bunker buddy

You know the type. Somebody who thinks they're all special and sensitive for being soooo artistic and quirky or whatever, but really they're just more burnt-out, useless degenerate hobags.

I swear, you sound exactly like my first bf. He was a bully and an asshole and I'm being generous.

At least I would die proudly

Because Im not a virgin either, you faggot

Based and whiskey pilled degenerative personality traits gang

>I thought I was a robot
>then i got on tinder

Sex is fun but have you tried drugs? Anyone who has done MDMA has had better experience than sex.

No I don't and huh, huh, hun, hun, huh, hhu, huh and huh? You lost me.

But let me try one for you. You know the skinny blond boys that act all bad just because they dress and act like their favorite rapper, that happens to be blaring out of their Civic. Most of them are virgins since no girl will get near them

I'm not a virgin either though, I'd feel like a hypocrite expecting my hypothetical gf to be one. plus virgin girls tend to be more shy about sex, less skilled, and being her first means you have to be really good, otherwise she might not want sex at all after the first time

And alone without ever experiencing the loving embrace of a female. Don't forget that.

>otherwise she might not want sex at all after the first time
Thats not entirely true. We'll try again but if its really bad again thats usually it.

Don't care every single one of you are whore ,I'm better of alone with my pride and honour.

desu it wasnt that important to me but my current gf was a virgin when we met and it is kind of nice im her first and only. its stupid to think like op though and will just boil away to more hate and bitterness inside until girls and people avoid you more and more

>I swear, you sound exactly like my first bf. He was a bully and an asshole and I'm being generous.
Wanting girls to take responsibility for their own actions is being a bully and a asshole now?

Ok but is there some kind of medal or badge you are trying for? There some cult or gang you run with and you greet each other by grabbing dicks and screaming death to women?

Women cannot understand the concept of self-respect more news at 11.

Loud in bed retard. She's sensitive and makes cute little squeaking noises when she's over stimulated

My girlfriends first time was when her uncle and dad raped her together sooo im not jealous of that

I know what happened was stupid and wished it never happened. I don't blame it all on the guy either but what you and my ex bf want is for me to self flagellate with whip, in public, everyday over something that I did as a 15 yo. You just won't let it go, you want your pound of flesh, you want me to crawl and pour alcohol on my wounds and beg you for forgiveness.

Does she do anal and give you bjs?

>I know what happened was stupid and wished it never happened. I don't blame it all on the guy either but what you and my ex bf want is for me to self flagellate with whip, in public, everyday over something that I did as a 15 yo. You just won't let it go, you want your pound of flesh, you want me to crawl and pour alcohol on my wounds and beg you for forgiveness.
Do you have mental issues femanon?