Do you 25+ foreveralones still dream of a late blooming romance?

This, learned Japanese and now I have enough pure romances to experience for several lifetimes. I'd rather stick to a perfect dream than accept shitty reality.

I mean, why wouldn't you, after 25 it just gets easier for men and harder for women? So, uh.. yeah.

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Only if you're a normie. Normie men make better money later in life right around when women lose their youthfulness (both looks and attitude) and start losing leverage.

Well it would of course be nice to have the ideal girlfriend, but I don't think she exists and if she did she wouldn't end up with me. And either way I know getting and maintaining relationships requires a lot of work so for there to be there is any chance I need to try hard. But I don't try at all. So I guess in that sense I don't truly dream about it, because if I did I would at least try to achieve those dreams.

I'd like to have one but I know it's completely unrealistic, largely because virgin women barely exist now. I wanted a woman who could love me and I could love back, and we could experience physical intimacy for the first time together with each other, in a loving relationship, and be committed to each other for life. But relationships and sex are treated completely frivolously now and so many women post themselves doing all kinds of disgusting things online. I have never found a modest woman who wants to wait for marriage anymore and even if I somehow could, modern marriage is Russian Roulette. I really, really despise what smartphones, social networks and the boomer generation's stupid "sexual revolution" did to people. Western society is a disgusting pus-filled rotting tumor and doesn't deserve to exist. Fortunately it won't last much longer. When it dies, I'll probably die along with it. Good riddance.

If you're a loser and fit in nowhere else, join this shit:
discord
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I got my gf at 29. There are good sides and bad sides. When you're used to living alone it's extremely annoying to have to adapt your routines to include someone else, not matter how much you like them.

nah. im going to be alone forever. romance is dead. fuck this decaying world

I have hope.
People act like women are thecworst. But I doubt it. I admit Ive never really been around many in the past 9 years. But I think you guys over exaggerate.

Never did, kept most of my romance to fantasy-land. Real people unanimously treated me like dogshit when I was a kid, so the thought of attaching to anybody sickens me. Even my own family doesn't want to do anything beyond just giving me shelter+food, they won't teach me shit that I need to know. Love couldn't be further from my mind.

Can you put into words why exactly it is so important that you and your wife have no previous sexual experience before marriage?

Different user. But for me it's:
>Virgin wanting a virgin
>Values sex as way of showing intimacy and commitment and not just for pleasure (compared to hook up culture)
>No past partners so neither of you can think "my ex was so much better at XYZ" and get jealous

No, because I'm disgusted by people getting close to me. Living alone is absolute bliss.

28 in two weeks here, still hoping that some girl (and future wife and mother of my children) will appear some day and sweep me off my feet

tho I'm a forever beta tsundere that will never ever initiate and want the girl to do so, so chances are I'll stay alone until the end

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Nope, it DOES get better for everyone, the financial part is only marginal what turning late 20s/30 does is let you have a dating pool 5x the size of when you were 19-20.

A 20yo can ONLY date, realistically, females from his age bracket.

A 22yo can date his and the one below.

A 24yo his and 2 below, and so on and so forth until you get to

>30yo who can date 18-30

But it doesn't end there, because by the time they're post 30 the roasties will even date guys slightly younger than them, as it matters very little when you're both close to 30.

But maybe in amerilardland is different given the obsession with PEDOPHILES and being CREEPY whereby if the girl is minimally younger than the man you get a lot of shit from normies
*sip*

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28 year old unironic khv wizard's apprentice here. I sometimes dream of meeting someone and making a life with her, but I know that's impossible. As much as we want to blame chad and stacey and tinder hookup bullshit for our failings ultimately the responsibility is ours. That's not to say it's out faults: I didn't chose to be ugly or autistic or mentally ill, but no self-respecting girl wants to be with a person like me. Societal neo-Darwinism has selected against my shitty genes, and even though it's not fair, reeeeing about it can't change anything. The simple fact is that I (and many others on r9k, I suspect) are so fundamentally broken on some level that we're not meant function in society.

A pre-industrial world might have had a place for us: you join a monastery or go live as a hermit in the desert. But the modern world scorns these things and so there's nowhere for the detritus of our society to be quietly hidden; instead we collect on message boards and in dead-end jobs.
>inb4 blackpill
It's the truth, weather you like it or not.

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32yo wizard here. I dream of it, but it may never happen. I can keep pretending, right?

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You can definitely still be a monk in modern society.

Yeah, with the same amount of education and nepotism and social bullshit as in all the other professions.

Not at all, in fact today we even have social security so that you can survive without doing any work or social contact at all if that's what you really want, so it has never been easier. But even aside from that you have two options: Practice as a monk even with a normal day job. Being a monk is a state of mind, and part of it is learning to accept how the world is, even may it contain nepotism and social bullshit as you call it. Secondly, you could literally move to a monastery or the wilderness and start the life you describe. There are still plenty of such places in the world.

post discord?
I'm not a fag, just lonely too.

>we even have social security so that you can survive without doing any work or social contact at all if that's what you really want
Not in 90% of the world we don't. And no, you can't just "move to a monastery" you absolute fucking moron.

>And no, you can't just "move to a monastery" you absolute fucking moron.

Why not? What is stopping you?

Where? People just don't give you money if you don't want to work, even in modern society . Granted it's easier to do so now, but not by much

You have to complete the required secondary and post-secondary education and be lucky enough to get a placement in one? What, do you think you just appear and say you'll mop the floors like in a movie?

>Not in 90% of the world we don't. And no, you can't just "move to a monastery" you absolute fucking moron.
Join a christian mission to the third world they give you housing and food and basic stuff in exchange of labour and you get to meet interesting people and have lots of free time to pray I suggest the philippines or SEA or even latin amaerica so you might end up with a qt brown wife

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Can I PLEASE have a late blooming romance if I have a vagine??
I'm really desperate

>Join a christian mission to the third world they give you housing and food and basic stuff in exchange of labour
They literally don't you imbecile.

>They literally don't you imbecile
they do you stupid neckbeard hikki fuck everything is paid by the church you're a volunteer

No. I was never cut out for this world. One day I will rectify God's mistake.

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Some people aren't meant to love or be loved. That's just the way it is.

>orwellian
the world is very obviously going in a brave new world direction and aldus huxley actually had elite friends and shit sooo

we're going to be purged by global warming though it's not a joke

Femanon here, not 25+ yet but close. Everyday im terrified of growing older. One of my deepest fears is dying without getting married or finding a partner, I don't know why.

I will always hope. I won't expect anything since it is not realistic, especially considering the incredible extent to which I am defective. But who am I to diagnose life or predict the future? So I will always hope.

>we're going to be purged by global warming
globular warming isn't even real retart
you're not a femanon and if you were you'd be too old for my liking

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Why do you think you not have a partner yet?

Basically any first world country that's not the USA

Romance?
No.

I dream of meeting a woman in a similar situation to me, and clinging to each other not out of love, romance, or any other ideal that isn't meant for people like us, but out of a desperation to just not be alone any more.

Maybe we'd never really love each other or be attracted to each other, after all, there's a reason we've been alone all this time, but we'd appreciate each other for being a source of human contact and comfort that we've needed for so long.

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Women tend to substitute the maternal instinct for dogs instead of children. It's weird to hear them speak to them in public sometimes as if they were human. "please", "thank you" It's actually kind of sick. Females panic at a certain age if they haven't fulfilled their biological role. Psychologically they become destitute and raise cats.

I'm curious but I don't look or spend too much time thinking about it

nope. I plan to spend my 30s turning into a player. Fuck marriage and children.

Travelling and business will also be what my job involves so my 30s will be my born-again life. I've got 30k in cash now, so I can do something decent

no. she'll most likely either:

>have more baggage than a 747
>been burned by a dozen chads
>be emotionally dead
>be a complete fucking schizo

because no normal woman would want to be with me, a nearly 30 year old virgin.

>brave new world direction
>whynotboth.jpg
I agree tho, the orwellian measures will be there as safety switches, just in case those pesky freedom lovers get funny ideas.

Pretty sure it's real, it just happens mans influence is minimal. Even if you magically converted every existing car into a Prius not a lot would change.

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The guys that tend to like me (whom I understood that they liked me) were so far made up of assholes. Another reason that I think caused me to become he virgin I am today is because I have a few mental illnesses that prevent me from being completely sane such as my crippling depression and fragile self esteem due to growing up with an physically/emotionally abusive parent. Those are all the reasons I know so far.

This is my deepest fear user, I don't want to look after a dog.

Absolutely this.
This is reality, a society that follows natural selection law, takes us all out of the gene pool.

That is why only stacey, chads and brainlets with good social skill are mating and leaving offspring, is just the natural ways of life.

Sadly for us that let us with a feeling of failed life meaning, and a self hate and burden that we have to deal, alone, the rest of our lives.

>37yo loser
>Met 30 yo on tinder
>Trick her into thinking I'm not a loser
>Know it's going to fall apart eventually
Oh well had sex at least

Unless you're really ugly, as a girl you have the advantage of being able to assume that every guy likes you. You don't have to wait for anyone to show interest in you. You can just show interest in the ones you like instead, and it will likely be reciprocated. Most guys are so starved of affection that if a girl is openly into them it is almost certain to spellbind them.

25+ and still a cuck fucking good job at life m8

What are you talking about, did you quote the right person?

What do you even mean by that? Is it because I'm a girl? Whats this like based on, i dont want to end up with someone starving for affection from stacy. I'm so tired I just want to get married asap inb4 roastie, I'm not even roastie

see look what you did cuck

at least it won't be hard for you to find a guy smarter than you.

Yes it is because you are a girl. Girls are the gatekeepers of romance, for 90% of people, guys are the ones that have to compete for you, not the other way around. You have all the power in finding a mate. How do you not know this?

What do you want in a marriage?

Yeah. I half want to die because I know it's not going to happen but I can't help myself

Don't skip out on a good opportunity.

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This is almost less likely.

good luck to you

I already know that I'm dumb user, that's probably why I'm also still single, I'm not smart and I can't read numbers, I'm also a huge retard when it comes to socializing because of my anxiety

I don't want to get married straight after meeting the person, I prefer to just let it happen as an end goal of the relationship and possibly have kids and whatnot. Why wouldn't I?

I don't consider myself conventionally attractive, I think im the polar opposite of a stacy.

Literally just don't be fat and that's 90% of the "conventionally attractive" nonsense. Not difficult.

Any other 21+ virgin femanons here? Has anyone noticed a small roast in their vagina? I have gotten a weird looking roast (kinda like roastie vagina, but smaller in size and length) it kinda looks like two tiny balls outside of my vagina, mind you I don't play much with my vagina so its still very small and tight. I think it looks much starnger than a normal roast since I haven't had sex for it to become a normal looking roast. Feels bad man, I kinda want to be in a relationship and have sex.

If I had well-off enough to pay for a woman's shit AND said woman was virtuous and loved me, I wouldn't mind paying for her shit to be honest.

>unironically thinking that sex somehow affects the outer part of your cooch
Ah yes the good old US educational system at work again

I know too much about what women are like and about myself to have any hopes for romance. Nowadays I'm just hoping to get enough money and vocational success to be able to buy escorts and, eventually, sex robots. It's pretty relaxing to just give up on romance. Women basically mean nothing to me now unless I want something or I'm required to interact with them, which I now realise must be how women have always felt about unattractive men. Being impervious to female manipulation has also proven pretty handy.

whore detected
Back to whatever cesspit you crawled out of slut.

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Yes, I feel like I'm not hopeless and I'm putting in some effort so I hope I will escape one day

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I'm 29 and nope, I already know it's game over, it's been game over for many many years and I have come to accept that. It still pisses me off from time to time

This precisely. Any woman who would give me the time of day would have to be either insane or broken to the point where we would only further ruin one another.

nah, at this stage I'm very well past that.

what I dream of is the sweet release of death.

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I feel like shit for not taking HRT young.

I could of been wearing pretty dresess had breasts and boyfriends, being taken out to eat for free.

Now I'm working at a shit job and going to the gym trying to loose weight and look somewhat acceptable to women, I'll maybe settle with a single mother or something.

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so are you bi or something?

Natalie Mars is 30+

There is still hope

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No.

I just feel like being a girl, I could of had and easier life. The sexuality aspect would of came afterwards.

How do I get (you)s in these type of threads?

say you're a femanon

>I could of had and easier life.
doubtful

Nope but I still want someone to cuddle, love and kiss with.

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No, not at all, I'm resigned to my fate.

2.5 years until wizardhood, then drinking and eating fast food all throughout my 30s until I die of a heart attack in my mid-40s.

Nah
I've convinced myself I'm asexual, I'm too creepy by this point to get a bf who'll entertain my interests anyway

>I've convinced myself I'm asexual, I'm too creepy by this point to get an abusive Chad bf who doesn't give a shit about me me who'll entertain my interests anyway and I'd rather kill myself than date a non-Chad who treats me like a human being

It can still happen to you. My last girlfriend was 27 and still a virgin like me (I literally broke her hymen so fuck off with your doubts).

Although I was 17 at the time, not older than 25.

Nope. And surprisingly, I don't even feel particularly bad about it. I'm far more concerned about money and having a girlfriend/wife wouldn't really help in that department, not to mention that over a decade of watching chinese cartoons has set my cuteness standards so high, I barely even perceive IRL girls as romantic interests.

>30 years old
>finally getting my life on track
>going to be buying my own vehicle this year instead of using my mothers
>female co-worker is touchy feely/doesn't avoid me completely
>claims that I smell really nice (one day she said "coffee and fresh laundry")
>another cute female co-worker has said she wants to hang out together
>just got a nice fat tax return the other day

So is this the power of being a wizard?

No, I'm emotionally stunted and cannot connect with people. I still find girls attractive but it ends there, I wouldn't want to interact in any shape or form with them. Call it delusion or coping but I don't want to have sex or a relationship with anybody.

That is your labia, dingus. Don't worry about it.

lamia?

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I hope for a painless death.

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That's frankly bullshit.

Just turned 31. I make about 10 times what the average person in my area makes and will likely make more in the future. I'm in pretty good shape. I'm tall. I'm pretty assertive (Working in the corporate world will teach you that). So, women should be falling all over me, right?

Nope, because my jaw is not square enough nor are my shoulders particularly broad which means women find me completely hideous.