Times you've been bamboozled

Story time little anons. Gather around
>be me
>be 18 yr old senior in hs
>have cute girl in class
>latina, big ass, nice tits, 9.5/10
>only girl in class cause calculus
>debate asking her to prom
>think "she'd probably reject me, probably shouldn't ask"
>everyone I know says I should
>decide fuck it I'll do it
>still know she'll say no, making my count od being rejected up to 8
>thedayarrives.jpg
>leave early, pick up flowers
>wait for 30 minutes outside class
>finally ask
>she says yes
>mfw
>but something seems off
>decide to not tell anyone yet cause suspicion
>later that day
>told close friends but thats it
>get text
>its her
>ohshit.ogg
>big long text saying she won't go with me
>sit at home and cry for 3 hours
Pic related, the text she sent

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OP here. Sorry if it looks weird, on mobile. Thanks for reading anons.

pretty mature of her honestly. better than what other girls would have done which is to be so nervous to let you down that they just ghost you the day of. at least you have some heads up

True. I'm glad she was nice and gentle about letting me down.

>He went to prom
get a load of this little normie

>on a whim tried soc ages ago
>girl in my area made a contact post and she seemed kinda chill
>message her and we ended up hitting it off
>basically talking every other day
>she makes it seem like i have a chance with her
>one time ask her out she doesn't necessarily yes or no it was just this middle of the road answer
>stops talking to me for months
>finally ask her one day after wracking my brain for all those months why she stopped talking to me and if i did something wrong
>told me no that she ended up moving away to be back with her ex
and that's the time a girl from soc bamboozled me and lead me on ended up eventually removing her from everything since it all just felt so duplicitous at least to me

I don't think she lied to you. She probably just had a change of heart. That is not to say I believe what she said about her friends, but I do believe that she initially wanted to go with you. Girls doubt themselves and their decisions a lot so don't ever be too harsh on them.

It's happened to me twice so far, once in late 2017 and once in summer 2018.

First time:
>Have huge crush on girl at college
>Start talking to her more at the beginning of new semester
>Become friends with all her friends
>She starts getting flirty with me, touching me a lot, one time tells me she'll dance with me if I go to a college dance
>I'm totally in love with her at this point
>Problem is, she's been talking with some other boy that whole time
>She and the other boy become bf and gf
>I'm heartbroken, eventually can't help but tell her I had a crush on her the whole time
>Things fall apart between us, I ultimately lose her and all the friends I made through her

Second time:
>Feeling very sad due to everything described above
>Decide to try to find a robot gf
>Get into contact with girl from r9k
>Said explicitly I was looking for gf when I first start talking to her
>Continue talking for six weeks
>Neither of us brings up being bf and gf again during that time, I have no sense of how long to wait before asking her, and was lulled into a false sense of security for having telling her I wanted a gf from the start
>Find out after the six weeks she's talking to another robot
>She wants him to be her bf
>Stop talking to her

>that second story
This is why I lightly flirt and joke about being my gf once we're talking 1 on 1 so there's no confusion

Yeah, collectively, the two experiences have taught me to be persistently up front about wanting a relationship, no matter how insecure or uncertain I might be about how it'll go over. I definitely have a better idea of how to conduct myself now.

Has she messaged you since you stopped talking to her?

No, not in seven months.

What a bitch let's beat her up

Heh heh... already taken care of...

She didn't have to put all the bullshit excuses of wanting to be with her friends, but yeah. It was pretty solid of her to be straight with you.

You realize that it notifies her of a screencap on snapchat right.

Why did you buy flowers to ask a girl to prom?

not amazingly detailed but
>freshman year
>have korean girl next to me in bio
>stares me down during the class often
>seemed kinda odd to me at first, but eventually tested the waters
>pressed my leg against hers and she didn't budge, stared me down during it
>assumed this meant she liked me
>didn't do anything cause i was all over another girl
>early softmore year
>we have none of the same classes
>see her across the halls sometimes and she stares me down still
>all of a sudden decide to pursue her
>text her since i already had number
>she meets me after school and says hi, has a huge grin on her face, in a happy way
>head over heels for her some reason
>continue to text her and she stares at me in the halls
>1 day texts fall silent
>she ignores me
>oh
>she does this the rest of the year
>even runs away from me sometimes
>junior year
>she treats me like shit
>literally finds any reason to attack me
>doesn't hurt me at all and i still like her for some reason
>senor year
>she still does this
>get other gf

other gf was much better, but the transition of her hating me felt very left field. maybe i did something, idk. she tells everyone she never liked me which ik is bs

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First story: needed to shoot your shot, you hesitated too long and then started crao because someone else decided to make their move. You decided to focus on one girl, as well, when you built trust among her friends as well. Friends are equally bangable/datable options, and you ended up blowing most of your chances with her friends because she likely told them about you freaking out on her

Second story: you tried to build a relationship on Jow Forums, honestly not sure exactly what you were expecting

You need to remain friends with a girl beyond just wanting to date and/or fuck them

>Girls doubt themselves and their decisions a lot so don't ever be too harsh on them.
u r basically telling me that girls are too incompetent to make good decisions

All of this I either already know and have since done, or is otherwise not applicable to either situation.

you got off easier than some user,

>That is not to say I believe what she said about her friends
>She didn't have to put all the bullshit excuses of wanting to be with her friends
I don't see any reason to doubt it. That's exactly why I didn't go with the girl who asked me when I was in school.

This.

At least she was nice OP. She seems like a good person.

Send this to fucking everyone with that story and ghost her ass. Jesus Christ I hate women so much

>imagine getting rejected on fucking snapchat
Lmao she never meant to go out with you she just didn't want to seem like the slut she really is and reject you in public

>trust and open up to someone
>get left behind or betrayed by someone
bamboozled again

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