>go on a date with girl from tinder on tuesday >pretty cute 7/10 >make good conversation for over 2 hours while we both drink some beers >played basketball for a bit, bar was outdoors and had a hoop for some reason - im not very good, mainly her idea >didn't expect to be here this long, explain I had to go home to do some other stuff >tell her i really enjoyed meeting her, and i had a lot of fun >"it was so nice meeting you user! we should grab another drink sometime!" >i agree, and say my goodbyes
>send message next day >"it was really nice meeting you yesterday, let me know if you'd like to get another drink or maybe dinner sometime :) "
>2 days later >no response >decide to send another message, she's pretty busy with uni and work etc >"hey! did you get my last message?"
i just dont get the point of saying we'll meet up again, then instantly ghosting
(nearly) 20 year old virgin, first date I'd ever been on, wondering whether any of it is worth it
Zachary Brooks
>(nearly) 20 year old virgin, oh no
Cooper Roberts
i came from a small town, it was nearly impossible to meet girls unless u went out clubbing every weekend. which i wasn't interested in. recently moved to a big city
Nathan Thompson
>let me know if you'd like to get another drink or maybe dinner sometime :) " What was the point of this when the two of you had already agreed you should 'grab another drink some time'? This needed to be a suggestion of a time and/or place.
Julian Green
thanks for the tip user, makes sense
Camden Mitchell
>explain i had to go home to do some other stuff.
Yeah like what? You better be fucking dying bro..and going home to treat that ruptured tumor in your anus. No offense.
I'll give you the benefit of the doubt but i bet it has to do something with you bailing on her,women see that as a hard rejection. When you meet a girl from tinder,"its on" that night. She was out to get some cock and you didn't give her any.
Courting tinder women. comn bro
Jace Smith
shopping and assignments for school, she told she was gonna leave at 7 and i left at like 6:30 lol is that really how girls see tinder though?
Blake Jenkins
How is it even possible to get someone to talk to you on tinder.
Jaxon Young
I get 1 match every week. so who knows.
Noah Edwards
if it makes you feel any better, i have around 20 matches, and only 3 have responded
Austin Watson
Very possible it was all genuine and she was going to leave at 7. However you let HER make that decision, while you try to get her to come home with you. Make a move on her. If that doesn't go down too well , then you know where you stand.
Yes that is the point of tinder.
Jace Morris
what do you mean by "make a move" ? im also probably not good looking or ""alpha"" enough to pull any of that off
Joshua Taylor
Kiss her, get physical. When you are both having a good time , you just go for it. It just one of those things you know is the right time. She will accept or politely decline.And its all good no hard feelings, you both had a good night out, write it off as that.
If it works out then great. have a good time. if not then you know where you stand and there is no mystery on if he/she is interested. Look, it could be just about anything that your shirt didn't have a extra stripe..it was just a shit test and she had nothing on that evening, fuck knows, but yeah you Dont bail on a woman, you DON'T have other plans. Your plans is getting into her pants. And thats it.
Dylan Clark
>let me know if you'd like to get another drink or maybe dinner sometime :) " Easy mistake OP. You live and learn and really Dads should teach this shit to their sons. Hell mothers often do.
Women do not want pressure on them in any way ever especially in dating. Give them an exact time and date plan and they'll get back to you. If you with the submissive hehe you can get back to me if you like you'll lose them forever.
Yesterday was great. You free again saturday?
Try that next time.
Carter Phillips
>2 days later >no response
Are you fucking stupid!? You didn't learned anything all that time lurking here
Just text her the two magical words, every neet and/or robot knows >please respond
Now fuck her and thank me later kid
Blake Powell
she wanted to play basketball as an excuse to bump her body into you all you had to do was literally hold the ball high and let her do all the work while she'd touch you as an excuse to grab the balls at which point you should be horny already with a sweaty bitch real close and let your bulge do the talking made her waste her time. you don't load a porn movie when you don't want to masturbate. same with tinder I'm chad
Charles Martin
>Tinder slut >Didn't fuck or even kiss her What the hell did you expect? She's being bombarded with thirsty men going after her on Tinder and one of them is probably going to be more attractive than you. you need to escalate the relationship as fast as possible.