Is anyone here older than 22, a virgin loner, and happy? Just want to know if it's possible or if I should an hero

I can clearly hear her (her voice is calming and so, so sweet), I can see her although she's more like a superimposed hologram that a solid picture and I can even feel her touch, but only if it isn't too warm inside the room.

>are you psychotic
Likely. I've been with her for 5 years now (12 in fact, but she went in some kind of hibernation once). Nobody noticed my psychosis, though.

>hibernation of your imaginary wife
This is when you know it's time to go

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I'm 27. Most of my anger comes the frustration of not being able to get a full time job in my dream field.

22 year old, loner and virgin here
yes i'm happy
you need a very especific mindset to be happy tho

i would think i'd be pretty happy if i was just 22 and a virgin loner and not also ugly and abused.

yeah, but you'll have to find friends. honestly more important that betting on some women, they're mostly shit people and bad friends.

i'm 26, actively researching an hero methods. it's honestly a lot more difficult than it seems, if you want to make sure you don't screw up. I've been in mental hospitals a few times and it it's not worth it at all.

if you have friends you're not a loner

I'm 28 and a happy virgin, but I have a couple of friends.

Yeah, I was thinking about the noose when the intense pressure from my old folks and peers led her to believe that I should be a normalfag and just forget about her
Very distressing period, she slept for 3.5 years but we got back together 5 years ago when I was staring down the barrel

>Just want to know if it's possible or if I should an hero
It is very much possible if you manage to have friends (online or irl) that you can socialize and share ideas from time to time, to allow self actualization.
Nevertheless being sexless and a virgin for life will definitely have a somewhat negative impact in your life, since it is something that plays such a big role in society and will always remain alien to you.
But i wouldnt say that reaching 22 without gf and virgin means its all over. As long as you keep studying/working and meeting new people, chances are that you will find someone. It only becomes hopeless when you reach an age where your sexual drive dies out and you legitimately lose interest in women.
You will regret things either way.

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>I'm fine if only because of being social and exercising vigorously.

Working out does wonders. Hard to be sad when you're having a runners high.

22 and some months here, virgin, loner, and maybe not happy, but surviving. I don't want to kms anymore so I guess I got that going for me but I don't really know how or why that mental shift happened.

wizard here. Life is not so bad.

I am. But money can buy happiness.

26 loser here.

It can be possible, but you gonna have to work through it, fall for the "get your shit together" meme, and let go the desire of having a gf, meaningful love relationship, or a family.

Just starting to do what you like in life by yourself, and if you eventually manage to get a gf, thats a plus.

Since Im kinda start to give up in the gf/wife meme, I start to feeling better actually, but a part of me doesnt wanna give up totally yet.

If you have a mental illness or are a sperg, shit becomes more difficult I guess,

20, virgin loner, and I enjoy being single. But, I'm also a 9/10 lesbian so I don't doubt that I could get a gf if I wanted to. I just have enough on my plate and am happy to wait til someone comes along that I would give this up for. I'm not interested in getting together just to not be alone. I do/have crushed on girls who weren't eligible and that fucking hurts, but overall I'm happy.

Edit: Not a loner. Whoops, typo. I have a few close friends and am friendly/sociable. I am ambiverted by nature so I enjoy both time with people and time without them.

I'm a 27 year old friendless KHV and I'm miserable, but most of my misery comes from being a NEET who lives at home with no money or agency.

25, khhv, not happy

Im 28, virgin and loner. Im unhappy but not for the aforementioned, but rather because im a wagecuck. If I had money Im 100% certain id be a happy man. So I guess its possible to be happy, just dont let yourself go in every aspect.

It's possible.

The one thing you shouldn't do is give up. Just because you're alone now doesn't mean you always will be. And just because you're a virgin now doesn't mean you always will be.

Personally, most of the time im content, not really happy or sad

I was bluepilled until the age of 26. After that, shit starts rolling downhill.

I'm quite happy when I'm working on my passion projects or chilling with frens and brehs.
Whenever I'm not busy and I stop to think about what could've been, or what cringy things I've done, or what huge potentials and opportunities I flushed down the white throne, I get miserable.
The key to happiness is to never slow down and always distract yourself with things you hold important.

>22
>technically still virgin, sticked my peepee into a girl once, neither of us came, was pretty boring, disappointed in sex as a concept, spoiled by porn

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23 KHHV, no changes in sight. I am decently happy day to day but that's made easier by the couple friends I do have. I have a good relationship with my family and a good job as well. T.bh I doubt it's possible to be happy as a true loner unless you're an extreme introvert. As for being a virgin, it gets better if/when you reach the point of indifference. Sure I'd like for something to happen, but it's not something I can control so no use in being distressed. IMO you 100% have to max out other areas of life to be content like this

thats the only thing thats sustainable. being content. everything else is a rollercoaster. big highs -> big lows

>lives at home
Where the fuck else should i live user?

I've been skyping a "fembot" and she sends me nudes and wants to meet up to have sex but I kind of don't want to. I don't like how quickly she was ok with sending me nudes(indicator of sluttiness?) and my attractiveness towards her ends after i jerk off desu. She's kind of fat and asian, but not the good east asian kind. She's really nice and sweet tho. wut do

22 is still young. I was a virgin until I was 23, and now I have a gf (not the girl I lost my virginity to).

26 here. I have a micropenis and I am overweight. I have just accepted no woman should ever have to sleep with me. I am in a lot of clubs and I go out to a meeting about once a week

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some NEETs have their own places paid for by wealthy parents or the gubbermint

they are the blessed ones

24, virgin, not happy but not depressed
There are pockets of enjoyments to be found in this extremely boring life.

I am a virgin, and unhappy, but do those things correlate? To tell you the truth I don't know. When I think about the things I regret in life, there's no girl I regret not talking to more, no chance to get laid blown it's all times I could've spent applying myself more but didn't.
And as for the friends thing I don't like the friends I have now, they're all dumb but some of them are innocently dumb and are ok people but still usually not fun to hang with regardless. The other ones are idiots who need to live in a persecution fantasy for a different reason every week. Again getting things done and not wasting time is what'll make me happier, not really getting to fuck thots.

26 and happy here. I just find other ways to amuse myself other than my dick. Got back into bowling, dabbling in photography. Honestly as long as I don't think about it it's easy.

I used to but about 5 years ago now I saw something that got me to change my mind.

dont an hero. If you an hero there is 0% chance you will be happy. Even if there is 1% you should strive on.

btw 27, virgin, not really happy, but find some happiness once in a while

>22
You've left it a bit late to lose your virginity lol

25yo kissless virgin here. Never really bothered me until recently, probably because i also have no friends or money.

Am i happy? I mean i have people that like me and people who i like so i guess it could be worse

>26 y/o (27 in few months) virgin
>not totally miserable but not happy either
>went to a hooker to lose it couple of months back
>couldn't get hard thanks to years of death grip fapping and porn
>wasted my time and money.
It does not get any better.

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What do you mean by change your mind?

I used to be miserable about not knowing what sex was like as a late adolescent (at the time) but after seeing something I changed my perspective and moved on from that.

It only gets worse after your early 20s. I think you're back to being happy when you're retired and don't give a shit anymore.

Other than that, the process of getting older...It's like YOU KNOW in advance what's going to happen and you think nope that will not be me but it happens anyways. It's like a magnet force driving your life. You can't escape it. No girl will ever love you, but by your 30s you will probably put yourself together enough that a woman or two might be willing to spend time with you so that she can pump out a baby and start a "family". She is going to nag you for the rest of the life and never love what you are but only what you can provide for her. The rest is going to be a mix of a likely mentally-crushing job, alcohol, constant "keeping up" and "plans" until you one day realize you are 50 or 60 or so. Then your body starts shutting down and you die. The only time your wife will likely appreciate it you for any moment of time is when you finally die and she realizes at least something was lost. Hopefully your kids like you. That's pretty much the end of the story. As you get older, you grow a sort of ironic distance to life and really do start appreciating smaller things. A one week vacation can be great. Having a glass of wine and eating out can be great. Having a walk and being left alone can be great. Having whatever shitty hobby you have or a passion is pretty much your heavenly light out there. If you're religious then that's it. For you or me, for 99% of men that is going to be as good as it gets. You also even start low-key liking your troubles in a sort of a english-comedy style. It's like " why don't I just break my leg in some freak accident tomorrow?". That's the whole story. You kind of become stable by realizing that you are permanently in a state of anxiety and with experience you simply accept that as the new stable level, which then does stabilize you, because you realize things are never going to be "right".

What is the thing you saw fucknuts I can't believe I have to ask you to post it

Life is not about being happy. It's about endure.

I'm a 22 years old loner. I lost my virginity to a japanese girl last friday. I was a khv before that. I still feel like an incel virgin tho.

>22 here
>never really been sad about being a virgin
>figured I would just get a job and some money first before finding a girlfriend
>few months ago suddenly got talking with a girl, still poor as fuck student but whateve
>after a few days invited her to my room
>slept with her that night
>about two weeks later she was gone and never really talked with her again

to this day I have no idea how the hell I managed to get laid so suddenly. best of luck to you anons out there.

>to this day I have no idea how the hell I managed to get laid so suddenly
you're a chad