What do you think someone needs in order to be unique? Do you believe you're unique?
What do you think someone needs in order to be unique? Do you believe you're unique?
I think being unique means having qualities that separate you from other people. So if you count being a boring, loser fuck as defining qualities. I'd say I'm pretty unique.
this picture would be fucking perfect if it weren't for those eyebrows
god dammit
Everyone shares qualities with every other human, and everyone has a totally unique experience of life at the same time. everyone is alike in that we are all different. even a board full of shithead virgins with social anxiety and depression will have unique properties. even a website full of cynical young adults will have a few outliers. when parents tell their children that they're special, that's a genuine statement, but it's naive to think that anyone is legitimately alone in their experiences.
this thread is probably dead, but ill ask why you're concerned with being unique. i really don't think uniqueness matters that much because the chances meeting someone who's extremely similar to you is really small. i think people like to make a big deal about how all normies are the same and all robots are the same etc etc, but i've never met any two people who seemed even remotely similar. i th
Not that I'm concerned, but i was caught in this question today, i was trying to tell myself why i thought i was unique. At first i thought that someone who is truly loved is unique, but then everyone would be unique, since your parents most likely loved you at some point, so i couldn't really tell anymore. Is there any meaning in living when anyone can do whatever you can?
Op here, im at uni rn, sorry if i don't answer so fast
>Is there any meaning in living when anyone can do whatever you can?
i definitely know where you're coming from when you say this because i think i used think in this same way as well. when i play a gacha game or any game that has character management, and i have to pick between two characters to put in my squad, ill compare two members to see which is better or which is worse and i'll take the better one, completely dropping the one i thought was worse. see, this works in gacha games because im the one who gets to decide what is objectively more valuable and also those characters are just objects with no feelings or emotions. they dont care they i dont ever use them or find them valueless. people aren't like that though. our feelings and experiences are all subjective and just because someone else feels and experiences things that are similar to yours doesn't mean that your feelings and experiences are invalidated. we're not "characters" to be managed. each of us are individuals with our own feelings, values, passions, and goals. just because someone else happens to have some things that are similar to yours doesn't means that both are meaningless.
uniqueness truly is a misrepresented concept. you shouldn't focus on trying to be different from everyone else, you should just avoid actively trying to mimic people.
fuck, i just realized how lecture-y this came off as. i didn't mean for it to sound like that.
personally, I make a fundamental distinction between "unique" and "special"
everyone is unique, as there's no one else like you in the world unless you have a twin and in that case it's looks only.
Not everyone is special though
Yeah, I'm unique, as narcissistic as it sounds.
Thanks fellow user, I'll take these words in my head whenever i feel like nothing i can do matters, hope you get your SRs soon
don't mention it, friend. glad i could help you out in some way. do you get feelings of meaninglessness in your actions often or does it just happen once in a while? im still in the middle of a sort of existential crisis, but im doing a lot better now than i was during the beginning, where i basically thought everything was meaningless. how about you? what's going on in your life?
and yeah, i hope i get some more SRs. my recent pulls have been pretty nice tho. pic related.
>this picture would be fucking perfect if it weren't for those eyebrows
shit taste
>some mumbo jumbo about how we're all the same
Shit IQ
Maybe there's not a super huge difference between, say, most normalfag poorfags and most normalfag richfags, and their failed normie orbiters. But If you got autism, the real deal autism? If you have autistic fits because of noise and light, can't speak english properly, and are actually incapable of telling faces apart let alone discerning facial expressions? Yeah, you're gonna have a shitfest of a time and you sure as hell will never be normal or accepted by normals. Unique? Maybe not. Living in society with others as if you were an actual human being? Fuck no. t. autist.
>t.autist
you sure showed them
Yes but its not a good thing.
I have a higher than average emotional IQ
I have a lower than average level of ego and self-esteem, which causes a lower index of just-world rationalization.
I wasn't trying to show anybody.
The uni have been helping out a lot, there's a lot to think of, not to mention the people I'm kinda interacting with. So I've been feeling less meaningless lately. I think you could try some sort of group activity if you want to occupy your head
Most people you speak with for 50 minutes or so or longer you will find something unique
How do you do this? Talking to someone for that amount of time seems like something you only do on dates
Usually over an activity. Some people I have been on dates with in a sense. Not really romantic, its fairly normal just to grab food and coffee with friends and acquaintances.
I've also spoke to a lot of people particularly around 12-18 online when I was more curious about the world through online games, chat room, etc
You have to have an interest in doing so
im glad that you're feeling a little bit better. as much as i dislike this board and dissuade people from coming here as much as possible, i think that once in a while good things might come out of it. i gotta go to sleep now user, sorry i couldn't keep talking to ya.