To what extent is it acceptable to use others for emotional support?

At what point do you become just a burden?

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Its ok but when they notice thry zill fuck you over then youll need more emotional support and so on.

Its like eating to feel hapoy cuz your fat, youll get fatter and then eat mor to feel happy...

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When you become a net drain on their emotional energy across time.

I get this. I'm never satisfied with my interactions. I feel like I never get the responses I want. So I crave for more. In the end, I'm not sure what it is that I'm seeking. Even validation gets me nowhere.
What are the signs of that? Unless they tell me to go fuck myself, I can't know.

>In the end, I'm not sure what it is that I'm seeking. Even validation gets me nowhere.
From my experience: your own approval. Sadly no one else's is an adequate substitute.

>What are the signs of that? Unless they tell me to go fuck myself, I can't know.
If they have less and less time for you, that's a good sign. There's no substitute for clear communication, though, provided you can ask them if you're being a drain without making it a loaded question.

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>your own approval
You mean me approving of myself? I guess that makes sense.

The place I seek emotional support is actually here. I treat it like an emotional tampon, as one user put it. The issue is that while I do believe I'm a burden here, nothing's stopping me. I'm getting more (you)s than ever, I have little issue with bans. I'm a cancerous avatarfag and at this point I can't stop. I wonder if there's some way to atone for my sins.

Oh, who cares about that? I thought you meant you latched onto some individual under the guise of friendship and then messaged them constantly for emotional support. You can't really be a burden to anyone here because there's no obligation: people can walk away at any time since there are no identities to bind them.

Just man up bro origami

I spam quite a lot. And when I get hate, I have a hard time handling it. They make me feel like a very selfish person, which is true. I'd like to reciprocate somehow, but I have a hard time expressing care and affection. It comes off as fake. Even now I'm only talking about myself.

There's no easy answer here. You sound like you're wracked with a lot of guilt, probably about other things too. If you want to be less selfish or more caring you're going to have to sort out your emotional baggage first. Ever been to a therapist? Or a psychiatrist?

I'm a diagnosed "paranoid schizophrenic" and I possibly have "gender dysphoria". I've seen those and I really don't want to see professionals more than I'm forced to. I thought I could keep this issue separate and solve it myself. It shouldn't be that hard, right? I just need to be more supportive of other people. I need to learn to listen to their problems.

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When you stop entertaining them most friends leave you

There is a point where you are asking for more than they are willing to give. If you never progress and make efforts to sort yourself out they will see you as a lost cause. Ive had friends straight up tell me not to hang out with people theyve had this issue with. Theyre like leaches

I've had anons tell me that they like my threads because my posts are funny. That hurts a bit, since I'm not trying to be funny. Hooray, I guess?
I've been told something like this many times. But my issues can't really be fixed by talking to people. I suppose I need to be forcibly removed from here then.

>I thought I could keep this issue separate and solve it myself.
I don't think you understand the severity of those disorders, then.

0 never rely on anyone else for emotional support it just caused countless problems. Save yourself the trouble

nigger i already told you, call the most expensive escort you can find, tell her beforehand that youre a bit fucked up and destroy that pussy. your """""gender dysphoria""""" will be gone

BUT if it doesnt go that means youre GAY and have worse things to worry about

don't rely on other people for emotional support
you can do fine by yourself if you can somehow find comfort in yourself physically and mentally then you won't need support because you can create it in your mind when you need it

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>I've had anons tell me that they like my threads because my posts are funny. That hurts a bit, since I'm not trying to be funny. Hooray, I guess?

I thought you were trying to be funny, i didnt know you really need support