What are you looking forward to in your life, Jow Forums? Do you have a clear idea of how you want your life to go, and the things you wish to happen to you, in the near and distant future? Are the things you do daily bringing you closer to your goal?
>wake up
>go to work
>do mindless job
>go to gym
>come home and cook
>have dinner while browsing Jow Forums and watching youtube
>go to sleep
>repeat
I'm looking forward to regular lays as soon I as add a good 10-15lbs of muscle
>delusional fitcel
yikes
Right now I'm more career oriented than ever. I've been making massive job-gains in the last year and they're still coming strong. This is exactly where I want to be because I'm trying to make every connection and learn every possible thing I can at this point. May ditch my job for greener pastures in April but I'll re-evaluate around January. In the distance future the dream is to still go into business for myself somewhere in the construction industry. I wanna build shit. Fitness is just a hobby where I build myself.
>t. low level architectural engineer
focus on your career everything else is much easier to sort out later
Lmao that's literally my life, Op. I pray for death every day
Buying a house somewhere that's not a complete shithole.
Finding a pretty and wholesome wife, and raising my kids in a traditional warrior upbringing somewhere in the Tuscan countryside where my ancestors came from.
Sorry, it doesn’t work like that.
>t. fit sperg
I really need to start making career gains, can't find an internship so i need to do some complementary courses, but at the same time my schedule is already completely full. I don't even enjoy my major anymore, should have gone Business Adm instead of Mech. engineering, taking 7y for a 5y course
what's the fucking point of speaking 5 languages if i can't even land a job in my 3rd world country
I wish I had the will power to hit the gym in the morning before work but I always had sleeping problems or I either barely sleep or sleep 8+ hours and it's a fucking monumental effort to get up.
I love working out but I can only go in the mornings and I'm not a morning person. I'm working today and I can only think about not hitting the gym today. It sucks because I'm finally finding a good balance of working/living/fucking and gym going is the one thing that I want to do best but I'm a fucking homeless person in the mornings.
I lifted for 3 months and got laid soon after
It was also to do with posture and confidence though
Sauce PLEASE
Do you also cry yourself to sleep, or just cry whenever?
I broke up with my gf of 4 years last week over some petty shit. I regret it, but there's no going back now. She's tired of my shit, as we've broken up multiple times in the past because of me, and is afraid I may do something stupid like that again in the future, when we have a kid, which is what we were planning on doing.
I guess what I'm going through right now is just the lack of direction, and the feeling and realization of having basically deleted the last 4 years of her and my life. She had told me that she wants to spend the rest of her life with me, and I just threw that away.
I don't know how to restart.
>what's the fucking point of speaking 5 languages if i can't even land a job in my 3rd world country
You could make a shit load of money if you know 5 languages. Any management position in a international call center company would propel you to the top.
Or go teach languages in Asia. Mad money.
I want to understand the world. I want to understand why I exist and what awaits me when I die. Just kidding, I wanna bang tight thots in yoga pants and die during an orgy with 5 females while we are high on cocaine.
You're not supposed to know how to restart so early in the break up. Just learn how to enjoy spending time by yourself again and just take it from there. Relationships and everything else in life is temporary, whether it goes right or wrong, you're the only fucking thing who'll deal with until the end.
After you enjoy *yourself* again, people will start enjoying you too. Babysteps, bro. I've been through exactly the same shit. There's not gonna be a moment that clicks and suddenly all makes sense, it's a slow burn.
how do i even begin getting a management position in an international call center if i'm not indian? I wanted to work with management in international commerce or consulting, but at this point i'm willing to try anything
also most of the good positions in asia wants native english speakers, i tried, plus it's not really a career building path
>what's the fucking point of speaking 5 languages if i can't even land a job in my 3rd world country
If you get a translation qualification, you could be printing money with that skillset
Wait till I become legal in this country
Buy gun legally
Shoot my brains out
Don't know if you're Murrkan or Yorupoor but in Europe, it's literally the easiest shit to move up in the work ladder if you speak multiple languages. Experience in management isn't even priority, it's the ability to communicate with several markets. Former Call Center Phone Monkey, speaking from experience, speak 3 languages and they promoted me just because.
Also, like the other user said, translation will make you some cheddar. Check out freelancing websites like Fiverr and Upwork and shit.
Gita Hadizadeh
>management in international commerce or consulting
How about getting a real job instead of being another useless manager?
In the short term, I'm looking forward to my next semester at university. I'll be studying far more specialised content, which I have a legitimate interest in learning; as well as starting on a large project, which I've done a substantial amount of background work to prepare for.
In the longer term, I'm looking forward to being able to travel to other countries and learn more about my field and the world at large by experience, rather than by reading and talking to people with experience.
I'd also like to be as big as my Dad, so that if I have children (which I hope to), they'll have someone to look up to not just academically. And, I suppose on that front, to find someone to marry, who won't let me get complacent.
is this one of those first world problems, whining threads??
Waaah depression isn't real
It's all in your mind bro
You ,like, choose to be unhappy
Just grow out of it
I have a pretty good mid-term direction but not a long term one.
>complete uni in less than 2 years
>I already have a job ready when I finish
>I'm about to get actually fit
>i plan on spending the first 3-4 months of wages on fun then start saving and then investing
I still have to figure out if I want to make a solo trip before starting to work.
The problem is I don't know what I want my real adult life to look like, if i want to marry, to have kids or what else...
Well, if you wouldn't be a stupid useless nigger you could also have the luxury to think about more than just how to live through the day without getting killed by your fellow negros or die of some small infection.
>how about making way less money and working longer hours with less benefits
no you
>traditional warrior upbringing
What the fuck am I reading
>Tuscan countryside where my ancestors came from.
You are the results of a millenia of rape babies you retard, you ancestors came either from russia or the middle east
Managers are parasites who suck the life out of every company. They cruise on the back of working class and need to be collectively culled for the sake of the company.
pretty much.
did mommy not powder your bottom today??
You know man I was in the same spot about a year ago and I read Marcus Aurelius "Meditations". It made me realize it's okay to try my best and fail, but that it's inexcusable to use excuses to avoid putting in the effort. Be your best you and conquer your inner bitch bro.
seconded.
Every company over a certain size has politics, the job of managers is to abstract away all the politics so you can focus on actual work. They're a necessary evil
t. minimum wage cuck
>What are you looking forward to in your life, Jow Forums?
Moving away from my current job and deepening my relationship with my gf. I have two interview lined up tomorrow, had two in the past weeks that did not amount to anything. One of them was one of those bullshit startups that want you to have passion instead of paying you, the other one I found out needs a skill that I don't have. The next two are closer to what I know.
Also, hit a solid, easy few reps for 3plate on the bench and 5plate on the deads. Now I'm pushing to get that to 6 plate. I also want a 2plate OHP and a 200 kg squat. Intermediate goal for squats is easy reps for 4plate.
Do you have a clear idea of how you want your life to go, and the things you wish to happen to you, in the near and distant future?
Just slight improvements in all areas. Also starting jujitsu soon.
Are the things you do daily bringing you closer to your goal?
Mostly.
Life can be made better bros. We can all make it.
Either get a comfy job (unlikely) or go on welfare. the biggest issue is what to do with my free time. I've been NEET for so long that I've gotten bored with the internet, video games, everything. At the same time there is nothing more pleasant for me to do. The normie life is pathetic compared to what I do.
I will powder your bottom, if you get what I mean.
I wanted to travel and have kids with a girlfriend with whom I'd be a team and it'd be us, our little family, versus the world.
Now after two failed LTR I just want to travel and rely only on myself as much as I can. I'll move to Latin America next year to test my mettle for that.
Thanks man. You have no idea how much this helps, truly, and I'd never expect it would come from Jow Forums.
Know you soothed someone's soul today.
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>wake up
>do my job
>workout after work
>drink myself to sleep
>dream good dreams
>repeat
Life isn't so bad. It's all about perspective.
What do you dream of, user?
Honestly looking forward to dying
I just got a promotion at work. Last year of college is about to begin, and I'm really looking forward to completing field experience and moving out into a career. Planning on proposing to my little gal in october. Hit my weight goal. I'm looking forward to it all bros
It's only the latter not the 3 months you lifted
Usually I forget my dreams but I know my dreams were good because I am happy when I wake up, hangover or not.
>grew up as a latchkey kid with no mom and a dad who was always working
>no friends save for a dude here and there from age 14 to 27
>my entire family aside from my ungrateful brother and dad are 70+ years old
>dad isn't in best health
>going to be completely alone in 10-15 years
everything I do is to become an attractive dependable and valuable partner to my future wife and kids, so I can one day have a family of my own
>What are you looking forward to in your life
Suicide in two months
Based. What are you waiting for?
Thanks, man. I just want to get my ideal body most of all now that I reached some nice stability in my life, you know? Sometimes I think I should take a medical leave of a month just to focus on the gym since my dad can just cook one document for me. I got plenty of money saved, I could take a hit of one month.
Thanks for the advice, though. I gotta keep at this shit and aim higher.
>You could make a shit load of money if you know 5 languages. Any management position in a international call center company would propel you to the top.
Really? How?
My man. I like to cook and get better at it. So that's what I do. Going abroad to cook in a two star Michelin next year. When I think I know enough I'll come back and become a chef.
I was battling with obesity when I discovered fit. This was about ten years ago. A lot of ups and downs happened due to bulimia and occasional traumas but I managed to shed about 55 kilos.
I am hoping to be shredded and get rid of last 10-15 KGS I need to in order to achieve my goal body.
On the side, I raised $500.000 with my start-up, managed to lose it all due to conflicts of interest. Now I am about to be hired by a tech giant in EU. I am hoping by the time I am 30 I will have a successful career, maybe another business on the side and my goal body. I waited way too long for this.
Maybe I am getting married too. I was seventeen my first time here. Goddamn.
>ywn be handsome enough for someone to want to do this to you
end me swiftly
Post body
>ill move to latin america to test my mettle
You guys have a really skewered view of this place. Unless you are gonna live in Bolivia, Peru, Paraguay, Rio de Janegro or Venezuela life down here is really not that hard, literally just dont be in the ghetto
T. 25yo Brazillian whose only time he got robbed was in Freiburg, thanks sand niggers
This is me op. You are not alone in your situation, but you are perhaps a loner like me. I'm a khv in a public sector job. I don't even look forward to lifting. I get rejected by girls and from positions at work constantly. My agency has a high rate of substance abuse, depression, and health problems but lifting will only keep them away for so long.
I literally pray for catastrophic events but then I realize that I'm in one currently.
Damn she's turned herself into instathot#82661
Looks wholesome yet hot in OP
>>i plan on spending the first 3-4 months of wages on fun then start saving and then investing
Do the opposite. Money has time value so you get better gains the earlier you start.
I would like to have a relationship. I would like to kiss someone and be sexually attractive to women. At least once in my life I would like to be happy. I could kill myself but I'm going to die anyway and who knows, maybe I'll sort myself out. Find the courage to go on a date, tell a woman I'm a 30yo virgin and I've never even kissed. Maybe she'll understand, maybe she won't. Maybe I'll never tell her.
Who knows. I'm just trying to maintain proper levels of hormones in my body. Avoid stress, get enough sleep. I'm terribly unhappy but I guess hope that someday things may look different and the past won't matter keeps me going.
This thread is depressing. I hope everyone make it.
>Find the courage to go on a date, tell a woman I'm a 30yo virgin and I've never even kissed. Maybe she'll understand, maybe she won't. Maybe I'll never tell her.
never tell anyone.
when i was younger i used to think it was cool and a sign of mental strength and solidarity that i told people i was still a virgin, and that i'd never had a girlfriend. i thought if i said it and acted like i didnt give a shit and it wasnt a big deal, people wouldnt give a shit.
turns out i was wrong. nobody outright calls you out, of course, but people treat you very differently. its pretty crazy. dudes dont take you seriously. girls treat you like you're a kid, or her little brother or something
literally fake it till you make it.