Guys, I think the secret to being attractive to women is being comfortable with the fact that you want to fuck them and not being ashamed of it. I don't think it's looks, money, status, height, etc... All that stuff is what logically women are attracted to and what society says they are attracted to, but what they REALLY are attracted to is those moments of sexual tension that naturally arise when you want to fuck a girl and aren't trying to hide it. Those times when you get close to her, your eye contact lingers a couple seconds too long, when your noses are inches apart and you both speak to each other in low whispers...
That shit is what turns them on in an animalistic primal way. I have personally found out that without a doubt that women respond well to confident, calm male sexuality.
>tHaT OnLy wOrKs iF YoU'rE ChAd No, you got it backwards. Chad is Chad because he isn't afraid to use his dick and you are the way you are because you are too uncomfortable around women to treat them sexually.
>Chad is Chad because he isn't afraid to use his dick and you are the way you are because you are too uncomfortable around women to treat them sexually. Yeah dude I hate to be the sarcastic asshole but it's totally not because of the height, jaw, hair, eyes, frame, etc..... got nothing to do with it
Christian Bennett
Nah, if you're ugly that shit will come off as creepy and unwelcome
Levi Hall
Again, cart before the horse. The height, jaw, hair, eyes, makes Chad think he is attractive to women and thus he acts attractive to women and thus he is attractive to women.
Cart before the horse. An ugly person thinks he is unattractive to women so he acts unattractive to women and thus he is unattractive to women, hence why he is creepy and unwelcome.
You guys don't get it because your male brains are attracted 100% to looks. Women are turned on by certain behaviors; they are wired differently.
Adam Powell
Bro have you ever even left your room in your life
Dominic Torres
It's all about the face and hair.
You could have no confidence and be fucking asexual and still end up with a pretty woman.
Angel Cox
Yes, this is where my theory comes from. I have personally gotten women "out of my league" just by acting like I have a dick.
David Cruz
I actually agree, user. Took me ages to get it though. If you're fun to be around AND not afraid of flirting, you'll even be able to pull girls way out of your league.
Cameron Jackson
In cases like this, the woman will 100% lose interest in you once she finds out how uncool you are. The height, face, etc get your shit in the door and if you don't say/do anything stupid you might get laid. But if you are a handsome sperg you will still end up with dick in hand at the end of the day >see Jow Forums
Jonathan White
This is stupid, an ugly guy could act the exact same as a confident Chad and would still get nothing because women perceive the behaviour differently through the lens of his appearance
Isaiah Murphy
t. probably AT LEAST average looking
Wyatt Nguyen
>Chad being Chad doesn't attract females
Now this is being willfully retarded, if any neckbeard tries the "hey wanna fuck" tactic, cops would swarm like flies to the shit.
Benjamin Martinez
That's actually how I lost my virginity. I was drinking beer from a can in this thot's dorm room. She actually had a ldr bf but there had been quite some obvious flirting every time we met. So I just asked if she wanted to have sex. She did.
Easton Perry
But she was flirting with you
Julian Clark
I was flirting with her too, which is what this thread is about, isn't it?
Robert Young
There are ugly, fat, short, poor guys who get mad bitches though.
Bingo. I first learned this freshman year when I was sitting in a class and 5 minutes before it started and I was watching a youtube video on my phone. The youtube video was a fighting game compilation video or something similar. I saw a sick play and I made the pic related face. At the same time I made that face, some solid 8.5/10 Indian chick walked in the room and she thought I made it at her. Me being a kv at this point freaked out and thought I was going to get some look of disgust or be called a creep, but to my pleasant suprise she let out this qt sheepish giggle and mouthed "HI" while waving at me in that flirty manner girls do where they keep their hand still but move their fingers individually. My limited view of the world was starting to break at that point and we fucked a month later.
This just proves you have 0 idea what I'm talking about. The type of sexual tension I describe is mainly sub-communicated with body language and vibes. Going up to a random woman and saying "HeY WaNnA FuCk?" is a great way to be labelled as a creep unless you're a celebrity.
and 5 minutes before it started I was watching a youtube video on my phone.*
Jayden Ortiz
>There are ugly, fat, short, poor guys who get mad bitches though
I have never seen this IRL, only as a Jewish movie trope or on Jow Forums LARP posts
Cooper Thomas
Check out Owen Cook. He is a literal fat, old, balding, ginger manlet who fucks. There is 100s of hours of video evidence of him doing this and you know he's legit because he's been at ir for over 15 years and not a single soul has called him out on paying girls to flirt with him or whatever
Joseph Hernandez
Eh, then again he might not be a good person to look up to. From the few videos of his I've seen, he tries too hard to play a character. You don't have to act like a hyper active clown to get laid and it probably won't work in your favor. Just be normal, make strong eye contact, touch her, flirt, up the sexual tension, and boom you're fucking
Jeremiah Brown
If you have never seen it IRL it's because you never leave the house.
Easton Gray
Meanwhile in high school I overheard a girl complaining that I was checking her out, and all her friends agreed it was gross
I fucking wish, years of customer service and all I see are couples of comparable attractiveness and skinny dudes with fat chicks
Dominic Wood
>taking "hey wanna fuck" literally >took a whole month to bang a desperate indian girl >implying ugly fat non paying men get mad bitches
Lmao dude, go on, desperate women would give in ez. One girl ask for my fb one day and 3 days later she's giving me head with barely any effort on my part. Your little secret about being sexually confident is nothing new at all, is quite literally part of being a chad.
>"yOu HaVe 0 IdEa" Top notch lmao
Samuel Howard
>Meanwhile in high school I overheard a girl complaining that I was checking her out, and all her friends agreed it was gross You're supposed to do that shit with 0 shame. If you check out a girl and look away when doing it or you're being sneaky and indirect, she will find it creepy. Girls find it flattering when you're confident about it.
It took a month because I literally put 0 effort into it. It kind of just happened but the incident I mentioned was the spark.
>implying ugly fat non paying men get mad bitches If they know what they're doing they do. Most ugly fat non paying men are socially conditioned to be unattractive to women.
>Your little secret about being sexually confident is nothing new at all, is quite literally part of being a chad. It is not just part of being a chad, it defines chad.
Ryan Cruz
>Girls find it flattering when you're confident about it.
If You Are Handsome
Leo Martinez
Not even. Hell, a lot of women even appreciate catcalling. They just pretend not to because you're not supposed to enjoy it when some fat construction worker wolf whistles when you walk past the street. But then they hit 40 and the comments and looks stop and they complain that they miss the attention.
W O M E N
Brandon Rodriguez
Sexual condifence is not all that defines a chad, not by a long shot dude.
> "0 effort on my part" > It sort of happened God dude, at least try to have some consistency with the bullshit story and tips you spout. Anyone that knows what he's doing would not say "oh idk how it happened", c'mon.
But it sort of did happen. I honestly didn't even try to smash. All the flirting and shit came super naturally and one day I saw an easy opportunity to get my dick wet (she suggested to """study""") and me being the opportunist I took it
I never said I didn't know how it happened. I said it sort of just happened.
Asher Young
>No, you got it backwards. Chad is Chad because he isn't afraid to use his dick and you are the way you are because you are too uncomfortable around women to treat them sexually.
>Attractive people can get away with being flirtatious
Op is just spouting dumb stuff. You can clearly tell he doesn't know what he is talking about.
Tyler Watson
>Jow Forums sucks with girls >tell Jow Forums how to not suck with girls >It's all about the FaCe that's why I can't get a gf You are all lost causes. Maybe the world is fair and you are all virgins for a reason.
Alexander White
The only thing I see in this dumb story is this indian chick getting tired of you not making a move and downright just told you to bang her in the most obvious way to see if you would finally catch the hint after a whole freaking month.
> " shit just comes to me super naturally"
Yes dude... whatever you say...
Julian Scott
The only lost cause are this bad "how to flirt with girls" tips you can find in fucking super seducer shitty games, which at least are ironic.
Hunter Watson
>You're supposed to do that shit with 0 shame. If you check out a girl and look away when doing it or you're being sneaky and indirect, she will find it creepy. Girls find it flattering when you're confident about it.
>"There was this fat, autistic neckbeard checking me out yesterday. I didn't find him cute exactly, but he just kept checking me out for a long period of time. So I fucked him over Chad"
T. No girl ever
Hudson Butler
Thats because in a social world the sexual shit test game is an audition women put male chimps through in order to judge their psychopathic and emotionally manipulative aptitude. women then choose the most "charasmatic" and highly skilled emotionally deceptive insincere psycopaths to latch on to because deception and self-deception have proven the most useful skill for homo sapiens to aquire and sustain resources
Looks are just a good indicator of healthy genes that will insure that youre able to suit up and play the psycho games to begin with
Basically to be a normie is to be a perfectly functioning psychopathic sly fox
Liam Scott
those guys aren't ugly enough then. what you said isn't complete wrong. it just doesn't fit always. it's also about hormones and smell.
Joseph Davis
Just don't be fat and you will be fine.
Long time ago, I had this friend, she was average looking, not very pretty but her fashion was really good along with her personality and she had a nice ass too. There was this guy who got interested in her. He was cool, rich, kinda self centered, he was not that ugly but he was a fat ass, literally, his ass, back and legs were bigger that the rest of his body. Long story short , he was about to fuck my friend, but she refused in the middle of it. Why ? She told me the guy was sweating, his breath stank due to dry mouth and she could feel his body rolls... She couldn't do it... At first she was into him but then she was disgusted... The curious thing is that , the guy thinks he is somehow attractive just because he got a nice car, has a good job and can maintain a conversation... In reality couldn't even fuck an average looking girl.
Bitch there isn't any "this one thing will attract women and you'll become a mod on r/ihavesex!" Some men just want to believe that cause they're desperate as fuck.
Parker Wood
Judging by the fact you even exist, you just called your dad a highly skilled emotionally deceptive insincere psychopath.
kys my ass user
Cameron Carter
I don't get how you people can look at your current lives and how you've lived in the past and believe it's some mystery you're not getting laid.
1. You live an isolated and sedentary lifestyle 2. Nothing about you is interesting
The two go hand in hand and this makes you both physically and socially unattractive. If you're also naturally unattractive it's even worse.
Andrew Long
You are absolutely right OP. However, you needed to warn these guys that this is not crass sex talk or being sexually aggressive. If sex talk does happen is through clever, charmed innuendo
Colton Price
>1. You live an isolated and sedentary lifestyle >2. Nothing about you is interesting
Add "3. social ineptitude" , and this isthe best post on this thread
Thomas Allen
>social ineptitude Would be a good nerd rapper name, desu.
