Is all you guys think about is sex?

I feel this. it's been years since I've talked to a girl from Jow Forums off Jow Forums, but the times I did result in some fun and interesting experiences.

In my experience, shy, unconfident nerdy guys are some of the horniest dudes I know. You would think it was the jockish chads because of their sexual success but I actually think that's why it happened. The "chads" have just enough sexual interest that women think they're "confident and sexy" while a lot of the shy nerdy guys have such an overactive sex drive that they either express themselves fully which makes them come off as perverts or creeps or when they see girls respond badly to that, they go the complete opposite way and start pretending to have no sexual desires whatsoever. Chads have a "casual attitude" towards sex, but nerdy shy guys tend to have an obsessive fixation on sex.

The reason I say this is because I've known some chads and when I ask them how often they jerk off when they don't have a girl around, its usually not that much really. Similarly, a lot of them will openly talk about sex but not necessarily make sex jokes all the time and bring nearly every conversation back to it. They also don't seem to walk around craving it all the time even if they do have it a decent amount.

Whereas a lot of the shy nerdy guys talk about jacking off like 4-6 times a day, about wishing they could have sex not even once a day but several times a day, turn everything into a sex joke, and they are the ones who are fucking sex dolls and hiring prostitutes and stuff like that. Like there are unconfident guys who fuck their sex dolls more frequently than chads fuck actual girls.

That's not to say its a bad thing, I am one of those guys I talk about. But I can't help but think that a high sex drive in males actually tends to correlate with lower sexual success instead of correlating with higher success.

See though, they're related. Its a general fixation on girls and intimacy. Its not a separate thing from fixating on sex. As I was kind of getting at in my previous comment, the chads don't fixate on girls nearly as much as we do.

no, i just want someone to cuddle and die with

Because they're not lonely, so of course they won't fixate on social connections as much. It's not rocket science, user

I read your comment about chads. You are right. When I tryed to man up last year and actually talk to girls I either said something that made me look lile a creep/pedo/ect. or i did nothing at all and just pretended as if they don't exist. Then after a dozen of rejections I got the mentality that I have today.( not only wanting girls for sex but actually to get comfy...)

No, I think about anime and video games too.

That's not all there is to it. They weren't that way to begin with. The easiest measurement of somebody's libido is how much they masturbate and want to have sex. Being lonely doesn't really cause you to masturbate more besides the simple increase in free time. Masturbation frequency is solely a product of your libido. Most of the lonely guys I know talk about how they can't go a single day without jerking off because its too difficult whereas chads seem more capable of holding it in for a few days if they think they're going to get laid.

sex and money, yes

Yeah same thing happened here. I think one major thing that gets in the way of our success is ironically just being too damn horny. It comes across in our interactions with girls that we really, REALLY want it badly.

Probably true. I masturbate way too much, but I have a pretty casual look on sex with normal people try and talk to me. Never been labeled a creep or felt it. I'm just too damn autist to even talk to a girl

>chads seem more capable of holding it in for a few days if they think they're going to get laid.
You hardly need to be some 'chad' to do that. But if there is no girl to enjoy the results, I see zero reason to not fap the 7-8 times I feel relaxed with?

All I think about is relationships. You know, holding hands and other normie bullshit. Sex is just a part of that for me.

No, I mostly just want someone that understands me and I can cuddle and eventually start a family with

I used to till I started getting laid. When I lost my virginity at 22 it drove me mad and all I wanted was more sex. My second gf I fucked as much as I could. Current gf Ive been with since I was 24. We fucked constantly for the first year or so but now I just dont like sex as much. Gf is pretty much free use but I never want to use her anymore. Shes more like a cool roommate that takes care of my dog now.

I wish I had a new gf desu. I miss dating.

Masturbation rate is mostly habit. Do you really think low-T neets have higher libidos than the average male? And, no, most guys don't have as much sex as you think.

But the problem is that I don't want sex so badly. I can talk like a normal person with good looking girls that I don't have any ineterest in, the only time I go full autist is when I talk to my oneitis or a girl that looks like her. It feels fucking frustrating that I have such a childish way of love. People my age are fucking daily and I still dream about having a "unicorn" gf.

>Hurr neets must be low-t cauase I say so
Funny.

No, but sadly a big part of my thoughts end up being related to sex and/or relationships now. I miss the good old days when I could so vividly think about anime or whatever other distraction and really just get lost in those worlds. Can't do it anymore and it fucking sucks. I wish I never went through puberty.

You don't masturbate too much, its just the way your body was wired. I'm somewhere on the spectrum myself. I've got a couple friends on the spectrum too and we all suck at picking up girls and we talk about girls all the time. Also, its only with other people on the spectrum that I have told that I regularly have sex with my daki pillow. I hide her from my normie friends though. It seems to me that being autistic makes you more inclined to develop sexual fixations. But maybe that's just myself and the people I've been around.

Felt this brother

I don't know if low-T means low sex drive. I'm very skinny and not macho at all and yet in high school I jerked off 6 times a day and still jerk off like 4 times a day. From what I've seen, my experiences aren't all that abnormal in the loner guy community but average guys tend to think that's a lot.

butthurt neet. I was a hikki for 10 years. Be more self-aware. It's a shitty lifestyle. If you enjoy it, you've only been a neet for a couple years, I guarantee. You masturbate a high amount, because there's nothing else. And you may say that you lift weights. I did/do, too. But most neets don't.

A fixation on girls is basically a fixation on sex. The actual act of intercourse might not be important to you but sexual intimacy clearly is, they aren't nearly as separated as people seem to think.

I used to masturbate directly every time I thought about sex to get this degenerate feeling out of my head and go back to making money asap. But I got more and more disgusted/bored by porn so now I'm just stuck with sexual thoughts but not horny enough to want to jerk off. I want to end this now

Ehhhh. Hate to admit it, but you're right. Because every time I imagine myself cuddling with a girl it usually leads to passionate sex. Guess I'm actually just another incel on this site.

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Mostly death my friend

Its nothing to really be ashamed about, cuddling is like a subtle kind of foreplay. The whole purpose of foreplay is to rev you up. Another purpose of cuddling is to keep you aroused after sex so that you can go another round if you want to. That's why a lot of girls like to cuddle with guys after sex. I find that if I cuddle with my waifu for long enough I eventually want to have sex with her.

High sex drive doesn't mean you lean towards wanting emotionless sex. I actually think most girls have a higher sex drive than guys do. I think girls should give incel-ish type guys a chance because a lot of them can relate to girls on a sexual level better than chads can in terms of enjoying physical affection all by itself and wanting to go several rounds during sex instead of busting a nut and falling asleep.

I guess to clarify, it seems to me that a lot of girls like for sex to be like a three course meal lasting a decent amount of time with foreplay, round 1, interplay, round 2, maybe keep doing it for round 3 and 4 before falling asleep cuddling each other. A lot of the typical chad types seem to view it more as a more pleasurable version of taking a piss before going to bed. They bust a nut, got what they needed and head off to sleep.

I think that the losery loner guys could actually relate to girls much better in terms of this preference for wanting sex to be like a multi course meal. I definitely don't get the impression that most guys here would want to rush it. For some reason though, a lot of girls think incel-ish guys would be even worse about that. And hell, maybe the guys who've become so bitter they're talking about rape and shootings and stuff like that would but from my observations, those guys aren't actually how typical incel-ish type guys behave.

When every day is starvation day, every problem starts to look like food.

I chuckled, good post.

No I think everything I do is wrong and I think about all my fuckups and how I'll never hmget ahead and I'll always be miserable.

No, but thinking about love hurts.