I never have anything to talk to girls it because I hate pop culture. I hate all top 40 music. I hate sports. I don't watch TV or Netflix and I don't drink alcohol. I don't go to bars or clubs. I don't play video games or watch fucking marvel or start wars movies. I feel like I'm barely human anymore. Or rather that's how I think they see me but in reality what I feel like is women are a bunch of sheep who drifted away from me by allowing themselves to be brainwashed.
What do?
I'm the same way. I hardly even listen to music. Sports, tv and so on have never interested me. I drink sometimes but have never been drunk. Ive tried gaming, i just dont like games.
There is nothing we can do. There may be one girl on earth who is the same, but none of us will ever meet her.
Then what the fuck are you guys into? You need to find girls with similar interests or at least brush up on modern culture enough to be funny/relatable.
I like art. I have an interest in language and have recently been learning (for non weeb reasons) Japanese to challenge myself with a difficult language. I plan to learn basic German before the end of 2019.
Thats about all
This
I'm following because I'm really curious. What makes you special? Why would any person want to talk to you instead of someone else? You must have something to do in your spare time.
You seem like a cool guy. I'd love hearing you talking about art and learning a language with you
Keep it up you're ok and you'll without a doubt find someone with the same interests
Just don't keep your options closed. Knowing about pop culture is ok too
>me
I would like to add one thing tho. Dont get it in your head that women are obligated to like you its fine if they dislike you. Just accept it when it happens and dont view yourself above them. We dont want another elliot rodger
I really appreciate that, Nicest thing I've heard in years. All people tell me is that im boring and mundane and try to hard to be edgy. I'm not trying to be edgy, I'm just not easily enthused.
I know that feeling.
Most normalfag girls and what they are interested in seem so strange to me they might as well be from another planet.
Even in the few cases I where the spaghetti bay stays shut and O manage to fumble my way though a okay-ish conversation, I just can't comprehend someone actually giving any fucks about some celeb bullshit, plastic pop or whatever.
It make them just so damn unrelateable to me.
OK here. I also draw and study Japanese. I'm on /ic/ all the time. I go to a Japanese language exchange meet up group on Saturday mornings. And I study drawing at night. I also 3d model, play a few musical instruments, follow politics, listen to many podcasts and comedians, read a lot of nonfiction, mostly philosophy psychology, neuroscience, etc. and workout. But no one cares about any of that. They only care about mainstream horseshit.
I meant op and I'll add this is on top of a completely unrelated full time job. My life is exhausting but no one cares about anything I am interested in. Because game of thrones is more important to them.
Thats nice. I dont mean to sound like a brainlet but I cant bring myself to ever finish a book. I have a fairly low attention span. I do have an interest in fitness and have learned a lot about it, but I haven't been to a gym in over a year so I don't mention it.
Or don't talk at all? Let the girl talk about herself. You might think being silent is "creepy", but please remember the ONLY thing that makes you charming is your looks. If you're a 6'4" blue eyed blond Chad and you play the silent game, she'll think your mysterious and exciting instead of "creepy". Even an autistic Chad can get laid, why can't you? In all of my conversations with women, it was always boring and forced. When I stopped shitposting verbally, trying to appease her apparent demand for conversation, they started talking to me. Your problem isn't that you're boring, it's that you're putting pussy on a pedestal so high you're introspecting into things that don't even matter.
tl;dr: Chad doesn't have to talk to girls, he gets them anyways
I didn't say I can't get laid. Nigga, I'm no virgin. But dating is uncomfortable. I'm not 6'4. im 5'8. I have a picture of me shaking Joe rogans hand and were exactly the same height but I'm half his width.
You probably haven't found anything that interests you. I get like that with fiction. I can't stand it. I'll read the same sentence 20 times and it doesn't go in my brain. Science and math interest me, I'm on my 5th book this year. I never read a book before college. I forced myself because the fear of wasting the money. Ended up with much better grades than I did in high school.
I read manga, which doesn't count as reading, but its fiction nonetheless, so I guess that means i sorta like fiction. But tv shows and stuff dont interest me. Half the reason i read them is for the art. I guess i dont like creating the images in my head. Ill be forcing myself to read some history books soon
i like waifus. but not just any waifu, only ubigirls will do for me. ubigirls are big and strong and they look like it would be really fun to have wild buttsex with them.
Yeah mainstream media is 95+% shit tier stuff but you should at least be aware of/able to discuss a little bit of it. I only have a casual interest in sports but that goes miles when having to talk to NPC normie males. With women it's a bit tougher on average but it can be done. You might even discover they are a bit more interesting than you thought after breaking the ice and getting into a real conversation.
I bought akira in Japanese but I sat there once with my jisho and a notebook and got bored pretty quickly. Id rather just watch the movie. I already know I'll be disappointed. Anime looks cool but never once has it given me a satisfying story. So it's not worthwhile to read imo.
>weeb00 fight!
Then what is there to complain about? That's all a woman is, something you fuck.
You honestly think there's a single girl who can have a conversation with you like a man can? Get real, please.
That's probably true but I'm never going to do that. I would literally kill myself if I had to watch normie TV or listen to normie music. I want to projectile vomit when I hear my faggot coworkers talking about game of thrones. Oh do they have dragons and sex and murder and dumb fake old English accents ? Yes I'll have to get right on that.
>We dont want another elliot rodger
are you sure about that
You dont need any interests but the girl herself. Ask her about herself. If you seem like a good guy and show genuine interest she'll tell you all about it.
Let's say I like a girl who is into squirrels. I dont give a shit about squirrels, but I give a shit about her so I'll be curious about her attraction to squirrels. I'll ask her what draws her to squirrels the most and that will probably get her going. And I'll have fun cause even if I dont care about the topic, having a cute girl looking at me, laughing and talking about squirrels is bound to feel fucking awesome.
I usually dont enjoy an anime until I have finished it. I reluctantly force myself to watch some because other people do. 1997 berserk adaptation I somewhat enjoyed throughout and not just when i finished it. But I was still somewhat reluctant when watching it.
>You honestly think there's a single girl who can have a conversation with you like a man can?
Yes you narrowsighted fool, those girls ARE there. Naturally those are the ones that always come with the
>Oh sorry I have a bf, but you are just so fun to talk to! Friends plz?
bullshit attached.
She doesn't care about what you say, she's only using you as an emotional tampon. She can't tell other girls this because she knows girls are cunts just like she is, and she can't tell Chad this because she's too busy getting fucked by him. You're her little beta orbiter who listens to all her fee-fees and pwobwems :^(((.
>"ugh becky was such a betch at werk today, user u gotta listen to this"
>you try to go on a date with her
>"ugh user... u no we just friends rite?"
>meets chad, fucks him after a week of knowing him
Also no, those girls are NOT out there FOR YOU. Don't fool yourself. Is there a 200 IQ black man somewhere? Probably. Does that mean it's reasonable to subject yourself to interactions with black people, a race that is notorious for violence and having an average IQ of 85? No, I think not. Your "dream girl" may as well not exist, because even if she DID exist, she wouldn't go with you, she would go with the 6'4" blond Chad. I don't mean to burst your bubble, but that's just reality. You aren't going to meet a girl who isn't a complete boring cunt.
>She doesn't care about what you say
Wow Captain Obvious in the house?
No, she did not care. At very least not as she cared about her onion boi which is the only damn real way that caring would have been relevant.
Does not mean she was unable to hold interesting conversations about a very broad range of matter and that we didn't click rather closely in regards to next to every topic you can think of.
>You aren't going to meet a girl who isn't a complete boring cunt.
Reality clearly already proved you wrong there.
I am a woman and everything you said in the first part is true for me. But I am not that supid to feel superior or smarter or unique in this world or "barely human" just because I have different tastes than many people. That's dumb.
The problem isn't your tastes, the problem is that you are probably a boring person with no interesests or a person who can't feel entusiasm for anything, or at least curiosity to learn about other people's interests.
>If you do not have the popular interesst you must have none at all!
Did you get lost on the way to rebbit or something.