When did it all go so wrong? What happened to us?

hard breakups make bodybuilders, renember that

everyone in this sport is damaged at some level

shitty childhood leading to poor COPEing skills and substance abuse. things are getting better now though.

One step at a time bro. Just add or swap one thing for something new. In April I started exercising for the first time. In May I put myself on a deficit. In june I wanted to meet friends so I went out solo until I made some friends. In July I swapped out some cardio for lifting and just this month I left my job because I hated how hard I worked. I now start school next Tuesday. Just swap out the old for the new one at a time.

This

"COPEING skills" lmao

>In june I wanted to meet friends so I went out solo until I made some friends
How the fuck did you pull that off?
This is basically my biggest issue, having barely any friends and not being able to make new ones.

The bar, met a woman who was interested in me, met her other friends which included guys and started hanging out. The time you go helps too. I didn't go early because it's a lot of couples and didn't go super late because then everyone would be drunk. Usually hit the bar around 8ish. Just get one drink and scope it out. My first two times I didn't really meet anybody that I would want to chill with outside of a bar or even in a bar.

The hardest part for me was to swallow the pill that I was not like the others despite being fairly healthy and with material needs met. I still haven't made peace with my predicament

Did you go to a familiar place or complete outside of your circle?
Do you assess yourself as average looking?

I don't get it what went wrong?

I'd say pretty average even ugly. I've only had sex with about 25 women which is below most people's body count by the time they're my age. I'm a software developer too so sometimes getting the free time is hard

Yeah

I went to the closest bar first. The second time I went to a different part of town. Third time went back to the closest bar. People will chat with you if you sit at the bar. Especially other dudes who are not with anyone. Seems obvious but I know it's not. I am above average. No, I'm not going to post face on an user board.

Just take the /LARP/ pill, user. For me, I LARP as an egotistical sociopath with a god complex and convince myself that I'm amazing when in actuality I am socially inept, never even held a girl's hand and believe I don't deserve to be happy or to be loved

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Nothing happened, you were just too young to realize how fucked things were

Industrial society

How do you know your moms nickname is tiger?

This.

You realized you had aspergers

Nice schizophrenia, retard.

You're shit on my boot I must've inadvertently stepped on on my path towards greatness

Spelling skills too

Okay schizo bro, good luck on your larping, nothing makes sense anyways

idk what happened to you, but someone pls nuke /soc from Jow Forums.

JANNIES DO YOUR LAUGHABLY LOW EFFORT EASY JOB AND GET THIS GODDAMN FUCKING AUTISMCRINGE OFF THIS BOARD

>us
Speak for yourself Jow Forums faggot, this is the best my life has ever been and I'm nowhere close to peaking

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what happened ?
>life

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Thanks bro I needed that. I think of myself as exceedingly mediocre. I wanted to be a scientist but I fucked up in high school and can't get into a science degree so I'm just stuck with a Bachelor of commerce in quantitative management (fiance) it's fun but physics and math sounds more interesting than accounting

What you are trying to do is actually achievable
You can go full narciss and just fall in love with yourself to cope

the only thing wrong with me is that im hideously ugly so for me it went wrong at birth

>tfw both the kids AND adults considered me to be weird back in elementary school

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I don't think it's supposed to be quite this bad. The odds of any young adult owning their own home or finding a partner are low compared to previous generations. Jobs pay less and college is worth less. You're demonized for everything and made to feel like a villain. Chemicals in your food and water are sapping your testosterone and making you more feminine and depressed. Your rights are being slowly taken away. Your last bastion of companionship, the internet, is slowly being eroded by censorship, paywalls, monopolies, and paid shills whose sole purpose is to demoralize you by screaming "incel" on every platform, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. We're all made to feel like a pack of hyenas is circling us, every moment, waiting for a wrong move so that we can be socially destroyed.

Can you elaborate? You just sat around the bar and then going up to random women in groups until one was interested in you?

Being an only child fucked my social gains and now ive been trying to catch up for years

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>*don't
These are all legitimate reasons for why something went wrong. They may not all apply to you, but they all carry the potential of fucking up your life.

In truth, our greatest asset as anons is our ability to band together. Despite seemingly hating each other and constantly fucking with each other, we all know that we are brothers in this world. That's why we keep coming here. THAT is why we keep coming back here. The key is our fraternity as brothers. We need to help each other make it in order to make it ourselves. We share our darkest thoughts and failures to each other. We trust the format. We know there are brothers out there who are going to let us know in a humorous way how we are being bitches or not understanding something.

What went wrong? How about what went right? you found Jow Forums and now you are with brothers. Now you realize your pains are shared and that you are not alone. your problems whilst potentially severe, are not unique.

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In my case I never studied and kept eating. I still do both overeating and not studying. What are the best drugs to force myself to study? Unironically

This. Martin Luther fucked all of us.

I’m 27 but I still remember the dread I felt through the entirety of my senior year in highschool. I knew that it was going to be downhill from there.

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Im 26 about to turn 27 divorced and only fucked 5 women. Why would i wantba high body count. I bet i look better than you too.

>Chemicals in your food and water are sapping your testosterone and making you more feminine and depressed

Your post isn't even that bad in terms of the conspiracy theory shitposting, but then you ruin it with this. Just stop regurgitating this nonsense. It's been disproven wrong countless times.

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We coomed too much and now that we've been on nocoom we've realized how bad things really are.

I dropped out of community college because I failed 4 out of 5 classes in a semester. I vividly remember the dread I felt when I knew it was over. My life was over. Everything I thought I could be was now out of reach. I would have to work for minimum wage for the rest of my life.

Today, my career has fully recovered. My soul has not.

What if I never had a gf

>Divorced
Lol you had your chance made it then walked out and gave up. Pride no body fucks you like yourself.

based and optimistpilled

Jews, mostly.

What caused the divorce?

Bars can get kinda packed or just people around the bar in general. Easy to strike up a conversation while waiting for a drink, while you're sitting next to someone. People like to talk and dance while drinking. Just got out the most comfortable you can and find something to enjoy while there. I made mine talking to people and trying to get free drinks from fat girls.

oh my god wow, another millionaire software developer on fit, one who claims to be ugly yet has twice as many sexual partners as most people have in their lives and then claims its actually not many. absolutely shocking.

For me? Pretty much at the beginning of my journey. Hideous, low self esteem (have an inclination for self deprecation), raised by myself (literally, my parents are AA), not a single useful talent or skill, dont trust anyone. I am not sure if I ever have been happy, but the moment I have realised this is only getting worse from now on was in high school. Everyone had something going in their lives and I have been either drinking booze with local thugs or slinging dope while trying to finish high school and go to a university.

based positivity poster

have sex

>blanket is from the movie cars
>cars came out in 2006
>kid in photo is probably 6-8 years old

FUCK OFF ZOOMER

So because im divorced i fucked it up?
Whats with society always blaming man for what ever happens in a relatiomship. She was a cheating whore but thanks bro ill try harder next time.

...

for me it was around 8th-9th grade. was relatively normal before that, then it all just went bad. lost my friends, went thru HS with no social life just acquaintances so gained no social skills. go to college with no social skills so college is a miserable time as well and even though i was smart my entire life it went to hell in college. now 27 and work a godawful retard job still a shut in loser with no friends and a permavirgin

no one cares anyway

>be me
>elementary
>be friends with basically everyone
>one of my friends is a girl
>like playing with her
>dad comes to class one day to pick me up early
>sees me playing with her
>"wow user, is she your gf?"
>she giggles
>I feel embarrassed
>stutter no
>ffw to middle school
>school performance
>danced with a girl
>dad again says "wow user, is she your gf?"
>friends laugh at me
>girl giggles
>very red at the moment
>just wanted to leave
>ffw to today
>afraid to ask a girl out bc of embarrassment
>always feel weird being around girls bc of these two events
>had more but these one stood out
>fuck you dad

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Were all gonna make it bro. I love you guys.

You. You went wrong. You went wrong by doing the thing you knew you shouldn't have. You went wrong ignoring other possibilities. And you went wrong making this thread to try and find justification for who you are and what you do now. I am so fucking sick and tired of seeing fucking Wojaks in every other goddamn thread when even if you're a newfag that has been on this fucking board for more than 2 weeks, there have been threads after threads after threads telling you the exact same fucking things:

>workout
>eat a healthy diet
>do cardio 2-3 times a week
>take zinc supplements at a minimum and see what else is lacking from your necessary diet
>stop giving a fuck what women think
>take a shower, shave, get a decent haircut and sense of fashion (not /fa/ standard, you roodypoo candyass)
>stop jacking off to porn EVERY FUCKING DAY. once, maybe twice per week
>stop getting involved with so much politics ESPECIALLY around the ages of 16-22 when you don't know FUCK about how the world is or what it could be
>be honest with yourself and what you want out of life. go after that and fuck what others think
>don't know? be willing to experiment
>GET THE FUCK OFF Jow Forums or at the very least limit your time here to no more than 2 days a week

Now, you will either take this knowledge and the wisdom other have posted ITT and apply it to your life or, like a fat girl on Facebook looking for likes on positive body image for the millionth time, you won't do a goddamn thing with it, shit up this fucking board with more Wojak shit, and then wonder why no woman would ever even talk to you while you contemplate putting a bullet in your head. Change yourself or GET OFF MY FUCKING BOARD, YOU MOTHER FUCKING FAGGOT!

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based brotherposter
were all in it and were ALL gonna make it

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Ifunny

This is a good-ass post; I love you guys

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>So because im divorced i fucked it up?
You attract shit woman cause your a shit dude also super fucking stupid.

What daft cunt gets married in there literal mid 20s you were proably 24/25. Also since you divorced your chances of getting divorced again is literally jumps up for 40 to 60% lol which then jumps up to 75% .

To all the anons reading this do not feel forced to pop the question if either of you are under 27, in schooling at all, not been in a relationship for at least 4 years 3 if your over 32.

Its retards like you they cant keep the sanctity of marriage cause of stupid and rash decisions.

Not him but 25 rlly isnt tthat much lol

Calling this a conspiracy theory is absurd. The presence of endocrine disrupting chemicals not just in food and water but also in personal care products, household cleaners, and various other things is exhaustively documented.

Falling testosterone levels are well documented. Strength decreases are well documented. Massive decreases in sperm count and quality are well documented.

Does this make you more feminine? Yes. Feminine behavior in boys correlates with levels of bpa in urine (Time magazine).

Does this make you depressed? It could through various mechanisms. There's many factors at play causing depression, though.

>software dev
Big fat fucking LARP detected. People here are actually looking for good advice. Fuck off

this. 2 retarded parents. 2 shit brothers. Raised fat. sexually abused. never got taught anything. for some people it's at birth indeed. and yes I'm trying to be better also but it's so hard and slow I feel like fucking crying desu.

>inb4 the stockholm syndrome anons that say that childhood literally doesn't matter and your parents are not responsible for anything
That's like thinking a dog will train itself to do tricks or not attack random kids that show up when you take it for a walk.

25 is gross by any standards. Anything after 4 or 5 starts to tell a story about commitment or intimacy problems. I've only had 7, and I know I have problems.

You don't do any of that shit so shut up already. Graduate college and enter the real world instead of having daddy/the government pay for your room and board while you think you got everything together.

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>having kids after 30

Yeah ok retard, most women by then are fucked up. All the good ones marry young you dumb dick fucker.

>marrying women in their 30s whove had multiple sexual partners and are emotionaly detached and fucked up.
Thats pretty stupid and also yields a higher divorce rate

Shame on you for blaming someone who did nothing wrong in a relationship. I hope you get cheated on too and your daughters abused so you can face your logic.

It's literally a problem experts are still trying to figure out how to deal with. It's estradiol that comes from the urine of women on the pill. They can't figure out a good way to remove it that doesn't involve lacing the water with literal toxic substances.

The only thing I struggle with is getting off Jow Forums entirely. I come here on the weekends primarily because I'm not in the dating scene/want to spend money socializing. Once I pay off my car next Saturday I'm going to limit it to 2x a month and starting 2020 I'm setting it to 1x a month or less.

The shit I posted it basic shit that you fail to realize because you spend too much time here warping your perspective on how people actually are. And more imprtantly, why are you arguing against it? You're telling me jacking off to /d/ every day and having a neckbeard is a good thing? Is that what you're saying? No? Then stop being an edgy contrarian faggot, faggot

Based. Just LARP irl, women are so dumb most of them will believe it

>sport
>sex-haver
implying

I love you guys. I know this sounds pathetic but you are the closest people I've got

>Falling testosterone levels are well documented. Strength decreases are well documented. Massive decreases in sperm count and quality are well documented.
tru
but
>Feminine behavior in boys correlates with levels of bpa in urine (Time magazine).
are we exposed to signifciant levels of BPA? i thought it only had an effect if you were like a worker in a BPA factory in china or something
and other than BPA, im not sure what evidence there is for feminization via chemicals. maybe birth control leaking into water supply or something??

Me personally I have been making it ever since I started coming here in like 2013 or so since I bought bitcoins as recommended here to buy sterons online and I never bought the sterons but I did buy like 20 Bitcoin

What I know is I saw a study saying that birth control only accounts for 2% of estrogen/estrogen-like chemicals in water supplies. Many pesticides are estrogenic such as DDT and Atrazine. DDT was banned but is basically impossible to remove from the environment. You can look up water-dwelling creatues becoming feminized. Crocs in Florida. Frogs & Atrazine. Fish exposed to city water in the first documentary in this playlist.

youtube.com/playlist?list=PLiATCFfo9Zxgc_zo5yN6iO2jywxyCwXrt

Just take your calcium glucarate pills and soldier on.

>When did it all go so wrong?
When I left for college

TLDR go kys

Your world exceeds your understanding and control

>photo

>When did it all go so wrong?
high school
everyone was happy because high school was ending, I think I was the only one who knew what was coming (I was already going to university)
fucking retards, worst class ever, I think only one girl managed to be a lawyer or something

>us
Don't lump me in with (You) bud

fpbp

Mom is batshit crazy (dressed cats in baby clothes even after I was born,depression etc), Dad was a choleric who never wanted children.
Rest of the Family is either mentally unstable or nagging all the time.Also pedo uncle.
It depends on you what you do with your life.
Be a better person,start new.

When third wave feminism took off.

Thenk fren

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