Has anyone been stereotyped as a douche or fuckboy based on your looks? Apparently because I'm a pretty boy, fit...

Has anyone been stereotyped as a douche or fuckboy based on your looks? Apparently because I'm a pretty boy, fit, and quiet I'm a fuckboy .

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Yes. I am an anxious person and pretty introverted despite looking like a frat boy so people take my demeanor as being standoffish and rude. But whenever I try to counteract that by being sociable and asking questions and smiling I feel like I'm being pathetic and annoying.

I used to be fat and dress like shit, but now that I'm thin and wear relatively tight-fitting clothing that suits my new body I get randos sometimes calling me a faggot on the street. Has happened a couple of times now in the past 3-4 months.

I actually am gay, but I don't really have any idea how they're picking up on that and it never used to happen to me back when I was fat. So I just assume it's the fact that I actually try to make myself look cute/good nowadays, and back when I was fat I was a huge slob (your typical oversized hoodie w/ baggy jeans "fat guy" look) and if you're a slob as a guy most people won't think you're gay. But yeah it has been kind of concerning cus I used to "pass" as straight and I enjoyed not having anyone fuck with me, but now it seems more obvious to people and I feel more wary/cautious in public as a result.

When did you get molested?

Hasn't happened yet, I'll keep you up to date if it ever does.

I was watching JF and he said there's some studies backing up the idea of a "loves cock gene."
So say a girl has this gene and it's active: she'll be predisposed to being a slut.
If she doesn't have this gene she might be a cold fish.
It's not just loving the cock, though. Girls with this gene active have prettier faces and the girls without it have uglier faces, as a trend.
Guys can also carry this gene and if it's active they'll possibly be prettier and love cock too.
It supports the idea that there really is a "gayface" that people can perceive in others.

That's quite the story. I definitely have more of a "pretty boy" face, so maybe people are picking up on that. But I'm very skeptical about whether or not shit like that has anything to do with people's actual sexuality.

Based on my appearance I often don't get taken all that seriously or even ignored.
Even if it is about topics I have a lot of experience in, I get ignored and shit gets fucked up big time.
That often generates a lot of lost revenue at work when for example we run out of operational vehicles because nobody ordered the spare parts I suggested to order to prevent this months ago.

yeah, my face leaves a bad first impression
>you look like an asshole
>if i saw your face without knowing anything about you my first thought would be 'douchebag'
>i thought you were going to be a dickhead when you first came in

thats a good thing

it means people think you are the type of person who has sex and gets women. thats why youre here. now you have have to be a grimy annoyin guy, but yeah. dont listen to those people they are butthurt and they saying it is more about their own insecurity

Cool larping, here let me join in.

"and I was a wizard and also handsome and cool and when I cast a spell everyone clapped and women loved it"

I get the exact same thing. It's at least getting a bit better as I get bigger, but it still is really frustrating.

>douche
>fuckboy

never.

the only time i've ever been stereotyped based on my looks was when i was doing an acting workshop and did a bit from hedwig and the angry inch, after class somebody said "i never would've thought a guy like you would be into musical theater"

Yes, people are shallow and will subconsciously make assumptions about your personality and behaviour based on how you look. I remember being told I "looked trustworthy" by different people throughout my youth without knowing anything about me. I would be told secrets that I have no business in knowing.

That's because caring more about your looks, spending a lot of time on fashion, hair, accessories etc is a feminine trait. Women spend obscene amounts of time trying to look good with clothes, make-up and constantly try to one-up their female peers in looking the most beautiful.

At a certain point, this feminine trait can be seen in men who attend to their looks just as much as a woman.

>be me (who else would I be?)
>walking down the street during summer
>some old lady walking in the opposite direction
>she passes me and mutters under her nose:
>"manwhore"

iktf

I have a really sociable friend who literally just talks to total strangers as long as they look somewhat friendly. He makes friends very easily because he approaches so many people unsolicited. I asked him if he'd approach me assuming we were total strangers in public and he said no because my face is scary.

That old lady got got cheated on in her youth by a guy who looks like you and that's her way of coping lmao

After I got shredded my mom showed a shirtless photo of me to her female co workers and they asked her if I was gay. Lmao

yes all goodlooking people are gay

People make the assumption that I've been with lots of women based on my looks, but I've only been with one (1 and only gf) and that ended 2 years ago.

Shy girls won't look me in the eyes and I'm too much of a pussy to talk to really pretty chicks even when they smile at me and even check me out.

At least post your body if you make threads like these

>I'm a pretty boy,
You do sound like a "fuckboy", and like a massive faggot.

>manlet
no

Never been stereotyped as any of those but i'm definitely a fuck boy. Making a girl think you're serious about her and then opt out when you've had sex is usually my go to technique

Post body

>not being somebody else when you get tired of being yourself

some vandalized a sign with graffiti at my work with the words "user is Gay". I assume its because im a pretty boy and not because i love cock in my asshole

I was called a fuckboy in high school because everyone thought I was having lots of sex. Jokes on them I only had sex with like 1-2 people in high school. Always had bitches but could never close. Now I'm alone. Lmao.

lmao ebin!

At my level that's not doing anything.

Link to study?

Just buy his book goy

How do you define a fuckboy?

This is my biggest problem. i look like a child so nobody takes me seriously

Yeah. The girl I’m dating wanted nothing to do with me initially because of this reason, but she realized it’s more than it meets the eye which is good because I really wanted to fuck her lmao.

“I’d rather be the one getting hated on than the one doing the hating” bro just keep doing what you do and it’ll be fine the guys calling you a fag are probably insecure straight guys so they can’t even give a genuine mire anyway

There’s an art to looking good without trying to. groomed facial hair that doesn’t look like you cut a design in it every day. Eyebrows that aren’t ridiculously hairy but you can’t tell they are plucked. Clothes that fit but don’t seem tryhard. I’m still working on all this

Wrong, all good-looking people like dick. That's why lesbians are uggos, and why models and bodybuilders have such a high rate of homosex. Thankfully I'm ugly

Baste

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You're probably still acting like a faggot somehow. Be conscious of your way of speaking and body language, record yourself if you have to

I've been told i look like a massive stoner and am pretty chill despite the fact ive never smoked weed and want to kill everyone so i can have some peace

My "friends" and family members used to make fun of me for being fat

Told myself fuck it and got Jow Forums, now all my friends and family members hate me saying I took things too far

You know, I work a wagecuck job and I said something that disagreed politically with one of my fellow employees. He then went off about “trump being a tyrant” for a short while, then before leaving the table he called me a “pretty boy.”

Just thought this’d fit in.