What's wrong with lifting for HER? Do you not feel your test surging when you imagine HER amazed at your gains? Do you not want to lift PRs like a sick cunt to see HER beautiful smile? There is literally nothing wrong with it and in fact it's one of the most potent drives we bodybuilders have. Naysayers have either never experienced love or are too cynical to be taken seriously
What's wrong with lifting for HER? Do you not feel your test surging when you imagine HER amazed at your gains...
I miss her sometimes
Nothing wrong with it B. I don't lift for her but its not bad that you do. Most of this board lifts to get laid even if they won't admit it even though there's nothing wrong with it
The problem of lifting for a woman is the same of doing anything for a woman: if she leaves you, none of the things you thought you enjoyed will have any appeal anymore, and your life will crumble before your eyes. It's nice to impress your girl with your skills and prowess, but if she's the sole reason behind those, you're a sucker my man.
Motivation is a crutch, you need discipline.
Relying on 3rd parties for motivation, makes you weak and dependent on those and when they fail to you, you'll have a hard time. If you can't focus on yourself, at least use somebody more reliable like your children, pets, parents.
>being this beta
post your body right fucking now faggot
Lifting for (((her))) is babbies first goal. There’s nothing wrong with it but you’ll grow out of it. I lift solely to make other men feel bad about themselves now. Nothing quite beats the feeling of causing another man to be visibly shaken by my enormous traps and bulging arms in casual social settings
This is true.
If you have a girl or want one (or many), having that motivation in mind isn't necessarily a bad thing. It's more motivation to help you achieve your end goal ... however, your end goal, alongside motivations, should not ONLY be girls. I lift for all the benefits, I lift to become stronger and faster in sport, the social mires, the physical and mental gains. It's part of the package bro, just don't let girls be your whole crutch on why you lift.
Remember, women are temporary, victory is forever
I guarantee I'm bigger than you, lunkhead
>I LIFT FOR SOME THOT WHO DOESN'T EVEN KNOW I EXIST!!!
I guarantee you’re some fatty who lifts his body weight and brags about it
>I analyze the reason other people lift
>I want to know why you lift
>Why you lift is of great interest to me
>I discuss why you lift
>I lift for her
It's nice but I'm not lifting mainly for that
>I lift for_________________
n o b o d y c a r e s
I lift for myself, first and foremost, but I share my results with HER because SHE enjoys seeing my progress and gives me validation for trying to achieve my own goals.
The correct perspective
Same, my current gf is the first one to ever encourage my gym habits and make me feel good about my lifts, especially when I hit PRs. I do this shit just cause it's fun but it does help to have that support
She may be dead in the manga. I miss her desu still lifting for her
When I started swimming I used to imagine girls cheering for me, one of them popped up more often than the others. I've moved since then and now I'm starting to lift instead. We'll see how things go from here. Thoughts of girls will always be inferior to thoughts of your future son, though.
Its a valid motivation, discipline is the only way though. Even lifting for yourself, whatever that means isnt a consistent thing, the drive is soetimes there and sometimes not.
Because once you lose HER, you lose your reason to lift, retard.
Not going to make it in any timeline, user.
>lifting for thots
Starting lifting to get a gf is fine but you should quickly grow out of it and find a better motivation than a hole.
Because HER is actually HIM and HIM is actually ME and not like HER, HIM wich is In reality ME will ALWAYS be by my side no matter WHAT.
you my man
are
BASED
i met my ex-gf yesterday at a mutual friends party
i woke up with a text from her telling me goodbye
apparently me and a buddy were drunk, he wanted to apologize for something i didn't accept her hand and we talked shit about her
texted her a long text that im sorry that i wouldnt react that way sober and that i shouldnt have let me go and that i have nothing against her, not anymore
was i really that much of a retard?
I don't know a single woman's name except my mom and my grandma, i don't know a single woman
we all do it user, you'll feel better once the hangover is over, just part of being human etc
i apologized to her user, ive been too hung up on this shit for the last 6 months it's time to let her go and not bear a grudge against what happened, i should react likea grown up with 28 by now
Because when you lift for for yourself she's even more attracted
I lift but I have accepted that I'll never have sex. Thinking of going into a hospital with a gun and blowing my dick clean off so I'll never have to worry about nofap or having sex.
i'm being completely honest with you when i'm saying "everyone else is just as stupid"
not a big deal
i guess so user, still, shocked me that i was able to be so mean to her may it be on purpose drunk or not
I feel you, maybe one day we will get over it
b-brehs...! stop!!!!
i wonder if she still visits this board
nigger youll have to wear a diaper all the time, the muscles to control you pee are in your dick. Just say youre a pedophile and want to be castrated to make sure you don't rape children, theyll give you proper surgery
In the process of getting her back, but don’t want to end up being a cuck/orbiter. How to fix
this guy here i apologized to her and she thanked me for the apology all is good now again
This man. You don't have any idea how hard it will be to piss after this.
Best idea would be get them to take your balls out and get a scrip for test.
i wish my mom as supportive as yours bro
Spoiler alert: SHE doesn't care how much you lift. No woman does.
Women like guys who are strong, yes, but they divide men into 2 categories: strong and not strong. All the autistic number crunching we do beyond that means nothing to them. No girl is gonna dislike you when you bench 245 but then start to like you if you hit 275 or something.
Find a better motive OP or you're not gonna last long with lifting, and that goes for 90% of you.
No because I'm not a pathetic beta male sissy faggot with oneitis.
>getting her back
Lmao
Move on to other women and, ironically, she'll come back to you. Chasing her again after she already dropped you is sad, unattractive shit. Even if she accepted you back, she'd have the higher position in the power dynamic.
Why you lie nigger?
Once I went to a party and got drunk and ran around slapping all the women's asses and making sexual comments. 2 betacucks got in my face about it and we almost fought but it ended without a fight.
When I woke up the next day and remembered this, I thought I was such a retard and my social life was over, but actually most of those chicks added me on social media. I apologized and they said I was fun and we should hang out again. I fucked 3 women and wouldn't have met them if I hadn't done that.
I guess the point is just that, sometimes these things work out. Drunk you will do stupid shit but sometimes it's for the better.
NO NO NO NO bruh don´t do it ;__; I still miss her so fucking much
pussy