Is being an alpha a look or a state of mind?

100% state of mind.
But you first have to like yourself, so look is also 100%.
Lift for yourself and be happy.

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He's an emotional soïboy that talks fast and in large volume in his feminine teenager voice to "win" debates.

It’s both. You gotta look like an 8/10 and have the status of a 10/10. You need both to be an alpha

Having a gf doesnt make you alpha. This guy has money saved up from coercing 7 year olds that are really into political shitflinging and autistic rambling but literally at any point some 6'2 specimen could emasculate this fat midget by walking up to him. He could stand over him and just chat up his bitch while he blushes like the dwarf he is knowing that if he says anything this guy could murder him by stepping on him. Sad!

>t. is cheated on

obviously both

STATE OF MIND. OUTER REFLECTS INNER.

Not if you are a child molester like the "person" in your pic.

State of mind 90%, I used to post on /soc/ and almost always was in the top 5-10% based on ratings in threads with over 50 male posters, yet i'm virgin at 22, Never tried tho but i guess you can count it in the alpha mindset that i lack.

If this was true I'd be one
But my IQ is too high to be normal socially. I can't understand why people care so much about mediocrity like sports, gossip, or shitty movies and action Heroes

Yeah, fat fucking chance. Post face + IQ

>But my IQ is too high to be normal socially
Lol no it's not.

>I can't understand why people care so much about mediocrity like sports, gossip, or shitty movies and action Heroes
If you're IQ is was so high you would understand this

Both.
And I think a big problem with most fitizens is you guys don't line up right; there's a big disconnect between your outer appearances and your inner core, one way or the other.
Some of you are beta personalities trapped in an alpha body.
Some of you are would-be alpha personalities trapped in a beta body.
Either way, you guys have to line yourselves up somehow. For some of you, yeah the answer is just lift more. For some of you, it's getting out of your own way and learning to talk to people.

Shes poly, shes fucking literally anyone

Top notch bait

post face

100% state of mind. There are ugly short dudes that can talk their way into pussy. There are also very handsome men with low as fuck self esteem. Women will still fuck the handsome guy who has no self esteem but what's the point of being good looking if you don't feel good about yourself.

You sound like an angry teenager but it's true, 130IQ+ folks are almost natural loners, unless they found a similar minded group from early age which is statistically unlikely they'll always feel out of place with normal people and will have problem appealing to the average women being himself, But assertive high IQ people who have passion for picking up women have the potential to be unstoppable (assuming they look good of course).

Seems like bait, but there is no
>muh too smart to be social
Its a combination of autism and fear, I’ve met countless guys who are both smart and charismatic AND good looking. You might be high IQ and you might be good looking, but being an autist pretty much cancels that out.

dont care, all i know is that i dont want to look like shit like that guy. how are you not digusted by yourself

Cope

a good state of mind attains a good physique, and attainment of a good physique is strengthening to the mind

>smart
>charismatic
>good looking

I would be described as all three, but doesn't change the fact that I would say i still don't feel like i fit in,prefer to be alone, and have "extreme difficulty making personal connections," as my psychologist put it.

Studies show that in general people have a tough time relating and communicating with others when there is a 20+ point IQ difference. Doesn't mean you walk around like rain man, just means that its possible to become very good at hiding your power level.

Destiny is not a good example of what it takes to be alpha. Not because he ir or isn't but because his top 0.01% humor and charisma carries him super fucking hard.

we all gonna make it

you become alpha once you dismiss the alpha beta paradigm altogether

honestly

>you become wealthy once you ignore money altogether
you sound dumb

there's no formula: a good physique is easy mode, character / mindset can get you very far in the dating game but requires more effort (unless you have a ery strong ego naturally) another good asset to have, i guess, is knowing the type of partner you want and can attract.
one size fits all alpha male is either a mith or very, very rare

based

if you subscribe to the idea that you're a beta then you're a deafeatest loser, if you subscribe to the idea that you're an alpha then you're an overconfident loser, and if you subscribe to the idea that you can "become" an alpha then you will literally never make it.

I think the right way is this:
Acknowledge the disparity but don't let it stop you in life.
Be poor but don't let that stop you from demanding respect and talking to people better off than you or improving financially.

Know that some men are objectively better than you both physically and mentally, but don't let it hinder progress with working on yourself. Ask them for advice. Strive to be like them but in your own way.

both, nerd

>5/10 manlet hooks up with young mentally ill swedish pusy
>also he's internet famous
wow wtf im in shock holy h*ck

ma nigga

Form follows function. It's a look, but the look is 456% easier to achieve and maintain if you have the state of mind.

in an unironic way, i ask
who gives a fuck

nice cope :)

Not that guy but yeah I can attest to that. I'm good looking and have a 14X IQ but I also have asperger's and anxiety disorder. Been a loner my whole life.

>implying wealth is the same as money
You sound dumb

>anti leftist bootlickers who defends imperialism and a lack of socialist policies when arguing for capitalism
>Throws out youdontknowwhatitslikeisms about how hard his jobs (before getting a twitch non-job) were when arguing morals

This dude is centrist trash.

Luke Rockhold is a good example, used to be a chad with words also, but the last couple of years, holy shit. Good for him that he's a handsome fucker

Somewhere around those numbers, I literally watched videos on socialization techniques and talked to people I already knew like family and it gets better. Literally practice makes perfect, if you’re in the 140s and you get over your autism you can be really funny, lets you make those witty comebacks, and make sure you always prioritise others’ conversational needs over yours. Realize that no one give a shit about you stuttering or being awkward at first, you are the only one. A good way to start talking to strangers is phone calls to businesses or shit like that. Get over yourself first it gets very easy to isolate yourself in with feelings of superiority. You can do it anons :)

lmao at the nerds here think that alpha-ness has anything related to women.

It's always a man's world. Alpha-ness is about dominance and power. Alpha-ness is about how you deal with other men. Women is just a part of the game.

I dont know who that soiboi and that bitch are but I can bet my house that he has some sort of popularity, money and social status. And yes, the bitch is dreaming about other guys when taking a shower.

none
alphas, betas and all the other dumb greek-alphabet-based memes are shit that Jow Forums invented
lift for yourself and improve for your own good, don't reply if you agree
anyone that refutes this is undeniably coping and will be dismissed

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This. He's good at talking in circles and deliberately ignoring small but significant details, as well as describing processes in detail when it suits him, and then somehow refuting the existence of a functioning example of that process. No better at debating than a jew.

I wouldn't say I'm high IQ, but I understand non-formulaic things very well (eg. most of life outside of STEM). I can be extremely social when I want to, but I hate every second if it comes to talking about meaningless surface babble. I need significant, thought provoking topics, because all the small talk has already been figured out long ago and it doesn't need to be discussed a million fucking times. Some of us just don't care to pretend about bullshittery.

it's a state of wallet

she:
>love and living with the guy on the pic
>rubbing clit on alpha 8-pack chads who spits in their mouths

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If you have to ask, if you think you are, if you want to be...
You are not nor will you ever be an alpha.

holy fuck. imagine being that guy

> 140 confirmed IQ
> 35 SAT Score
> Millionaire
> Owns multiple homes
> Has legions of fans/followers
> Has living proof of having had sex (his son)
> Dating a hot 10/10 swede
> Is an amazing league player

Is there anything this guy doesn't have? Anyone that has the balls to attack this guy is just trying to compensate for something IMO.

>having a psychologist
Are you a fucking woman or gay?
Oh wait I'm on Jow Forums again..

They're literally in an open relationship though, personality wise she likes him but she also likes getting abused by tyrone

The SAT is scored out of 1600. If you're going to troll please actually try.

has all that but still cant stop "his" girl from getting plowed by other dudes

Spot on
Also this

What if i'm a 90IQ pleb that is still an autistic asocial frog?

Who cares honestly, you guys crave for social status and approval too much. One day I realized that it doesn't really matter and I stopped caring. Sure it's a worthwhile skill to develop but what's the purpose? What's the end game? Fuck more bitches? Social status? More "friends"? Do you realize that most people under the same conditions autists in this board find themselves in would act autistic too? It's not a big deal, as long as you are being respectful and thoughtful of your speech and actions you will be fine, you have no one to impress. And again I understand it's in our very nature, we try to pretend and impress people unconciously all the time, but it's pointless. Act rationally, with morality, and be aware, that's all.

The alpha state of mind is the result of a positive feedback loop of being treated better due to looks for years.

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Alpha/ beta is false, there is only being true to yourself

That's the most disgusting body I've ever seen

The group chooses the leader. How can you be chosen?

is his name jake

Destiny and that swedish girl are in a polynumerous relationship aka she is fucking other dudes...its no secret. So yes, he is a good example of an alphamale

Both

Why is it that when I go on Reddit, the way they type and phrase words makes me angry but when I come on here they way you guys type makes me cringe?

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harder cope faggot

Sauce nigga

most of it is a meme but there are a few guys in existence who naturally stand out heavy fat emphasis on naturally

If you understand how women work, then you know it's 100% state of mind. Women don't know how good anything is, they rely completely on the environment and social consensus. They're not even evaluating your looks, but how other people react to you and more importantly, how you react to yourself. Evolution is lazy and always takes shortcuts. Women's selection is no exception.

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