What is Jow Forumss opinion on optimum sexual health?
Is it finding a gf as the ultimate goal? Working on yourself and only seeing high class escorts ocassionally until you are finally shredded, to avoid getting involved in any difficult and expensive commitments otherwise?
How do you approach it? It's quite clear that quitting porn completely is always the first step - but what from there?
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>is finding a gf the ultimate goal?
No. Having the mentality that you need a girl in your life for satisfaction proves that you are not ready for a girlfriend. You should only have a girlfriend when you value yourself the highest out of anyone, you really do need to love yourself and be happy alone before you can sustain a committed relationship.
>Working on yourself and only seeing high class escorts ocassionally until you are finally shredded, to avoid getting involved in any difficult and expensive commitments otherwise?
This is also a stupid mindset, never pay for sex. If you aren't ready for a relationship, use tinder and bumble to get your sexual satisfaction, or just wank.
>It's quite clear that quitting porn completely is always the first step - but what from there?
This is also irrational, masturbating to porn is natural due to vicarious experience, do not watch it every day, my rule is only to watch porn every time i go to the gym, aka 4 times a week. Also when watching porn, watch from the beginning, learn that the climax is not instant, or else you'll transfer that into real life.
Learn to enjoy being solo and having normal friends and family before getting a partner. If you don't love yourself, you won't be able to love your partner and it will fall apart.
>Is it finding a gf as the ultimate goal?
No, having a meaningful live with a family is.
>It's quite clear that quitting porn completely is always the first step - but what from there?
Find a good GF.
Said GF turns into wife.
Said wife turns into mother.
The end.
>implying anyone is worth marrying
lol
>Is it finding a gf as the ultimate goal?
Something so mundane and common cannot be an ultimate goal.
You're retarded and blackpilled.
You honestly think _ALL_ women are cunts, witches and parasites?
Go back to Jow Forums or wherever people like you come from.
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Fucking Verlander
How can I make my wee wee erect enough to touch my belly with it?
> Is it finding a gf as the ultimate goal?
Imagine having your bar be this low.
The real redpill of sexual health is finding a woman you think is attractive and that you want to demolish while she also cares for you and makes you feel awesome.
You need both.
If only one is present you will have sexual problems. That means even if it's just a fuckbuddy she better be good company as well.
Please link me her nudes.
>It's quite clear that quitting porn completely is always the first step - but what from there?
[spoiler]I'm the guy that posted about suffering from severe AGP in cycles after quitting a 16 year long porn addiction and I got banned before I could respond to anyone. I still don't know what to do.[/spoiler]
Upton posters want to lead us astray to the path of the wicked, we shall remain strong brothers
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>sexual health
unless you've got an STD or are unable to carry out the deed when the time arises, your ""(((sexual health)))"" is perfectly fine
nobody ever died from not having sex, coomer
>this is also irrational, masturbating to porn is natural due to vicarious experience
>No. Having the mentality that you need a girl in your life for satisfaction proves that you are not ready for a girlfriend. You should only have a girlfriend when you value yourself the highest out of anyone, you really do need to love yourself and be happy alone before you can sustain a committed relationship.
If I value myself above anyone and I'm content with my own company, not to mention if I actually love myself, then what use could I make of a girlfriend? Other than sex.
I never understood the concept of relationships.
>tfw 23 yo KV
h-haha I'm d-dabing on you, cumbrains
>I never understood the concept of relationships.
How does one learn to value oneself? Do you guys have any recommendations on what to read to learn this?
I dislike myself for not being able to hold onto a committed relationship. I always feel anxious, whereas the other person is usually committed to me and I feel like I cannot reciprocate. It's not like I go out and fuck other bitches, it's just anxiousness.
Please bros, help me ;_;
Become someone to value and someone to be proud of, it'll be easier.
If you're a loser, why would you even value yourself?
Be a better man. Do something. Be someone that can be respected.
If people around you actually value and respect you, you will value and respect yourself.
how do I stop cooming in 10 pumps bros?
I undermine most of my achievments. People around me tell me I am smart, but I do not believe it.
I honestly wouldn't call myself a loser. I'm fit enough and I guess I am intelligent.
Thus, people around me do value and respect me. It's just that I don't value myself.
>never pay for sex
You're going to pay for it in one way or another, be that invested resources or time, usually both.
The idea of paying a high-class asian escort £300 to bounce on my dick for a couple of hours now and then and then feeling satiated for a time is fine. It's way better than blowing my load at my desktop.
go to Asian massage parlors and fuck them. I no longer fap to porn. I got the gym and eat right and when I want a test boost I go get a massage. I got lucky at my place they're young big titted girls or a couple milfs, I've fucked them all. It's pathetic to look at but there's something about that place.. it awakens some kind of primal Fung Shway energy within me that I never knew existed. It's probably the music they play.
No health discussion allowed, this is a fitness only board. If we can't have /sig/, we definitely can't have this.
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Cringe.
Check out the poor virgin over here
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>you're a loser?
>NEVER IMPROVE, just give your earnings to some asian lady so that she could let you fuck her
Jesus mate.
After having conventionally "made it," I'm ironically longer convined that that anything I achieved was worth achieving except when viewed through the despair colored glasses of the person I was back then. The journey, of course, was one that certainly led to immense character development, but I now find myself feeling empty and disgusting that I put so much emphasis on such a trivial thing. I've deduced that we are oversexualized and oversexualizing as a society to a degree never before seen in human history and that drives us to very irrational behavior. Every day, on every platform, males are inundated by scantily clad girls and sexualized content which, in a vaccum, would be meangingless; however, day by day, every single item that your brain can subconsciously sexualize, it does in a manner not dissimilar to breathing. To look at content that is sexually provocative is to be sexually provoked; it's an autonomous process necessary for biological reproduction however we, as a society, are no longer reproducing. Sex, then, becomes an act of pleasure and status and one that, everywhere we turn, we are prompted to dedicate our lives to achieving. This action, sex and all activities tertiary, is tantamount to fellation of the ego and the more we engage in it on such an unprecedented scale, the more we compound the problems inherent in modern sociey. That is, if the utlimate goal is to fuck and be fucked and such a goal is readily accessible to virtually everyone then we are validated, and we believe we are dignified, by simply living.
The grounds we walk on at this moment are hallow, we know not where this path will lead but it is obvious that goals of those who exist now breed egoism and base behavior just as it is obvious that males are prompted to oversexualize to an inane degree. The best bet is to reject this subversive attempt at controlling or progamming males and subsequently reject sexuality: unironically have sex and after become a volcel.
By having sex to the extent were told to have sex, we propogate female and male egoism and cement this mental illness that is slowly creeping into society. While we have always sexualized, we have never sexualized to such degree so as to have it readily available at every time in any place. Our purpose is more than this and insofar as we chase what is animalistic we become the animalistic. To be human, to posess a heightened sense of consciousness, to be sapient, is to posess the faculties to discern the correct options in becoming dignified. Any other action is a willful reduction of a human to a base animal. The more we validate undignified behavior, the more it becomes not only acceptable but also taught. Do not seek a gf do not have sex, all delete all social media that would seek to have you objectify and be objectified and in doing that you will achieve the capacity to both have a gf and have sex. At that moment, whether you will want to becomes a more interesting question
>finally get a gf
>still feel dead inside
What now?
The point isn't that paying for sex in any form is inherently bad. It's that explicitly exchanging money for a single act of sex is psychologically and sexually damaging. If your goal is merely to put benis in vagina then you're going to be miserable no matter how you achieve that.
>implying anyone would marry you
Tldr do not seek sex, do not seek a gf, we are all mentally ill. The only way to win this game is not to play it
Having a gf you can fuck everyday, talk to her about everything and share your goals and accomplishments is the ultimate win. Being a man-whore is degenerate and pathetic. I would rather have less than 10 sexual partners the rest of my life if it means that the sex was meaningful and inside a commited relationship.
That's because being "smart" ain't shit and people deisgnate you as "smart" to save their egos (I dont have to be able to do what he does because he's smaaaaart). Do something with your intelligence. Also do something if you're dumb.
>never pay for sex
>fucked over 10 paid whores
>never got anywhere close to a relationship or even fucking a girl for free
feels bad
>If your goal is merely to put benis in vagina then you're going to be miserable no matter how you achieve that
Ofc not, the goal is to have sex so I can become a cool and well adjusted guy
Getting fit (was obese) + 1200mg Ash a day gives me diamonds and reduces my refractory period to about 10 minutes.
Find a person you love and have as much sex with them as possible, it's healing
Not sure if being sarcastic
I am not bro, do you know how much people would judge you if they knew you are a virgin or an incel? I just want to not feel bitter when I'm in a normie circle and they start talking about sex
And how much would people judge you if they knew that the only way for you to lose your virginity was to pay a hooker?
OH MY GODDD IM COOOOOMING
the same but I can't change it
I actually look ok and dress very well so I can hide it somewhat, but sometimes I think my silent ways give it away
Does being high test cause fat women to gravitate towards you?
I always get hit on by fat pigs. It’s so uncomfortable. Even if I was desperate for sex I wouldn’t be able to get hard with the type of women who hit on me
>I always get hit on by fat pigs. It’s so uncomfortable.
Every mildly attractive muscular man gets hit on by fat fucks.
They're disgusting. They're the female equivalent of indian dudes on female instagram.
Friendly remind to never take these meds as they could leave you impotent:
- Isotretinoin (accutane)
- Finasteride
- Saw palmetto
- SSRI
I took accutane and paroxine a few years ago and fuck'd up. Now I have no libido, no sensitivity and orgasms feels like shit. I have to take viagra to perform and even then sex is worthless.
Someone that convetionally "made it" as you say doenst write a text that long on Jow Forums.
I guess it’s cause I’ve only had a respectable body fat percentage for less than a year. I’m new to being noticed for my appearance. I went to chipotle last night and this fatty in leggings who looked like humpty dumpy was like hanging around me while I was eating like a dog looking for a treat. Made me sick
ive gone soft every time a few minutes after putting p in v
what do
You're never gonna make it.
But What is it that makes fatties think that a man who visibly takes care of his body would have any interest in them?
Delusion and entitlement
The same reason disgusting indian guys talk to random white women on Instagram or Facebook.
Desperation.
How do you get over lusting after other women? Only ever been with one girl and she's only ever been with me right out of highschool. Is this just part of the male experience? I'm guessing the feeling never really goes away
Dude same but I'm disgusting cumbrain that cant into nofap
Based and coompilled
Based trips. Just stick with your girlfriend and do not cheat. Not worth it
Sexual attraction never leaves user, it's a part of being a normal male. if you think you'd be happier chasing tail and not settling down, then break up and go full throttle. better advice is to realize that a relationship/love is about choices, not just feelings. we choose to stay committed to our girls because we love them, so note the temptation and just let it pass. masturbating to it isn't cheating either
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>muh porn is fine
You're like the perfect kike sneaking that in admist the decent advice. Kill yourself, giant faggot jew.
thats not the meds thats you buddy, unironically speak to a counsellor
At what point do you consider a woman a 'slut'?
Girl I'm currently seeing is 28, amazing in lots of ways, above average looking (best I have ever had), but, she had fucked 8 men, plus 5 more that only fingered her or she made out with, and god knows how many more that nothing happened with because they got interrupted or whatever. Now that wouldn't be a huge deal, but she only had one extremely long relationship (about 6 years), and the rest were hookups. I don't mind friends with benefits, or guys she wanted to date, but she fucked pretty much all of them as soon after meeting, and a few of them she just spoke to that night at a party or bar.
Am I over reacting?
This bothers me a lot but if this is normal for women of her age then I can try to accept it. I don't have a lot of experience and if I leave then I don't know if I can get someone as attractive and caring as her again, and if I can then it might be years.
Already did brah, it is not in my mind. Chems can fuck you up. Look for post finasteride syndrome, post ssri syndrome, etcétera.
>meet girl
>pretty great personality and we are really similar in a lot of ways
>hear more and more about her family and slowly coming to realization they're probably hyper religious
>I'm not at all, have had pretty kinky sex before, etc.
Feel like a piece of shit, but depending on her answer as to whether or not she's willing to be physical I would probably break up with her. It's such an important part of a relationship, but I'm sure she would take it the wrong way. Wish me luck I guess.
8 is bad enough without mentioning the fact that the real number is probably 50% higher.
>meet a great girl who hasn’t ridden the cock carousel
>you want to dump her for this
Fuck you faggot
Go suck a dick
Fucking girls is for pussies.
Have you actually had sex? Physical intimacy is important to a healthy relationship.
It doesn't go away, but as other anons said, it's not worth it. What you have is more valuable than satisfying any lust you might have. Also sluts will always be there, but what you have is literally irreplaceable.
I never took any of those meds and I have the same problem. Where the hell is my libido? I want a sex drive so bad.
>find a gf
>she refuses to do mouth fucks, anal crampies etc like in porn
It sucks
If stop watching porn and you would be more satisfied with normal sex in missionary position for the purpose of procreation than doing the most degenerate disgusting taboo shit you've ever watched in porn.
there is a fantastic middleground both of you are missing out on. also missionary position is boring as fuck
I cannot fucking cum. It takes hours. Like 2 hours of penetration with water breaks in between so i can catch my breath. What the fuck is my problem?
Good thing is she likes it so i guess there’s that upside. But fuck me am I starting to see sex as a chore. And i cant just stop halfway and pull my pants up because i get this dull pain in my balls and inside my groin area.
>missionary position
I like kinky shit but vanilla is good too nigga
What supplements will make me horny all the time? I just like the feeling
circumcised?
>I never took any of those meds and I have the same problem. Where the hell is my libido? I want a sex drive so bad.
How old are you? you never took any drugs?
29. None of those drugs listed and no major medical problems in my history.
Missionary is amazing if you actually care about the girl and can look her in the eyes without it being awkward
Just got a viagra prescription literally 5 minutes ago. Feels good
>fucking a girl for free
no such thing
Cringe, but redpilled
fuck off. not fitness related.
>At what point do you consider a woman a 'slut'?
>the rest were hookups
That's it.
If she had eight 1 year long relationship and thus had sex with 8 people, she wouldn't be a slut in my book.
If she had sex on the first date with 7 people, she would be a slut in my book.
You're brainwashed by porn you retard.
Those practices are not even that enjoyable per se, you just want to do them because you escalated your porn watching material in order to remain as excited.
Stop watching porn and learn to appreciate what you have.
Same brah, tried no fap? I noticed a huge increase in erection function and sex drive just a few days ago on a 40 day streak, I failed then cos I'm a fucking retard but give that a try
>What supplements will make me horny all the time?
It doesn't exist.
There is a scientifically proven libido increase with most subjects when taking Maca (see the data on Examine) though. You can try that.