Sexual Health General

I was in the gym I sent her a gym selfie where she could see my muscles asking her to send more motivation

you're supposed to up the bant, not ask for more.
>Donlt know why you're bothering with a shower when you're just going to get dirty again.

I'd been doing that successfully in text the entire time, I don't know why she'd fucking ghost me after just that. I didn't even ask her for her number, she gave it to me. We met like months ago and out of the blue she just asked my friend to give me her number

You fucked up by not only asking for more but for confirming the date was still on, showing neediness and insecurity.

Show up to the date of you already organized a time/place to meet. But otherwise never contact her again until she contacts you first

I hadn't organized a time/place, only today as the day. That's why I was hitting her up

This sucks op, but youll find a lot of girls do this. There can be many reasons, they get anxiety, make other plans etc. dont take it personally, get on the dating apps and just find someone to fuck so you always have plan b’s. Just the other day I got ghosted, ended up getting a different girl entirely over. If ive learned anything from being an over sensitive chad its that you have to have armour when being involved with girls. They are just humans who want self gain so your feelings are not a priority. everyone these days is lonely and sad and unfortunately buffers the ego of these hoes to delusional levels. Just focus on you, love yourself and the gains. When you stop chasing them, they will come to you.

I wasn't even chasing them though. She literally remembered me from months ago and out of the blue caused this whole thing to happen and then she ghosts me? Why would someone do this? Why would she send all of these obvious signals that she's down to do something and then just ghost? Why are women? I can't even use dating apps I have no pictures of myself and it only makes me more depressed when I get nothing but fatties.

>when you stop chasing them, they will come to you
okay, i stopped chasing them years ago and havnt gotten laid since, what now?

>confirming the date was still on, showing neediness and insecurity.
get fucking real dude. i'm not gonna leave my house and wait around for some chick who'll never arrive because i didn't confirm the date.

i've confirmed dates many times and it's almost never resulted in a flake.

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Literally wtf is wrong with women, what's with this weird brain games? I'm amaze on how much work a man has to do just to get some used pussy

Cuz u have no personality. A guy with a decent personality that chases is beta, a guy with a decent personality and doesnt chase is alpha, lastly, a guy that has no personality and does not chase is just a shell of a man.

Fatties feel good on your penis too user. Gotta start somewhere and aint nothing wrong with low hanging fruit unless you wanna do more than cum.

There could be bunch of reasons, i can guarantee it would be something retarded only a girl could conjure. Maybe her ex came back into the picture, she found someone etc idk. Girls are usually the most self absorbed and selfish cunts they give no shits about being polite. Fuck her at least she did it earlier than later.
dont avoid them either, use the dating apps with low effort, you still need to have them in your life just as a low priority. If you want sex anyways

I refuse to fuck a fat girl. I don't run miles and lift hundreds of pounds every week to fuck a human sack of lard. How the fuck do you deal with this? It's so fucking demoralizing, I refuse to believe it was always like this.

Dude, been there, asking for more is a rookie mistake. She sends that shit because she wants to, not because you want it. That makes you look super beta. Let her know you like that, but don't ask for more.

Listen up Betatrons, thats like rule 1 of snapchatting. If she sends you something tasty, dont instantly ask for more cause you look like a nut-starved autist (This is assuming its the first time she sends something, totally different if she does this every week). Your best shot is to be cheeky with your response, and show that you're glad she sent it, but asking for more like a coom orphan isnt gonna help. Likelyhood is, if you dont get overexcited but still show you like it, she will wanna send more to get a bigger reaction

Sure there is a limit to how disgusting a girl can be before it kills your boner, but who cares if you arent gonna date them. Still feels good, gives you an extra workout and you dont care about them when they do woman things. Im what you call a not fussy sexual and its a good way of life imo. I refuse to date less than a 7 but 2 is my minimum for hitting and splitting.

Never, ever, ever send a "just making sure we're still on today" text. Set up a date, specify time and place. Keep the first date casual. Go to the place. Her perception of inertia will keep her from self talking her way out of it. If she can envision you sitting there at a chess table in the park, waiting for her, it's much harder to stand you up than if she imagines you're just hanging around your house or whatever. She'll be able to self talk herself into thinking she's doing you a favor based on what she wants to do. "I would rather sit in my pajamas alone and not go out, so he's probably feeling the same!"

I don't understand how that makes me look beta but I guess I will avoid it from now on. It's not like I said "please ma'am I'd like a nude" I think sent her "I could use some more gym motivation..." with a pic of me in the gym

Like I said, that was to arrange the time and place since I'd only arranged the date.

okay I apologize user, Another reply you made said you asked for more so I assumed it was autistically executed. Asking for more gym motivation is a good one.

Married fag here (5 years)
I have been struggling for a couple years to get my wife to initiate sex. Any tips? Being the one to have to start it every time is starting to make me look like a needy rapist.

That's what I mean, it all seemed so smooth and it was all going so well. I've sperged out in front of girls before and this was not it. I don't understand, why would she remember me for months and then get me to text her through my friend only to ghost me after everything went perfectly

>needy rapist.

Maybe she [spoiler]got her period[/spoiler]

yo i got this thot from tinder coming over and we're gonna smoke. shes a meme and I have the new smash so i was planning on asking if she wanted to "smash" and if she said no I was just gonna play it off. is this good?

honestly man, it just happens. thank god you are in a position that girls wanna talk to you, and move forward. I've had the same thing happen a bunch, you'll never know. Improve yourself and if she says hi again some day, laugh and turn her down.

So you're saying I should just continue to grug fuck her and give zero shits?

Have you sat her down and talked about it? My girlfriend and I struggled with the same problem a few years after we moved in together. It was tough to put my thoughts into words without coming off like a massive faggot, but it turns out she was struggling with some self-image issues and didn't want to initiate in case I rejected her. We're fine now though. That open line of communication in general has really improved our sex lives.

When we originally agreed on today she said "alright it's a deal". I'm super busy this weekend and she knows it, should just send her a text next week saying "well I guess we didn't have a deal after all" or should I just drop it? Normally I wouldn't do this but it just seemed liked everything was going so well, maybe it was a fluke?

tinder thot + smoking, probably means shes interested in smashing anyway. Play it cool, maybe ask her if she wants to play smash, if she makes a joke about 'smashing' then ur golden. if not, show her how to play and maybe you'll get to smashin later in the night anyway

Based and autistic

I think sending a "Same [emoji with hearts for eyes]" would be enough. But again I'm autistic and I wouldn't give a fuck if she didn't respond back.

Nah man, I know the instinct is to say something, or let her know you're annoyed, or try make it work, but you're way better off dropping it.

sending a text like that shows her that you're kinda bitter, which wont help at all. If she says hi again in the future or apologizes for ghosting, go from there. But for now user, just forget about it.
Its easy to get caught up on a girl if you talk for a while and things feel good, but again, its just best to move forward and forget about it.

time machine. the jig is up, she already is comfortable and your sex life is doomed. Your only hope is to get Jow Forums and have roasties openly mire you in front of her. This will make her jealous and realize that you’re actually of value and fuck you. She will literally suck your balls dry if she thinks it will take your mind off the other girls you could be getting. But she wont even give you a dry handy just because you had a “rough day”. Women are dumb, huh? Don’t really see why you married one, but hey we all have our spot on the IQ bell curve

You're probably right, thanks fren

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keep ur head up user. Just think, is a girl who ghosts and is uncertain about her shit, really a girl you wanna be with? You will make it pal. All the best.

Bro stop caring honestly, like who cares? She ghosted you? Fine, it's not a big deal man. Think about losing your parents, or your friends, or a fucking leg, or getting some terrible disease. Like in the scale of 1 to 100 where 1 is pissing outside of the toilet and 100 is literal hell or being born without arms and legs and with a terrible disease that weakens your bones and doctors are certain you won't make it past 20 where every single day of your life is either terrible suffering and endless pain or being so drugged up that you aren't even really conscious. An existence where you are born like that and then year by year you deteriorate you lose your senses, you lose your sight, your hearing, all that still reminds you that you exist is the never ending pain of your bones slowly desintegrating day by day until they are no longer to support your frail body so it collapses and you die drugged up without even realizing what happened. Your case would be like idk, a 2 or 3 in the scale of suffering, so just go on with your life it's not a big deal.

Yeah, and I'm saying you made an error.
>Do you want to go out with me?
Sure, that would be fun, what did you have in mind?
>Let's play chess in the park, this Saturday, two pm.

>OH FUCK FUCK FUCK IM GONNA
COOOOOOOOOOOOM

That’s how you respond to nudes

i bet her feet smell RANK, i bet her flats peel off leaving little black flecks of salty, sweaty insole leather impacted on the face of her footpad's skin, every pulse of her heart flushing apart the wrinkles in her soles that had been mashed together since she put them on, every pulse unsealing more vapors of steamed sweat from the crevices of her toes where they had fermented all day like sous vide

help guys im basically constantly thinking about masturbating to stupid fucking foot porn. i have no hope of meeting a girl irl bc i have to do it through my church whose local chapter only has a bunch of vile ogresses. moving soon, probably wont be much better. single for the long haul. how do i end this psychosis. i wish i could just turn my mind off and become a robot man and die in my mid 30s.

>Are you high IQ enough to either end your genetic lineage or impregnate and ghost chicks like a nigger? Didn't think so, kiddo.

you shouldnt be asking and thats not how normal conversations go fag he did nothing wrong

You're the green one, sperg

I have had this talk yes, and she is in the same boat. (used to have an eating disorder) It basically ended with a I don't
see why I have to when I am busy/tired/worried about rejection. She even went as far as suggesting I have sex with other women, specifying that it would just be me doing extramarital shit.
Siq burn but not bad advice. Working on getting thick, strong, and tight, since I have been a twig armed dyel and at ~15-18% bf all my life.

I know they didn’t teach you this in boomer school, but you can have kids without getting married

Divorce, lift like a motherfucker and don´t ever marry again.

She says that shit because she isn´t attracted to you but would still fuck other guys.

Have some self love and get a divorce.

>talk
lol. You can’t negotiate attraction. Ever try asking to kiss a girl? if you have to ask, the answer is always no. Improve your muscles money and mind and you’ll see an increase in her genuine desire

Good goy

Thanks user, I needed this.

Today i was doing pullups and near the end of the workout when i was doing my last few sets my calf (gastrocnemius muscle specifically) would get tight as FUCK and hurt so bad that i would walk funny. When i do pullups I bend at an L shape cuz my bar is short idk if that means anything. I've had this issue before but only randomly while biking and it hurts so bad i fall off my bike. Keep in mind this doesn't happen often for me, the last time this happened was when i was biking about a year ago.

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You don't send confirmation dates b/c it makes it look like you've been flaked on in the past and expect to be flaked on. It doesn't inspire confidence in the woman