"I'm not going to abandon you"

You should date small town probation user. You're both annoying fuckwits who can't stop making the same thread over and over again, you two are made for each other.

It is something you can change and important step is to stop being a borderline freak obsessed with abandonment. Like, if you're ever inclined to manipulate someone into staying with you, DON'T. When they find out, they're going to feel extremely betrayed, they're going to be angry, and they'll never want anything to do with you again.

Give me back my jacket.

like i mean there's no point in thinking another person could complete your life when you realize they're all imperfect and will never become what you fully desire

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One word. Luck. Look for people that are not all there, less responsive to drama the better. Try get their contact info.

You would abandon me.
Because black guys have such a good track record for sticking with their partner.
I felt complete when I was with my ex. He had a lot of things that I disliked, but I loved him despite those things.
What do you mean not all there? Like retarded people?

His name wasn't jevin, nice try though. Should have gone with a more common name since there'd be a higher chance you got it right.
I didn't do anything to manipulate my ex, unless you count begging.

Nope. More like people with introverted type disorders. Also I hear antisocial pd is good too. I used to flirt with one that had it but it is bad if he is in jail or beating, being beaten up all the time.

>You would abandon me
im telling you, i wouldnt lets have a nice convo then judge me

Aren't people with ASPD like actual literal sociopaths? Do they even form attachments to people?
You can't judge a person off one conversation, you can't judge them after hundreds. People are liars and manipulators and will say whatever they think you want to hear to make you like them and then they'll bail on you. The only winning move is not to play.

> The only winning move is not to play.
>How do I find someone who can tolerate me?
>trying to make friends with you
these two things seem pretty contradictory to me
at first i thought people were being hard on you for attention whoreing and shit but it seems to me that you actually do do it for the attention and seeing as how you have bpd its not very far fetched in the off chance that i could be wrong hope you find what you want

>I didn't do anything to manipulate my ex, unless you count begging.
That's pathetic. Be a fucking man you pussy

Yeah... They kinda do and don't. Especially what makes them pretty good match. But look at it this way. You got bpd so aren't you kinda a sociopath too? At least according to book.

>board for original content and no reposts
>everyone posts the same thread everyday
bit ironic innit

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I don't think it's contradictory. I want to be with someone, but I also don't want to be abandoned. Unfortunately people who would not abandon me do not exist, so I'm forced to live in solitude.
I know it's pathetic and I regret it. It's pathetic how much he meant to me compared to how little I meant to him.
I don't think I'm a sociopath, are sociopaths self-aware? I like to think I care about other people, even people who are terrible to me. At the very least I could never hurt anyone, and if I did on accident I would feel terrible about it. I also have a pretty low opinion of myself and I think sociopaths are usually pretty narcissistic.

what did your ex do

>so I'm forced to live in solitude.
no you dont you just dont wanna face reality, i already told you you i wont abandon you take a chance

Dunno maybe you are different. I have problems in caring about other people or so I am told. Also I don't really feel much. Guess whole bpd experience varies a lot but rarely moves from dramatic cluster. Guess you'd be more leaning towards histrionic meanwhile I go towards aspd/narcissism.

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I don't really like badmouthing people that much, even anonymously. He didn't exactly treat me the best though and did some things that were less than ideal.
And then I'll be back to solitude in a few months when you leave and I'll be even more miserable. No thank you, please find someone else to use and discard.

>please find someone else to use and discard.
i dont use people and ive never discarded anybody tho i just wanted us to be friends

people come and go, its how it simply is
you wont find your soulmate in your 1st, 2nd, 3rd or even 20th attempt
you just have to learn to accept it and continue looking for him

I'm not going to fuck 20 dudes in my life, I'd rather die alone.
Why do you want to be friends with me? You know nothing about me other than the fact that I am crazy and obsessive.

im the guy who asked your dc the other day user. i didnt reply because i went to sleep and thread died when i woke up pls add

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>Why do you want to be friends with me?
i have no friends, you have no friends (i assume) seems like it could be cool im not gonna pressure you i just thought you were genuinely lonely too

It's possible to fix if you admit that all your problems are caused by yourself and you go to therapy to try and fix it
But we all know you're just going to do classic BPD blame shifting and then wonder why everyone runs from you

>I like to think I care about other people
you don't, you only view people as accessories and only care about them as your duty to receive attention

I feel you m8, people usually abandon me about 3 months after we met. Nowadays it's hard to even find people in the first place

I don't remember who you are, people ask for contact in every thread and I always say no.
I was in dbt for a bit but I stopped going. I'd go back but I don't see the point.
I really don't like it when other people try to explain to me how I feel. I don't even know what viewing people as accessories even means, I still care about my ex long after he's stopped talking to me.

>abandanon forgot to take her tranny pills again
YIKES

it was two days ago. the last reply was you saying something like
>abandoned again
you wanted my contact then, do you still want it? lets talk user

Do you even play smash OP?

I didn't forget, I dumped them out.
You already abandoned me once, doesn't seem like a good idea.
Just melee, but I'm very very very bad at it.

i just went to sleep after 15 minutes because i thought you abandoned the thread. whats your username

And what did you do OP? If you claim you're flawless you'll be outing yourself as a liar. If you're not married, then no one owes you anything, you want them to stick around because you're self. What if they're happier without you? You would have abandoned them too if an upgrade came along, if you say anything less you're a liar.

*because you're selfish.

Original.

>try to help OP
>get abandoned

>I was in dbt for a bit but I stopped going
Therapy isn't some magic cure all drug that insta-fixes you, I'm guessing you didn't work with the therapist based on how you almost never take blame upon yourself in these threads.

i always start writing replies to this shit and having to stop and rewrite them 3 times then stop altogether because i know you wont be able to understand anything i say

god why do you crave attention from robots

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What is it you're trying to say you don't think I could understand.
It's true I'm selfish in that I wanted him to be with me, I think everyone is selfish in that way though. I wouldn't have abandoned him if I had met someone better, I don't think there are people who are "better", I liked him.

very poignant image

this, OP claims to just want anyone to talk to and be very easy to get along with but in my experience with him this is not the case at all

AHHH DOPE HAT, WHERE'D YOU GO lmao

I find it sad people here are so stupid to not autosage every reply on this kind of useless threads.

Could you stop posting these fucking shit threads every goddamned day, you pathetic fucking sperg?

When do I say I want someone to talk to, I explicitly state in every thread I don't want to add anyone because I don't want to get attached.
What?
No.
You can get abandoned if there was no connection to begin with. I know nothing about you and you know very little about me aside from the fact that I am mentally unwell. If that appeals to you, you're probably predatory and someone worth avoiding.

It's the THOT that counts. Counts dicks that weren't your's, and certainly, it was because you did something stupid enough that she needed a dildo. I can't even imagine the need for a dildo, and yet, they make spinning dildos and shit.

I could give your ego a problem or two, if you wanted.

C'mon user, there's no reason you'd spam the same thread over and over again for months if you didn't want people to talk to you

well for starters what do you mean by "abandoned"
because you seem like the type of person who thinks if someone doesn't want to be with you they are abandoning you

and also look at it this way, hypothetically you're literally the worst human on earth (I dont know anything about you so it could be true) so why wouldn't someone abandon you? You've done nothing to deserve this? quite possibly, but idk why you wouldnt be more specific if you want attention/pity unless deep down you know you're the main issue

i have minor attachment issues myself but i think what you're doing in unhealthy and annoying and if you really are over 18 you need to grow up

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I like venting about my feelings and talking to people anonymously. I don't want to get attached to anyone who is just going to leave me.
Someone not wanting to be with you isn't abandonment, someone who did want to be with you suddenly leaving you for (seemingly) no reason is abandonment. I might be terrible, but he wanted me at some point and I still don't understand what I did to change that.
Why would I want more problems with my ego?

Where do you live and where did your ex live

I gave up on someone once. It will haunt me forever. It was still the right choice though.

add me on discord swagbert#3132

Why does it matter where we're from?
What made you give up on them?
Why would I add you?

I just want to know how far you traveled to meet him.

We were on opposite ends of the us, all I'm saying.

Is it the same person making these threads? That would explain a lot. I was thinking they might as well have their own /abandonmentissues/ containment thread by this point if there were genuinely that many people with the same comment.