Actually believing having sex will make you any less depressed

Who hurt you, user? Tell us your story.

Dude, where do you think you are? This place is a cesspool of complete and utter degenerates who constantly complain, watch tons of porn, fap to degenerate shit, and so on and on.
People in here outright refuse to work on themselves. Truly pathetic.

Of course not. I got sex, I had a loving relationship that to be honest was one sided.
I still wanted to Mountain Dew Baja blast my brains out.

I don't think it would change anything it would just be a temporary novelty to distract me from hell, like an engaging movie or music or what have you. I'm aware that no matter my circumstances I will stabilize to where I've always been.

Committed relationships aren't a fantasy. This red pill shit has actually fucked your brain

>tfw they tell you once you take the redpill you can never go back
Really makes you rethink life decisions.

Why are you taking things spouted exclusively by people with terrible/no relationships as fact and letting it fuck your shit up

When will anons learn the only way to be happy is to commit mass acts of violence against the weak

I'm trying to fucking sleep

Yes, why on earth would I assume that the thing I'm depressed about no longer being the case would ease that sadness.

Silly me, haha

In my case it would, haven't seen my gf in a year, would be nice to make love to her again

That's not the point, I want to become socially competent enough to be able to have sex. It's why getting a hooker is pointless because then I haven't changed at all. It's a bit like says. Unfortunately it's hard to build up social competence when you start with nothing

lmao
it's not about the sex
it's about forming a connection
it's about loving someone and having them love you back
that's all most robots want
the sex is just a bonus

>I know who the virgin is
Yea, we all know it's you. Only a virgin would not know the feeling of absolute despare, the screaming void that consumes you after you're done fucking.

>guys sex won't cure you're depression lmao, btw I've had sex its no big deal lol

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This, the people saying "sex isn't a big deal it doesn't mean anything" only think that because they can have sex whenever they want so it's lost all meaning for them

It took me having sex twice to realize that it isn't a big deal and doesn't mean anything.

>having sex as a goal
why you guys like this?

See here Although it doesn't really make sense for someone who can already have sex. The point isn't just getting your dick wet, it's about being able to get there

get where exactly?
you can get the validation of being desired/wanted without sex

>women who have sex 100% easy: why do men want sex? I am confused. Is it a pride thing?

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my problem is with ppl who make it out more that what it is,
it feels good, that's why you fuck.
the rest is coping bullshit.

>you can get the validation of being desired/wanted without sex
well I've never experienced that, so it's all the same to me

so basically, you are retarded nigger who cannot read for shit?

my life is pretty fine without sex , i sometomes get a bit worried that i'l never penetrate an vagina , if it happens my life wouldn't change , i'm pretty happy with my life with or without sex , and thats how it should be

Fucking idiot I already explained this. It's not the actual feeling of sex that I'm after, because I bet that's not all that much better than masturbation.
You probably don't understand what it's like to be a fucking autist with no friends let alone a girlfriend but I want to be able to socialize well enough to have sex. Again, it's not the sex itself but being able to get there. I want to learn how to make friends as well, but I consider that to be easier than having sex so it's not the end goal.

>You probably don't understand what it's like to be a fucking autist with no friends
I do, I been one for nearly 30 years.
>Again, it's not the sex itself but being able to get there
get another goal, you sad fuck, you are not going to make any lasting friendship is your goal is having sex.

You didn't read my post. having sex isn't my singular goal retard, I literally said I first want to learn how to make friends

holy shit you might be genuinely retarded user.

>I literally said I first want to learn how to make friends
and you think having sex as the overarching theme for this "adventure" of yours is the most the best way to go about it?
what I'm saying is, there are other journeys you can sail for, that will lead you down the same road, while making you into a better person, and giving you something more lasting/rewarding that a cunt in the end.

it's not the overarching theme, I never said anything like that. It's just a goal I consider more difficult than learning conversation skills or making friends. How can you be this dense?

>It's just a goal
why do you have sex as a goal?
why are you like this?
that was my original question

You're still misunderstanding though because if it was as simple as "my goal is to have sex" I would've looked into prostitutes. Sex is just one of many things I want to be socially competent enough to do.

I"m not misunderstanding shit.
this is what you f'ing wrote
>It's just a goal I consider more difficult than learning conversation skills or making friends.
>It's just a goal I consider more difficult than learning
>It's just a goal I consider more difficult than learning
>It's just a goal I consider
>It's just a goal

again why do you have sex as a goal?

Only a bullet would do that user, I've hated woman so long I can't even get hard to 3dpd.

I don't know how I can make this easier for you to understand. It's not the act of putting my dick in a woman that is the goal, my goal is to be able to get to that point.
But either way, what's wrong with wanting to have sex? It's only natural. Your first argument was that there's more fulfilling things but I already explained multiple times that sex isn't the only thing I want, so I really don't get what the issue is. You're making it seem like I have no interest in making friends at all and would just be using them as stepping stones to eventually stick my dick in a roastie.
One more time so you understand, if my goal was sex itself I could just look into getting a prostitute. But I don't care about that because it's not that.

>I don't know how I can make this easier for you to understand.
it's not easy for me to understand, because you are contradicting yourself, and flip flopping all over the place, which makes anything you say sound like coping bullshit to me.
>But either way, what's wrong with wanting to have sex? It's only natural.
absolutely nothing, I never said that.
my issue is with people who think having sex is some sort of life's achievement.
just screams mediocrity to me.

but w/e gl on your journey user, I hope you make it.

>mediocrity
What so bad about being ordinary man? I don't think there is anything wrong with being ordinary.

I really don't think I ever flip flopped, I'm just bad at explaining this to you (again, as I said I have zero conversational skills) but I never said it's some sort of life's achievement or the ultimate activity that will make me feel like a god or cure my mental issues or whatever retarded crap you think I believe.
My overarching goal is self improvement. Since I've never had sex before. I want to have sex (by definition, something you want to do is a goal). I really don't understand what I flip-flopped on.
I think you're generalizing what other people on Jow Forums think about sex and pasting it on to me and wondering why you can't understand me. It's because you're actually making up a lot of bullshit about what I believe.

you keep putting words in my mouth.
I'm done.

>why have you made the thing you're biologically hardwired to pursue and that you've been deprived of your entire life your goal?

i literally quoted you and being quite ordinary, i am genuinely interested in whats the problem.
i just don't think its a particularly bad trait

nothing wrong with being ordinary, are you mediocre though?

prob, define the difference, i dont see anything bad in either.

mediocrity in my mind is people who don't try to reach their full potential, and hide behind easy achievements to boost their self esteem.

but if where you are at in life, is realistically the best you could do, then there is absolutely nothing wrong with that, that is being ordinary for me.

>committed relationship
>fantasy
only if you're a low test faggot lol

To be honest i used to put out my 100 just to get "B average", but now it seems to me like all of this crap is trivial. And all i did work myself to the bone for people and things i don't care about.

see now that makes more sense.
I can understand having self improvement as your goal, and sex just being a by product of that.
it's just that in my mind at first it seemed like you were making sex was the goal, and self improvement the by product, which just seemed retarded to me.

Yeah like I said I think you do too much generalizing and believe that Jow Forums is one person.

no, it's like you said>I'm just bad at explaining this to you
you are just shit at getting your point across.

Could be a little bit of both desu, my opinion never changed from the start (I clearly stated "it's not the sex itself") but if my original explanation wasn't fully strong and you went into my post with preconceived notions about how you think every single person on here views sex, then that would lead to you projecting that onto your initial impression of me, and once that happens it can be hard to change

>hate people so much don't even want sex anymore
>just want to be left alone
Wizardry awaits me