I'm 27 and I met a religious woman through my mom. My mom has been going to church a lot and she's been bringing a lot of her church friends around here lately. She is 36 years old and heavily Catholic and she's a plain Jane. She's not unattractive in any way but she's about average as they come. She dresses modestly, she's pretty quiet and she's obsessed with god.
We met and we immediately had some attraction to each other. I like older women and I thought she was a lovely woman. She's very nice and kind of awkward but super nice. Every time she comes over, I always end up speaking to her a lot. One thing let to another and I asked for her phone number and she gave it to me. She calls me a lot and we talk for a couple hours everyday. I enjoy speaking to her a lot. She asked me if I would accompany her to church, I said why not. I'm not a church guy but it gives me an excuse to be with her.
I asked my mom about her. She lives with her parents, she doesn't work, she spends a lot of her time helping out the church. She's never went to college and has no greater aspirations. She hasn't really done anything with her life. I asked my mom if she would feel uncomfortable if I dated her and she doesn't mind but she has little experience with men and she's so religious that it might impact our relationship since I'm not religious really, at all.
I dig her though man. I like her quiet awkwardness, its cute. I like how sweet she is, and even though she's pretty much a NEET, she knows how to cook and do wife things. I like that. Would it be a bad idea to pursue something serious with her?
Stay away from religious women. They're all completely crazy. ALL OF THEM.
Trust me, you will only hurt yourself.
Hudson Anderson
Is she a virgin, OP?
Zachary Clark
>dating older women mega ykkes
Hudson Williams
is this the best place to ask for advice?
Religion typically isn't much of a barrier unless you have radically different views on birth control, and the possibility that you'll have to raise any potential children in the mother's religion for your marriage to be considered legitimate by her church.
Luke Roberts
accept the Lord our God, user
Logan Hughes
She hasn't really shown any crazy yet but I kind of like crazy. My mom is a bit crazy, its grown on me. My mom and dad will argue for hours then be lovey dovey the next day, I kind of want that. I guess I'm just used to it.
I have no idea. I doubt it, she's 36. I would be shocked if she hasn't had at least one. But she hasn't had a boyfriend in all the time my mom has known her so at the least that lot has been cleared for awhile now.
Brandon Perez
>dating a washed up, unattractive christcuck
Go for it OP you dumb cunt
Jaxson Gutierrez
Do you plan on impregnating her within a year or two?
Benjamin Reed
Religious girls make the best wives, OP.
Ryan Williams
It's surprising she has not already talked about this with op.
Carter Walker
Sounds like the perfect woman, I'm honestly kind of jealous desu
I don't go to church myself but I have no problem with religion and would go if it were to get a nice wife
Nathaniel Jones
Hmm, I don't know how she feels about birth control. That's a good point, might be a problem unless I master the pull-out technique. I'm not confident in my ability to do this.
Religion doesn't bother me though. I was raised by Catholic and I'm indifferent whether my life involves it or not at this point. I'm down for it.
She's not unattractive, she's a pretty girl she's just not some 9/10 giant titty super model. I prefer average modest girls though, less intimidating for me.
Yeah, probably. If our relationship went well then I have no intention of waiting that long.
David Diaz
Religion will be the biggest barrier here. Despite how you may feel you WILL have to respect her choices if you're to continue being with her. This means going to church with her, not calling God a magical sky genie, and most importantly, she probably won't put out til marriage. And since she does a lot of volunteer work you'll probably be roped into that too. Catholics use a lot of guilt in their tactics so you'll have to be prepared to not snap under pressure.
Since you're here on Jow Forums, and you used an anime pic, I KNOW you've got some weird shit going on in your life; you'll have to hide your power levels for a good long while, especially considering she's older and religious. If you think you can try to appear normal for a long enough time, I don't see why you shouldn't try to pursue something serious with her. Just as long as you realize you won't be able to change her for a good long while.
Logan Parker
There's a strong chance she has little to no experience with men. This is your chance OP to gape her pussy with your dick.
Josiah Russell
OP you phrased this in a way to drag a bunch of libtards in here. Like this guy, what does birth control matter she's 36, she's too old to carry any kids to term and if she does they're going to pop out downies or with a tail, flippers, or tentacle kind of shit. You types of libtards just hear birth control and religion and need to come reeeeee with some addendum to try and make yourself sound centrist and enlightened. Even if OP is jizzus and has bottles full of his cum he's been saving to dump in her twat, that girl si too old to get knocked up where it's actually some sort of issue either of them disagree on since it's not gonna happen anyway no matter how hard they try turning it into some basement science experiment with them both dressing up like traps or furries when he poors the cum bottles in.
Parker Gonzalez
I take a lot of pleasure in the fact that certain people in this thread suffer.
Blake Butler
What do you for a living, OP? Are you independent?
Blake Sanchez
I'm an electrical engineer. I currently live with my parents because it saves me significant amounts of money and my mom wants me around. I just haven't had a reason to leave, yet.
I can afford to live on my own though and I have my own vehicle so yeah, I guess I am independent in the sense that I don't rely on my parents to exist but I do currently inhabit their home.
Logan Adams
>googles salary You're too good for her. Why not date some spunky 18 year old who wants a daddy to fuck her? Why settle for some old lady?
Dude you almost got the perfect wife material, you only need to make her a weeb, unprogramme her from the religious shit and slowly introduce Jow Forums for her. She will be based within a year or 2
Julian Phillips
Give it a go. You only lose time trying.
Austin Bell
Christianity forbids Christians from being with non Christians. If she actually takes Christianity seriously then she wouldn't want to be with a guy like OP. If she can't tell who is and who isn't a serious Christian then she VERY LIKELY isn't one herself either.
I guess because I want to get married and start a family? I'm almost 30 and have never had a serious relationship before. Dating a horny 18 year old sounds fun and all but it doesn't seem like the type of relationship to go for if you're looking for a wife. I want to start a family and have a nice housewife.
But the main reason I guess is, she's the first girl I've ever had a real connection with. We're both awkward quiet borderline-autists and I just enjoy her company. Every interaction I've had with her is pleasant. Even when we're sitting alone together and nothing is happening, it just feels right. She's really sweet and makes me feel like she really likes me. She's really genuine and nice.
Also I just really like older women. I can't help myself.
Lucas Hernandez
Which specific bible passage are you talking about? I've never heard of any forbidence on dating a non-christian in the bible. I'm fairly certain that the opposite was the entire point of the story of ruth.
Elijah Perry
>non-christian Pretty sure she thinks OP is christian considering his mother is and she asked him to go to church with her. Unless OP is screaming at her that he's an atheist, she has no reason to assume anything to the contrary.
Zachary Garcia
aslong as he doesn't say he is atheist he should be fine desu.
Brandon Jackson
Yeah I've never told her I was not Catholic. No reason to do that, that's like the opposite of a good idea. I wouldn't say I'm an atheist either, I'm just not particularly into religion. I have no opinion on whether god is real or not, I don't care. Plus its not hard for me to be Catholic, I was raised Catholic. As far as she's concerned, she thinks I'm just a casual Catholic who doesn't really go to church because I'm busy working and stuff. I'll go to church and do that stuff if need be, it doesn't bother me.
Joshua Powell
How good is her cooking out of 10?
Joshua Hughes
6.9/10
Pretty good, not top tier, but I'd be happy eating it until I die.
Hudson Hall
see 2 Corinthians 6:14 That's not my point. My point is that she is very likely to be your average church goer rather than a devout Christian like OP might think she is. I'm guessing your agnostic. If she ever decides to take Christianity seriously then you're in for a treat.
Jose Rivera
How do you define "seriously"? Because seems like you're expecting her to follow every aspect of the bible absolutely literally and nobody does that. Not even the pope.
Cameron Thomas
dont do it man, an older woman is a bad idea. i hope you dont go after her but whatever brings happiness
Austin Collins
1. Date her if you want. 2. DON'T be a dumb fool and marry her 3. DON'T impregamte her.
That's it.
Liam Butler
*impregnate Rlroeoeoe
Daniel Lewis
She takes it pretty seriously, most of her free time is revolved around Church-related activities and its a significant part of her identity. She's too into it to be average, average is like my dad who goes to church every now and then when he's feeling extra-Jesus but mostly just tries to live a moral life.
James Ward
To elaborate, there is a reason why she hasn't married at 36. And it's too late. The only reason to marry is having kids and at that age it's too late.
>That's not my point. >Christianity forbids Christians from being with non Christians Yeah it is. Your argument is that she wouldn't want to be with OP because he's a non-Christian but clearly she doesn't think he is a non-Christian.
As to your second point, the idea that she wouldn't want to be with him because he's a not a serious Christian is just a fallacy. Most women just care that you're part of the club, not that you're as obsessive as they are. Would it be nice? Sure. I doubt she'll care that he's not at church 5 days a week when he has to, you know, work.
Ethan Johnson
And look how you ended up.
Christian Powell
>nobody does that It's true that a lot of the people who call themselves Christians don't really care much for following every Christian rule, they often say "I'm not perfect I'll sin every once in a while", but according to the bible God expects perfection out of all of his followers. "Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect." -Matthew 5:48. You might think "Who cares?" and to that I say "devout Christians do". Because of this a true Christian can never feel comfortable commiting a sin because they know that every sin no matter how little it may seem is a big deal to God. A lot of women (especially older women) see church as more of a social gathering rather than a religious thing. They may also go because it makes them feel good about themselves. Besides all of this what else would a 36 year old neet woman be doing with her time? she probably just wants to settle down already.
Kevin Fisher
>she's obsessed with god. That's a red flag, user. A huge one.
Isaac Adams
I'm not saying it's impossible. I'm just saying it's very unlikely and if it does happen it's probably not going to work that well. I don't want to feed you a line of bull shit like pro sex people do and tell you that you can't get herpes wearing a condom... Yeah maybe he can have a flipper baby, or start googling what chromosomes are and why having all of them and a few extra isn't particularly working. If they start banging right now maybe she pops out the kid with a tail and a couple tentacles in half a decade. Even if neither of them uses birth control both of them probably aren't entirely in on the idea of actually having a kid and probably doing things to sabotage it happening, like him nutting in her face, or her banging some other guy. It's not that they can't have one, it's just not very likely. Besides how are they going to educate it, send it to a public school have it be an electrical engineer? Their economy probably already has a bunch of those. Most places can't educate or even care for their kids even if you get past some juvenile anti-natalism ideas around the concept. It's not like it's magically going to improve by the time they're old enough to even make those sort of decisions. Hell if he has a daughter and she's got a flipper growing out of her head, she's probably going to be a prostitute when she grows up for some bankers kid or someone that had a bunch of real estate. They'll probably slap the cum around with the head flipper while making jokes about her being a cum slut.
Cooper Bell
>it's too late Unless women suddenly evolved to have menopause at 30 then no, it is not.
Older women have more difficulty having children but that's to be expected if you know how eggs work, but its nowhere near impossible or unlikely, it just requires more fucking.
And yes, the meme of defects. It's true that older women have higher chance of defects, but that only sounds scary out of context.
For example, the rate of down syndrome at age 25 is 1 in 1064 children. The rate of down syndrome at age 35 is 1 in 686. Almost twice as likely.
Sounds awful, until you look pass that basic comparison and look at the numbers themselves.
1 in 1064 is 0.093% likelihood of having a down syndrome child. 1 in 686 is 0.145% chance of having a down syndrome child.
So right now, even if you account for the extra years she has, she has significantly less than 1% chance of making a fucked up baby.
Once women reach 45, that's when the real issues start. But anywhere between 18 and 40 is fine.
Brandon Moore
That's very dishonest to represent mathematics in fractions in such a way. Most populations only count people in the millions. If you disclude the ones that haven't breeded you can get a number that sounds a bit more to a laymen person that makes sense. If I told you that you had a 50 % chance for your mother to die if you don't reply to this post, or I reduce it down to a fraction that doesn't sound that bad. It's not about your mum and it's maybe a bit dirty to say it was, but a lot of people if you look at 50 % vs a fraction, you'd make quite a big judgement leap about that sort of decision.
Adrian Torres
>mommy gf
user FUCKING GO FOR IT
Xavier Robinson
Church women are sweet, kind, calm, loyal women who are serious about relationships. Go for her OP, and give her the family she's always wanted to have. If you're lucky, she will reward you with eternal happiness. If not, it'll be like all the other relationships at worst. What do you have to lose? Also, love isn't that important, you can fall in love over time. What's important is that you share the same values. And that she will be a good mother to your children.
Jonathan Peterson
The answer is obvious if she is an actual Trad Catholic and not some born again thot. Get in vitro if you need to, but you better breed that qt. People believe in goofier shit than Christianity. Count your blessings.
Robert Mitchell
>That's very dishonest to represent mathematics in fractions in such a way No it isn't, that's just how math works. Plus that's how the study represented it, I just converted it to a percentage. Basic shit. The fact of the matter is, the chance is really tiny no matter how you slice it.
And yeah, 50% is still fucking scary when you convert it to 1 in 2 about anything negative. If it was a 1 in 2 chance of having a retard baby at 35 then yeah, you would have a valid point. But its 1 in 686. or 0.145%. That it literally nothing.
Sorry, but the fact of the matter is that having children with women at this age is perfectly safe.
Camden King
Okay I'm not saying your dishonest or trying to bring your mum into this, I'm just saying OP needs to watch the x-files episode "home" that was based off a true story and maybe he has hills in the eyes flipper babies.
Joshua Clark
1 in 686, times millions sounds like great chances if you live in a big city. If you live in a population that's smaller, I think the city limit sign where I live has about 2 thousand, 1 in 686 sounds a fuck ton better if you're talking about 10 million, compared to 2 thousand. Reducing it to a fraction doesn't make it sound less bad. It's dishonest. I'm not trying to make it sound bad, and I hope maybe you're better at math than me. But it doesn't sound like the kind of math people use unless they're doing business shit to pretend like they're not fucking people they work with.
Josiah Anderson
>Reducing it to a fraction doesn't make it sound less bad. It's dishonest This is show every scientific study works. Ironic that you would call this dishonest when the entire point is to put things in perspective.
Mason Cooper
Religious women don't have a monopoly on craziness, user. All women are crazy. Sometimes religion just exacerbates that. Then again, some religious women are very well-behaved in comparison to others. Regardless, anything is better than "not religious but still spiritual," and I say that as an atheistfag.
Brandon Wright
>awkward and quiet >literally a NEET >devoted catholic >knows how to cook >isn't hideous >never went to a libcuck college >is a nice person >has that potential mommy gf material She is literally perfect, why aren't you marrying her? I mean yeah, she is a bit on the older side but so what man. Sometimes you just gotta take that pussy.
Carson Williams
If you wanna get married (not recommended) and have children that are NOT downies, then find a younger gril to impregnate while porking this older hag on the side.
Jeremiah Jenkins
>Never went to college >Is a religious nutjob I bet this bitch voted for Trump, disgusting.
Camden Bennett
It's ironic you'd try to say scientific study is a champion of this sort of thing when it's considered a privilege that statistically nobody can attend it without a patron, and everyone contests the findings or simply doesn't allow it to be published in those journals because they didn't like the answer. School institutions were infiltrated by capitalists and communists and simply do things to spite people they dislike any chance they get rather than do anything scientific.
>anything is better than "not religious but still spiritual Excluding muslims, I suppose
Thomas Hernandez
at least she can figure out which toilet to use without being a pervert that requires armed security guards around
Nathaniel Kelly
What does this even mean? Are you on drugs?
Joseph Jenkins
Her having a harder time to get preggers just means more raw sex before you get that one lucky egg.
Matthew Hall
your kids are gonna have downs user
Mason Long
>oink oink lmao
Landon Reed
Impregnate her then have sex with your daughter.
Owen Martin
My mom was 42 when she had me. Fuck you lol.
Ryder Clark
This is very cute desu. If I were in your position I would give her a chance. Like you, I'm non religious but also would like to start a family one day. I have the values of a religious person but without the religion. The only way to find out if you're compatible is to take her out on a date. Good luck.
Noah Hughes
>and have a nice housewife. Chances are you are not going to find one. Shit you might not even find a housewife, let alone nice. Just a parasite. Know a couple of them, late 20s early 30s, "good" church girls, never had a boyfriend, can't fry an egg to save their lives, expects the man to do everything for her.
Leo Hall
Give her the pipe dude.
Bentley Reed
Well he said she can cook already so that's not an issue.
Brody Barnes
an agnostic is just an atheist without testicles
Isaiah Wright
atheist without a fedora*. 99 percent of atheists are pseudo-intellectuals. it doesn't take testicles to be an atheist, just a dense world view and a conceited ego.
Jeremiah Ramirez
An agnostic is just an intellectually honest atheist. Atheists pretend like their view is 100% fact when nothing has been proven either way.
Parker Ortiz
>dating old hags Eww
Levi Garcia
Older girls are qt you faggot
Blake Barnes
I don't like religious people myself because I have my own religion (yes I am that edgy guy)
Also I don't like old woman for long term relationship.
So I guess it all depends to you.
You need to know that are good girls that are young and not into religion out there! You can get one if you work on yourself and move to a small town.
