How you holding up, fellas?
>tfw 28, still live at home
>no car
>no gf
>no local friends
>wasted degree
>online dating goes nowhere
At least the coffee shop talks with the staff keeps me going, otherwise I'd go insane. It feels like I absorb their energy because I feel a high from it
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>have gf (fiancee now)
>otherwise more or less the same
But whatever, it bothers me less than it used to. There are still things I can do in this world from behind a computer screen.
>27 (28 in September)
>no car
>no gf
>virgin
>no friends
>meme degree
>okay job but considering going into teaching or some part-time minimum wage job
>constant self-loathing to the point where I am consciously avoiding looking for a girlfriend or pursuing ambitions because I feel completely unworthy
Good luck to you mate.
Thanks boss, you too.
Is it too late to start things like singing, martial arts, gym, etc?
>have gf
But that must make the world of difference
>30
>Only one friend still in my country.
>long term relationship
Hi bro, just looking for a spot to complain.
Relationships can be very heavy and one day you may find yourself looking back and ask how the hell...
Start martial arts tomorrow.
Even difficult ones like boxing, you'll never be a champ but that was the best choice of my life.
You are never old for that stuff.
Know a man that started at 38, and we fought fairly.(I started at 13..)
But, of course it's not about that. It will bring you peace.
>You are never old for that stuff.
Thanks fren, I'll join up ASAP
If you look for a nice place, you'll end up meeting a lot of different people, and a lot of events to go...if you are looking for friends and girls.
You know...martial artis and fighters (mostly the latter) are pretty much all people who had to overcome problems, they are extraordinary supportive with fellows.
Of course not. Probably an instrument though, yes.
Wh-what do you mean, I-I can still try to make music on Reason, r-right? ;_;
yes m8, the problem of making music without knowledge is that your songs are gonna sound like shit.
Practice and practice, that's the solution.
AHHHHHHHHHH WHERE DO I FIND THE PATIENCE TO PRACTICE? WHERE WHERE WHERE!!!!!
Not patience user.
Discipline.
Also the satisfaction that you are building a skill and fulfilling a talent that most outright tell themselves is born into people.
At work, bored.
Took the baldpill, whatever
Str8 up want to die
Life is pure suffering
Well, as one user said in a 30+ thread last year,
>There is always point. UwU
>kv27
>first year in college, still on leave due to depression
>no car
>fewer and fewer friends
I don't know man, apparently my soul has given up but I just can't wrap myself around it. Faint hope turned into waiting for... something.
I don't think about anything, have to chase away horrible thoughts but that is it
Anything else from that thread?
>26
>has gf but she's breaking up because...because
>currently studying for my last 2 exams for my degree (med school)
>actually wasting my time here because I can't focus on anything anymore
>I'm getting fat because all I do is stay indoor studying, browsing Jow Forums or crying
I just want to be happy but I can't be for some reason
>25
>moved to this city 2 years ago for masters degree
>graduated and got a job here
>literally know nobody
>completely isolated
where the fuck do i even begin? i live right next to a university campus and it hurts to see so many young couples and people having the time of their lives
Not him but it doesn't.
I have a gf and the relationship is toxic. Pretty sure she's cheating on me.
All other points op listed apply.
>avoiding looking for a girlfriend because I feel completely unworthy
Literally me
Cheer up the next gen sex dolls will be here soon
A med degree at 26 is impressive, please go sit down and study, as much as it sucks. Make it a goal to get a passing grade on those exams as if your life depended on it (plz no "I don't value my life jokes). Just do it.
Hey frogfriends
I'm a 25 year old wagecuck with nothing, no education, no gf, no friends, nothing
But since recently I've been getting 170$ per month from patreon from my small channel with just 4k subs
Is there potential to make it here? It's the only thing I have in my life right now
>25
>No GF
>Virgin
>Works at retail
>I hate myself more than I hate life in general.
What kinda content you putting out there?
It's very very niche, so I can't say too much without revealing myself
It's about my oddly specific hobby though
You can still turn things around if you have people give you money for youtube content
Dunno what to think about my life
>be me
>work 40 hours a week
>about $14 an hour/26k a year
>can afford rent, 200mbps internet, $1000 cell phone w/ unlimited data, food, electricity, ect.
>cant afford college to better my situation
>trade jobs not hiring, Mexicans are cheaper
>applied at police and fire department, havnt heard back yet. I check in monthly.
>decent looking guy, dont drink, do drugs, no tats, ect., just nobody looking for that now I guess
>volunteered over 1k hours in my youth volunteering at police/fire departments in my home town
>dad died fighting cancer so I he couldnt afford to send me to college
>I'm putting away $700ish a month and living like a monk in case of an emergency
Sitting here on my lunch break just relaxing and listening to youtu.be
Not sure what I can do to fix the rut I'm in. I wish some job would jump out at me and get me super fired up to work hard towards getting that job but nothing so far.
Only reason I apply for other jobs is I need to save for retirement at some point, but besides that I dont really care what I do. All my hobbies have stagnated, vidia, shooting, working out, board games, manga, ect. nothing seems fun anymore (pic very much related).
Honestly dunno where to go from here fellow oldbots, at this point I'm basically just trying to find something to light up the spark inside me so I can actually give a shit again, I guess till I find it I'll keep waiting.
I don't know why I frequent this board as my life is relatively put together (not-retail job, car, apartment, money saved, not khv but I've also used escorts). I figure I've been on here long enough to swallow my share of blackpills but still keep a brave face when I can.
I drink too much, in fact my main hobbies after work are drinking and lurking Jow Forums until I can't keep my eyes open. I think about shooting myself every day. I keep thinking a gf would be nice but deep down I know it's just more trouble and I'll end up getting my heart broken again
29years old neet for about 10 years still alone in my concrete box on welfare. I feel my time is coming to an end soon or atleast its closer and closer. Unable to find a purpose for all these years how long is one supposed to keep trying before giving up.
I know that feel, if anyone saw me irl they wouldnt ever guess I came here.
Pretty much the same as you besides drinking. My only vice is anime porn and you would have to have get on my PC to even know I have that as a vice.
The gf thing really hits home, my first gf who I dated for 6 years cheated on me and since then I havnt really been committed to any girls I date, just feels hollow.
Also idk if it matters but I'm 27, forgot to add that in my ^^ post.
Thanks user, I'll try. I don't think I can but I know that failing would make my parents sad and I don't want that.
It's just the whole thing gf-related and the weight gained that make me feel like this, I think...I'll try not to think about it too much
Also forgot to say I'll be 27 in a week as well.
Igot monkey-branched by by the first girl I had sex within HS at 16. It was my first hard lesson on the nature of women. Totally fucked up my ability to trust them. These days, and especially with zoomer girls it feels like I'm looking at another species. I can associate with "normies" and such but as you say it's all so hollow, I feel like people can pick it up off me as well, the veneer is thin and cracked.
28 year olds everywhere. we need to start making 28 only threads. just kidding. anyways, here it goes
>28
>still live at home
>no gf
>last time i had friends was 3 years ago
>worthless polisci degree i took 5 years to get
>do nothing all day
i was just in thailand for 6 months and im about to go back when i get this probate money. fuck america, fuck the western world. i want my azn qts back
>notices pic related is deftones
my nigger
>27
>meme degree
>shitty just above minimum wage suicide-inducing office job while pretty much everyone else I know has a successful career at my age
>no gf, had a "relationship" just over a month ago with a legit 8/10 who broke it off with me probably after realising how much of a loser I am
>that was my first "relationship" in over 5 years
My only hope is my novel which I'm just about to finish editing and send off. If I can't live off that and become a NEET again it'll just be suffering until death for me anons. Wanted to be a bloomer this year but the pain has really gotten to me lately.
Your only relationship, or had there been more times you've been cheated on?
Then you're destined to fail. Niche hobbies only attract 100k at most (if you're extremely lucky)
fuck off you got a masters degree and then got a job. you're fine
If you don't have a gf and you constantly consider suicide, then you're still welcomed here, user.
if you're making money you're not failing. find some places to market your shit. or find digital marketers
honestly man you're doing pretty well. making more money is good obviously. but you're doing quite well
>>meme degree
Let me guess... history?
>have job, car apt, money
woa what a tragedy
Get fit this summer and work on feeling somewhat more worthy over time
then go for a 3/10 gf
Film actually, so much worse
>late 30s
>no one in my life at all except an internet girl who doesn't even talk to me anymore, she just takes my free shit
Thank god I'm ill enough not to last until next year I guess.
>26
>went back to school at the age of 24
>failed 3/5 classes this semester
>not sure what I want to do with my life
I guess I could go back to working at my old retail job. I really don't want to, but I need money so I guess I have no other choice. I wish I could just figure out what I wanted to do with my life. There are 16 year olds who are getting laid, graduating college and landing great jobs, and all I'm doing is failing in life.
>27.5
>live with my gorgeous-and-with-good-values wife
>no car - waste of money
>no friends other than my best friend, who I married
>wasn't dumb enough to waste money on a degree
Hoping that by age 30, I can be a landlord.
>32
>spent entire adult life getting a Ph.D. I don't need because my rich parents died young
>no point in getting a job
>extreme trust issues preventing me from communicating directly with anyone
>throatfucking my live-in slave isn't exciting anymore
>only a matter of time until I turn to drugs
32
good job
steal drugs from girlfriend
alkie
whatever
>29
>two motorcycles
>live with my bf in nice apt
>he has a great job
>I work part time/full time technology retail
>have friends I see once in a blue moon
>smoke a lot of pot and occasionally do psy
I think I semi-made it, I would like to start eating better though I think that would help seal the deal.
29, retail, homosexual, wtf
sorry i know we're supposed to support each other in this thread, so i will support you by saying you're a LOSER
>be user
>hate shitting so fucking much
>hate that it takes up valuable minutes from my NEET lifestyle every single day
>also hate the mess it makes, making the bathroom reek of fecal matter and all the wiping
>seriously, the smell of fecal matter is particulate getting in your airways and the longer you spend wiping the more you're inhaling it
>remember back to a trip to China as a younger man
>remember how the monks could consciously manipulate almost any muscle in their entire body at will
>remember all the advice and teaching they were happy to show to a curious tourist
>train myself for months on how to carefully and barely prolapse my sphincter
>at first it hurts and is super uncomfortable but with prolonged training those feelings go away
>can now completely empty my butt of shit within seconds by gently prolapsing my sphincter and just letting everything slide out in one go
>barely takes any time to wipe anymore, at most two or three
>a roll of toilet paper lasts for weeks now
>freed for the rest of my life from the drag that is going to the toilet to take a lengthy and messy shit
The only downside is that my butt now kind of prolapses a little anyways when I have a bad fart so sometimes a little squirt of proto-feces comes out. Still worth it.
homosex lol
>turning 27 this year
>unemployed since 2011
>no social connections with the outside world
>can't force myself to do jackshit because people exist
>can't lead a normal life because people exist
>can't like anything because people exist
>feel bad about HikiNEETing because people exist
>disgusted by pretty much everything because people exist
>want to die but it would be better if everyone else just got the fuck off my planet
>everyday i ask myself for what am i even getting punished for
Anyone else?
>your planet
>everyone else is the problem
>if nobody was around Id do everything
holy shit man are you delusional or what
>25
>KV
>have a good job
>Have a company car
>Have long time friends
>Going to japan at the end of the year with my friends.
Im pretty decent just wish i could find someone to share it with,But It's still early for me so it could be worse.
>typical hostile npc answer
>totally ignores the sarcasm because he's only programmed to attack anything that doesn't fit the world's narrative
>hurr durr u dlusiomal
People are the problem.
Just what is a "meme degree" and how did you end up getting it?
>30
>"Working" for pennies dog walking
>Too much of a brainlet to even attempt going to college at this age
>Not even sure what I want in life
>
NIGGER NIGGERCUNTNIGGER
>25
>Still only on G1
>No GF and potentially down to just 2 friends, one working two jobs and the other living far away.
>Switched to crap diploma as too much of a brainlet to graduate from accounting
>Still stuck on someone who ghosted on me half a decade ago.
Niece and nephew are the last excuse I've got to not off myself.
>27
>get back into dating after my last relationship ended
>hmm surely women my age are more serious and mature than the time wasting younger idiots I've been on countless dates with
>meet really cool grill, also 27
>go on three fantastic dates
>we agree to meet up again after the third
>but then she gets progressively worse at replying til she eventually just ghosts
>my fucking face when
Would it fucking KILL people to just say they're no longer interested? I don't even want to know why, just some sort of confirmation would be better than this immature bullshit. Fuck I ain't got time for this playing
any degree you get without the networking resources to get a good job
>30
>shut-in
>no real goals in mind
>don't really care anymore
fuck man i just want to get high and not have carpal tunnel.
>just say they're no longer interested
women are inferior and afraid of confrontation. just take the hint and stop answering.
now this is some loser shit
Kek ty m8. I'm not doing terrible I guess, I get so much vacation time I cant use it all, but I wont ever be able to retire on this.
I'm still not old so it's nice being able to hike/mountain climb while I still have a good body, but eventually I need to find a place I can earn enough to retire on.
I guess I just expected more from life.a 6/10 wife with 2.5 kids with a house and a white picket fence with the golden retriever ect.
I also expected a guaranteed job since I'm basically the eagle scout modern American you would want working for you.
Instead I'm working a wageslave job while I watch Juan and Jamal get college grants in my very liberal state, xim and xer speaking on campus about how white males (me) are what's ruining this country, white women dressing like whores that I wouldn't touch with an anti-aids pole, ect.
It's just so tiresom, I never thought of myself as a prude or a Jow Forumsock until recently, these days though I'm starting to think Hitler was right.
whats your beef with people?
>25
>neet
>severely anxious recluse
>never had a job
>zero connections, lowly family
>never had a gf
>virgin
>haven't spoken to anyone outside family in two years
>live in borderline poverty with mother
>she is mentally ill and anorexic
>terribly mentally ill but too terrified to see someone about it
>recently signed up for online course so I can get study bux
>have done like an hour of the work and am weeks behind due to inability to concentrate or motivate myself to do anything
>realised the course has a practical element where you have to go to a campus so will likely fail anyway
>will eventually have to force myself to go to the doctor so I can get autism bux
>my only dream is to build a comfy neet den with everything I like and smoke weed all day until life is so bad that I can just peacefully kill myself
i just graduated uni. i have purpose in my life.
i was the dude that made the final battle threads yesterday, honestly i should've failed everything but i didnt. now i'm free from that gay bullshit jesus fuck that was getting lame.
i'm almost 27 and feeling quite hopeful. i'm gonna do a bunch of fasts this month, btwn 1/2 - 2/3 of the time left. before that i'm gonna get really high for a few days and watch gurren lagann. i'm just so happy everything is better than it used to be. back in the day i used to be neet or suicidal. now it's all gucci.
I'M HOLDING UP GOOD OP
how are you all doing
They get in my way. Especially when they got some inferiority issues going on.
>You work; it's not enough.
>You don't work; it's not allowed.
>You make enough money; no it''s not enough.
>You make more money; you have too much money.
>You work less; you get arrested.
>You work 24/7; you're lazy.
I tried but i'm burned out.
Am i the "broken" one for not wanting to deal with such faggots and their faggotry?
>inb4 life's not fair bla bla bla
People are a disease and the symptoms are all the mental illnesses and i don't want to catch that.
if you don't mind me asking, whats your job and what state do you live in? Im asking because the affordability of that place is completely unfathomable where i live
i was talking to my dad. he said a dude made like hundreds of $$ / day because he knew how to do it. you need to do a lot of dogs, basically. he did it after 10 years in the military, didnt want to do a gay office job
i agree with you desu. im quite misanthropic. having left america and returned i feel like everyone's an opp
>35
>5'11 160 lbs. skinny fat
>Get 100% VA monthly ($3100 tax free)
>Live with mom
>Tax free property (give to mom) and sales tax
>Save Neetbux
>Travel for 6 months of the year
>Bang loads of hookers
>Come back home
>Save Neetbux
That is pretty much my life for the last 3 years. I am about 4 months out of my next trip to Thailand and then Japan (not sure where after that). No real friends here because I am gone half of the time.
I'm a huge fucking loser, but have mostly accepted it by now. One of these days I am going to have to be an adult when I get back.
>27, still live at home
>have a car
>no gf
>2 friends(one of which moved to a different state with his wife and kid)
>tfw no degree, had to work to pay for my own shit after high school
>online datig is trash
Why is rent so fucking expensive? I would be living on my own if it wasnt for that shit.
>Why is rent so fucking expensive?
Where do you live? In the midwest you can get a shitter apartment for like $475 a month if you had too.
Fellow 25+ bots, how do I talk to girls on tinder. I am a NEET and live with my mothjer so I cant sex at home
>match with girl as I am swiping
>feel obligation to instantly message
>dont know what to say
>just never talk to them
or
>get a notification
>somebody matched me
>too nervous to look
>let a few days pass
>they have either unmatched me by the time I look, or I feel like too much time has passed for me to say anything
I have like 400 matches from a year ago and the small talk part of it kills me wanting to try. Also, have the living at home problem but that can be worked around.
Just say what the fuck ever though if you want to try. Don't overthink it. If you are using to hookup who cares what she thinks. Play the numbers.
I also might be scared in the 1 time i was drunk and did meet with a girl she fucking catfished me.
>Drunk at 2am
>Get on Tinder
>Swipe right on 5/10
>Talk and call $40 Uber to meet her
>Actual 2/10 beast
>Tell her I am too tired to fuck and sleep in her bed
>Uber home at 6am before she wakes up for another $40
NJ.
And its almost 1200 for a semi decent 1bd apt.
Tfw thats almost my whole check
Lol I dont mind, Oregon and I work in a hardware store.
I'm tempted to move back to my hometown in Oakridge for awhile. Work low wage jobs while I get Jow Forums and learn a couple languages.
I just went back there recently and it's so nice being able to go do pushups by the river/hike all over the trails (pic related is the town, basically hidden leaf village tier town).
Then maybe once I learn a few languages I can apply for quite a few jobs, just being able to speak Spanish in Merica is a huge plus to quite a few employers.
Yeah, that's quite a lot. $1200 would get you pic related where I am with about 1,000 sq feet.
The problem with learning Spanish these days is a lot of owners will just hire Mexicans for cheaper.
I was also catfished the one time I worked up the balls to actually talk to someone. Same situation, matched with 6/10 girl, met and it was a 2/10 hambeast who used angles and filters to hide maybe 100 pounds.
I decided after reading this post to just say fuck it and look at the match from 40 minutes ago. Short hair and sounds like a slut, two things I like. Problem is I have no fucking clue how to open with sluts. Do you just say something like 'hey i can sex'?
The one time I talked to the girl and got catfished is because she posts Jow Forums shit in her bio and I just opened with calling her a kike, so I still have never properly opened with someone
pic related, the slut(?) I matched 40 minutes ago
The more I travel the more I realize that I never should have left Oregon. Canada is truly beautiful though (pic related).
Also, I turned 25 yesterday so hello friends.
It's useful for someone managing Mexicans though, I'd guess.
31 here. Just moved back in with my parents. Rent went up way too much the last few years I lived in a studio apartment. I figured I'd live at home for 6-9 months and save up for a downpayment on a condo or something. At least something with a 1 bedroom.
Old Saturn is showing it's age so I'm looking for a new car. Dad's boss is selling his and I have just enough cash to buy it if he's being serious about selling it. It's a fucking 2002 Red Corvette with low miles, garage kept. I can't imagine driving that around as an incel. But it's either that or a (likely beat to shit) Mustang GT. I don't have any delusions of grandeur that driving a vette would turn me into a volcel but it's nice to imagine driving around in something so cool. Either way I'm definitely going v8 rear wheel drive this time.
I mean with a bio like that I would just be direct as possible and as she put "honest" about my intentions. Would probably open with something bland asking her about how her night is going and if she replied get straight to the point.
I'd be cautious with that one because it sure seems like she putting out all the things that a dude would want to hear on there. Might be smart to facetime her or something if she is interested. Maybe I'm jaded and shes just a slut though. good luck.
lmao shit man i feel like i got catfished too she was all chill n all when i talked to her on text n shit and she never showed her face when we video called and fuck man i thought she was white from her pics in her pics she fine af black hair skinny but just right and i meet this bitch she smells like vag discharge fat a darkie and ugly asf so idk who got it worse man couldnt even make out w her without feeling fucking repulsed
Here 1200 could get you between 650 sq ft to 900sq feet. Never over 1000. And im telling you in the shitiest places ever.
anyone have a problem with looking up ppl from childhood?
>next door neighbor in med school
>childhood best friend married
>childhood crush is getting married
>multiple ppl I knew are rich and successful
All while I am 25, a virgin, and living at my parents still
At least I was funnier than them in elementary school
Also, I'm a sucker for short hair too so I would probably compliment that.
It's a common thing and has been for a long time with dating apps. The women know that some men they are attracted to will still fuck them even though they fucking lied and are nasty.
Social media
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Kek I was thinking law enforcement as a deputy or fire department as an emt.
Fire department is nice because people dont hate you, law enforcement is nice because I can earn insane wages (60k+ a year with 3 consecutive days off) in Portland since lots of cops refuse to work there because antifa made even interacting with the public a fireable offense.
Either way both jobs REQUIRE citizenship and if I know Spanish and some other language that's popular with minorities I'm pretty much guaranteed the job (not to mention my 1k+ hours of community service).
Dont really want the job, it wont be much different then what I do now. But I gotta retire sometime like I said before, i think I'm gonna wait a few years though. Might fly to Japan for a month or two before I get a "real job", already spent time in Mexico sailing so that was kinda fun. I wanna try out a real Pachinko machine if I go to Japan and maybe visit those restaurants with animals running around in them, shit looks cash.
Canada is pretty lit, I always liked the idea of the Canadian wilderness and being able to see snow a lot more then we see in Oregon.
Does it stay cold constantly for you guys?
In Oregon right now it's starting to ramp up into the 80-100+ and I hate it for my hikes.
Rivers are still pulling ice water from the mountains so the water is 40-50 degrees and its almost unswimable (not that I havnt jumped in when I get hot from the hikes, my balls just ascend to the heavens for awhile).
very interesting thanks for the info
Yeah, that makes sense. If I was younger and not getting 3K neetbux a month (medically retired from the Marines) that seems like a good choice for me as well. Firefighter seems much better to me. I imagine dealing with the worst of society gets old after awhile. Either one would give good retirement benefits though.
Yeah, the cheaper places here are really fucking sketchy. Like violence and crime wise.
Ok I will compliment her short hair and then ask her how her night is going, then if she replies probably ask to fucc . Will post results
Good luck user
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