What's it like to have low anxiety and natural happiness?

What's it like to have low anxiety and natural happiness?

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Life is good, if you try to make it nice for yourself. No one can teach you to be happy user

God I hate Chads and Stacies

Those two look depressed.

I'll tell you a little secret but you have to keep quiet about it, ok?

Everyone feels anxiety and struggles with accepting the evident absurd pointlessness of existence. Everything is a cope and the quality and form of your cope is what shapes your psyche and outlook on life.

Yeah they could be, just like everyone else. If you think that dude is in a constant state of euphoria, because he gets laid or has the money to do what he wants then you are mistaken.

I would be in a constant state of euphoria if I had a guaranteed $3,000 a month.

thats what makes me kinda mad about this board sometimes. people wanna be snowflakes and be "alone" and force sadness upon themselves. To be successful you have to find what eliminates that anxiety.

I know i'm not mistaken, good sir. Thats why i said it. I don't believe anyone is happy, just distracted and role playing to keep up with the jonses.

it's just different. i've been on both ends of the spectrum. when i have low anxiety, i tend to get myself involved in difficult things and then end up stressing out about completing them (school or work usually). so either way, i tend to create stress for myself. although the stress when i'm busy is better in the long run than the stress from anxiety

are you two seriously denying that some people are happier than others?

talk about a COPE... lol no not everyone struggles the same.

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If that really is true then thats awesome man. You might be one job application away from reaching nirvana

not nessessarily but people come here to force sadness and are addicted to the feeling of sadness. and sometimes people just encourage it. Thats what annoys me here.

yes, r9k is the opposite of a support group. get out while you can. I've been here 8 years.

Your right its a pity party

i got out. i used to believe all this bs but after just realizing its a choice to not apply yourself socially even if you have social anxiety which i suffer from. but i forced myself to socialize and my life fucking improved.

i know its
>ehehehe dont listen to normie
but if your going to listen once. Your choosing to be sad here coming here everyday. You can leave if you want.

I'm not at all saying that everyone struggles the same. What I will say is that the depth and intensity of your struggle doesn't mean much in comparison to the struggle of others because it is a completely subjective matter.

Saying 'I have it so much worse than person x' is essentially the same as saying 'children are starving in Africa right now'. It's completely irrelevant. I will never be that child nor will I ever be that 'Chad'; I will always be me.

You play the hand you are dealt, the infinity of hands you were not dealt are irrelevant.

Been around the world and found that only stupid people are breeding.

plus you can shape the cards you were delt if you so desire

The woman in this photo is thinking
>but is this guy really the BEST I could get?

>people wanna be snowflakes and be "alone" and force sadness upon themselves. To be successful you have to find what eliminates that anxiety.

tfw my misery is caused entirely by employment
tfw i can't just stop working and go back to the superior NEET life because i need money for food and rent

reeeeeeeeee

I'm past that point and agree, it is nice to be able to splurge here and there. It's especially nice for me, since I grew up relatively poor: we had no car, didn't go on vacations, no money for haircuts and no allowance. Being a self-made man is the way to go, fuck trustfund kids.

the only thing causing my anxiety is my weight and I was about 240 lbs and I am 130 lb, still overweight cuz I am a manlet but by the end of the year I should be at a normal BMI. my anxiety is still there because im still very chonker looking but I never felt comfortable with people or anything because I was too busy obessing over how I looked. I never did anything about it because it was going to be such a long fucking time to see any results, I was still gonna be fat for a long time. but I just did it, started one day and the progress was slow but it happened. all I had to do was wait. im much more comfortable and wear whatever I want, style myself how I want and not how I feel like I should because I deserve to hide myself away or look as boring as possible to not draw attention to myself. being fat and hating it really is a self inflicted prison sentence

That girl on the right looks very pretty. Is she a namefag?

>I left r9k which means I'm a normie and I'm better than you and you can do it just like me!

Just stop posting faggot

I don't have anxiety and am pretty content with life. I've never needed much to be happy. If I have food and a place to sleep I'm all good. I've had well paying jobs and lived in fancy apartment as well been unemployed and homeless. I've even spent a few months in jail and even then I was able to find happiness. I also don't really think to much about what other people think of me. I'm ok with myself and if someone doesn't like me that's their problem. Also I have a huge pee pee and have no trouble with women, so there's that. Actually that's probably the main reason why nothing gets gets me down. Anytime I'm feeling bad I just remember my tremendous endowment and I feel much better.