Talk to a pole dancer while she takes her break

I'm strictly in the club. A lot of the other dancers tell me to try out camming but I make plenty with what I do already. No reason to do more really.

I'm a loser.

I don't LOVE it but I don't mind it. The dancing is a lot of fun. I enjoy ripping around a pole and feeling the music. The extra parts is what pays the bills though. There's one guy who sees me two or three times a week. He isn't forceful or creepy about anything. He's one of the most professional customers I see. His consistency makes me a little uneasy at times.

Other than the guy that attacked me probably this one guy on a business trip. Very obese, very sweaty, smelly, greasy. He breathed through his mouth the whole time and grumbled "oh fuck" over and over while patting my ass.

It's a safe establishment, I'm not worried.

>No dick so far tonight

Is that normal? Do you meet guys through work or are you talking about prostituting?

Keep seeing you around lately, stripper-user, what made you start posting here? Guessing you're mobile-posting from the club?

Never been to a strip club before because I think it'd just make me sad and it seems like a retarded way to waste money, but I am curious. How much money do you usually earn in a night? How much does it cost for a "private dance" and how big of a cut does the club take?

Sometimes there are guys I really really like a lot and things get out of hand....

I've used Jow Forums for a while but I've been extra lonely lately so I've been posting a lot. Right now I'm posting from my car. I'm scheduled for the stage in like fifteen minutes but I wanted to get out of the club for a bit.

I can earn anywhere from nothing to enough to pay my way through a week in one night. My club has a house fee, basically like a hairdresser paying a salon. It changes based on the day and time. I mostly dance prime time so mine are higher. It's $95 tonight. Paying for dances ranges. If I'm bumping on you in the open it's like $20. If you want to go to a room and chat and see me dance a little around $50 depending on what I do. If you want to get a little more intimate it depends on how much you've already payed for and how much I like you.

Hope you get AIDS you disgusting whore

>I've been extra lonely lately so I've been posting a lot

Want to be discord friends? Not particularly interested in nudes or sex, just someone to talk to

how do you seduce men or get them to tip you better? particularly in conversations what kinda stuff do you do or say

You get paid, sex with attractive men and only really just need a bouncer at hand to stop things from getting risky

What makes you a loser?

Thanks for the answers stripper-user, really helped me with my procrastination and I even learned something. I'm guessing something "a little more intimate" includes sex, but you don't have to confirm or deny if you're too paranoid about NSA-chan. Interested by the fact that your prices change based on how much you like the guy, is this typical practice?

Would an attractive dude be able to get some for under $100? Totally asking for a friend

Last post for now. I have to get ready.

Maybe, I'll think about making one.

It's a lot of flirting and acting like a dumb teenager. I push the "I'm young and small" thing HARD. Usually I talk about how strong they are or say that they look so smart and intimidatingly stoic. I just try to seem like a young girl who has fallen for an older guy.

No friends or family. Not much to live for really.

You could nail some attractive guy down and start a family

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Is it true that strippers either had daddy issues or didnt get enough attention and strip for attention?

I wonder, what would happen if a girl just wanted to be a volunteer stripper?
Like she just wants to entertain men in a safe location as a public service and not accept money. Would she get beaten and hated by the other girls or would she get kicked out for not earning a commission for the club? Or would she get kidnapped on her way home one night?

I've been toying with the idea for a public/mindbreak/ntr doujin.

Same as any other female here, seeking validation and attention from thirsty beta losers. Sluts love that shit, it boosts their egos.

Are all the coworkers friends with each other?

Just more proof that woman have life on easy mode. No friends or family. Bah most robots family hates them And they have no friends. God woman are delusional.

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Do you strip just for money or is there also an emotional aspect

How does one get a stripper to like them?

You could have it easymode too if you became a gay prostitute.

Feel like shit, I'm going home.

Most guys run away if you tell them that you're a stripper. There's a reason "don't fall in love with a stripper" is a thing.

Well I my father wasn't around and no one in my family wants me if that helps you figure it out.

I don't know. Some clubs charge cuts based on how much they makes, others just want an agreed amount for the time.

None of them really like me. I talk to one of the waitresses a lot. A lot of the other dancers dislike me because I'm new and young so I take a lot of customers more easily. Otherwise they're indifferent about me.

It's my job, I'm a professional.

In what way?

>A lot of the other dancers dislike me because I'm new and young
Sounds cliquey, is it?

How does one make a stripper want to date them

you don't date a stripper dude they're broken husks

So, where's your dignity? ,

Genuine question looking for an answer

What if I like depressed girls

How important is physical fitness as a stripper? I know that pole dancing requires a lot of strength and stamina, but are the guys who go into strip clubs usually looking for fit, toned girls? Or are they just seedy and looking for attention from young women?

There are multiple cliques, definitely not one big one. Pole dancers stick together, they hate me the most because I was recruited because they aren't making shit anymore. The regular dancers have their factions. Ratchet girls stick together, stuck up girls stick together, etc. It's cut throat so you have to have your support group.

I want someone who will give me time, lots of love, and will take care of me. Every girl is different but I want to be someone's princess.

Up my ass. I have none.

I need to be in good shape. I eat well and exercise a bit because I'm on the pole. Normal dancers need to be as fit as it takes to get customers. There's a big difference between flagpoling and swinging around and shaking your ass. There are some girls in terrible shape because their body type suits the extra weight. Most girls go to clubs asking for openings. I was recruited because I was a capable pole dancer at 19. I'm a club manager's wet dream. His words not mine.

Just tell him you *were* a stripper?

any good pole dancing routines for a degenerate twink that wants to learn?
don't worry, i hate myself too uwu

>I'm a club manager's wet dream. His words not mine.

I'm not sure if this is a good thing or not. How soul crushing is it to work as a stripper anyway? Do you think you'd take a change in career at this point if you could? I dunno, by earning patreonbux or just working a regularly 9 to 5?

Would you rather have dignity or so you just like not mind?
If you could get a job as an intellectual and have the brains to match, would you rather do that or just strip?

Sure and then he'll wonder where my car, apartment, wardrobe, and stuff came from.

To get started you need to learn basic spins, how to climb, and how to rest on the pole. That's all the stuff you need for normal routines. After that you need to learn how to hold of a flagpole and then how to move out of a flagpole. Once you do that you learn how to maneuver without touching the ground. Most girls stop at the first part.

The girls that don't hate me tell me to get into online work all the time. The money is there, potentially better, and I don't have to touch anyone. I don't mind having to work with people in person though. It's harder but that's fine really. I have no idea what I plan to do after this.

I don't really remember what it feels like to have self respect so I couldn't tell you. I have way more than I had growing up so I'm happy enough. Sophisticated and intellectual work isn't for me anyway.

Whoa goddamn, there's a pole that actually supports your weight? Hope it's not attached to any load bearing structures.

where do i practice without a pole? live with my parents most of the time and will be living in an unfurnished apartment for 3 months
what's your work schedule like and daily life like?

>The girls that don't hate me tell me to get into online work all the time.

I work from home making pornographic games. While our work isn't exactly the same, it does have its upsides and downsides as opposed to going out for your job. I'm presuming you live alone and you already sound depressed, so staying at home all day by yourself would probably take a toll on your mind. I'm still living with family and even then I got into some pretty deep depression. A big part of success online is knowing how to shill yourself too. There is potentially huge money to make from working online, as you have a theoretically infinite clientele, but it does have its own unique challenges you'll have to deal with.

At the same time, I just want to let you know that if you aren't going anywhere with your stripping career, you should consider your options. Becoming comfortable with what you're doing when it isn't going anywhere is dangerous. It happened to me with my last employer and it nearly ended with me dangling from a rope. Whatever you do, I hope it brings you some mediocum of happiness.

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If you want to build the muscle for it you could do gymnastics exercises and tons of pullups but you can't really practice without an actual pole. There are pole studios. I go to one from time to time, ironically there are a lot of non-strippers that go to them and they even make a point to explain how they would NEVER stoop that low.

I pick what nights I want to work. There's a lot of flexibility but I have seen them get mad at dancers who flake or are inconsistent. There are lots of dancers who want into my club, a dancer that doesn't show up is lost money. My daily life consists of lots of laying around and playing the sims or animal crossing.

My mental health is wavering. I had some very real suicidal thoughts recently. As gross as it sounds you're right. Spending a night at the club gives me enough human contact to make it through the next day. I'm hearing a lot that I need to figure out a life after dancing though. I guess it's a sign.

i should just work out in general. i'm old and i got to not lose my twink gift uwu
i'd feel weird being the only guy there

your lifestyle seems to be the standard for this generation (guessing you're around 20).
everyone has inconsistent hours and a lot of lying around because full time work is hard to find.
i'm legitimately the only person i know with a 9-5 and it's only gonna be for 3 months unless i really impress my boss.

I'm sure if he's sober he'll appreciate your honesty

>I had some very real suicidal thoughts recently.

Please reach out to someone. I would probably be dead if I hadn't visited my psychologist on the same day I was going to hang myself. I won't tell you any cheesy shit like you've got so much to live for and that life is really great, but you've got to remember that your depression is trying to kill you and there are many things which can have an impact on your mood. Perhaps you're feeling this way for reasons other than your circumstances, as shitty as they might be.

For me, getting a good night's sleep, a decent diet, exercise and adequate amounts of vitamin D changed a lot about my mood and my thinking. I had suicidal thoughts for months leading up to that day and I had hardly slept for weeks. It was nice when I could just pause for a moment and take in the scenery around me, and just think about how nice it was to look up at the sky and see the stars shining back on me.

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Real full time work seems impossible to come by now. Almost everyone does some sort of extra work on the side to fill the gaps now. Especially with how people can do so mhch through websites and online services. You were close, I'm 19.

Maybe. My standards are too high for a stripper. I'd rather be alone than accept someone that has the same value as someone like me.

Does sleep affect that a lot? My sleep schedule isn't healthy but it can't be with my work. The whole idea around psychology scares me. I don't want someone poking and prying at my thoughts. It has a lot more to do with my family than it does stripping. Throwing myself out for whoever wants me every night probably has something to do with it though.

you mentioned you started at 19 in another post so just guessing time. i'm turning 24 in less than a week. god i've wasted my life

my position is just an internship and college makes me want to cut myself so i want to somehow turn that to a job and not go back. as pathetic as it sounds it's my first real job

>Does sleep affect that a lot?

Yes, adequate sleep is extremely important for psychological health. I have a bad sleeping schedule myself, but it's better than it was and I don't want to die anymore.

>The whole idea around psychology scares me. I don't want someone poking and prying at my thoughts.

I can understand that. There are a lot of things about my mind which I would rather keep private from other people, but sometimes you really do need someone else's perspective to help you understand what you're feeling. Psychologists can teach you healthy ways to deal with your feelings and how to overcome personal trauma.

>Throwing myself out for whoever wants me every night probably has something to do with it though.

Maybe it does. Validation is a hell of a drug. It's a normal thing to feel happy when other people desire you or want your company, but at the same time, it can't be your only source of self worth or validation.

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I once dated a stripper, and she was one of the cooler and more down to earth people I ever dated. Only ended because she wanted to skip town and I had some responsibilities I couldn't leave at the time. I'm definitely an outlier with regards to being willing to date a sex industry worker, though, probably because of my insane family background.

I started doing this when I was 18. I was at a smaller club though. I've been at this one for almost a couple months. I don't know if I can this a real job. What is a real job? I don't really know what makes a job a real job. How's college? My high school teachers were disappointed that I chose not to go.

I'm really stuck in a loop. I wake up past noon, spend the day alone, and if I'm dancing then I dance. It's mind numbing. I miss my brother every day. He won't see me because he doesn't want me around his daughter. She's 9 months old. I haven't even gotten to hold her. His wife disgusts me. My mother probably doesn't even know if I'm alive. I haven't spoken with her since I ran away after graduating high school. Every day I feel so far away from everyone and it's wearing me out. Sorry for dumping this on you.

Ehhh I mean seems OK with dating strippers lol

If I went to a strip club what should I do to get a strippers number?

>Sorry for dumping this on you.

It's alright, we've all got something broken inside us. I don't have the answer for reuniting you with your brother or somehow making things just fine with your family, but that doesn't mean that things have to stay this way forever. You can make new connections with people, you can find people who won't judge you for who you are and you can find a way to be happy. It's not an easy thing to be happy and I'm still working out how to achieve it myself, but if things can be better than they are, then why not take that chance?

If something is beyond your control, then don't stress about it. If it is, then do what you can to make it work out in your favour. I think you need to work out what it is you want and start working towards it. To be in an endless loop of waking up, stripping and going to bed is going to kill you eventually. You've got to hope for something better.

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Lol your brother sounds based, who would want a disgusting broken whore near them. Hope you kys soon

It would be hypocritical for me not to be because my mom was an escort while she was in college training to become a nurse, and she wound up being a good mom, all things considered. She had fucking awful taste in men, though. My supposed dad was involved in way more harmful shit. It wouldn't be too much of a stretch to consider some of what he was involved in to be genocide. Fucking glowniggers.

i dunno what a real job either. it's just something people say to look down on others

>college
it's not for everyone. it completely destroyed me as a person.
good on you for not going into debt, though. why'd you choose not to go?

What's it like being a career cumdump? Is it particularly exciting for you to know that you're a whore or is it just work? Geniunely interested, I'd assume the extra stuff makes you at least a little bit aroused to think about.

In the modern era it's not that uncommon, frankly speaking it's already a miracle if you don't get cheated on while being married

I dated a stripper once. Knew her long before she got into that sort of work though. The sex positivity thing is all a fuckton of cope, I knew too many of those girls too well for too long to not see the truth of it all. People who do this sort of work, they're all drowning inside and being in that world only hurts them more. It's toxic whirlpool of self destructive. After being part of it I really believe evil and sin is something that truely exists.

>I want to be someone's princess.
This is honestly a massive redflag.

Have you been in a relationship recently? Are you interested in one?

user she's literally a stripper/prostitute

>>Weird larp, tbhfam

/thread

>I want someone who will give me time, lots of love, and will take care of me. Every girl is different but I want to be someone's princess.
You just said nothing. What he means is what do you have to do when talking to a stripper in the short interaction you have with her to get her to like you.

I'm also interested in an answer for this.

Can you post a picture of your boobs please thats all i want, just an image of your boobs

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>Parents are still alive, and don't know where you are.
HOLY FUCK. Imagine fear gnawing at their insides every day while wondering where the hell you are, whether you're even alive or not. At least give them a fucking text to notify them that you're alive. Goddamn.

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this*

I can't believe they keep bumping shit like this. Tits or gtfo.