How do I stop having beta or cuck fetishes?
I like femdom, SPH, netorare, feet and heels.
When I see girls dressed in sluttty clubbing outfits, I don't want to have sex with them but I start imagining other guys getting to touch them but the only thing I get to touch is my little penis.
When they wear high heels, they become so powerful and dominant, especially when their heels are longer than my tiny dick...
As long as no one gets hurt it is okay to have a fetish no need to fight it
It's hurting me when I spend all my free time masturbating away
lift weights and fuck a whore
next time you get those cuck thoughts you just go out and punch a chad in his face and savagely fuck his gf
fuck this modern world, go apeshit
currently having the same issues.
Either full removal cold turkey or replace the more problematic ones with better fetishes.
I'd lose the NTR either way.
Also, femdom shouldn't necessarily be a bad thing. I've always figured the most equal solution for it would be a relationship dynamic where you can both switch off being the one in charge when you get tired of it and let the other take over for a while, but I guess women don't want a relationship where the guy is treated like a person with real thoughts and emotions and just mindlessly serves them and then chokes them during sex.
So if you're giving up your fetishes for a relationship with a woman, just don't. Get rid of the NTR still, but don't compromise when it comes to this. She either accepts you or not, if she doesn't then fuck her whore self. The world needs more men to stand up to women's thottish ways and put them in their place with standards as equally high as theirs.
>"We're going to the club user, don't stay up all night playing your little penis again!"
>"Do you like our heels? They're longer than that little cock of yours!"
Raise your testosterone levels, do diamond pushups and squats on a daily basis
How would he stop having the fetisch though? When there's something that makes you uncontrollably horny, it's very difficult to stop.
That only gives a very slight boost for like half and hour after lifting
It's a long and difficult process. If you're just trying to get rid of it altogether, then I think the only real option is to avoid it at all costs until it's gone, which would take a long time.
If you're trying to reprogram it with something else, then you would find similar material to it and watch more of that and less of the original, and keep moving until you no longer have strong desire for the original stuff. This can backfire and just give you new fetishes if done improperly.
But no matter how hard any of it is, it is possible. We're not born with many of these impulses, you know.
What about the foot, high heels and SPH fetish?
Everyone on this thread is wrong as fuck. OP, I was in the same place 3 months ago, and the only way I got out of was by imagining myself as the "bull." It takes time to transition into thinking that way, but start by imagining the pleasure is coming all from you and only watch videos where that state of mind is achievable. My problem now is I have narcassistic tendancies, but by comparison it's a much more managable one to have.
I'm addicted to SPH JOI videos especially with feet and heels.
>all these people answering OP seriously instead of recongizing that he wants a beta humiliation fetish thread
The first two are fine, had to look up what SPH was. I'd try to get rid of NTR first and see what can be done about the SPH. The former would just be incredibly harmful to you and your relationships, but maybe the latter can be tempered instead of completely getting rid of it. It sounds harmless on its own, I'd say it's the NTR's helper that's too afraid to act on its own. But then again, I may be wrong about that and it may need to go as well.
While you're at it, I'd try to transition away from porn to hentai. It's still not very good for you, but it's not near as bad as porn is. That stuff is poison, probably causes the most harmful fetishes. You're lucky in that regard, some of my fetishes are hard to find even with normal porn, and practically nonexistent in hentai.
I'd make the switch to hentai first if you haven't already, most of your fetishes are catered to there and it might help disassociate the harmful ones with reality, so even if you can't deprogram yourself, it may at least cause less personal harm.
I don't have cuck fantasies but I love these outfits, little, single colored dress (red, white, black all great) with very high heels. Lots of makeup, toned body, tan, accessories etc are even better.
Every time I see someone like this I just want to push her to a wall, pull up the skirt from behind and fuck the shit out of her. And since it is my fantasy she cums hard like a whore she is.
Why do guys with rape fantasies always think the woman will enjoy it or even want her to?
Don't let the fetishes define you.
You are more than ideas that fet your dick hard.
Embrace the fact that this turns you on, but also be aware how stupid these fetishes are.
There were a couple of times I laughed after cumming, because of how ridiculous my fetishes are (very similar to yours btw).
Don't feel bad about this shit. Own it.
The reason you have them it is because of self-esteem issues and a prolonged use of porn.
The fetishes will probably fade away with you owning them and slowly fixing your other issues.
I can't speak for others. As for me it is probably coming from mental issues and a repressed personality. If she doesn't enjoy it there is no point. Even when I fantasize about some ridiculous (non-rape) scenario where the woman get little or no pleasure, I spend a lot of time to make up something she could (theoretically) cum from. This could be simply just male pride but I think it is more than that. I know I could never ever get violent with a woman, especially not during sex, which I'm terrified of anyway. I guess these rape fantasies are about making me feel safe. I'm on top, everything happens how I want to and I can let out my pent up frustrations. It is very important the woman need be a whore, since sexy "bad" girls don't have rights and deserve to be punished. FYI I think the same about bad guys, but since I'm not gay they just deserve torture and death. When she cums in the end it kind if justifies the act.
Or it could be something entirely different, I'm not a professional.
Stop watching porn. The longer you avoid it the more your sexual interests normalize
You know what's a great way to lose a cuck fetish? Try acting it out in real life
When I see girls dressed for a night out a club outside, I keep staring at their heels and go home imagining them grinding against other guys and getting groped while I can only group and hump my hand
the high heel-cock comparison is what really got me into heels/sph, good shit
It is so sad when women dress from a catalog and unable to accept their body type. There are tons of ways you can make even the worst body attractive. The left and the middle one is a complete joke. The right one looks good at first glance but something feels off. Maybe photoshopped? Not necessary the curves but that cleavage looks weird. Bonus point, she takes care of her hair very well.