>getting a girlfriend won't make you feel any better
Can personally confirm this is complete bullshit, having a girlfriend literally fixed all my emotional problems and made me infinitely more motivated and confident. Once we broke up due to issues of distance I spiraled back into feeling awful and demotivated. I think having someone you can genuinely connect with on all levels if integral to happiness unless you're a psychopath or some shit.
A gf will definitely make you feel happier but it won't solve your issues. And if you're only happy in a relationship, sooner or later you will become clingy and that isn't sustainable in the long run, unless she is more fucked in the head than you are
> I think having someone you can genuinely connect with on all levels if integral to happiness
implying any girl provides this
>unless she is more fucked in the head than you are
What if my only issue is that i'm not happier.
You would never understand, you're a normalfag.
Never had that, in fact she was more clingy in general. Having a girlfriend will stabilise all of that shit, assuming she's a good one and not a cunt like the vast majority of people out there. Obviously the quality of the individual you're dating matters, dating mentally ill fatties won't make you any better.
I became a normalfag. The only thing keeping you from become one as well is yourself
Time to get a suicidal cf, that's mentally ill
most of the time it is just a temporary fix that lets you ignore your problems for a while. they will not go away unless you do something to fix them. she will inevitably get tired of dealing with your problems and leave you feeling worse than you did before.
My problems mostly just went away, I spent more time talking her through hers than she did mine. We'd mostly just support it each other and it was fine. People exaggerate the impact of this kind of stuff.
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>Once we broke up due to issues of distance I spiraled back into feeling awful and demotivated.
Yeah, that's the problem.
how in the FUCK did I screw that up
I think this is more about saying dont rush into relationships with just anybody. Because being in a relationship with the right person would fix problems but being in one with a gold digging leach wouldnt
I mean everyone needs a support base. Unless you're rich chad you're going to need people to help you through it otherwise yeah you'll probably fall apart.
Yep, had a girlfriend for one year, in that time i actually fixed myself for the most part, now tfw is back
I'll agree with that, the quality of the person you're with matters a lot.
Having a gf literally solved all my problems.
If I had a gf like Kurisu I wouldn't have any problems, I would be the happiest man in the world.
A shame 3DPD can't follow her example.
i clicked on your thread because you posted kurisu but this thread sucks, fuck you pal.
I'm sorry you felt that way user
Why do normies think being clinginess and dependancy are the worst things possible in a relationship? also cute anime girl
tfw i can't get a gf
where can i find a seras victoria or raven?
>and that isn't sustainable in the long run
If she's fucked in the head and/or doesn't actually like you, yeah. If she likes you, why wouldn't it be?
god dammit I'm tired of this shit. HOW THE FUCK DO YOU KNOW? Are you me, fag? you're not me. You don't know shit about me or what would make me happy. shut your dumb whore anus-mouth.
fuck you faggot thanks for reminding me what I am missing out on piece of shit. This is not fair!!!