How ya doing?

/comfy/ threads were made years ago too, by what i remember. dont be grumpy, friend. get comfy. what's on your mind?

Care to elaborate, user?
You seem like you're having a rough time. Perhaps talking to us anonymously might help.

Does she think about you? If the answer is "No" then your efforts would be better spent on other things

Its all about having a good time and trying to forget our problems for a little while. Lets just get comfy.

She said she didnt wanna hurt me but god I just think this hurts worst so bad man I've never felt like this before ive never even cried over a girl

Pretty good m8.
Tropico 6 and that furry xcom game just came out on origin premier so I got that to play.
Bout to walk down to the 7/11 and get some candy, vanilla coke, chips, and salsa con queso so I can stay up late and be tired at work in the morning after a productive night of shitposting, vidia, and ofc anime porn (pic related, why is she so perfect bros?).

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I cant tell if you're calling me a redditfag or if you're calling others in the thread redditfags.

She misses me as friend she says I've made her the happiest she has ever been but shes just inconsistent with her emotions and she didnt wanna go back to her ex while we were dating so she broke it off and low and behold she is back with him now

oh shit man, i'm really sorry.

if it makes you feel any better, i've had absolutely shit luck with women lately. you know something though? sadness is temporary. these feelings will pass, and you'll use this experience as a stepping stone to find a better girl. she's not the one, bro.

let yourself be sad for a while. let the pain exist with you, then let it go when it's ready. then, and only then, you can begin to move on and really start to feel better again.

anything in particular you wanna discuss?

Okay :)

zzzzz

I'm kinda forcing my self to look at other girls but I'm afraid I'll get someone invested in me and I won't be there because she still lingers in my mind and another thing is she wants us to be friends but I cant I see them together and I shake man were suppose to hang out tomorrow I just idk if I can do it and her ex is so bad I'm just disappointed in her for falling for his shit again

That didn't make much sense to me, she broke up with you but you were friends and now she is with an ex? It is time to move on

I dont understand this because I dont feel much strong emotion for many people anymore. All I know from past experiences is that with time your pain will fade and you will at that point regain your confidence after your wound heals.

We were together we broke up I took it well she got with her ex and I've been driven away from her and she doesnt want that she wants us to remain friends but I cant

make it clear to her.

"hey. look, i really really cared about you, and the back and forth hurt me more than you know. i think that i need time alone, away from this, because what happened with us really fucked me up. i hope you understand."

here's the thing man, you can't force yourself to love. it just sorta happens? i did exactly what you did when i broke up with my ex and it didn't end well, i just kept crawling back to her because i thought she was different or that there's nobody like her or whatever.

just give yourself some space! it's okay to feel sad. it's okay to feel angry. let it exist with you, heal from the hurt, see what you did wrong and what she did wrong.

if you don't feel comfortable with being friends, like I said, take some space. nothing wrong with that; if she's a true friend she'll stick with you. otherwise, she isn't worth your time you know?

>how are you doing
i'm pretty comfy!! it's 4:35am and the sky is starting to brighten up, i don't know what i'll do today
>eating or drinking
i'm drinking some mango and something squash and eating cookies
>what are you doing
currently listening to goreshit's latest release "tower block knife crime", it's like the hotline miami ost became sentient and is trying to torture you. i love it
what about you anons

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Forcing love is a really bad idea. I have done it before and it almost led to me at the end of a really strong rope. I didnt even date the girl either, I had to support her through her relationships and try to act as a guide because she wouldnt leave me the fuck alone and she had really bad depression problems as well as an abusive household.
Trust me man, trying to force love isnt a good idea because you may take the last step that I didnt and I really wouldnt like you to take the step.

amen to that, forcing love is not a good idea. take care of yourself first!!

Well yeah because women and men are not and cannot be friends outside of a professional setting and even then not so much. Sounds to me like she is choosing her ex and you aren't taking it well

this
had a similar experience to user and only recently somewhat broke it off.
she's still throwing herself away to men twice her age she barely knows, and it makes me feel so fucking bad i can't help her.
i confronted her about it and she admits she doesn't even know why she does it to herself, it never ends well and the stress is fucking unbearable.
i wish she cared about herself the way i did.

Yeah, my situation is the same except the guy she likes is a total cunt who I wouldn't mind being round up and shot.
The girl was molested and sexually abused by her neighbors dad. She was manipulated many times for sexual purposes despite me warning her. She started getting drunk really young then throwing herself away to abusive assholes for attention. Her family was abusive to her. She claims she only does it because "they give me the attention I want" when in reality I could show her a loving relationship but everyone thinks i'm a bad person and shit.
The only reason they tell ME is because I act like im emotionless irl and I "dont give enough of a shit to tell anyone." She trusted me though and she almost killed herself over and over and each time it felt like she was dying again and again and I couldnt do anything but fucking watch.
If they understood why I do some of the things I do, we might be able to live in harmony. Haha, who am I kidding, we all know that cant happen! They hate me despite me going out of my way to help them. I tried helping them but they clearly didnt understand my motives but yet again, not even I do. I live for no purpose other than I tried saving one person from suicide then was roped into doing it for years.
She is clearly manipulating me for attention but I kept telling her to fuck off and she wouldnt.
Sorry if I got off topic or ranted a lot, its a longer story than this but I wanted you to understand why everything I was talking about happened then started rambling.

i'm so sorry you went through that user.
you sound like a very reasonable person, please take care of yourself.

At my fucking father's house, 17 so I legally still have to do visitation crap. Here for a week. Then 3 hour drive back home. Other than he has to work all week, it's pretty cool. Basically get free roam of his house, Unlike At my moms were I'm supervised can do and say whatever I want. Might go down to park and chill tommorow.

The drive sounds like a pain but atleast you're free there!

Hey guys, im actually getting kinda hungry. What're some good options to eat for a quick snack with minimal effort?

It sux but I'm free, ATLAST. lel

Sandwich hot sauce and cheese and ham

My dad and my brother just got their own place for the first time in 5 years. Super proud of them. It was great seeing my brother comfortable and in a bed again.

I actually just made 2 egg sandwiches.
Im really hungry desu

I typed desu and it changed to desu :/

You say it as if he didnt have a bed as well as your father. Has your family been homeless user?
Im proud of you all for stepping up!

desu filters to desu. desu. to be honest. desu. 2bh.

Yeah, just found that out when I googled it.
Thanks for the confirm tho

I just finished some pizza with pineapple and mountain dew.

I feel like shit but I keep doing this every friday night and I need to stop.

They lived with my grand dad for years on and off. They had rooms but it was awful there. Like he made them pay rent for a single room, and they also live with my aunt and uncle there too. It was over crowded and couldn't fit everyone there.

I lived with them for a year sleeping on the floor before getting in to college and never really went back there after.

It all kind of fell apart for my grand dad, aunt, and uncle though. They are all terrible with money. Like really bad. They have three new cars, an old one they couldn't trade in because they have a loan on it, and some how have multiple mortgages on the house which was paid off 10 years ago. Now they are losing it and have just been pocketing my dad and brothers rent money for the past 3 months. Last month my grand dad just told them they had to leave. He had no clue they already had a place lined up, so it might throw a wrench in to their vacation they decided to take in July.

Definitely a huge leap for them but my family really kind of sucks and never really helped any of us unless we we're willing to pay, so my dad and brother are a lot better off now.

How about this, you stop but SLOWLY.
First, 3/4 of your pizza then 3/4 of mountain dew
Then, you can do it with half a pizza and half a mountain dew.
Then, a quarter the next week/month.
Then 1 part per week
Then, you can try quitting with healthier foods.

My family is not the greatest and I wish some of them weren't my family.
My grandfather is a narcissistic asshole
My brother is a druggie, a snitch, and a asshole.
My grandmother is actually nice
My family is plagued with drugs and I really wish I had a normal family.
In the end user, we dont choose family so we may as well as just do the best we can with them.

Though, I am rather proud of your family raising themselves higher. They did a great job from what I can tell. Good job!

Im tired and ima head to bed.
So this thread is gonna die soon
Rip

just hanging out, doing okay
drinking vodka and blue mountain dew
I've been replaying through doom 2016 for the last week or so
I can only really force myself to play one level a night, but it feels good to be playing vidya again and I am having fun