All you robots who want a girlfriend I come bearing a reminder
Women are illogical and do not grasp the concept of critical thinking
I've been in a relationship for an entire year. I've lived with her for 2 months and I feel miserable and trapped. I at this point would rather die that spend anymore time with this girl. What should I do, I dont want to break up with her yet because I still have hope but it's all becoming tiring
tell us a story user, how is she fucking up your life?
I'm just starting to grasp this for the first in my entire adult life.
Break up trust me dude if one wants you there will be others. I also had similar experience where I felt better being alone then with my girl. And I felt bad I wanted to be with her I wanted to trust her even after she lied to me. But one day I finally had the will to let her go and even tho I sometimes look back and miss her it's becoming better and I even managed to find some girl that u have really lot in common but will see how that goes.
But long story short just end it if it ain't working it never will and you are just draining yourself
Okay so heres what's got me feeling trapped
Were both 21 I just sacrificed a nice 15 an hour job at a metal plant to move to the town shes fron which was 3 hours from where I lived. Lost my car in the process due to a mechanical issue, lost almost 3k dollars in a matter of months due to a bad living situation before moving in with her
So I'm like stressed the fuck out because I'm finally on my own perse and it's not easy. Anytime theres any slight adversity she turtles up and shuts down and wont communicate and I need communication because of my aspergers and what not so it's really hard for me to grasp what's wrong with her. She acts like a toddler all the time and I cant vibe with that. I'm the oldest of 7 kids so I've had my fair share of dealing with children. I feel myself getting angrier more and more everyday
So what's really been bothering me is that she was being inappropriate with another guy over Facebook and I saw the messages and ever since then I've absolutely lost my patience with her so every little thing she does it gets more and more on my nerves. She always rejects my affection and actively makes me feel like I'm an asshole and I just handle it anymore.
I still love her shes just driving me insane
Man exactly happened to me
Believe me if she really loved you then she wouldn't do it
And see that's exactly what I told her yet all she did was say sorry with an empty expression and a blank stare.
Dated for 2 years, and been married for 1.
Don't do it, guys. She's a good woman work wise, she's determined and probably has good future ahead of her, but fuck, she's a fucking child. She throws tantrums when she doesn't get it her way, she's really bitchy, takes no responsability for her actions, and a bunch of other shit.
I miss my old life, I could just buy wharever I wanted, go out whenever I wanted, eat whatever I wanted. That's all gone. I'm planning on divorcing in a month or so, fuck getting married, fuck having a girlfriend. Thank God I realized this young.
Yours at least said sorry when I argued with her about something she did I told her that she is not the victim here that it was her who lied and talked sexually to guys not me and she just said "sure". I didn't drop her then because I couldn't force myself to it but after while I just had enough. For real dude talk to her about how you feel and just drop her no other way around it she takes you now as something she can't loose prove her wrong
Atleast when I was single I was able to just drink all I wanted and didnt have to have a filter. God I miss being invisible
>I Feel miserable and trapped
>I still have hope
What kind of mental capacity do you have to have this kind of contradiction
When you got girl you miss being alone
When you are alone you miss having girl It's repeat circle basically
I'm a fucking retard what can I say
Eternal suffering is a never ending guy moment
If its been so long and has not seen any change, break up.
It's not worth the effort an mental health to try to change something by yourself, change has to be made willingly
call up your old supervisor at the metal plant and see if you can get your job back, then get a new place in your old town and leave her. If you're not into it anymore, the only thing trapping you there is your inertia.
Next time, the girl moves to your town.
>Thank God I realized this young.
Not young enough. Say goodbye to half your shit :^)
take her out to the park and buy her flowers do small special stuff for her
>implying that will work
I do this kind of stuff for her any chance I get.
Rough her up a bit, make her wet.