I just want to experience a girl actually unironically liking me for once boys, only once and I'll never complain again

you're the worst, i hope you pay for what you did

im sorry user im just having a roungh time that's all.

As in self improvement? Ive been working out for almost 10 years(24y old), recently started bouldering too.
It's okay I still love you even if you dont realize it

Have you done socializing, do you have a job, have you made friends?

> I still love you
do you really mean it user? if so it means a lot to me

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gays probably think you're cute too.

You're constantly looking for a person to love you, yet you keep ignoring someone who is trying his best to love you - yourself. Unless you won't love yourself someone else's love is going to feel empty and worthless because your own insecurities and doubts will prevent that love from reaching you. It's a mental blockade. It's not going to magically fix all of your issues. Work on yourself and you won't ever have another reason to complain.

Op is a Jow Forums user all he fucking does is work on himself. Kys

Im in uni doing IT so no women at all. I tried finding meetup groups but they are all tech meetups with no women. I also live in a shitty small town full of old people.
Of course user, as much as a stranger can love a line of text.
im not insecure just objective about my looks. Also I spend all my time working on myself. if i were to do what I truly liked i'd just be a shut in neet watching anime all day and eating shitty food.

one user from this board posted stuff like this after i had been actively pursuing him and he rejected me for my looks. after that i have a hard time thinking most guys from here aren't the same as you say women are, affection only matters if its from Stacey.

wow, i love you too friend!

>aren't the same as you say women are
quote me one thing about what I say how women are. I never blame women for not liking me because of my looks.
yay!

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>only once and I'll never complain again.
If you have that little insight in yourself that you make promises meant to be broken, it is no wonder you have trouble being liked desu.

i meant i feel most anons are the way they say women are. i wasnt attacking you but i also dont believe the way you present yourself in the op as well as other anons that make such claims.

what kind of girl do you want user?

I was just complaining ofcourse I know you cant keep a promise like that.
I dont quite understand what you are saying in the last part of your sentence but if you mean to infer that I am like that you are wrong.
not sure since I dont have experience but I assume someone that kind of likes what I like but still is independent and someone that I actually enjoy talking with.

decent. what are your interests?

i'm saying i don't believe you and you are probably blocking out some inferior girl that liked you but you ignored because you didn't like her back. that is natural imo but to claim that no one has genuinely liked you is probably a lie.

kek
tfreferfrerfr

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>affection only matters if its from Stacey
no, just don't be fat, literally don't be fat and you're 99% just fine but i guess that's too hard, isn't it?

fug you my nigga you got no clue

mmh alright I dont know what else to tell you. believe what you want, but what you are doing now is the same thing that you are complaining about men doing.
Reading, tech, bouldering, fitness, dogs, manga/anime, watching documentaries and I used to like games but kind of stopped playing, cant play for more than 1 hour at the time.

noice, how did you get into bouldering? always wanted to do it but I'm not fit and have no upper body strength so I'm kinda hesitant. also what do you read?

Been a 29yo incel and now there is suddenly a girl that likes me. And boy can I tell you, everything feels absolutely amazing. From cuddling to getting cute texts like "I miss you right now user". I think once this is over, I'll have to kill myself because this is just too good.

To all of you that are doubting if having someone liking you is actually that good, keep doubting my friends... keep doubting

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thanks for reinforcing my statement user.
i have never made statements about men never liking me. so i am not doing what i say anons, and probably you itt,do.

Yet you will probably act all hurt and attack him when a guy openly tells you he does not want a (insert your flaw here) girl.
Do you want to get lied to so much, is false hope really any comfort?

There is some calm in knowing that most of you girls will need me to be social, lefty, above 6 feet and non-white. You start to make your peace with it, maybe you should try it too.

Same dude I've never experienced love in my life.
Just once would be enough.

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No but you have made statements about me lying and being like other anons so yeah.
I reached my goals with fitness so I needed something else to do so I just started searching, saw a yt vid of a guy doing bouldering and decided I wanted to try it. Also no one who starts doing something the first time will be good at it so not having the strength means you will only improve. Currently reading a brandon sanderson book and a lightnovel. But i have too many books I still need to read.

>Yet you will probably act all hurt and attack him when a guy openly tells you he does not want a (insert your flaw here) girl.
I dont really. but saying that because someone doesnt meet your standards their feelings for you weren't genuine is false.
>Do you want to get lied to so much, is false hope really any comfort?
I dont. i'm fine with rejection and have experienced it a lot.
>There is some calm in knowing that most of you girls will need me to be social, lefty, above 6 feet and non-white. You start to make your peace with it, maybe you should try it too.
I am at peace with it.
I am at peace with it. I also dont buy every sob story that consists solely of "grills never ever liked me!"
Saying I don't believe you and you are probably fibbing and glossing over the truth of the situation. especially with wording like "genuinely like me" you can easily rationalize away a girl liking you if you deemed it not genuine in your opinion.

Believe what you want to believe I guess

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>Been a 29yo incel
how the fuck did you manage to find a girl then

> no one who starts doing something the first time will be good at
you're right but I'm wondering if you need a basic amount of upper body strength to start? i can barely hold an elbow plank for 30 seconds without trembling like an Alzheimer's patient

ofcourse, but there are different levels of boulders. Really easy ones require almost no strength and you can work your way up from there. But it never hurts to gain core strength. My biggest problem is grip strength, which I didnt gain that much of during lifting. So im not that good at climbing either.

same bro, being unattractive suck. Sexual frustration destroys my life. I can't work or learn something

>saying that because someone doesnt meet your standards their feelings for you weren't genuine is false.

Can I hire you to beat that thought into my oneitis?
>you do not love me, it is just limerence
cute, not only am I not good enough for her, but my feels are apparently dismissable wrongthink if she does not feel the same.

You say that you only desire it once but i promise you, once youve gotten that high you will NEVER stop chasing it. It will take more and more to satisfy you. Not to say it's wrong to want it, I'm just saying its an addiction.

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okay, cool. thanks user!

did you meet any cool people at the bouldering place or does everyone just keep to themselves? when i start I'm kind of hoping to get acquainted with like minded people. also what age range do the people there fall into?

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my advice in this situation is to move on. and as someone that had several "oneitis" situations last 5+ years each i know it is not easy. cutting contact as much as possible is the best way imo. sometimes people say these types of things because its the easiest way to reject some one and still hold themselves in high esteem internally. not healthy, but its easier for some to think that than to say i am not attracted to you and i am not interested. people usually have a high capacity for being terrible in an effort to preserve their idea of themselves though. good luck user.

A lot of young people between 18 and 25 I think, but it might depend on where you live. I met some nice people, not really friends or anything. Best way is just to ask how to do a boulder route and go from there. I hope it works out for you, you seem nice

don't be fucking trash then

> you seem nice
not to be annoying but i felt my face flush when i read that, thank you! you've motivated me to pursue an interest, god bless ya

Thanks I wont be anymore
>face flush
first person I do this to is from an anonymous message board, I guess there is a first for everything

yeah idk it caught me off guard. what makes you think I'm the first? if you're even half as kool irl as you you come across here i can guarantee im not the first

im pretty boring irl desu, you just havent had a long conversation with me yet so that helps I guess.

He probably went wail hunting

meh. you seem like an interesting person online, i guess that counts for something. as long as you like your own company it's all good

I did try to add people from discord threads but I always ran out of stuff to say so thats why I am also saying im not that interesting. But thanks for the compliment.

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same thing happens to me, it's natural. you're welcome user, love u

Even then you won't believe that she does
I thought that was what I needed too
But I ended up questioning why she likes me rather than someone else. I didn't believe in her and her attraction to me in a way. I was fat, awkward and a robot. As time dragged on I no longer knew how to act around her and she ended up dumping me.

It don't matter if a girl finds you attractive unless you love ur self first

Are you a weeb like me or?
i feel like that wont happen to me but who knows. I need to try it first before I can say, but I dont believe so because im not fat or super awkward.

depends on the extent, i went through an autistic weeb phase a few years ago. these days i still watch anime from time to time, not so weeb-y anymore though.

I was in your position once, user, but I changed it. It only cost me the best friend I ever had.

We grew up together and were largely inseparable, but he was a golden boy, loved by everyone and good at damn near everything. Luck was always on his side and regardless of trouble he got into he always seems to come out ahead. I was fine with that though. We looked out for each other and he genuinely treated like a brother and never flaunted his triumphs infornt of me. Always humble and always consider. But one thing set me off, his sister.
He caught me looking at his younger sister one day during our first year of university. He asked me, as heartfelt and sincere as possible, not to pursue his sister in any way. Something inside me just snapped. This guy had literally everything in life, and here he is telling me not to attempt to approach pretty much the only non-related female in my life that ever gave me the time of day. Inside I quietly lost it.
For the next five years I dedicated my energy to destroying my best friend. I used every bit of intimate knowledge about him and his family to undermine everything they were. He lost everything. His girlfriend since highschool, his job, he almost got kicked out of university, his whole circle of friends, I even went as far as driving a wedge between his parents breaking up their marriage. I dismantled his life and his family. And you know why? I wanted his sister.

While his life and family was falling apart, I, being such a loyal friend to both, swooped in give him and his sister both the support they needed. Of course, her brother was a little too far gone to help, but I made sure she knew I'd always be there for her. And boy did that work wonders.

Nine years after I started and I got what I wanted. And you know what? I sleep soundly at night with my fiancee, his sister, pressed lovingly against my chest.

Ah alright, I was looking for a friend to talk anime/manga with but too bad.
damn dude, if this isnt a larp you seem pretty crazy

sounds like he was right and you are a disturbed person. I hope she finds out how you ruined her parents marriage if this is true.

Some of us are not meant for that. I'm 26 and I'm fully aware that it's too late.
Well, shit sucks but hopefully I'll get a chance to play irl minecraft one day.

>inb4 she breaks up with you/cheats and you destroyed your best friend's life for nothing

Try developing an actual attractive attribute or two, faggot

i still enjoy anime, i think the main reason i dont watch it as often now is bc i only watch ongoing anime. id be eager to hear ur recommendations, i think I'd fully get back into it if i had a fren who watches anime

>he thinks lifting is enough

How shitty is your personality, faggot?

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Read the thread normalfag, he's been lifting for 10 years.

why is your peepee so wittle?

Like what?
you can add me if you want SpicyRamen#2508
I was just answering his question, I have no clue how good or bad it is.

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Prior to my snap I think I was pretty normal. I guess just living in his shadow for 18 years just got to me. Not saying what I did was right, it's fucked, but imagine living your life beside someone who gets everything they want and you spend your life continuously drawing the short straw. Then, when something good finally starts happening to you he turns and says you can't even have a shot at this one good thing.

I hope she doesn't, but I don't think she will. Nothing would hurt me more than to see her hurt. I just want her to live out her life happy and as carefree as possible. I think I owe her that much.

I don't think she ever would, she's not that kind of girl. Admittedly, I do kind of put her on a pedestal.

added u pls respond

don't pretend this was about making her happy and not about your getting what you wanted. she could have had an intact family and a husband that also supported her. we all reap what we sow user.

It was about getting what I wanted, and I did. Now it's about keeping what I won and making sure she's happy and content with life. She's on good terms with her both her parents and she's doing well in life. What's past is past, I aim to make sure she has a good future.

>implying lifting alone attracts women

They like confidence and being teased you fucking autistic incel

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Like having actual interesting conversation, sounding worldly, being friendly or having a skilled hobby. Do you actually even try to spit game at girls, or did you believe a bunch of gymcels that women would actually approach you and pursue you if you had big lats?

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user if you want his penis you should just tell him. =)

capped, this is great material for a short story or novel. thanks user

i would fuck her now if she asked again.

As much as you may think the opposite, I think that the girl in question would have to be attractive for it to "count" in your mind.

But for example would you like to attract absolute whores with the lowest standards/dumbass dimwitted normie girls that you just don't fancy at all? It just feels even more frustrating especially if you are a person like me who doesn't have the confidence to just fuck a girl and dump her, that's why I'm a virgin.

OP image reminds me of an underground bunker. Who makes these anyways? robots don't work out.

Yep, true. I'd even go further and say attractive in not only looks.

Just fyi this is gay and i only read like 10 words of it

user ey lob u

Your welcome, I guess. Make it a best selling so I have something to frame on my wall.

it's just not meant to happen to us, user. maybe in the next life?

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