How do I learn to stop being dependant on my mother?

how do I learn to stop being dependant on my mother?

I'm 25 and she still does everything for me.

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Take the full leap, move out on your own. Be a fuckin man.

sounds like a good way to waste money (which I don't have anyway)

Obviously start doing the things she does for you yourself. Whatever it is.

just move in with your divorced dad where its basically no rules and you cook/clean/your own laundry/yardwork, if your lucky you wont even pay rent

can't do that. he has a wife who is a batshit control freak

>Obviously start doing the things she does for you yourself. Whatever it is.
This, duh. What kind of question even is that OP?

you might want to confront her about this, most single mothers dont realize that they are actively destroying their children out of their own motherly affection that past a certain age of the child is poisonous to them this is where usually the father would step in and give the child the push they need towards independent thought and capability.

I don't know I think I might be too far gone.

I never got the positive affirmation for doing things independently so I don't seek to

regardless you need to let her know, you made the post for a reason didnt you? A first step is required and it literally doesnt matter how small it is, as of things are now youre in stagnation and stagnation is worse than death, once you take that small speck of a step you realize that the body you thought long dead and wasted away can still move regardless of your past negligence of it and maybe just maybe it can move even more. Talk to her about your issue, even ask her help to get yourself out of your predicament

eat out her pussy

Well you can just ask her if she want's you to stay in your room your entire life.

She (hopefully if she is not satanic) will say "Of course not!" Then you can reply "Then please help me become more independant!"

doing the dishes, vacuuming, having a job. These things help you change in a positive way OP.

Have a go at it!

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Go on Grindr and get TOPPED, you need a man in your life to take charge and dom your bussy move on to better things OP

Have you considered transitioning or becoming a bottom twink? You are most likely a sissy that needs to come out.

Do you like men or women OP?

Be a Grindr boislut you are weak and pathetic and need to get stuffed with cock

Take estrogen and transition you would make a better girl then man by now

Define everything.

If there is baths and spoon feedings be detailed. This is for research purposes.

What a fucking meme. I live 80 km away from my parents, have my own car and still
Have no friends
No gf
Virgin

"Living on your own" is a meme and makes you lonely and desperate if you aren't Chad.

Living with parents is ok WHEN:
> you have a job or are studying
> you have some house duties too (at least cleaning your room)
> not being a dick to your family generally

To be more specific, you should try do the following:
> take a part of house duties or help your mom (cleaning, cooking, washing clothes, etc.)
> find a job or/and study something/somewhere

If you want you can read (pirate if you have no money) "12 rules of life" by Jordan B Peterson, afaik this book helped a lot of young people.

> decide what you want to do in life and attempt it

Also, assuming you have moral system that is ok (very subjective, I know), you should remember and be rational about the stuff you do.
Do not let your insecurities and fears to definite what you do. By that I mean you should evaluate thing rationally and attempt to evaluate requirement for things you want to do rationally. Otherwise you can and will fail.

just in case: if your surname is Christoph, you are a degenerate piece of shit and will never make it. You will forever be under your moms heel just like your beta cuck dad and be a degenerate underachieveing subhuman.


If you are not Chris, then there is hope. Ignore the above and simply start trying to do the things she already does for you faster than she can do them (cleaning etc), wwhile still trying to keep a positive relationship. It seems like most mothers get depressed when their kids grow up and they are not "needed" any more.

Never had the problem but this is my best guess.

You don't have any relationships outside your family because you stay inside all the time on this fucking site

Fuck her to show your dominance.
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Hey I'm in the same boat. I have attachment issues and struggle really badly with independency due to my Aspergers and anxiety problems. People are too fucking thoughtless and judgemental to understand that though so they just see me as a fucking freeloading asshole. Most people will give you the big macho "GROW UP AND BE A MAYUN" spiel as if its that simple and as if we don't fucking know already. Its like telling someone with a broken leg to just walk faster. Most people in my shoes don't still live with mom because its fucking awesome, we do it because we're stunted, broken fucking people who genuinely struggle because we didn't fucking develop properly due to trauma or whatever. Its not that we don't want to be independent; we don't fucking know how to be.

Enjoy it while it lasts, user. A lot of people would love to have either or both parents do everything for you. And if you're lucky enough to have one that lets you live there rent and responsibility free, then consider yourself a jackpot winner. As long as you at least know a few simple things like how to use a vacuum, how to wash dishes and do laundry in the event that your parents die, it's fine to be dependent on them.

Start with trying to go potty on your own, and maybe try to spend a night in your own bed, maybe a nightlight will help, just to start getting use to privacy. You could also set your outfit out for your mommy to approve of the night before, to show you can dress on your own.

Is that Xev?

>be 34
>still live with my disabled mom
>am her caregiver for the state, make money doing stuff I would be doing normally
>decent pay for easy work
>nobody knows this and think i'm just a mommy issues asshole that freeloads

I mean, they're not entirely wrong but I don't freeload, I'm just so broken and stunted and fucked up that I barely leave the house except to run quick errands. I don't know what to do. I want to move out but I don't want to burden her with the entirety of the rent of the place we're at and I'd still be alone even if I did. It's pathetic and stupid and there's no good way out of this.

Yes. What is more, in video paid by other robot. She roleplays "mommy" who is bringing you your "chicken tendies". Not even memeing.

Also stop watching porn.

I'm 49 and -first time in my life- I bought myself a pair of shoes. Online, but whatever.

b-but grindr is fuckin' GAY

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fake and gay.

"Living on your own" does not equal to share an apartment with a bunch of niggers while trying to make ends meet after wasting your euromoney in weed and vidya.

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nice trips, Gerald

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Do things on your own, go on Grindr and find a BF

b-but that's literally GAY, you faggot!

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