Tinder

Would never use it due to the embarrassment of people I know seeing me. Also pretty disgusting.

Yeah Tantan is a godsend for ugly white guys, desu. Literally every ugly/average white guy should abandon Tinder and flood Tantan instead.

tantan actually cured my yellow fever
Im going full mgtow now

It helped me get rid of my delusions about being average looking and made realize that I'm extremely ugly.

Oh yeah? Why? Just seeing how relentlessly slutty/easy Asian girls are?

Most whites don't live in Asia. Asian women in the West can get the same men as white women so the ones that can't compete for white women can't compete for asian women in the West either.

>Asian women in the West can get the same men as white women

They literally can't, only Asian American women can. The Asian students are the ones ugly/average white dudes can nab, mainly because they're all awkward/autistic as fuck.

>dated around 10 different tinder girls
>made out with around 8-10 tinder girls
>got a bj from a tinder girl
>texted/snapped with 30+ tinder girls, got some lewd pics now and then
>took virginity of a tinder girl
>had sex and a really short relationship with another tinder girl
>obviously have some non-tinder experiences as well
I despise the app still even though I've had what you guys would call "succes" on it. All these experiences made me really good in communcating with girls though. I'm honestly just OK looking guy, I'm not a chad by any means.

not exactly but the fact that she was lying to me and almost destroyed my life that way really opened my eyes

all women are shallow whores

Why the fuck are you here? I despise this fucking board.

>not exactly but the fact that she was lying to me and almost destroyed my life that way really opened my eyes

Sounds like a greentext, user...

>and often when you think a hot girl is into you it turns out it's a tranny

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I'm not overweight. Probably around a 5-6/10

I don't have ant dog photos, though, which I'm thinking may be hurting me. Maybe I should just put in a random photo of a random dog and see if it changes anything.

But I'm aiming as low as possible and nothing is working. There's probably no hope for me.

I never bothered to upload any good photos so I've gotten 3 matches ever. One was an obese gorilla and 2 were like 5000 miles away somehow.

>But I'm aiming as low as possible and nothing is working.

Stupid approach. Women don't become magically 'easier' because you don't find them attractive.

You sound like you project misery and desperation. No one wants to be anywhere near that.

Absolutely reddit tier post. This board is dying and getting less traffic yet this crap still happens.

>Just seeing how relentlessly slutty/easy Asian girls are?
wait wut? is this true? the asians on Tinder don't seem sluty......

Well, I'm beyond that already

>set distance to 20 miles
>no matches
>delete after a month
>redownload a year later
>pay for gold
>use boost
>12 likes in 30 minutes
>plan 4 dates
>3 cancel
>one's aunt dies half an hour before our date, so I get stood up
>delete again
It was a bit of a confidence boost, but it made its seem like dating is going to be painful. Idk if I even want to try. I think I am just going to try to work on myself for a couple years, I am not afraid I will be alone forever anymore.

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is there some rule where you have to be a literal KHV to poast here? NO. we are all weird though

What I learned is that tinder is actually really nice for robots who lack social skills. You can take your time and think about what you say. Avoid "job interview-like" converstation (asking about, music taste, hobby's, etc.) and try to be somewhat funny. Save the job interview questions for your dates.

Some of the girls I mentioned rejected me as well in the end. So it's not as if I never dealt with rejection before. But you just gotta not care and move on.

>wait wut? is this true? the asians on Tinder don't seem sluty

You're probably ugly then, lol... Asians are absolutely renowned for being cumrags and are usually easy as shit for casual sex, especially when they're in relationships.

>actually paying for a dating app

Who hurt you?
Orig

I downloaded it and it asked me to link it with my FB or something and I didn't want to, so I never got to use it.

What are you an Asian girl or something? Are you denying this, really? It's good if you're not this way, Asian femanon, but in my experience Asian girls are relentlessly slutty and open to cheating on a guy.

I'd say it was worth it. I have been feeling pretty good since then. Just to know there are some cute girls out there who find me attractive when I am currently a complete loser, it makes me feel like I have nowhere to go but up.

Also, I am pretty sure if you dont pay and dont get a million matches, Tinder artificially hides you from women in order to get you to pay.

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Match with ugly and fat single moms and get passed by anyone attractive. Also, got catfished once and spent $40 to get there only to call another Uber and spend $40 more.

I had a guy lead me on for a month, saying he liked me and wanted to be with me to later being friend zoned because he got with one of his girl friends, I was so upset I drank my sorrows away for like a month

Its true. I think its because they have controling parents. Once the parents cut them loose they go wild. You see the same thing with a lot of christian girls.

Most desirable birds on there are in it for the ego boost.
Sure, if a 7+/10 falls in their lap they'll go with it, but mostly it's a game to them.
The only birds taking it seriously are both low quality AND extinguished all other avenues.

Of course not dummy. My question is more so what do you enjoy about here? Also not the previous guy. Anyways, before there was a sense of pathetic camaraderie that brought me and probably others here. People who could relate to our pathetic experiences because of course they had them. Do you feel that? You shouldn't if what you said above is true. If you think it's weirdness, well shit dude, you can go find weirdness all over the internet.

had it for about 4 years. Struck "gold" one time and got myself a not so fat (but still chubby) girl that invited me to her apartment. Drank a little, then I told her i had a foot fetish and complimented her toe polish.

Sucked her toes for like 20 minutes, and then we fucked for about an hour. Proud to say I beat that shit up. Never saw her or talked to her again. Was the first and only time Tinder led to sex.

She was BARELY a 4.

How do you figure they won't be easier? 2/10 women aren't used to having merely average guys hit on them so they will be far more receptive

No why are you assuming this? You seem to be emotionally disturbed. What's with your fixation on slutty asians and cheating? Also there's not that many women on this board. Most are just larping men.

im so autistic i dont even know how to followup a conversation when the girl initiates one. doesnt help that 90% of their opening message is some iteration of "hey, hi, whats up :))))"

>2/10 women aren't used to having merely average guys hit on them

You're on Tinder you fucking retard. There are tens of thousands of people like you, many of them more presentable.

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No fixation it's just because you seemed to take issue with ym comment about Asians being renowned for sluttiness/cheating. Why do I seem emotionally disturbed?

Well don't worry you'll never have that problem because women never initiate the interaction ever

2/10 women get hit on by 6/10 dudes because 6/10 girls get hit on by 8/10 dudes.

>90% of their opening message is some iteration of "hey, hi, whats up :))))"

IT'S OKAY WHEN THEY DO IT DON'T YOU GET IT BY NOW YOU FUCKING WHITE MALE

Guess I'll stop trying.

i had about 3-4 girls, granted they were like 4s try to message me.

i got 5 matches the first week i've set it up and even talked to 3 of them set up a meeting with one of them but was too much of a pussy to show up , feels bad

>Have 350 matches
>Still too autistic to get laid

I sometimes go on tinder to laugh at the low quality women with insane standards, as if a single mom can discriminate.

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Wtf
I got a few matches on tinder (like 3 every week) but never a single one on tan tan

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There's no way I'm using that shit while I'm still living in my hometown, I'm too scared of being found there by someone from one of my old schools

>but never a single one on tan tan

Are you brown/black? Girls on Tantan want like white white boys, not even mutts or spics.

A lot of people have this weird preoccupation about it. Like, what's going to happen? No one's going to out you because they're broken enough to be on Tinder too.

i actually managed to get a date on tinder for tomorrow. I'm a khhv, any advice?
Ideally i'd end the date with a kiss but i don't know how to kiss. Also, do i go in for the hug when meeting or no? in europe btw

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I matched a girl I went to high school with, but I thought she was someone else. She wasnt too happy.

They're all assimilated where I live so maybe it can work for some robots that are lucky to live in the right place.

Im white and ironicly 2 of the 3 girls I hooked up with through Tinder were asians

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That doesn't work without social skills

mate you're supposed to swipe left on anyone you know.

She wasnt who I thought she was. I thought she was a girl I met briefly a couple years ago. This girl was a couple years younger than me and I didnt remember her at all from school.

>be me
>average lookin but manlet
>make tinder to troll both male and female (yes i catfished for entertainment)
>match with 6/10 grill
>seems to be pretty much fembot
>decide to just ask her to come with me to comiccon as first message
>she said she'd like to come with
>panic.wav
>get shit back together
>we actually go trough with it and she wants to bring a friend
>ok idc still amazed she actually paid for tickets
>go to comiccon with friends
keep in mind we've not spoken about heights at all up until this point
>call her to try see where she is
>find her and friend

>tfw she finds out i'm 5'5
>mfw she's 5,9
>tfw we end up awkwardly walking alongside eachother without talking
>tfw i ruined my own day at comiccon
>tfw lost pokemon cards i bought there aswell

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How can you lack so much self awareness. "Working on your personality" doesn't happen unless you match with girls, and dont get ghosted. Most of the Robots on here cant even get a match let alone get someone to meet up with them. Maybe you have autism, or you thought you did, but chances are the only reason you had success on Tinder is because your a relatively attractive. It had nothing to do with your game, you give yourself too much credit

I am from Europe too. Poland here. Hmm. Do not think about yourself. Think about her. Try to give her good memories. If she is right for you she will do the same for you.
Instant hugging does not sound good imo

Settled with one now but I fucked 7 girls from tinder over a 2 month period

got really bad gonorrhoea

You need really good photos. Everything else is irrelevant. I don't have selfies because they're gay and I don't have dog photos. Try to ask her out for a drink within a day or 2 of chatting with her if shes responding well. Also i'm not tall.

Hello lurkfag europoor

What goes wrong?

I always hug dates.

Breaks the touch barrier and comes off as open and friendly. A little hug doesn't creep anyone out. Not in the UK anyway.

What constitutes a good photo? I think my photos are decent, some of them are of me when I was 17 on vacation, so there are some nice geographic pictures, I have a picture with my German Shepard, and a picture of me with 4 other friends so people don't think I am a loser. Despite this one girl I met from bumble told me that I looked better in person than on my photos and that they were too far away. My dad says they are ass and says its the root of my failure. I feel like any photo I take of myself I usually look ass with a double chin or something, or bad posture, but every once in a while I take one that looks semi decent, should I just use these?
My success on tinder is:
>started in February
>matched with 74 girls
>have 25+ likes
>messaged about 25 of them
>got around 8 phone numbers/snapchats
>only met up with one of those girls, every other girl I've texted has either ghosted me/got bored or turned me off for some reason
>Sometimes on tinder, despte having 25+ likes I get zero matches swiping right on everybody, makes no sense
>worried I might ruin my ello score
what am I doing wrong? Do you think I can improve this or am I doing well?

Another Europeenor here.
I'd say don't start with a hug (you don't really know this girl), two kisses is fine.
Bring her somewhere you know well where you feel at ease

how is two kisses better than a hug... i wouldn't even consider doing that with someone i don't know.

So what, like a handshake or nothing at all just a verbal greeting?

I tried tinder, more as an experiment than anything, after some prodding by a friend. It left me with massively negative opinions towards a good chunk of women, as well as a nice new red flag for me to avoid in the future. The women who use tinder are, by and large, petty, self-absorbed, and completely lacking any semblance of respect.
Here's a few things I ran into commonly
>1
Couldn't keep their noses out of their phones.
>2
Got bitchy about paying for their meals or drinks if we went to a cafe or restaurant.
>3
Didn't actually pay any attention to what I was saying
>4
Shut down as soon as a topic they weren't interested in or knowledgeable on came up.
>5
Became overtly hostile or starkly distant when challenged, corrected, or confronted by a differing opinion of any sort.

The women you find on that app are devoid of any meaning character and substance. They may as well have rolled off a bloody factory lane for all the differences between them. They take the same pictures, make the same inane jokes, have the same interchangeable interests, and hold the same bloody opinions of popular culture topic x y and z.
Fucking carbon copy people.

How do I make photos for Tinder if I literally never made a photo of myself before and I don't have any to use?

man i'm 5'9 myself and when talking to a girl i always hope that she's at least shorter than i am. this is truly the worst thing that could happen.

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Well, depends on your country I guess. Just an informal, casual greeting. To me it seems weird to hug someone new

You're doing fine. Get someone to take one decent photo of you. Should be of you looking right at the camera, smiling, no sunglasses. Should be nice and bright and outside.

All of your other photos can express your personality but you need that one good photo to get attention.

I don't know how the 25+ likes work either. I think its to get you to buy gold so therefore you never see some of them normally.

I love swiping on black boys with this haircut. Like yess, I know you guys are gonna be shitty but who cares. I mostly date white boys but black daddy can get it.

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Tinder has just been one gigantic waste of time.

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In 2019 you need a good Instagram account for Tinder to work.
Basicaly you need to show the world that your life does not sucks. Wich is very dificult if you are a NEET nerd. Like you need to show you doing sports, outdors, friends, nightclubs.

Sounds like your chats are all giant bores. You gotta start them off more interestingly than just "hey".

I never message them and when I do they ghost. I also live at home so I feel ashamed to bring them here.

I get a lot of matches on twitter but the only ones that fuck me are chubby 5s in colleges near my apartment. I match with more attractive women but they choose Chad

Women in general are giant bores. How am i supposed to hold a conversation with a chick when her only interests that she states are netflix, sleeping and eating. Those aren't interests, those are just regular activities people do. Tinder and dating in general has made me realize women are the most dull creatures on this planet and are only good for fucking.

literally who cares lmao

What other people think about you is none of your business anyway

No you don't. You need to look attractive.

I have some good photos but i don't have an instagram and my fb is only used for messaging.

I boned almost weekly when i used it. They weren't all 10/10s but they got the job done. This was in a big city though.

>one's aunt dies half an hour before our date, so I get stood up
You actually believed that?
Just the kind of simp that would pay for tinder gold (((they))) are looking for.

Can Tinder detect if you have any biases and use it against you?

I left swipe all blacks.

I also have had no success.

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No but if you're unattractive you're basically a nigger as far as women are concerned so it evens out.

One girl unmatched with me except she still messages me on snapchat

Just try writing
>Hey let's watch Netflix together
then

>25+ likes
>one match with brainlet ewhore
>one superlike from huge chin and forehead girl with no bio
>don't want to swipe left or right in case she adds another pic or info
Seriously, if you haven't got the looks at least try to add a bio and more than one picture.
Maybe if I lowered my standards and/or just wanted sex it would be okay.
I seem to get a like every other day....
Am I volcel if I have standards?
I'm boring so even if I did match with someone I like, I doubt it would go past text

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you got superliked dude, if that ain't volcel then i don't know what is.

Nice, just get a cuckold you stupid slut.