Ex Girlfriend Thread

I did wash mine and her's plus clean the house. It was her degen aunt that is lazy and let her's stack up. I was paying the rent too. She didn't work my ex and I worked and paid for everything.

We also had an agreement that I would take care of our stuff and she as an adult would take care of her's. Plus all she did was lay around the house and go to the casino with MY money user.

Body exactly like pic related. Even the nails. Broke up with her because she was boring as fuck and annoying. Dated for 14 months

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Oh god where to start.
>BPD girl. Met her over one of the games we played together and we bonded over that and our shared interests.
>She lived in another state, but we got along as friends, even talked a bit
>Eventually she opened up to me about her current bf who lived with her, her fucked up relationships, and how her job sucked, she had no purpose, etc.
> Was there for her emotionally enough for her to be comfortable crying when I was there.
>I honestly think I was the first person to genuinely care about this girl, she had a lot of issues with abusive bf's hitting her, gaslighting her, and manipulating her, basically I would come to figure out this was all shit she brought into our relationship.
>She confesses to me one day out of nowhere and we hit it off. She breaks up with her IRL bf, he moves out, and we get serious fast as most BPD/Partner relationships do.
>Despite how fast I am to open up, I do take my time before buying her shit, sending pics, etc. I'm in love with her, not an idiot.
>Feel pretty proud of myself that I got a girl to leave someone IRL for an online relationship.
>I stick with her through numerous outbursts coming from her, we visit each other at least 7 times, and generally I had no limit of patience for the fucked up things she did. I fell head over heals for her.
>She believes in the "Soulmate" Meme, and drops me at the first sign I'm not it. My spotless record, my getting her life back on track, my insistence that she should value herself more, all the good times we shared, the endless romantic gestures I made to show her how much I value her and respect her, all of that faded in an instant.
>Cut to a month later, find out she's been in love with another guy for a while, a guy we both talked to, but wasn't part of our friend group exactly.

More?

GET THE FUCK OFF OF THIS BOARD WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU

My ex gf collection:
>2 schizo gfs
>avoidant gf
>2 bpd gfs
>histrionic gf
>bipolar gf
>suicidal gf
>gf who actually did commit sudoku
>heroin addict gf
>slutty /b/tard gf

Anyone wanna trade?

Well you have a type, that's for sure

Haha. It's just that mentally unhinged women love schizoids because we're a blank slate for them to projectile vomit their innermost psychic workings onto.

And then once they have removed a sufficient amount of bile from their fetid system, they drop you to find another guy, keeping you close enough if you did well with absorbing her shit the last time.

Yep, exactly. It's nice to know that someone understands. Same thing happens to you I take it?

Virtually yes. Is mine.

Oh damn user, that's rough. You did everything you could except fix her, which let's be honest, will probably never happen anyway. BPDs are some sort of emotional black hole.

>been 2 years
>got along really well and actually thought it could go long-term
>broke up with me and became a whore in classic female BPD-like fashion
>she hasnt been with anyone for more than a couple months since, all NEETs or dealers
>lives with parents since
>can barely maintain a part-time job for more than a few months
>hit the wall (she's 26 now)

Meanwhile my life is so much better and is only getting better
>just finished law school
>have great job lined up
>learned to scuba dive and even dive for my own shellfish
>fwb with WAY hotter and saner girls
>used to be a bit babyfaced but becoming more grizzled and attractive with age (based men aging like wine)

Hilariously, she still occasionally texts and it's always with this air of superiority, like she's giving me a chance to "win" her back. We have no mutual friends and all my SM's are private so she has no clue how well my life is going, how good I'm looking, and how my life is skyrocketing. Unironically think she may kill herself if she finds out.

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moral of the story, dont get involved with bpd girls

The worst part is that the guy she's with now was just like how she described her past bf's. She has no feelings for me anymore, but I know she's going to get hurt again. I mentioned he wasn't exactly a part of our friend group, that's because he lied to her, has shown signs of anger problems, and is probably just using her. I hope I'm wrong because idk if I could even take her back after she threw away everything we had on a whim. No way to be sure she wouldn't just do it a second time.

It's her house user. Don't like it, should of moved out with her.

You'd only be wasting resources on her. Someone with such little respect for you doesn't deserve so much as a single word. I understand you're still attached though and that's natural. But while you were investing all that time and money into her, she was constantly splitting and alternately valuing/devaluing you, which disallowed her from forming a stable image of you and will stop her from doing so in the future. She'll go through the same cycle with him but because they sound similar, they'll continually hurt and forgive each other until he gets arrested or she finds someone else like you to take her away for a while.

>ex looked like pic related but straight hair
>hated men
>was a virgin
>never wanted to try sexual stuff
>she blew me once over a year
>was manipulative which is how she made me stay
>she said she would never have sex until marriage
>started getting into drugs
>wanted to get into knife and blood play
>told her no fucking way
>breaks up with me
>tells me two days later she got double teamed by an old friend and her dealer
>she fucking Skype video called me when in the middle of it to show me
>she eventually started dating my no longer friend and became addicts
>he overdosed a year ago and now he never leaves his house
>she was put in a ward for a few months and then left the country
>no idea where she is now and don't care
She had the best looking perky tits that I gotta suck on so that was pretty good at least. Haven't dated anyone in a decade, I get anxiety even talking to women now

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>alcoholic gf in high school
>weekends were her "drinking nights"
>could only see her during the week
>she starts ignoring me more and more
>eventually ghosts me altogether despite being officially together
>have to force her to meet me in person to break up

Tell her, the look on her face will be epic

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I have bpd, my ex said he thought he might have a mental disorder and I suspect he may have meant schizoid because he was totally robotic and didn't show any emotion, though at the time I thought he was a sociopath. Schizoid - BPD match is especially bad because the BPD person gets no reaction from the schizoid and so they keep pushing dangerously further and further.

Bruh please tell me you at least hit that shit every day

You are just lonely user is not that she was a good person so don't try to get back with her.

Yeah quite a lot, but she was shitty about it. Wouldn't fuck without a condom (which I guess is fair), but it had to be an extra safe one. Before she finally gave in to having sex in her pussy, she insisted in anal incase she got pregnant. Weirdo

>A clinically accurate picture of schizoid sexuality may include the overt signs: "sometimes celibate; free of romantic interests; averse to sexual gossip and innuendo," as well as possible covert manifestations of "secret voyeuristic and pornographic interests; vulnerable to erotomania; and tendency towards perversions,"

Yeah, this was him lmao. He acted like he was sexually attracted to me and had a normal sexual appetite at first but I suspect that was just to appear normal and reel me in. After a little while it became clear any kind of emotional or sexual intimacy was too much strain on him and he'd rather fap to incest porn than have sex.

Wtf is an extra safe condom?

Ah, that makes a lot of sense. Yeah in my experience the lack of affect has only made them push more, which caused me to shut down even further in response. From my perspective I was waiting for it to be over, and from your perspective you must have been waiting for your ex to finally break. I also understand how I was cheated on, I mean - honestly, I would cheat on myself too. It must be maddening to want something from a person and yet never be able to get it.

what is wrong with men? would you seriously rather have an unplanned pregnancy than wear a condom?

Yep, this is also accurate. Sexual intimacy terrifies me and I barely fap. Would be on the extreme overt side.

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>beautiful short brunette hair
>Nice thighs
>Nice tits
>chubby belly

Onetime she ghosted me for a day and I decided fuck her and played some mwr and she called me in the middle of a snipers only game and my ringtone was ultra loud so I jump in my seat and missed a easy quick scope, I answered her and told her to fuck off.

Anyways we broke up after about a month of dating, she had multiple mental health issues and I'm glad she wanted to break up because I had enough about worrying for her safety 24/7 amd it kept me up at night, I was gonna a talk to her about breaking up then she decided she wanted to so it was a mutual agreement.

She got together with this guy who looks gay as fuck, he tries to make me jealous and says hi and shit while their hugging, I wouldn't suspect him of this but he goes out of his way to do that kind of shit and my friend who talks to him confirmed he does it to fuck with me.

Anyways I'm doing amazing, i don't have a gf but I can talk to women and hold a nice conversation, and I've got my eye on a cutie at uni right now

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Fiance actually, for a short while at least, we were both 31, I was going to marry her to help her solve her migratory status. I think what ultimatum doomed the relationship was that she was my first ever gf, and I was the 4th serious relationship she had been in, so it was obvious she was looking to settle down, I wasn't AT ALL.
But what really did it for me, was all the time she demanded off me, I felt like I literally had to report to her every fucking night, I could hear her in the back of my head every night "call me, call me, call meee,...reeeee" and then if I didn't when we meet up I could tell she was annoyed, and it felt like I was walking on a tight rope (fucking Latinas man), we got into an argument and I told her I couldn't take that shit anymore, and that I had other priorities, but that I was still willing to help her out, I just didn't want a romantic relationship with her.
she told me no thanks and we haven't spoken since, wew.

>I felt like I literally had to report to her every fucking night, I could hear her in the back of my head every night "call me, call me, call meee,...reeeee" and then if I didn't when we meet up I could tell she was annoyed, and it felt like I was walking on a tight rope
this fucking feel, i feel this feel so much

I thought I was a schizoid at once, but there is an important distinction. Schizoids tend to prefer to be alone and don't form many connections. A lot of people wrongly attribute emotionally aloof people as being unable to form proper bonds because schizoids encapsulate both and it's a common term.

Not worth it. I don't hate her, she's just fucked up. I'll never be friends with her (pulled some extremely irredeemable stuff - think of the gf in the movie 50/50) but I don't want to rub it in her face that she messed up with me.

The longer she stays fucked up the more guys like us she'll prey on. Wish all you guys with BPD ex's the best.

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What is there to tell... she never existed in the first place...

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>I was going to marry her to help her solve her migratory status
that sounds like it could've been a massive fuckup on your end

Extra thick ones.

Obviously I didn't want a kid at 17 but contraception is quite effective in the 21st century

Yep, really all I wanted from him was to show me some emotion or open up to me, or give me a little affection and support, but the more I'd beg and plead the more he'd push me away. BPD shit tests don't work on schizoid people. And then everytime I pushed and prodded further and further for a reaction for him, the more he'd shut down and ignore me. It drove me insane and he told me he couldn't handle being around someone so emotionally unstable which was fair enough. It was bad for both people involved and definitely brought out the worst traits in each of us. But yeah be careful and I'd advise you to steer clear of bpd girls because they could end up hurting themselves or you, just as a cry for attention. You didn't deserve to be cheated on though. No one does. If the relationship is that bad they should at least have the decency to end things before moving on with someone else. Though I know bpd girls can be huge sluts. I couldn't bring myself to cheat though, as someone who has been cheated on.

kek this sounds like my sister.

>high school boyfriend
>he has the patience of a saint
>she treats him like shit
>screams at him for a week straight when they break up
>she spends the next three years talking shit about him whenever he's brought up
>i search him on facebook the other day
>hes an airline pilot
>sister works late shift at starbucks and cant get out of bed before 2pm

If you love your sister's ex bf so much why don't you date him?

>Booty call
>Talk to her a few times about relationships
>She walked around it even though we were good friends before
>Finds a new bf that doesn't sexually satisfies her
>Comes back crawling for the D
>Blames me for our "relationship" not working our even though she was the one against it
Generally an awful person

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>first ex was a kind and shy girl who was the very definition of a tomboy, actually becoming transgender a few years after breaking up. out of inexperience (not that it's an excuse), i really hurt this girl and i'll never forgive myself for it.
>second ex was kind of a boring normie type who had really terrible taste in most things but was still pretty witty (although not humble and, instead, full of herself). we both sort of just lost interest towards the end.
>third ex was a psychotic bpd girl that manipulated me, abused me, broke up with me several times (and would beg for me back every time), and left an immense amount of things for me to work through on my own that seeped into other relationships. finally put my foot down and did the breaking up, and refused contact further.
>fourth ex was an incredible human being who i still adore and love but not in a romance way anymore. really witty, creative, and realistic but wasn't really down to hang out and do things besides talking most of the time, and didnt see eye to eye on children. we were off and on, eventually becoming friends, but i found myself too obsessive and dependent and had to step back.

besides those girls, i casually dated one who was way, way more into bdsm than i was comfortable with and am currently dating someone who's very, very infp but is full of love and affection, which is sweet.

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>and left an immense amount of things for me to work through on my own that seeped into other relationships.

What did he mean by this?

why would you date cluster A and cluster B girls? they're like complete opposites (the former being objectively better)

when you date someone who has very little respect for you (or maybe she does, but she's too mentally ill to understand her own actions), you develop a lot of insecurities and trained responses. for instance, i was scared to express dissenting opinions to my fourth ex for awhile because my third ex could go ballistic at the drop of a hat and yell at me, shut down completely, become suicidal, or, at worst, break up with me. so when i was able to actually express disagreement with fourth ex, having her be... normal and chill served as a foil i wasn't prepared for, i guess?

she was also very clingy and obsessive, and these traits ended up rubbing off on me, which in turn drove fourth ex crazy because i would not let up whatsoever. i really regret those days.

the brother of my ex who was like this were based af

unironically wish i couldve became close bros with him