Boyfriend jerks off more than he has sex with me

Patrice O'neal actually advocates this in a lot of his podcasts. If a partner isn't satisfying you sexually you can try and pretend it's your fault and try to spice things up. or you can take things into your own hands to fix it.

If he's not being abusive/general dick then why care? If it's because your ego is hit then try and improve yourself, ask him what he wants in the bedroom and try and do it. Or leave.

I only give my bitch some dick when she deserves it, it's supposed to be a treat. Work on your behavior, he is probably trying to condition you. Basic Skinnerian psychology.

if u dont give ur bitch dick, she will get dick from somewhere else bruh
stop watching porn you autists

>tfw masturbate more than I have sex with my bf
It's a better orgasm my dude. Also as much as I love my bf he is shite at sex. I've tried things and have suggested stuff, but it's really just easier to schlick.

Sex is so much more difficult. You slip around in the bed, have to move so much of your body, get too warm, have much less pressure on your dong. It's hard to finish from sex but easy from using my hand.

Cheating is actually pretty uncommon, stop watching porn you autist. And even if she does you dump her, if she's not giving you good sex then it's not a massive loss anyway.

Who said anything about porn? Stop projecting your weird cuck and porn watching fantasies everywhere.

>gf gets super salty when I tell her I jerk off sometimes
Do you want me to lie to you?

She is stupid for being mad about that. If it's all the time though then I can see how it would make her sad

She tells me stuff like "it makes me feel like I'm not enough for you" which makes me feel bad in return.
But she has a lower sex drive so I feel like I just have to suck it up. When I'm in the mood and try to kiss her in the neck, press her body against mine etc she will often talk about random stuff and act oblivious.

Yeah that sounds like you're in the right. Masturbation is fine to balance her lower sex drive. If she's acting oblivious I guess just be even more forward as a "Do you want to have sex?" so she can't avoid it.
Since she'll probably say that she's not in the mood, brush it off with a "That's cool, I'll just masturbate later"
Then she'll get the correlation: if sex==no, then fapping=yes.
If she gets angry at your statement then she might be a little retarded.

this is actually a really shitty reply from a retard.
if you're reading user, don't do.

Ok I'm probably a retard but what is the issue with it? If her bf doesn't want to have sex then she can masturbate to fix it. Making him aware of it in that way would get him to understand the way she feels.
If I'm wrong I do legitimately want to know why though

>wait 30 min because you gotta fap
it's obvious what she's trying to do if she does this, and she'll end up looking shallow. don't give reasons. ambiguity will make the guy more interested.

Please leave him and be my gf, I will never jerk off and have sex with you at the times of your choosing

Not really.... They do that to make money on porn sites. T. Female Incel

Ambiguity will probably only lead to greater misunderstandings. But I guess I'm a bit autistic
So should she make him wait, and not say why? Then hell just get frustrated because shes being rude without reason.
Or should she just show less interest in sex in general, in an attempt to make him pick up the pace? I feel like that would backfire.

It sounds like there might be a problem in your relationship. Masturbation in a couple shouldn't really be a problem unless the masturbator starts disliking the sex.
I think you should have a talk with him just to voice your concerns (if you haven't already), and ask if he thinks there's a deeper cause.
Another option could just be mutual masturbation, to ease into the sex?
Good luck, OP

i did this a lot with my ltr. probably one of the reasons why it ended...
jacking off>sex, at least in most cases

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Learn his fetishes and act them out, and he'll fuck you whenever you want.

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>When I'm in the mood and try to kiss her in the neck, press her body against mine etc she will often talk about random stuff and act oblivious.
The next time this happens stand up and say "guess I'll go jack off then" and go into the bathroom.

This would probably be bad. It has the same energy as

>let me tell you what your boyfriend is doing
I live with him and I've caught him fapping to the vids he recorded of us. He's not a cuck who would share intimate videos of us.

Don't @ me femcel, literally have sex

Bull fucking shit. I'm 18. I'm a 6 out of 10 at best. But I've been cheated on in all three of my long term relationships. I've had multiple girls try to get me to cheat with them when I've been in relationships. I've had multiple girls try to get me to cheat with them while they were in relationships. Ive had multiple friends cheated on while in relationships or who have cheated with someone in a relationship. Cheating is rampant as fuck. Everyone is a whore these days. I regret the fact that my upbringing has left me too morally confused to join in with the rest. So i suffer through offers cheating on me. But I can't bring myself to cheat. Because I either care for the person I'm with or because I wont become what i hate and convince someone to cheat. You're either a fool obtuse or live in the brightest ivory castle I've ever fucking seen. Fuck i hate humans and I hate myself even more. Thank you for reminding me.

Then masturbate just as much as he does.

Obviously you're just shit at sex. Talk to him so you know how to be better, OP.

Why the fuck are all of you normalfaggot tourists even here

This board is primarily normalfaggots. It has been for years. That's unfortunately just the way it is.

treino e treino jogo e jogo cuzao

Then you engage the encounter yah fucking dyke.

I do the same, cant stand my girfriend bullshit every fucking time y just want to nut. Sex is overrated as fuck.
If it wasnt for the nature making boners woman will have disappear long ago. Such a fucking useless people.

>We live in a time in where sex defines a relationship.
How sad.

that's what liberals and cucks say to justify the fact that their gf spends more time fucking other people than giving said liberal cuck the time of day. Just saying