1 day until I ask a girl out for the first time ever

why in god's green fuck do you need a plan? If she likes you she'll say yes

I mean if you get rejected then no problem, you're pretty much where u are now

But if she says yes? Then Ur in deep shit

Here I'll paste my plan from the last threads.

We talk mostly 90% through text
We aren't the same class, I ask her about some school stuff, she asks me and that's how most of our convos star. I think she may like me because she's the first one to message a lot of times.

In 9 days I'll ask as normal and then when saying thanks say something like "you've helped me a lot this year I owe you coffee, when are you free?"

It's a plan brewed to perfection

We don't talk a lot in real life because both of us are shy and every time we see each other it's in a hurry and with mine and her friends nearby. It's a stupid environment

Fair enough dude. If she's messaging you first that's a green light for sure.

I;'ve been in a similar situation at uni and you've just gotta take the plunge and

Right now I'm kinda debating between going with that original sentence or saying "You've helped me a lot this year I owe taking you out on coffee sometimes when you're free"

The first one flows better, but I wouldn't have a set sentence in mind. Just play it by ear so that it sounds more natural.

You could honestly just leave out the first part, and straight up ask her if she's free for coffee at some point

>I'm in the endgame
No dude, you're in the midgame. If she says no, you die. If she says yes, the game continues. You better have plans upon plans for afterwards.

It's over text so there's not much room to look for clues and body language.

No this is the end of this girl's arc, either we go into despair arc or first girlfriend arc.

No despair arc bro. Remember, a girl rejecting you is more of a reflection on her than you.

If nothing else, it is an opportunity for self-reflection and growth

Rejection would mean wasting a lot of thinking time and anxieties over the last 7 or so months for nothing.
I've been through self-reflection mini-arcs, going through them every day.

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Last year a friend of mine did the exact same thing with this girl. It was like he had quasi-oneitis with this girl that he had been messaging and saw occasionally in lectures.

All the signs were there, and then she still friendzoned him.

He was in a massive funk, being a huge downer every time we got drunk and was talking about depression and life being shit. I couldn't talk him out of it.

And now? He has hist first gf and is going strong. None of the shit he said about uselessness and pessimism was true.

Rejection is a passing incident that feeds into the greater arc of discipline and emotional maturity.

In the last thread I already gave myself an 80% chance of failure, the closer I creep to the time of plan executions the more I think about different things and start seeing how she might have been giving negative signals this entire time.
I doubt she's going to say yes

That's okay dude. Just be yourself and whatever will be will be.

If she doesn't like you, just remember that you probably just don't match, and that you can still be a better version of yourself.

Personally, I am currently in an arc of self improvement. I've started lifting to grow out of my skeletal physique, I'm reading more books, joining groups and forcing myself to meet people. These things cultivate confidence and charisma, meaning that next time (even if you fail) you will be better and more able to deal with rejection.

Sorry for lecturing btw, just that I've been in your position and I know how it feels

But I haven't matched with anyone ever.. when does it stop being "we just haven't matched" and start being "damn there's something wrong with me"

I'm always trying to self-improve, that's a sub-plot for the several past seasons.

Look out for the thread tomorrow where I'll post the results, it'[ll be around the same time ( ~3 hours ago so like 21 hours ) and with the same picture

Looking forward to it.

Good luck.

Thank you, good luck to you too whatever this season and arc are about.

This season is the one where I overcome the "gifted kid turned college burnout" meme and become a person I can respect.

Not going great though. Just missed the deadline half an hour ago for a law essay and I'm feeling like my brain is fuzzy from so long of coasting through life. I'll get through it though lmao

Well good luck with that then, I'm doing good at school and am not thinking much about that.

Actually jealous dude. I might go get checked out for ADD its getting so bad.

At least Im in a pretty good position if I overcome this

I'm still in high school, who knows what'll be in college.
I was always told I'm very smart and gifted, my GPA is around 3.6 in American units but I'm always told that if I studied even for a little little bit I'd have 4.00 easily.
But I never do study and find 3.60 without studying better than 4.00 with

Yeah, not American so not surewhat the GPA translates to, but I was the same way and now a couple years into a law degree, I am finally feeling the heat. Only now I have no safety net of teachers and no study habits.

Start studying properly now. You'll thank yourself later. It's so easy to slack off in college and it really fucks you in the self-esteem when you have to get subpar grades that you could easily avoid

I'm not America either I just say it like that because there's a better chance of people understanding.
The thing is I know you're 100% correct but....

>I'm in the endgame

nope, you're about to leave the tutorial. Most of your peers did it a decade or more ago.

ahah yeah I'm saying it but not practising what I preach

I had huge delay between seasons

I'm going to go sleep, big day tomorrow
Tune in tomorrow for results!

relax dude dont get so worked up

Does it mean anything if she says yes? I've asked out girls on a date and they've said yes and we've done the whole go out to eat and watch a movie thing but it doesn't go anywhere, like what am I suppose to do to make her my girlfriend? Does it mean she's interested in me too if she accepts my invitation? I don't know, man. I lose interest pretty quick though, so it just something I don't really think about it too much.

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>go out to eat and watch a movie thing

that is literally the worst possible first date dude. Take the next bitch ice skating. bitches love ice skating and it gives you a built in reason to touch each other.

Look a lot of people will lie to you and speak as if there is one surefire way for non chads to get a gf, when in reality you just got to be in the right place at the right time