Please talk to me.
If you really don't want me around anymore then let me know why.
I don't want to lose my best friend without knowing why.
Please talk to me
what happened user?
you seem sad
oregano
We can talk. Tell us what's up
I've been separated from the best friend I ever made, and I am partly responsible.
I'm trying to reach out to him on here because I'm afraid he blocked me.
Without shame or afterthought, tell us why he's reacting like this
I don't know, that's the problem. He started being really distant and I could never it figure out or get him to say why. I would be devastated to lose him, and not knowing what's wrong makes it worse.
user speaking from experience just drop it. He did that for a reason.
He removed me on an account and wouldn't tell me why, so after a while I felt like he didn't want to be friends. I reacted emotionally and removed him on another account, but I intended to add him back later. I immediately regretted it but now he won't respond to any friend requests or messages.
I really want to fix things and apologize to him but I don't know if he sees any of my messages.
I don't know. Just a week before he removed me I spent a weekend with him irl. He said that he really wanted to pay me back and visit me sometime, and that he wanted to talk to me every day until then. If that hadn't happened then I would understand him trying to create distance between us.
Maybe you weren't what he was looking for. Don't take it too hard, sometimes these things don't work out and you don't hear back.
We've been best friends for two years and I've visited him before. I get that you don't understand how close we were, but I know that we both cared for each other. If he told me what you said then I'd concede, but I just don't believe that he stopped caring.
>I spent a weekend with him irl
did you touch each other in a lewd way?
Nah nothing sexual
maybe that's it, maybe he wanted some gentle touch and you unknowingly denied him...
I definitely would have since I like him like that, but it seemed that he didn't want that, and it would have put him in a tough spot with someone else.
I'm starting to see why he cut you off... I've been in his position many a time
Please tell me why.
I won't believe anything until I hear it from him, but I'd like to hear what you think.
I hope you reach him OP!
Thanks user, me too. I'm going to have a very hard time if he isn't around.
If he knows you're into him like that, he can't help but walk on eggshells around you- or interpret every little thing you do as a move on him. It doesn't matter if he thinks you've got an ulterior motive for your friendship with him, the fact that you're into him is a constantly offputting factor, and is nothing but a drain on his psyche when he's around you. You spamming him and sperging out didn't help one bit, so if there's anything to salvage, it's done by you pulling out NOW, leaving him alone and finding someone else to be around. Maybe you'll get back to him at some point when he's mulled things over, but let him come to you, you gaylord
Don't listen to that idiot. If he has someone close to him that he cares about but also knows that you are into him, and that you are really close he might be avoiding you to not ahem "tempt" himself with you.
Just the non-incel perspective.
I thought that this might be the reason, but I have a few good reasons to think otherwise. Thanks for being open about it anyway.
If you're reading this, then I'll reiterate this for you: I am happy to just be friends. I would never force a relationship if it would make things awkward for you. If you don't want to be with me, however, then I hope that you're okay with me dating other people. I hope that isn't a dealbreaker for us to remain as close as we have been. The least I can do to preserve the best friendship I've known is show restraint. Just tell me so and I will commit.
What's your name OP
I'm confused with this thread
Starts with N. Don't really want to make my feelings about this known to anyone but him.
I saw this thread earlier but didnt read through it
What is this all about
Ahhhhh ok
I thought this was something else because I'm confused
She told me to leave her alone and I did. So i gave her space and just doing my own thing because she wants space from me and she afraid of me. So idk what's this about but i dont trust her and I'm trying to get over her
You always will have an awesome person with you!
And that is... You! Give yourself a hug for me~
This thread is about me trying to let my friend know how I feel, and it's about me saying sorry and trying to earn him back.
That's sad and overall a bad cope for losing someone that I cherish. I appreciate the sentiment though.
And how do you feel uhm tranny?
I didnt read the thread at all so I want to know
Uhm. Is Jow Forums playing another joke on me or what
If you're a fucking trans I would have no problem beating your fucking ass you know.. dont fuck with me
What is this thread about
Or am I actually crazy
Nah I'm not a tranny.
Ok. Well I'll believe it may be the person I'm thinking of right now
So what do you want... dont lie to me because I wont waste my time on here
t. Hopeless optimist that give poor souls on Jow Forums false hope.
>"N-no no, he wants you so much that he simply has to block all information with you and refuses to acknowledge your existence."
Also:
>unironically saying incel
You're a fucking troglodyte buddy
If it's you then I just want us to be how we were two weeks ago.
I get that it would make the most sense for you to think he's wrong, but he might have hit pretty close to the mark.
maybe if you were more cute and feminie your friend would like you back
men mostly care about appearance
you should know why scum
My appearance was never the problem
I don't know why, but I really wish I did.
If this is you, then would you please tell me why you call me scum?
you should know scum and i want you to guess if its me and try to squirm out of this you worm
I doubt it's you, but if it is, then I'll say this: I overwhelmingly treated you with love. I came to see you and we had a wonderful time. I told you that you owed me nothing when you felt that you should repay me. I set aside my interest in dating you to the best of my ability so that you wouldn't have to struggle with your feelings for us both.
The main reason why I regrettably removed you on that account is because I had been loving and patient with you, but you didn't seem to appreciate me. It was stupid of me, and I wish I didn't do it, but I reacted that way because I believed myself to have been a very good friend to you. I just want to be happy with you again.
It sounds like you feel entitled to it scum you truly feel you are in the right, god you are pathetic just neck yourself. Just because you are nice i dont need to like you retard,
We were best friends two weeks ago. What happened?
If it's really you and you hate me then I won't bother you anymore. I can't just change my feelings though.
Analyze everything, think about it really hard use that pea brain you idiot and notice all the shit you have done and goodbye i hope i never have to interact with you ever in my life.
What are your initials? I think you're just a troll.
Good thing I don't believe he is the one posting this. I really do not want to be told to give up on him.
Hey user its not him but at least now you know what you can answer and not what to answer i hope everything goes good and no i am not a troll i just wanted to see how you really feel
I don't understand. Were you testing me?