Why do men and women deal with breakups so differently? At first when I broke up with my ex I wasn't happy but I knew it was necessary. She was sad but I was moving on with my life. Now that time has passed I suddenly find myself missing her even though I know I shouldn't while she's mainly(she still messages me occasionally) has moved on. WHy is this I don't want to be a meme.
Why do men and women deal with breakups so differently...
Men bottle our emotions until they become too much and we cant handle them anymore. Women are free to push waterfalls out of their eyes and move on.
But I didn't really feel it till recently. Are you saying if I cry I'll just magically feel better?
Fuck man it took me two years to start regretting it
2 reasons.
1 day after the breakup, men are fine and women are crying their eyes out because women have no control over their emotions and think everything that upsets them is the worst thing in the world.
But then the next day, women are fine because they remember that they have 100,000 other guys lined up outside their door ready to compete to become her new boyfriend and she forgets the old one immediately. Men on the other hand, realize that if they want to get a new girlfriend they're going to have to go out and go through the arduous, exhausting, difficult task of being one of those 100,000 guys lined up trying to date some other women, and have to outdo them all if he even wants a chance to ever have a girlfriend again.
Is it really that hard to find a girlfriend? Kek
I don't regret it. She was a cheating whore lol. I had multiple girls try to get me to cheat but I stayed loyal turns out she didn't do the same. But I find myself reading our old messages and missing the good times. And wishing I had fucked her more depite the fact I wasn't that attracted to her while we dated.
I understand that on a large scale its hard for people to date. Which is why I've never chased a girl. But I've always had girls who wanted to date me so its never been a problem. Ive just been too scared of commitment most of the time to date them. So thats not my problem lol.
Males get no new girl despite they were designed to be happier being a good key. She's unhappy at first, her hymen gone, instinct dictates she cries for help. It works, she gets help, she is now recovered. The male has no rights anymore though and with this overly competitive society she gets so many suitors that he ironically is the one left alone and was not designed for that shit, so the men an hero super often in comparison to females in this abhorrent society. It's all pretty obvious how it plays out. The '''''attempt suicide"""" females do super often, for attention. The females get it. The males don't. At first though, the males are happy thinking as though with instinct that if you got one you'll get another. In the past it were true, when we had women forced to not break up with men via a stoning. Our genes are not made for this shit. White males thus commit the sudoku at the highest rates.
>kek
leave idiot or show your tits and then leave
lmao I'm not that fucked up bro. I'm not commiting suicide over a bitch. Like I mentioned in other replys I typically have at least one girl into me so I'm not worried about that.
I don't think thats a girl bro. Probably just another dude posting a girl he orbits.
>a dude
>not knowing it's hard to get a gf
then he's a underage invading redd*tor normalfaggot
Give it time. You end up with no woman and realize feminists banned whores and you might just die of alcoholism, as they banned all the healthy drugs too. The OP image conveys what I and conveyed plus I throw in that drugs banned booze shit, of which that is how it happens.
You're a bitch pushing toxic narratives. lmao as if it's at all uncommon for those roles to be reversed.
It's not of you go out and talk to people lol. I've had multiple and many more offers. And I know much less attractive guys then myself who have had many. And yah I might end up a alcoholic in college but not because of woman.
That really doesn't make any sense in the first place. And I'm speaking from my experience with my own relationships and those of my friends. I'm not saying theirs not outliers but this is what I see commonly.
For the man its like your house burning down and realizing you have nowhere to go. For the woman its like your house burning down and realizing you have 3 other houses, a condo, and your parents house to go back to.
yea thats kinda the main function of crying, to release emotion.
Ngl I cried a little when I broke up with her. And a little last night. But normally I have no urge to cry over it. So that doesnt really help.
This. Most women will be going on dates within 1-2 weeks of the breakup and will have no problem finding them. Men actually have to put in effort to get another gf and it can be difficult. Im going through this myself, I broke up with my first ever gf about 9 months ago who im pretty sure I got from dumb luck (I am a very unattractive and autistic manlet). I know ill be able to get another gf but it will be a ridiculously tough process and im not sure I can go through it again. It really grinds you down unless youre a 10/10 Chad with a massive social circle.
I understand that. But I've always had my relationships happen by accidnet so that doesnt worry me. SO why am I upset still when that doesnt apply/\. But I'm sorry to hear about your loss bro. You can come out on top though. Get in the gym if your'e not already, Since you're a manlet you can put on muscle easier. And don't read tooo much into the chad philosohpy.