>meet girl on r9k >Agree to pay her to talk to me, as a friend or as a gf, I'm not even sure, I don't think it matters because I never made any attempt to be sexual with her or ask her for anything sexual >The first two weeks go by well, and we talk often for a good amount of time >Ask her if I can take her out irl, since she only lives 90 minutes away and I'm willing to drive, she says yes and next week when she gets her work schedule on Monday she will let me know when a good day is >Week 3 comes and we basically stop talking. She would text me a couple times a day and then disappear the entire rest of the day, she would say she will text or call me at a certain time and then just not do it, entire days would go by and I would hear/see nothing from her until like 9 at night or something >Monday goes by and she doesn't give me her schedule, Tuesday goes by and she doesn't give me her schedule, I barely speak to her either day >Today (Wednesday) comes and she texts me at 7am, telling me she will talk to me again around 4-5pm >Doesn't contact me until 8pm and at this point I tell her I'm not interested in talking anymore because I cannot trust her, and I would be a fool to assume she's not just letting the days go by, interacting with me the absolute minimum amount to still get paid >She insists that she's just been busy and it's my fault for being insecure and blah blah basically it's my fault
She's full of shit right? It's too late to go back now but, I can't help but wonder if I screwed up something that could have been good. I'm definitely certain that was just a waste of time and a money black hole though. No matter how busy you are, my suspension of disbelief won't allow me to buy that you can't text a person more than a few times throughout an entire day, multiple days in a row. There's no way she actually wanted to talk to me, and she definitely didn't want to see me irl either.
just say if she wants to see you to tell you when and where and that you'll talk in person
Christopher Miller
dear god please let this be a larp
Joseph Barnes
wait you paid her to talk to you fucking kill yourself, jesus christ what a loser
Robert Price
she didnt want to see you irl no that much i can assure yew
Ryder Lopez
She didn't want to talk on the phone to even attempt to patch things up at the end, she doesn't want to talk anymore either. That ship has definitely sailed. I'm not asking for advice on how to go backwards, or fix things, I'm just trying to ask you guys so I can make absolutely sure I made the intelligent choice.
Of course I wanted to delude myself into believing whatever shit she made up, but I'm pretty sure that would have ended up with me pissing away increasingly more money over the next few weeks for absolutely nothing anyways and that this was inevitable.
Josiah Scott
shes full of shit
Jace Miller
yes it was inevitable
Ayden Allen
Honestly if this is true it's a good thing. If she wanted to see me she would have made some attempt, any attempt to make it happen. I asked her a full week ago and she said yes, a full week ago.
I cannot come to any possible conclusion other than that she was saying yes with no intention of actually doing it to just prolong the arrangement so I'd piss away more money on nothing. I agree with you that she didn't want to see me, which is why I broke it off.
Isaac Nguyen
yup. it was doomed from the beginning
James Bell
>>Doesn't contact me until 8pm and at this point I tell her I'm not interested in talking anymore because I cannot trust her, and I would be a fool to assume she's not just letting the days go by, interacting with me the absolute minimum amount to still get paid >She insists that she's just been busy and it's my fault for being insecure and blah blah basically it's my fault
>She's full of shit right?
Yes. BUT... This is pathetic behavior user. You're better than this. You can't buy love, ever user, girls are fucking parasites and they WILL exploit any resources they can get out of you and reduce their side down as minimum as your willing to enable them. They're used to getting stuff for free and using guys, that signifies a weak-willed man to them.
You gotta be better than that. Learn that lesson please. Learn that you can't really pay a girl for affection, she's always going to pull this kind of stunt. Hell that's what a lot of marriages are based off of.. her using the guy for resources and putting in the bare minimum.
William Diaz
You might want to inform you local police she's accepting money for affection too.
Gabriel Butler
you paid her to talk to you you fucking faggot, you didnt make a good choice at any point in time
Julian Rogers
>Agree to pay her to talk to me
LMFAO YOU ARE A FUCKING FAGGOT
Andrew Brooks
All I have to offer are my resources. I'm happy to give them too, men are supposed to be providers, isn't that what our genes have been tuned for for tens of thousands of years? As I said in the OP, I never even tried to exploit her sexually or anything. I was literally paying her an entire workdays pay per week, just to talk to me. When I tried to meet irl, I didn't ask to go to her place and fuck, I asked to meet in a public place and take her out to eat anywhere she wanted on my dime, all she had to do was show up.
If I'm not good enough, and even my money isn't good enough... Then what? What really is the ultimate answer here? Because outside of killing myself, I'm seriously getting to the point where I would like to find a surgeon that I can pay to just castrate me. I don't want a sex drive anymore. I don't want to want to be loved. I don't want this curse anymore. There's literally nothing I can do to get female companionship.
I'm not even short. I'm not even overweight. I'm obviously not poor. I don't live with my parents. I tried the self improvement meme and yet here I am, with nothing and nobody. Even my fucking money isn't good enough. I don't want this drive to be with the opposite sex anymore it's only serving to hurt me and it's just going to keep hurting me, forever.
Landon Thomas
>She insists that she's just been busy and it's my fault for being insecure and blah blah basically it's my fault She's completely correct, but we knew that by the second line of your spiel. Sounds like you have more of an employee-employer relationship than a friendship, and she needs more flexible hours. Do you negotiate more flexible terms, or do you fire her? The choice is yours. I don't think she's looking for a 'promotion' though, so don't count on meeting her.
I'm not an expert, but if you start by paying somebody for their attention, their chances of taking you seriously in a relationship are very low. If they are just meeting you, they have very little information with which to judge you. Pretend to be normal, and they will probably think you are normal for quite a while. Paying them to talk to you gets you attention in the short term, but it implies that their attention is worth more to you than yours is to them. Logically, why would that be the case? I'm sure you can think of reasons, but it's 99% just your insecurity.
Nathan Clark
If I didn't use money as the founding basis with which to start talking, then I never would have spoken to her to begin with.
Matthew Thompson
You are an absolute fucking idiot and a pussy. I wouldnt mind if waste like you killed yourself. however I would like to address this nonsense, maybe you'll stop being such a loser
>All I have to offer are my resources. If this is all you have to offer to a girl fuck a hooker > I'm happy to give them too, men are supposed to be providers, isn't that what our genes have been tuned for for tens of thousands of years? You absolute fucking cuckold. You provide for a women who cares and loves for you, you dont pay her to pretend to do so >I was literally paying her an entire workdays pay per week, just to talk to me. you are absolutely fucking pathetic for doing this. refund those payments you fucking loser >When I tried to meet irl, I didn't ask to go to her place and fuck, I asked to meet in a public place and take her out to eat anywhere she wanted on my dime, all she had to do was show up. So fucking what? You think this makes you better? she is a glorified prostitute and you think you did the right thing by not trying to fuck her
>Even my fucking money isn't good enough. Women do NOT love men for their money. they love MONEY. women who provide men simulated love for money are called hookers. maybe if you werent such a pathetic loser you would have a chance with a decent woman, or shit even just a woman who wont charge you.
Carson Mitchell
>then I never would have spoken to her to begin with. you speaking to her was absolutely meaningless. you didnt win anything by paying her, you could have gotten the same from a fucking chatbot you dumb fuck.
Bentley Clark
>All I have to offer are my resources. I'm happy to give them too, men are supposed to be providers, isn't that what our genes have been tuned for for tens of thousands of years?
you're not supposed to provide things to women who will give you nothing in return you ultracuck
you're a simp, a dope. you were used. your genes will be erased and no one will mourn you.
Jose Wood
This thread is still making me feel better rather than worse. I already knew I was a loser and a failure but at least now I can be reassured that I didn't screw up potentially the only chance I had. Getting that small window of hope for a few weeks was very painful. It's much more comfy to just exist in a general fog of hopelessness and knowing nothing good will happen.
> It's much more comfy to just exist in a general fog of hopelessness and knowing nothing good will happen. because you are too much of a pussy to do something about it besides throwing money
you're too much of a pussy to even respond to the posts in this thread.
Josiah Campbell
ya. good lesson
Xavier Cooper
Faggot paying for a gf
Mason Watson
PUSSY faggot reply to my fucking posts you coward you dont deserve to breath the air I do
Jonathan Young
Maybe she actually had a life and was doing what she said she was. Did she give you any reason to make you think she was a bad person?
Austin Mitchell
>Did she give you any reason to make you think she was a bad person? she was accepting money to talk to some lonely retard you faggot white knight
No you did she was a unicorn and this is literally the first time I've been on here and days....what would I have been doing now instead hmm I wonder. I was actually feeling the same way and got to this post from another thread the working ten hours one. FIRST ONE I CLICK AND GUESS WHOS BITCHING, YOU. Per usual.
Andrew Edwards
Some people have different reasons maybe she was lonely as well
Landon Diaz
Well if she was I'm sure she wouldve put in a bit more effort
Jordan Rogers
Did you pay her for week 3?
Tyler Nelson
AHAHAHAHAHAH OP PAID A TRANNY TO TALK TO HIM omegaLUL
>Some people have different reasons SHE ACCEPTED MONEY FOR A CONVERSATION this alone makes her a shitty person, if she wanted a friend she wouldnt do it for money. you switch from the third to first person not sure if larp or crazy
Sebastian Long
She didn't do anything to make me think she was a bad person, and I'm sure she was doing stuff some of the time. But again, I mean like being gone for the entire day on a non-work day. I wasn't asking for, or expecting constant attention, but if I'm literally paying for your company I'd expect a conversation through text that lasts longer than five minutes over the course of a several day long period. I can't understand any reason why someone would not have access to their phone from the moment they woke up all the way to 9-10 at night, which is when she would contact me for the first time some days. Today, as I said, she texted me once at 7am, and then I didn't hear from her for 13 hours. That type of shit happened basically for an entire week. There's no way I can believe someone is that busy, she literally just didn't want to talk to me. There's no other way.
Alternatively, if she texted me while I was sleeping, I'd wake up and talk to her. If she texted me while I was at work at my actual job, I'd still text as much as I'd be able to. There's no hypothetical situation in which you're completely unable to use your phone for an entire day at a time.
Jace Evans
>She didn't do anything to make me think she was a bad person she exploited your loneliness for money you fucking wimp.
Dylan Perez
I don't care if you see this thread, I knew that was a risk when I made it. I've already decided to never talk to you again anyways so nothing is lost I guess.
Don't take it personally, I'm allowed to bitch anonymously into the void. Feel free to do the same if you'd like.
Gabriel Powell
>OP ignores any post that calls him out for being a simp >replies to anyone being sympathetic to the woman why are you such a simp. man the fuck up
Isaac Martinez
Why are you so desperate for (You)s?
What is it you want to argue with me about anyways? You've made your thoughts on the subject clear multiple times. I don't give a shit, move on.
Joshua Watson
I was literally sitting here feeling super bad. I figured if you cared you'd hit me up and re sign into kik. Never asked for cash this week, if you remember correctly I legit never asked you. You stated it in the beginning and it made me super uncomfortable. I made it so easy for you and guess what. I absolutely fucking painted from 9 to 5 for 3 days straight every minute I wasn't my dad was driving me there or back or I was standing there watching him do something to teach me. You can slack off, but not your first day. Working with him wasn't better than getting hired anywhere else, if anything I had MORE to prove. I don't need to explain myself to anyone here. But this is like the one thing you could have done that makes me upset since I've made it my entire life not being called a gold digger or anything bad, and you basically call me one for getting a second job.
Hunter Walker
>everyone who replies to me is one poster >What is it you want to argue with me about anyways? I'd like you to address the fact that paying hundreds of dollars for a girl to talk to you is a simp move
Aiden Bennett
>getting a second job. talking to a guy isnt a job", you're just a softcore prostitute. Have some decency and dont charge a guy for talking to him or otherwise just leave him alone.
Isaac Smith
oo op should apologize and send dat sweet monies
Levi Morris
Is your name Krista?
Easton King
If you have any decency, give him the money back and stop talking to him. you're clearly underage and regardless have a parent housing you and employing you, you dont need to rip this guy off.
Carson Morales
Well what do you want me to say? I'm not a mind reader. If it was literally any other person doing this they would have probably just been taking advantage of me. I'm not that trusting. I'm willing to believe you are/were being honest but, at this point it doesn't even matter anymore does it? At least now you have my unfiltered perspective for context. And, I don't think anything bad about you. I'm not the one calling you a gold digger or a prostitute in this thread.
Don't worry about it, it doesn't even have anything to do with you anymore. We are obviously never going to meet or talk again, so you don't really need to care about any of this shit.
Luis Butler
op is SALTY about not meeting - he is rushing that IRL meetup.
Aaron Gomez
>they would have probably just been taking advantage of me she WAS taking advantage of you, you're lonely and she took advantage of that to make money.
how is that not taking advantage?
Michael Butler
sshhhh he wants that IRL meetup
Jacob Wright
he said he paid her a FULL days worth of money lets say, 8 dollars an hour (minimum wage), 8 hours per day, a normal workday. That's 64$ for minimum 5 days, over 300$ he could have just gotten a prostitute.
Easton Rogers
In case you haven't noticed that's not really on the table anymore ;)
Jacob Reyes
let the lad spend his earnings how he wants owo i see
Angel Scott
I know I could have gotten a prostitute. It wasn't about sex for me. It was about companionship. I never made any attempt to talk to her about sex or ask for nudes or anything of the sort.
I mean, I would have eventually, but yeah.
Carter Foster
>i would have eventually OWO
Chase James
O__O
By the way if you're still in here since I've already pretty much dropped all pretenses of trying to get you to actually like me I'll give you 700 bucks if you do let me fuck you.
You've got my phone number.
Liam Hall
I can see her point, but since you're the one paying you can give her an ultimatum, long talks come back or it's over.
That is if you want it to be over, if not then you can instead of irritating her ask her how those talks can come back and accomodate more to her schedule to make things work, not everything is lost
Good luck!
Justin Morales
>It was about companionship. google "girlfriend experience" dumbass she was giving you this at a more expensive rate with inferior service and without sex
Matthew Young
OWO im not h-her lole uwu
Adrian Perez
I know. The only part of that post directed at you was the O_O part dumb dumb.
Gavin Cruz
>'ll give you 700 bucks if you do let me fuck you oh my fucking god dude you can get a literal 9/10 professional prostitute for the night for that much what is wrong with you?
Dominic Murphy
I already told you, I know that. But, the prostitute would be a complete stranger, I wouldn't CARE if I was fucking them.
At least this girl I kinda know, and I did like her. The experience is actually worth something to me rather than just fucking some random bitch.
Lincoln Perez
>At least this girl I kinda know talked to her a few hours because you paid her know you "know" and like her. LMAO is this not exploitation to you? how much money did you give her?
Daniel Adams
Calm down man I said I like not I love. Obviously if it's only been a few weeks it's not that big of a deal. I just have money to throw around :^).
Also, I don't think she wants the 700.
Xavier Barnes
This thread is wild. WOO
Anthony Barnes
>A robot literally offering to drive to your house and hand you 700 dollars just for one fuck still isn't good enough for the average roastie in 2019
Meanwhile it takes me about two weeks of working full time at a gas station to make that much
>I just have money to throw around :^). get a GFE whore and not some underage chick then, christ tell me, do you not feel its kind of beta to spend so much to TALK to a girl?
Levi Rogers
It's painfully obvious that you want her back, so go for her again and try to make things up
Oliver Jackson
You know what? Fuck it. I guess I will get one.
Ayden Morgan
I'm female I'll talk to you for free as friends you seem sweet enough
Hunter Baker
I'll text her now and see how that goes, I don't think she's in the thread anymore so I don't think she saw my offer. I'll report back if she responds.
Jason Williams
Not interested. Origigigiginal.
Jason Reyes
you should buy a shotgun and shoot yourself instead lmao fucking pathetic, spending money on some underage whore who wont put out instead of even trying to fix his shit
Zachary Jones
I tried but I live in one of those very blue states and it would take months of bullshit for me to legally be allowed to buy a gun, and I don't know where to get one illegally.
Asher Campbell
>Meet girl on Jow Forums
What kind of a fucking turbo chad do you have to be to pull that off?
Well I texted her my 700 offer over 10 minutes ago and no response guys. I guess it's not happening. I'm probably gonna go to bed now so I guess show's over.
Ian Anderson
how can you be so pathetic. you actually sent her this
Angel Jones
Well you tried Plenty of fish in the sea, you know
Ethan Morgan
Why not? There's literally nothing to lose at this point. The bridge has been burned to the ground user.
Julian Jenkins
If she was telling you the truth, this is the worst way you could go about getting her back. She obviously wasn't in it for the money, otherwise she would have been fake and sucked up to u for that $
Nolan Rivera
>There's literally nothing to lose at this point. your dignity > She obviously wasn't in it for the money, she accepted it therefore she was she just felt guilty after. you're a virgin and dont understand women.
Julian Diaz
>My dignity
That went out the window waaaaaaaaay up in the thread buddy.
Hunter Perez
You don't have to be "in it for the money" to see a chance to make 700 dollars in an evening without leaving your house and taking it.
Jack Murphy
that Is being in it for the money.
Ethan Rogers
She prob woukd have texted if you let her cool off. But not after this topkek
Isaiah Russell
>pay her to talk to me, That's where you fucked up. Don't ever spend money on a woman (that isn't your wife) for any reason that you wouldn't give money to a man.
Dude I literally talked about wanting to castrate myself because I'm so pathetic earlier in the thread and she saw it. Like I said, the bridge has been permanently burned.
Ayden Rivera
the bridge is and was money. why are you deluding yourself?
Ian Lewis
Fucking normalfag zoomers. Get the fuck off r9k. You're not a true robot if girls spend time with you for free.
Julian Gray
>you're not a true robot if you don't pay a girl to talk to you > you're a zoomer if you dont pay a girl to talk to you I would rather be a fucking hermit than pay for company from a fake bitch you faggot bitch
Xavier Sanchez
You can find plenty of girls who will suck up to you for money and not think twice about it. 99% of girls will
Owen Evans
Girls don't spend time with me for free, I just have the dignity not to pay one for attention, that's pathetic.
Benjamin Gutierrez
Where? Everyone I've met always says "oh I would feel bad for taking your money"
Michael Martin
>All I have to offer are my resources. I'm happy to give them too, men are supposed to be providers, isn't that what our genes have been tuned for for tens of thousands of years?
Yeah but you have to be a lover too or else you'll be nothing BUT a provider. You can't buy her an orgasm, you can't pay her to like looking at you. That's what the issue here is. She knew that and just took your money.
It's better for YOU... not to let women do that. You need to find your own self-worth and self-respect user.
Isaac Williams
For real. user, this is just ... sad
Ayden Stewart
lol its just funny to poke fun at someone more pathetic than me