I'm in love with a gay guy

I'm in love with a gay guy.
I'm his only friend. We talk for hours every day. I'm so in love with him.
I never told him how I feel. I'm scared I'll ruin what we have, the only friendship he has. I feel so selfish but I can't help it.
He says he can't find women attractive, even though he has tried. But he said he loved me (in a platonic way, I am sure). What do I do? Am I a horrible, predatory person for even entertaining these thoughts?

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you in some shit now

Fuck all these questions. There is only one that matters. What makes you happy? Answer that and try to live accordingly to your answer. That's it.

Please be my gf, I will never be gain

Ooohh... tell us about him. Whats he like?

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Take hrt and become a guy, otherwise he will never love you

That relies almost entirely on him...
He is just like me. I feel like I can read his mind, and he's always in my head. The only difference is he is more sweet and pure. It drives me crazy how perfect he is.
I won't say too much about him out of respect. Well, really, he is a precious thing I want to keep all to myself. I feel guilty for admitting that.

That's dumb. He doesn't like transsexuals. No way I'd ruin my body just to have him equally as not attracted to it.

Guess its time to transition into being a boy.

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You can try to become happier or stay where you are. What would you prefer?

I want to be his wife even if he isn't attracted to me. I would only ask that he has sex with me for the sole purpose of fathering children, that's all.
That would make me very happy.

Then go for it. I would make a plan first though. I'm not gonna help you with the plan.

have sex with him maybe he you will cure his mental illnes

I've had the same thing happen but with my highschool crush. He was my biggest oneitis and honestly to this day I'm still not over him that much. You have to realize there is no hope in converting him, so don't entertain that idea. There is no chance of the relationship happening. I can promise you this.
Don't tell him your feelings unless you are sure he won't react badly. You can also say something like "Did you know I USED to like you?" just to get it out there... once you say that though, make sure to never actually pursue him. Either way, theres no hope for a relationship and you will just have to accept that OP.

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Why is it that women seem to love gay guys so much? It always seems like when a guy is gay, women want him more.
Explain this shit.
Also, I dunno what to tell you. If he's gay, there isn't much you can do. You can confess and see what happens or let him go and hope a straight guy like him comes along.

Cont. to what I just said. You are denying his happiness for your own happiness and I think you should reevaluate yourself. If you really loved him you would wish what is best for him, which is to be attracted and in-love with his partner. Physical attraction is extremely important in relationships because the lack of sex can flip shit around. Plus, cheating and other degenerate things can happen if he's unsatisfied.

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I just gonna send this image here, goodbye and have a good day!

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I'm very jealous of him, he gets a perfect angel like you literally dying to throw herself at him. That doesn't even happen in my dreams!

Gay user if you're here please fix your sexuality, you're missing out on something great.

Wow this isnt the 389th time ive seen this picture

Please tell me more. I need to feel a kinship with someone over this gay cuckolding, otherwise I may go insane.

This is fucked up to say but... he is very alone outside of talking to me. In my darkest thoughts I imagine he may be so starved for affection and companionship he might accept me out of desperation. I feel so bad for thinking this. I love him and want him to be happy. But I also want to be a part of that happiness.

they're called fag hags for a reason

I mean, they weren't always ugly. A lot of them were attractive and some even fairly popular, and they almost exclusively wet themselves over gay guys. Is it that they're forbidden, something they can never have no matter what?

I am very shy and reserved. I have made it a rule not to talk to men unless I have to, and never speak to them in private. I've had too many bad experiences. I'm too nice and get myself into trouble, and it kills me to break men's hearts.
I only became his friend at his insistence, and our mutual bond over our shared interests. I let my guard down because he was gay. I felt safer knowing his thoughts about me would be honest and not laced with sexual desire. Now the roles are reversed, now I'm the pathetic idiot hopelessly in love.

I can't speak for other women, but him being gay just allowed me to let my guard down, and it also means his opinion of me is the truth. He likes me for who I am, truly and honestly. Not because he is interested in my body. Every kind word he says is real. The secrets he shares with me, the intimate parts of himself he reveals to me and no one else... that's because he feels a deep connection with me stronger than a man motivated by lust or romance.
It drives me insane.

You could probably just not show a guy what you look like until later, but I guess that has its own consequences.
If I can speak on my own behalf here, I try not to let any sexual thoughts influence my view of others. If someone is a bad person, I'm not going to reward them or waste time on them. I don't believe in premarital sex or divorce anyways, so I pretty much need to select someone bearable, and hopefully that shares my own interests and beliefs as well. Maybe you should find a guy like that OP. Best way is to express the same desires, I guess. Anyone interested in casual or even in-relationship but non-marital sex would be driven off if it's clear you won't do anything of the sort until marriage, one that is eternally binding.
And no, I'm not subtly begging for contact, I've had enough contact with women online to know that I'm only going to be ghosted again or insulted. Just saying that guys like me might be worth a shot. And maybe it is subtly self serving, because on the off chance I somehow run into you in person, then it all works out if we get along, as abysmally low those chances are. Doesn't mean it can't be true as well.

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HI IM BRIAN XD IF ANYTHING I SHOULD BE THE 1 IN THE KITCHEN HEHEHEHE

Well, I'm not perfect. Ideally I'd love to live in a world like you say. But the truth is, I'm just as effected by the shit modern world as anyone else. I'm jaded. I'm a hypocrite. I'm a degenerate (but at least I don't give myself away). Good luck finding a nice girl, and I really do mean that. Realistically, it would just be nice to be with someone who is genuine, kind, and thinks deeply about everything they do and every one they touch.
I'm searching for that honesty. This homo's light touched me. It's so rediculous to think a person like him exists. I had already relegated homos to the back of my mind as broken people and degenerates to be avoided. But this boy is the purest light I've ever seen. It just makes me want to cry.

My own happiness.
I thought about this too.
He deserves a man to love and cherish, and one to love and cherish him.
Well, so do I. I want to be desired. Doing this to myself would take that away from me, permanently. It's a cruel thing for the both of us, but I can't stop wanting it.
I've always preferred giving affection over receiving it, and I'm just so in love it sounds like a good idea to throw normalcy away just to have him all to myself. I just want to hold him in my arms and make him feel loved like he never has before. Even if it's not for sexual.

If he is foreveralone anyways then spending his life with me would be better, right? Not ideal, but better. I would want to be his subsitute.

Nobody is perfect. I'm not some bright eyed idealist, I have my own demons to struggle with too. Regardless of how utterly hopeless my situation is, I try to keep focused on that light at the end of the tunnel, even if I won't make it there. It's that or be sucked in by the world.
If I have to take a guess, you've given yours away already? I can see why such a thing as I've described might not be your speed if so.

Are you asking if I am a virgin? No, I'm not. Not that it really matters.

Yeah, that's what I kinda thought. Low partner counts can be forgiven by most if it wasn't casual sex and you're honest and regretful about it. I guess otherwise that kind of thing is just lost on you. Sorry to say.

I was going to write a personal response but I decided against it.
I'm not here to impress you personally, or talk about loose women. Though I still wish you good luck.
Just let me sadpost about my unrequited love in peace.

You're not a terrible person, but you gotta let that crush go. Say you gotta work through some trouble or some shit and try to move on before it grows any stronger.

I'm not looking to be impressed. Most women are the same as you, perhaps you're better than they are even. If I'm assuming you've only had sex a few times, mostly within a committed relationship, you outclass a lot of women. The relationship I described is a modern impossibility I chase like a carrot on a stick, but the carrot is just the idea of a carrot, never to hold or taste.
Sorry if you thought I was mad. After a certain point, you can't be angry anymore. Though admittedly, I wouldn't be angry with you anyways, because you're humble and seem to understand my point of view to some extent.

stop kidding yourself you like him because he's good looking, lmao