>talk to women online
>they always get pissed off and yell "why aren't you talking to me more"
>every time
>they never start the conversation or keep it flowing
>they expect me to do it
>you can tell they've gotten used to being the center of attention, worship and providing
>equality is foreign to them
I'm pretty much done with women. I'm giving up. Trying to get a gf is tiring as fuck and wears you out until you can't do it anymore.
e-lationships are a joke dude. tell them no more attention until they are riding your dick
I have the same thing happen with most women. Talk to them and they give one word replies. I spoke to one girl who really liked me for a week and she ghosted me for two weeks. I gave her a warning that I would unfriend her if she kept ghosting so I did and then she freaks out.
>They never start the conversation or keep it flowing
I did this in the past, eventually they lose interest and want to soley entertain some girl that can offer more. You have to admit men enjoy the chase aspect and see the opposite as desperate and unappealing.
>You have to admit men enjoy the chase aspect and see the opposite as desperate and unappealing.
You thinking of Chad, as per usual.
>Talk to them and they give one word replies.
This. Women give you one word replies, reply whenever they want, but they expect full commitment and obsession from you.
I'm 30 and single. Young people are shocked and ask me how could something like this happen.
Well, at some point I just gave up. Didn't go to places where you meet women, didn't make any effort in approaching them online or offline.
And no, they didn't come to me either. When I stopped actively searching for girls, it was radio silence from then on.
Right now it's been years and years since my last date. I can't remember the last time I had anything going on with a female.
I gave up because the constant chasing was tiring as fuck and I couldn't take it anymore since my life was a mess to begin with.
Women wear you out. I realized pussy wasn't worth losing my mind over.
Yup. That's what happened to me. And no, I wasn't talking to a Chad. It was a virgin guy I met on here. At first he was so excited and eager to talk to me and he used to praise me for being "not like other girls" and he was very clingy and affectionate but since I would response positively to him, compliment him and start conversations, he became more and more distant and I had to wait longer and longer to get a reply. It seems like it's just not possible to treat men as equals. They want a princess they can orbit, not a girl who reciprocates their feelings. I used to think it was dumb to play "hard to get" but now I know why women do that.
So uh using a sample size of 1, you made major conclusions about life and a whole gender? Either you still in your mid-teens, or you a larping troll. Probably both.
pretty similar. last relationship was when i was 28. 39 now. barely even tried since then. its time consuming, can be very frustrating, expensive, and just a big extra burden. relationships are not easy at all.
It happened to me more than once. I thought that it would be different with an introverted shut-in but I was wrong. I have no idea why guys are like that but it's true for so many cases that I stopped bothering.
Tbf that's most people, for every 10 people I've added from here as friends, 9 of them ghost me.
>female
Found your problem. Women are women. Stop dehumanizing them and maybe you'll get somewhere.
I don't know. I've only gotten that far with 3 girls, and all 3 went no further than 1st meet ups/dates. I stopped talking to the 1st one because she stopped texting for a week and I didn't text her because I was the last one to text an thought that was how convo worked(don't text 2 times in a row) and then she texted me some stupid thing asking why I hadn't texted her and I got annoyed. 2nd one, she acted awkward during lunch meet up and barely talked so figured she wasn't interested (found out later she still might've been). 3rd one, I don't even know. Only one of the 3 I didn't really have interest in a 2nd meeting, and contact just slowly stopped from her end after. I didn't want to ghost her, and felt bad, so kept responding.
Anyways, what I'm getting at is I never really lost interest in talking to a girl I thought was interested. It was only when I thought they started losing interest or I found I thought we didn't really mesh well. I'm also fucking socially retarded though, possibly autistic. Just saying, not all guys are like that though. I don't even think a majority are. I can tell you right now, some of the times I've been most excited was having positive conservations with girls I was interested in that I thought were interested in me. I also hate hard to get because it just complicates things. The only time I think that would relate to a majority of guys is if they only saw you as a fuck, you gave it up, and then they were done with you. I've never done that (one of the few virgins left on this site!....not proud of that....), but I could see that being a reason.
Stop slacking so much and talk to them, they're granting you the honor of being friends
>Stop dehumanizing them and maybe you'll get somewhere.
B-but I already worship them and think they're goddesses. How much more equality do I need to give them to earn to provide to them?
How does female dehumanize? Not that guy, but saying girls, ladies, or women just sounds weird to me at times for some reason. Honestly curious, plz no h8. I don't say female to make them sound less or something.
>they're granting you the honor of being friends
No I'm granting the women the honor to be with me.
I don't consider femininity itself something divine and worth more than my masculinity.
>Honestly curious, plz no h8
Love it how you're scared of offending feminists.
This is what being a man is in 2019.
Women have become literal goddesses and we eat their shit and try to please them.
No it's called I want an actual reason and not just someone whining about muh soggy knee.
Women dominate the dating scene like tyrants and the only people who don't agree with this are women themselves.
Maybe I just have no luck then but the only guy that hasn't lost interest in me after a while is a normie that I treat rather coldly because I'm not interested.
>The only time I think that would relate to a majority of guys is if they only saw you as a fuck, you gave it up, and then they were done with you. I've never done that (one of the few virgins left on this site!....not proud of that....), but I could see that being a reason.
That definitely wasn't the case for me, I never went that far. To be fair, my sample size is all introvertic, socially akward guys so they might not be an accurate representation of the male population but I'm not sure if other guys are any different and I'm tired of getting invested in people who will act affectionate for a while and then abandon me when they get bored.
I mean I'm introverted by most measures as well. I feel like I only become less affectionate when I feel the other person is losing interest or something, which is often for me because I guess unless someone is upfront, I just don't know and people are almost never upfront about things. I have never gotten further than talking to someone for more than a couple weeks though, so I don't know. I don't know if that would qualify as "a while." Part of it could maybe be not knowing how to get to that "next step" of the relationship per se and freezing as a result. Maybe they were just people who liked that initial high that comes from attraction and was only interested in that. Those people exist too.
try ignoring your bloodlust for pussy when youre talking to them and you may experience better conversations and build decent relationships, it's actually true what they say about women, they're just other people
why talk to women online at all if you're only interested in having sex
Exactly. LTR with someone you haven't in person and know well beforehand are dumb. Shit even if you know them well, I still find them dumb.
It is amazing how many women you've found that are like that. While I will admit that many women are like that, just keep trying, man. You'll find someone, I guarantee it. Try to take 's advice, too.
Meant LDR dammit, long distance relationship.
beta males have no worth in any way and are not going to be chased by any girl unless said girl wants their money
This is how a lot of them are. If you're interested in them, carry the conversation, and if you're not, just don't bother. Don't see why you would be interested in someone like that when only interacting online.
Dumb if you just want to fuck, preferred if you want an actual bond.
If you barely talk to them then you're not granting fuck all.
Do your job.
online girls you meet on Jow Forums are worthless and should be ignored and forgotten about once you can get over the loneliness that you've created in yourself
>talk to women online
>expect women who talk to horny men online to be at all rational or mature
Go talk to some thirty year old women in the real world who arent feminists and you'll realize that a bunch of e-thots who are praised every hour by retards like yourself dont represent a good woman.
Well, consider this, i do not have any other way of meeting people, the distance between neighbours is extreme, despite being physically so close.
if anyone here is an actual orbiter can you explain your relationship and what you get out of it please?
>orbiter
>relationship
here's your answer.
I'll talk to you if ur still around. Kind of want an opinion if I'm a normie or not. spergburg#3229
Not her, but was waiting for this. Hope she keeps true to her word in this instance.
Send her to me OP, I will talk with them all day long, 24/7
They're that interesting
Girls
Reason
Pick one/
>they always get pissed off and yell "why aren't you talking to me more"
this literally never happened to me, maybe you're just an e-chad
because saying female (as well as male) is a more technical term and it's not used for humans only, it's mostly used for animals; also, it was incels who started using it to refer to women for that same reason
>because saying female (as well as male) is a more technical term and it's not used for humans only, it's mostly used for animals; also, it was incels who started using it to refer to women for that same reason
Okay? I still don't see the problem outside of my incel boogeyman, but what is the alternative? Girls? Apparently that's demeaning too or some shit. I guess women? I don't know, for some reason that just sounds weird.
>incel boogeyman
did you not read the first part? "female" is used for animals and abstract nouns -like character-, something less than human
the alternative is girls/women; never heard of girls being demeaning, inappropriate maybe if you're talking about an adult, but even then they use "girl" too
It's a descriptor word, I'm not saying that someone is below human because I identify a group as either male or female. I don't know why that is the assumption off the bat. If someone identified me as male, or a group of me and other males as males, my 1st thought wouldn't be thinking they were trying to lessen me or similar.
Yeah it's absolute dog shit. I told the last "fembot" I'm not her dancing monkey and I'm not putting in all the effort anymore and she legitimately got upset with me. Who the fuck do they think they are? I'm not their fucking jester.
should the male always have to message the female first? what's your take on this, fellow incel orbiters?
How do you manage to not develop feelings for a friend that you meet online who's a girl? I just want to cyber and feel love
Post chat logs?
No. Girls have this complex like they're doing you a favour by interacting with you. It's insulting.
She browses here and if I post them I'll just get an ear full. Plus she has nice tits so I'm not ready to burn that bridge yet.
Fuck the primitive ritual of trying to 'impress' women, they just aren't worth it. They are selfish, huge ego, shallow bitches that just want compliments and money. Seriously, don't even bother.
so if she sees this thread she would know who you are. you have nothing to lose, just post some edited chat logs
>assumption off the bat
because words have connotations and the words male and female on their own are not commonly used to describe humans
if you don't get this I don't know what to tell you, is english not your first language and there's little distinction between female and woman in your first language?
I have a female friend that I've known since I was 16, and she was 15. She's a lesbian so it's not like there's any chance of anything happening, but let me tell you something, BROTHER
Women are naive to nearly everything men experience. They just don't understand. It's nothing but youth to get angry at them for their behaviors.... They just don't understand how men think. And the same for women, with men.
The more the center of attention a girl is, the more chance you have of never being her focus. The only reason you should ever go after a popular girl is if you want clout, or already have clout to begin with and just want more. Stick with girls you relate with and don't chase pussy with the pack.
Getting a little bit pissy there m8. I'm telling you how I see it and why I don't see it as a big or even noteworthy deal. And of course words have connotations, just like male means male, and female means female. And usually guy means male, and woman means female. So what's the big f'in deal?