25+ Thread: Acceptance

I'm only 23 but I have more right to be here than any of you because you're all fucking tofu eating normie faggots.

yep. interacting with people is suicide fuel. having to interact with people in order to make money is suicide fuel as well

Go to university. They'll accept you no matter your age. Get a degree in something practical, like Engineering. Forge a fake work history on your CV. Don't worry about having to get references, employers only want your most recent reference anyway. Volunteer doing something like working at a soup kitchen, and make that your primary reference.

Join a religious community, like a church. Preferably a more conservative one. Build connections that way. People will accept you no matter what, and they usually have programs to help people in your situation.
Come back in two years, zoomer.

you're just a wee lad.

>24 years old
>on track to not be eligible to post here once i'm 25
i came so close bros but i doubt i'll ever be able to breathe the rarefied air with you...

i already went to college and maxed out my federal loan limit for undergrad majoring in worthless shit. I don't think i can get any more funds unless i do a masters degree. so the answer is most likely "fuck that." I don't really want people in my life. I just want to be left alone to be lost in my thoughts if im not at some job. Ultimately, if i can just get a real job, my life would be set. I'm super minimalist, don't care about going out and wasting money on worthless social events, don't care about materialism, don't watch tv etc. I'll live in a crawl space. I just need an income that I can save rapidly because i want to just eat shit for 15-20 yearss and then retire.

Why wouldn't you be able to post here? Are you gonna end it at 24

SQA is dead in the water. SDET and DevOps does that shit now.
Unfortunately all jobs are now about selling yourself more than your work. Even the trades are going to become like that, because when Roastie McHomeowner calls a sparkie over to do some shit, she's not going to be happy if he's an uncouth slob even though he does an awesome job at a good rate. Fortunately I'm good at that in my field, but figuring out how to get more than a handful of sympathy likes for a photo on Instagram without it being of some thot eludes me. I guess it's about appealing to lust or gluttony, both of which I'm shit at. I need sleep.

so what am i supposed to do?

Yeah, getting into university is what I'm trying to work on atm. Just sucks that I have to spend like 2-3 years in garbage community college and then transfer first. Probably gonna try to go for a commercial aviation degree and the associated licenses, best case I become a pilot (something I've wanted my whole life) and worst case I go work for an aircraft manufacturer or the FAA or IATA or something.

Selling yourself once to get a steady job is one thing, selling yourself 24/7 to get freelance jobs is another. The latter is the thing that killed me.

accepting your flaws is good but it sounds more like you have given up. It's not the same thing. Don't waste your time, find out what you want in life and chase it will all you have

I haven't given up. id go work in some remote place doing mindless labor if it paid enough. I've already hit all the adolescent milestones and got it out of my system. I just want a decent, steady income so i can start investing, saving for retirement. That's all i really give a shit about. I don't want a wife or kids, i just want to stack cash and retire ASAP

>27th birthday
>spending it alone in a hotel room drinking some beer I bought at a convenience store
>bought a pack of cigarettes despite quitting smoking years ago
>asked friends/acquaintances/whatever out for dinner
>"sorry already ate lol"
>even got locked out of my hotel room and had to ask the staff for a key
hope: evaporated

quite the opposite, gonna be a high flying go-getter, i'm afraid

what does that entail? oregon trail

I might have had sex several times before but my job is unfulfilling.

good for you then, best of luck

accepted into a field with good career progression and forced human interaction and education

>no female will ever want you

how do you guys deal with this? the realization has hit me quite hard lately since reaching 24-25. when i was younger it was just a vague worry but now that i've settled in to adult life it's suddenly become very real.

>28
>just quit my last job
>only ever work part time/nights cause i hate being around people
>credit gouged to get 5k in cards/loans, can live off that for 14 months
>live with mother, she doesn't want me to go needs me paying rent. stress free home
>no friends, gf, ect. designated loner

>absolutely no idea what to do with my free time anymore
>drinking gives me awful heartburn and acid
>fucked up colon so i can't even enjoy binge eating
>back pain means i can't sit and enjoy video games, haven't played a new game in years
>only thing i enjoy is weed but it makes me so unbelievably lazy and degenerate that i'm staying away from it

no idea what to do. looking for a new job, i only need 12 - 15 hours to survive, i will find one within a couple months. i just have no hobbies or drivers any more. zero interest in female, ever, barely have a libido honestly. back pain stops me from writing/drawing ect. like i used to

all i do is lie in bed and surf youtube/Jow Forums. i stopped eating a week ago because my stomach issues got to their worst. at least my money will last longer now

family doesn't care, i strategically throw cash at my mother and sisters so that they leave me alone. stay trim and clean so i don't outwardly look like a complete degenerate

i am also a phenomenal liar and can keep multiple charades going at once, which is pretty much the one thing that's kept me going through life whilst having to do barely any work. i have no other marketable skills. none

my stomach hurts

I'm schizoid, I don't care lol

>still have acne
why god. i have nothing else going for me. at least let me have this. what's even the point of getting older if this stays the same.

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get off your meme-horse

>27 y/o
>worthless associates
>working full time
>paying my own mortgage and bills
>house old as fuck and falling apart
>mfw idk how to fix
>mfw parents willing to pay professionals for me to get it fixed
>turn them down because muh honor
>Wife is prrgnant
>due in mid-July
>going to school for bachelors all online
>money is tight but we're making it

Things will be alright if you push yourself and hold yourself to some reasonable but uncomfortable standards. I don't like havig to pay Orkin for termite control and paying double the value of my house over the full term of my mortgage, but... you have to grow up sometimes and learn to fught back in this cruel and unforgiving world. I'm gonna make it if it shortdicks every incel on this board.

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what the hell are you doing here you have a wife and a house

no one gives a shit about your pseudo-success stories. fuck off

I'm bored on my lunch break.
Fucking crybaby

>I'm bored on my lunch break.
that answers nothing, why are you here?

people in this thread are fundementally defective units, shizos, autists, the mentally deficient and "general social retards." you are not on the same frequency as us, your experiences and knowledge mean nothing we are a different species. you are not some golden normie who can help us all, like the magic white man with his fire sticks arriving in the new world

you're free to do as you please but all i'm saying is you posting here is like me going to mu and starting talking about burzum in an edm thread. it's rude, pointless and everybody is just going to auto hide your posts anyway

27. I've really missed these. The ones on Jow Forums have a weird atmosphere. I went to a new burger place for the second time. The owner recognised and fistbumped me and was trying to get to know me. I tried to stifle my awkwardness as best I could. Had a really chill atmosphere. I sat across from a guy with 2 girls. They were sitting on his lap and they kissed him and kissed each other and were smoking a hookah (the place has several). I didn't know what to think, so I just tried to ignore them.

I'm in community college after being sick for 10 years. It's okay. I made a few friends. They're zoomers, but we get along, due to my arrested development. In fact, almost every kid I meet is really nice. Suspiciously so. I had a thing for one of the girls in my class. I tried courting her. We would go out drinking a lot. It didn't work out. Oh well. I tried. And it was nice to feel infatuation for the first time in so long. The feelings are gone now, thankfully. My friends helped me through it and I got sober. Meditation has helped.

I've been trying to get into buddhism, but it's difficult. I have a lot of anger. Whenever I let it go, it just comes back. But it does feel nice to have a goal again. Especially a spiritual one, as someone who was raised in a really Christian community (my father was essentially a cult leader).

My life is not what I thought it would be. Having friends is not what I thought it would be. I thought things would be more satisfying. But they aren't. I feel like I'm dissociating more and more often. I don't know if I can accept this for the next 40 or 50 years.

owieee im so damaged

>The ones on Jow Forums have a weird atmosphere
do you really think anyone is going to read your dumb ass fucking vent after uttering such absolute fucking trash?

I'm gonna be 29 next month. I haven't got a job in the world, and I'm not planning on starting. I got videogames to play

stop playing dumb videogames and do something tranquil like drinking instead.

Well, I vented for my own sake. And I don't understand the hostility or why you would express it online. For me, anger only feels good irl. The Jow Forums thread is bad and your post has no merit.

Nah I do dxm.

anger is good no matter shape or form

I used to be one of you until I decided to quit whining about my life and take it head on. Maybe I'm a different breed than you, maybe you're not as special as you think you are. I think the latter option is the more likely one.

I've accepted it. It's probably easier for me since I've lived with my sisters up to my 20s so my need for a woman has been dulled by the reality of living with them.
My advise is to just switch gears and replace it with literally anything else.

>33
>No degree, 25k in debt
>Live alone, orphan, homeless if shit hits the fan
>Terrible diet that im barely trying to improve
>Comfy overnight job, but company is a typical shitty fuck-you-over corporation.
>Some decent skills like cooking, automotive repair, and programming. I wish I could be good at something artistic for once, but I have no passion, nor even an ounce of creativity in my body.
>Have friends, but I moved away and now live on opposite ends of the country, and I hate Facebook, so I might as well not have any
>Been getting roughly 3 to 4 hours of sleep a day, owing to night job
>Peers are adults, have kids, and even one of my young cousins (like 10 years younger) got his masters, so I dont dare log into Facebook anymore to feel any worse about myself
>No one talks to anyone out here. Sorta friendly with my old man neighbor when I see him.
>Have no passion for anything, and it'd be too late by now anyway. Just kinda waiting until society collapses, or maybe I'll get lucky for once in my life and Bitcoin will shoot through the roof again (it wont)

Things could be worse I guess. I could be living in DR Congo.

It used to haunt and terrify me, but then I realize ive become so set in my ways, and that modern women are mostly selfish pains-in-the-asses anyway, so I've convinced myself i'm not really missing anything.

Not only that, but ive known and worked with men in their 40s and 50s who've been screwed over in divorce enough that "dont ever get married, kid" really did stick with me. I dont want kids anyway, so its not like a long-term relationship with a woman is necessary.

>Things could be worse I guess.
yeah oyu could have neither of those skills you just described.
You could be living with your parents.
You could be friendless
You could be insomniatic
You could have no peers
You could be a hikki
You could be a drunkard bitching on r9k 24/7

>yeah oyu could have neither of those skills you just described.

Eh, i'm not actually very good at any of them. I could potentially improve, but i'm just so demotivated and passionless.

>You could be living with your parents.

I fucking WISH. Those of you who have parents that care about you that you live with should be grateful as fuck. It sucks not having parents around, who even remotely care a little about you. My dad was fucking awesome when he was alive, I miss him so bad.

Does anybody else feel caught between generations? I'm 32 and I feel like I'm young enough that I grew up with some level of computers and internet, enough to distance me from GenXers, but I'm too old to have grown up in the era of smartphones and social media and I feel hopelessly left behind.

I'm 27 and nobody makes any sense to me at all. I wish I had some kind of common generational backdrop to share with someone. I grew up in the cultural equivalent of a cave. When people make jokes or references to things that were popular and cool they just fly over my head.

>28
check
>only worked part/time nights because i hate people
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>designated loner
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>all i do is lie in bed and surf the web
check
>phenomenal liar
check

me minus the familial situation, though mine isn't too much better

>wife is pregnant
>tied to a mortgage
>will end up paying double what you paid for by the end of the term

you already fucked up your life dude. you're a slave to a mortgage and soon to be a slave to a wife and kids. best of luck to you

>i've really missed these
overjoyed to hear this. ill be sure to post more in the future.
>get into buddhism
excellent. so am i. start with "in the buddhas words" by bikkhu bodi.

I'm 28.

>wake up at 6:30
>eat breakfast in a hurry
>go to work (retail)
>horrendous boomer and arab customers
>get drained by their constant complaints
>go home at 20:00
>absolutely tired
>eat shit tier food
>go immediately to bed and repeat the same cycle

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People told me I would feel independant. I would taste freedom. I'd "be a man". Truth is, I've never felt so insignificant. So little. So worthless.

You know, I probably brought it upon myself. I've always had meaningful work in high regards. In fact, I do believe that working hard towards a goal is what gives you meaning in your life. In a sense, your goals funnel your potentialities into the best outcome for you. Therefore, if you find meaning in your actions, you expand your worth in accord with your values and you can feel that sense of progress.

What is there to be proud, to be exalted about being a wagecuck? Every goal beyond the actual situation is incredibly hard to achieve. Everything seems so dull, so tiresome, so far away that despair overcomes your sense of transcendence.

I'm not that afraid of being a wagecuck. I'm more afraid of getting used to be one. This frightens me to my soul. This is the death of potentialities.

I just had to share that.

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my man oregon trail

thanks for sharing. glad to see all the 28 year olds on here. Jordan Peterson talks about "low-resolution" in terms of an adolescent being plura-potentiality. They haven't figured out their "path" which would lead them to become a higher resolution being.

I'm still in the 'low-resolution' stage but its not cute anymore. I haven't completely surrendered to a wage cuck sacrifice but i need to soon, before an unpleasant path is forced upon me.

I feel you friendo

Nothing can replace it, no matter how good other areas of my life are there's still this huge void

Thanks for your insight. I don't remember that part in 12 reasons, maybe it was in the maps of meaning. I need to read that one too.

Peterson helps me dealing with the lack of meaning in my present life. I wonder if that will be enough to trigger some greater change.

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>27
>2 620 usd debt
>live with suga dad
>no job
>no education
>no degrees
>middle class area
>everyone dislikes me

Money problems are not funny. It feels like everyday I have to play russian roulette with these abhorrent entitled fuck all sociopathic rich folk.

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Your life is easy and you've faced zero hardships. Never come cry about nothing in these threads again normie.

>26
>both parents dead no blood family besides a step dad that sticks around good dude.
>live in house mom left behind and help pay debt off with step dad can't make it alone between either of us.
>doing chemistry in school scraping by summer courses because they are quick and dense
>eating healthier, working out, playing guitar, trying new things
It's not so bad. I dont do much socially. Don't go to bars have an alright job hoping for a better one after college. Got about 30 grand in debt. Glad I'm not alone. Hope you guys have a productive weekend. Never to late to make a change.

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>bu-hu someone takes care of my financial needs
go to tumblr you faggot.

>Dead parents
>No immediate family to be ashamed of your fall into LARPing as an incontinent, white supremacist frog

You should be happy about this best case scenario

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>>You could be living with your parents.
>I fucking WISH. Those of you who have parents that care about you that you live with should be grateful as fuck. It sucks not having parents around, who even remotely care a little about you. My dad was fucking awesome when he was alive, I miss him so bad.

A 1000 times this. Living alone as a wagecuck, trying to survive for the sake of (((independance))) is fucking ridiculous. It's like "look at me I'm a rat trapped in a cage but at least it's MY cage".

you're worse off than a regular wagie and it's your own retarded fault, it sounds like you don't have a choice but to deal with it. nice slave mentality tho. it's cute that you think intentionally making it harder on yourself means anything at all

They hate me there. Here I can hate people back.

my cage is better than yours, prove me wrong you have a whole reply box.

Argue about what? I fucking hope for you that your cage is better than mine.

We all applaud your ardous endeavor

>LARPing
No I definitetly hate niggers.

Fair enough, my bad. It's regular RP since you're only doing it online. Are you planning on actually moving to the Confederation now that Frenworld got bopped?

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No, why would I want to be surrounded irl by autistic gay retards? Much better online.

i can smoke fags inside and b1lare music at 150% volume, have you got it any better?
no jokes i wish i was at my mothers. home cooked meals, all the weed you can smoke and a stepfather who is a bantsking. but nah i chose the alone lifestyle, so i will stake my ground and preserve.
so are you any better? like i said you have the whole reply box.

Okay dude. Well, Chapo Trap House is till up if you ever want to get some good lulz. Never too late to make a change, right? You don't want to end up like this autistic gay retard.

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Dont know or care what that is or even what you're going on about.

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It's a subreddit for a leftist podcast

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I think there's a misunderstanding, I wasn't the first guy you replied to. But you sound like an ass.

you sound like you're gonna make it

if you're a faggot get the fuck off my thread.

Never been there.
We're all gonna make it brah.

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i got banned for saying black people's lives don't matter. looks like CTH isn't all its cracked up to be

>25, turning 26 in October
>have been struggling with mental issues for most of my life
>been a neet after dropping college in 2014
>never had a job, slowly lost touch with every "friend" I ever had, to the point that I haven't seen anyone for a couple of years now
>started going to therapy about 2 years ago, got meds
>slowly improving the anxiety and self-esteem, finally feel like I might be motivated enough to get my life back on track
>have done many new things in the past two years, got many tests done, apparently I have above average intelligence and have all the capacity of what it takes to "make it"
>still feel empty inside, I have no desire to socialize, can't connect with anyone and if I had the choice would never contact another person for the rest of my life
>planning on going to college in october (if they accept me) to study computer science (which would allow me to live a comfy technology based life)
>If I fuck up this time there will be no more chances, and I plan to suicide if it comes to it

God I hate myself and life in general, but who knows, I might get to the point where I can be content with my existence, living a comfy life programming and playing video games. And if not, there's always death waiting with its warm embrace.

That's so weird. Usually they're all super liberal

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Don't do computer science it's a meme degree. If you're good at coding you can always find work. Instead do engineering to some extent. Or another STEM field you have interest in.

STEM should just be TM honestly. Science has such an insane barrier to entry. Engineering I've heard similar stories. My MS in a hard science has done nothing for me but put in me life-altering debt.

>25
>pay my bills
>feed my wife
>live simply
>no time for anything just work
>not really a problem desu
>just tired
>my feet hurt
>i need new shoes
>fuck

It's definitetly not always easy to find work in a field. My area has good jobs for STEM fields, it should go without saying you have to know what your local job market is like. (Shit they really should teach in school..)

Is your wife a paraplegic or something?

>I used to be one of you
>used

THEN FOR THE THIRD TIME
WHY
ARE
YOU
HERE
LITERAL
FUCKING
BRAINLET

Im 28 and have a job, car and live by myself. I have been going to community college for about 2 years now and take about 3 classes a year. Still a long way to go and sometimes I do feel Im to old especially since I want to be a doctor which makes it seem like a pipe dream. Even if I cant make it there I still want to finish here in cc and transfer to a university because I dont want to be a quitter. Its so tough

genuinely making practical plans to go live in the woods
if it doesn't work out will probably neck myself
would rather be dead than work full time

Get help or take your meds

how are you people getting married with all the redpill info out there?

thanks for the anecdotal evidence. im definitely not getting a masters