So, why do you think you can't get laid? Physical incapability, lack of social skills, fear of rejection, what's your big excuse?
More importantly: How are you working to overcome it? What incapability (beyond the literal inability to use your penis) is keeping you from giving a girl a good dicking?
I can't betray my future AI wife by losing my virginity to some fleshthot.
>this'll rile em good, I can finally get that shekle bonus
I'm mostly making this so I can reconcile my own excuses. See how much I line up with the general populace.
It's getting to the point where I can't keep saying the same shit anymore.
Also if anyone could give me a little bbqt sauce I'd appreciate
pretty much everyone my age ive ever known was a retard so i dont socialize, and i dont see anywhere that is appropriate to try and meet women which wont either make me seem like a creep, or get me in trouble, like at a college or job
also all women are taken and they seem to expect me to want to steal them from their current boyfriend or hook up with them within 2 weeks of a breakup
That's a rough hole to be in bud, but you didn't respond to the second part of the question.
Being honest I consider myself better than everyone so I look for a girl that it's "good enough for me
You have to bend for a relationship, even for sexual ones, also show your weakness and I'm scared and too stubborn to do that.
im not a virgin and technically i can get laid but im an ugly mediocre wagecuck and i can only get ugly mediocre girls, who i do not want. i understand that my unfair standards will mean i do not get laid very often if at all but idc, theres no point in having sex with a woman you arent attracted to
See, you touched on something that's pivotal for me: "relationship".
I'm a pretty liberal guy, I'm all for the women's sexual liberation movement, it's their body and whatnot. The tradeoff being, I can't bring myself to ever trust a woman in a real love relationship. Love isn't a real thing.
This complicates things, then, when I say that I don't want to lose my virginity to some random slut. I would prefer someone I know well, someone I already appreciate and understand, to take my virginity. It's a little too specific, and the fact that I can't make a move to save my life doesn't help of course.
Like a horse in a fire it won't leave unless he is either forced through the fire or something scares him more than the fire.
I think I may need to be forced through. A friend recently suggested I read The Art Of Seduction and claims that just a couple chapters helped him out, and from his body count I'd believe it.
I also have another female friend who I'd been lead to believe might wanna bang, but I may have fucked my chances already (see pic related).
you dont want to know the answer
its the same as everyone elses, but more extreme. its individualism. selfishness.
im focusing on lifting and eating healthy, because women are shallow as fuck and life wont be worth living any other way than embracing that fact
>supports rampant meaningless sex
>is too much of a cuck to even do it
what youre explaining is literally the most cucked bullshit i have ever seen in my entire life
you want girls to go slut it up and fuck around and yet you're so afraid of being hurt by it you wont even fuck any of them, and stay alone
literally cucking yourself out of your entire generation of females. based zoomer giving his girls up for the rest of us. thanks
Seems to be a common theme. I feel like that's what'll help you get out of it, in the long run. Focus on yourself and the bitches come later.
>you won't even fuck any of them
Not saying I wouldn't, I just don't trust long-term relationships. If a girl I knew and liked was desperately horny and hit me up in the middle of the night I'd pound that ass no protest. I just...I guess it is a validation thing with me. I want to feel like they WANT to fuck me.
>I want to feel like they WANT to fuck me.
its not their job to convey that no matter how much you believe that gender is a social construct, feminist cuck
a chick could want nothing more than to swallow the vinegar off your ballsack but never even work up the will to look you in the eyes until you make her
fucking cucks these days
>honestly believing gender is a social construct
That's not a real thing. No matter how much the Jews try to eradicate it it's not gonna happen.
Tell me more, nigga
I guess it's mostly physical stuff; I'm 5'4" and kinda look like someone who would be in those ironic "he totally slays pussy" memes, i.e. a skinny, pasty Asian nerd with glasses. So from the words of this website that would eliminate around 85-90% of girls right off the bat. I'm also never act overtly sexual because it always seemed like acting like that would be contradictory to what I look like, and no one would take it seriously, and it also wouldn't really be a part of my character
Right now I'm working out and bulking up to get stronger and more confident in myself and my discipline, as well as making me able to see myself as a little more sexual so I can act like that given the right situation
I'm also trying to get more comfortable with approaching; I liked one of my female friends, so I asked her out on a date which she accepted, but at the end she said she wanted to remain friends. I was just happy that I shot my shot and didn't just sit there worried about what could've been. It'll suck when she inevitably starts liking someone else, but learning to move on and overcome that is just part of life I think
are you even the same person?
what?
>Physical incapability, lack of social skills, fear of rejection
all three of these. i'm basically a beta orbiter. i can make friends with women but i'm never attractive to them. i'm working to overcome this by clubbing and going to the gym
Lack of social life. Two days ago I partied for the first time in almost a year and woke up next to a girl the next day. Sure she wasnt that much of a catch, but I made zero effort. Just played along with her shit. I'm very chill and I'm not stupid, I know girls like me. But I have no friends so I never have opportunities to go outside and I dont dare to fuck girls at uni cause I'd rather not deal with any awkwardness.
Because Im a ricecell, im short, and have an offputting personality. But mostly because Im short
My views on women and my views on the larger sociopolitical climate don't necessarily need to be in line. I can believe in individual freedoms and still call out being a retard when I see it also it's like 4am where I'm at and my eyes are burning and my mind isn't right
I feel like you're moving towards the right path. If physically improving yourself makes you feel like you can get these bitches, then go all out, but always remember that you don't need to be completely physically attractive to do so. Ugly niggas gotta fuck too, and speaking from observation if they approach women in the right way they'll get it.
seems like you're just coming around to not being a retard, or in complete denial about reality to a degree
like how liberals are afraid of living around minorities yet insist that they must flood in
Thanks, that makes me feel better. Yeah, I think it's pretty necessary, not only because it's a little bit closer to what girls would want, but also because it would make me more comfortable in my own skin and more willing to see myself as sexual. If I can't do so myself, then why would other people, you know? I also want to make my family proud of me because they've been wanting me to do that (bulking) for a long time and them mirin my gainz would be pretty satisfying. Being able to lift heavy objects without help is of course amazing too.
Then afterwards I would need to learn more about game and to put myself out there. I'm kind of restrained by my lab work atm and the fact that I can't use college anymore because I just graduated, but when I have time I look for social stuff and stuff with my passions on meetup.com and go to those. I have pretty decent to good social skills in general already (used them to make lots of professional connections) but I need to learn more about the more sensual/sexual/romantic side of socializing, and get more comfortable with it.
I could go on a whole different rant about that. I visited Jow Forums a lot in my youth but back for a couple years in HS I was a hardcore tumblrite, and most of my friends are liberal so that part of me's always been kept alive.
I'm fat and I don't where it well. Losing weight seems to be the course of action. If I lost all my weight now I would be a changed man.
Shit family situation, and shit financial situation. Bringing a woman into a relationship would be bad idea, because she probably would get involved and women ain't have a heart. When they seek a man they don't go around with compassion and understanding. They are shallow and superficial. I need a reliable partner relationship not a fucking princess. And it's 2019 so it's not going to happen.
lmao at everyone in this thread putting the blame on everyone and everything, not one single person is saying the truth, the truth that is they cant laid is because they are 5 or even sub 5 in looks, go check out faceandLMS on youtube and open your eyes, anyway I dont believe you will do it, most people prefer to not know the truth and live in a lie, comforting lie
I feel numb to everything around me. The only thing that makes me happy is my yo-yo and learning new algorithms. I'm 20 but I think I'm going to be a wizard. I cannot talk to new people at all (have 5 bros). I've also started lifting. Anytime I feel lonely I open up a romance Manga, put on some music on my bose qc35 and chill out until the loneliness passes.
I've had girlfriends before and gotten laid before, granted none of the women were anything to write home about
It has been a long while since I've gotten laid though. I've stopped putting effort into pretty much everything. I can't even remember the last time I talked to a female. I maybe have one in person conversation with an actual human being once a month at this point if not less.
Part of it is that I'm unsatisfied with the women I can get, but beyond that I'm just unsatisfied with my life. Nothing seems worth the effort. I'm suicidal most of the time and I completely hate myself. I have pretty severe body dysmorphia. All of this makes it pretty hard for me to leave the house.
It's not even that the girls are super unattractive, it's really their personalities. I don't feel like I can relate to anyone anymore. I feel like a fucking alien on this planet. I will probably finally kill myself soon. I'm running out of options in my life.
Is this a shopped pic? Rihanna has tits like THAT?!
Honestly I think it's part of this modern problem of over-abundance, which can be very confusing to a person like me, and I bet a lot of other guys or girls out there. There's too many different choices: different girls, different clothes you can wear, different contexts, different ways to talk to a girl, different ways to have sex...
Last night I went to this outdoor rave in the woods with probably 500 people there (midsummer in Sweden). It was entirely people parked in a dirt lot, blasting hardstyle techno out of their trunks, which were fixed with all kinds of subwoofer rigs, and oldschool cadillacs souped up in "themes" (80s, military, farm etc). It was groups of people standing next to these cars, dancing whatever techno dance you might call it, getting completely wasted, and maybe occasionally going to chat with other people in this lot.
Almost everyone in this lot looked the same. All the guys in forward F1 caps, jean or leather jackets with patches, and ripped jeans or green stretch jeans. The girls had pink, blue, or silver dyed hair, either with an oversized hoodie with some type of edgy design, or a whore dress and flowers in their hair. And this is all really part of an older entrenched "raggare" culture in Sweden that's been around for decades.
My point is these people were all on the same wavelength. Sure they had slight personalizations in their vehicles or dress, and I guess that was really the core excitement of the night: getting together in the hundreds to compare their slight differences that still fit within a well defined framework (which no one colors out of). But the code of language you talk to each other in, signals of high value (doper cadillac and woofer rig than the next guy), the way you might hit on a girl in this setting, the dance moves are all a way of life for the participants. For them this is culture, and they'll probably never physically move out of this 100 mile radius.
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I've personally moved around a lot since 18. I originally actually grew up in Texas. But I'm always interested to find these cultures in different countries. Each one thinks they're the only one that exists. Each one thinks they're the only one that matters. Each one looks at the other as if they're some weird alien from another planet. The core however exists, that each has developed a culture and a hierarchy of competition in which to get bitches. One thing is for sure about that rave, is if you didn't have any bitches standing next to your car or in your group, you were lame as shit. Those people probably however have known each other since childhood. And here I am, coming from nowhere, standing like an alien.
My point though is yes, for those of us who have been exposed to all the possibilities in the world, there is too much abundance of choice, and too many methods in which to "get laid" with a girl. For people like that, there is only one way, and a set of defined rules in which they will likely never deviate for life
marriage 28 years
lack of social skills, fear of rejection
I'm not working to overcome it, I think I have bigger problems than getting laid
I'm ugly, boring and at a point in my life where I'm expected to have years of experience and no one wants to teach a grown man how to be a normal person
>why do you think you can't get laid?
No friends due to poor social skills and I gave up on reaching to girls many years ago because of past rejections. Funnily enough I've been hit on by girls first and somehow I've managed to fuck that up. Probably I'm too awkward and shy. The real reason nowadays is because I'm a NEET though...
>How are you working to overcome it?
Lifting a little everyday at home and considering going back to college this semester
Get the fuck out then
Why the fuck did you enter a thread about self improvement just to flex on us sex-broke niggas
There's multiple people in this thread blaming looks if you took even 5 seconds to skim the responses
I say again: Ugly niggas gotta fuck too.
>lack of social skills, fear of rejection,
These two as well as
>fear of getting judged by others
were the main reasons for me. Before I realized gow insanely easy it is to get laid.
Teach us your ways anonpie
>midsommar
How you feel about this new movie coming out then
We're all friends here, teach us that shit
I do not interact with women outside of family members.
I am not doing anything. I accept that this is how it goes