>tell people IRL that you're 30 and never had a gf >you expect them to realize that your life is ruined and support you the same way they'd show compassion to cancer patients >no, they just go "ok dude" and start talking about their own happy lives instead >they actually expect I could lead a normal life like this >they actually expect I could hold a job, be happy and survive without love, sex, validation and a wife to come home to
This is literally the worst part about suffering this much. Nobody even realizes how bad you have it, because they're blinded by their own happiness. Then they're genuinely surprised when you quit studying and fall into depression or even crime. "Why, what's wrong?" Idiots.. Try going a month without sex and you'll whine twice as much as me. Then, extend that period in your mind to 30 years and imagine how I feel. This is hell. Your normie mind just wants to block that unwanted thought so bad you don't realize I'm in an earthly hell.
And no, stop telling me how this is unjustified pity fishing. You're not a 30-year-old virgin. This condition is literally worse than a physical handicap. The meaning of life is love, making this the biggest handicap of all. If you lack the ability to put yourself in the shoes of someone who will never experience the most important things in life, that just goes to show how privileged you are, making me entitled.
If you still think I'm somehow in the wrong here, tell me how a man can live as a 30-year-old KHV. Give me the answer if you think you're so beyond this.
Why don't you try actually explaining that you're hurting rather than just mentioning it and expecting them to read your mind about how you feel about it?
Like I get that you're hurting, but expecting people to know how you feel and why is dumb. Talk to people. Explain how you feel. Communication is a required step to recovery and understanding.
John Peterson
pay for sex lmao its your only hope
Brody Adams
Honestly, if someone tells me they're 20+ and a virgin I automatically assume they're in pain and probably prone to depression, crime and reclusion.
Caleb Flores
And you're on Jow Forums a board about this problem. Of course you're more sensitive to the issue than most folks. Don't expect everyone to be aware of the issues.
David Wood
>Don't expect everyone to be aware of the issues.
True, but everyone had that period in their teens when they wanted to mate really bad. Just imagine that painful longing didn't stop, but continued into your adulthood and got gradually worse and worse.
Austin Baker
>Just imagine that painful longing didn't stop, but continued into your adulthood and got gradually worse and worse. You are preaching to the choir you retarded nigger. I'm a virgin. I don't have to imagine. I'm saying you should talk to people irl and explain your life to them and why you feel the way you do.
Kayden Wood
>tell people IRL that you're 30 and never had a gf
Why the fuck would you do this? Exposing yourself as being sexually/romantically inexperienced is the ultimate form of social suicide
Ian Thomas
I got my first gf at 16 while you were siting around on a mongolian basket weaving forum.
You just need to stop being a little bitch and man up.
Fuck off normalfaggot. Get the fuck off this board and eat shit.
Xavier Smith
no. im 25, kissless and virgin but i have lots of things i enjoy in life. you are just obsessed with sex for some reason. now im not saying this is why but maybe try spending less time on Jow Forums. it has clearly warped your worldview in an unhealthy and unrealistic way.
Liam Nelson
Fuck off with your fishing for validation. Entitled special snowflakes like you don't deserve pity. You are literally a sjw tumblrina with a penis.
Owen Murphy
This Im 29 a non virgin that hasnt has had sex in almost 8 years and I dont miss it at all. When I do I just jack off and that feeling goes away instantly. Sex is entirely overrated. Get a hooker that badly if you want it because everytime Ive had sex the instant I cum I realize how disgusting it is and start worrying if I got the bitch pregnant or caught the clap. Your imagination is your own worse enemy
James Miller
>man up
This literally means nothing. You know it, I know it.
Noah Brooks
>if you think im somehow wrong here you are >tell me how a man can live as a 30-year-old KHV the problem is that you are an absolute brainlet that blames his unsuccessful life to some random non consequential genetic factor like height, face shape or whatever it might be. You have based your entire moral values on highschool tier superficialities and have put yourself in the bottom of your idealized hierarchy leaving yourself to drown in self pity and discontent, even getting mad and resentful to those which are not suffering by the same sickness you do, labeling them as stupid and ignorant for not succumbing to your fantasies of pain and sorrow and giving you their pity In other words, you are an attention seeking 30 year old man with the brain of a pubescent boy. What you need is need to grow up, in all conceivable interpretations of the word
Isaiah Cruz
>You are literally a sjw tumblrina with a penis
You now realize if he didn't have a penis he'd already get the same validation that tumblerinas get. Fucking gender inequality.
Christian Johnson
>What you need is need to grow up
This literally means nothing and you offered no actual help or advice. It's the same as with "man up". It's something you say to people who haven't achieved the same things as you have, when you actually don't really know how you achieved them. You just think you must have achieved them for being somehow more mature, better and tougher, but can't really pinpoint the actual causes. That's because the cause isn't your being tougher. It's random luck or simply just being more of a normie. A normie always wants to think his achievements are of his own making, which is what you probably do.
Andrew Price
>30 year old man with the brain of a pubescent boy
Only relationships make a person take leaps in mental age. Virgins are mentally 15 forever. And it's not even their fault. You can't force someone to get into a relationship, especially with the way modern women are these days. Yeah, I went there. I claimed women have been mostly ruined. I don't care how badly this makes you want to go white knight on me, but it's the truth. More and more men remain virgins and mental kids because they can't deal with modern women. Getting women in 2019 is less about you being a good man. It's more about you being a good man and dealing with the fact you're always a better person than the women you're after. Every time I've actually had a short-term relationship with a woman the fabric holding the shitfest together has been me compromising as much as I can, until I can't.
Landon Moore
Why should they care? They know they can't do anything about it and certainly they don't know you that personally to pretend to give a fuck.
Lincoln Campbell
It's not about giving a fuck. OP wants people to expect less of him when they know his condition. OP is probably a NEET and wants people to understand that being single at 30 is a big enough cause to keep you from achieving normal things. He's angry that people think a 30yo KHV shouldn't be affected by his state at all and just continue grinding out at work.
Justin Edwards
>This literally means nothing Of course it doesn't literally mean anything, its just an oversimplification of a much more deep concept. What you want it people to give you step by step instructions as to how to dig yourself out of you own grave, but that doesn't exists, there is no sure way to happiness or whatever it is you might strive for, sure we have developed some general guidelines as to how one should conduct ones self in day to day life but life itself is an ever developing and dynamic thing, it has no set pathways It is only by throwing yourself out there, into the unknown, that you develop your actual Self "Man up" and its derivatives are phrases used to explain (in an albeit abstract way) that you should see your life as a challenge that longs to be conquered, and not crumble into pieces by its pressure You should strive to be the best possible version of yourself in any given situation, whatever that might mean for you personally, become self aware, realize what situation you are currently in, but rather than accept defeat look for explanations, which will then lead you to solutions. Life should be a never ending learning process Also develop your own morality, so much of what you think is "you" is actually just a product of your environment, you are much more malleable(psychologically speaking) than you might like to admit But this you can only do by learning more, as it is clear your knowledge of yourself and those who surround you is very limited
Dylan Wilson
I agree with you. But I also think the world would be a lot better if we'd start cheering and supporting each other on instead of being passive, self-interested bitches for the most part trying to avoid any kind of conflict. The ultimate goal for any man who wants to rid themselves of this while staying alive is to walk the path of the warrior, but when that path isn't taught at an early age, it's only harder to break your social programming. It's difficult to break a negative spiral on your own when you're continuously pushed back for trying.
Gavin Lee
>Every time I've actually had a short-term relationship with a woman the fabric holding the shitfest together has been me compromising as much as I can, until I can't Damn. Basedpost based post BASED POST user!
Owen Adams
I agree with your sentiment aswell, but we both know that in todays world that could not happen on a large scale anymore, not in the foreseeable future at least. That does not mean the dont exist however, they are just very rare, those types of friendship and relationships are the ones you must enjoy fully if you come across them, but not resent them when you dont It is also this lack of trust in todays modern man that must drive you to become the best you can be for yourself only, relying on social acceptance or what society might deem acceptable is a foolish endeavor, wanting to fit in with the sheep is a weak mans ideal You have way more to offer than you might realize
Charles Morales
What do you want? A guide dog? A special line at Disneyland? A special hat that says "30 year old virgin" and a school assembly? You're not disabled you retard, you just act like an asshole so nobody wants to bang you. Get a grip. Pursuing sex hasn't satisfied you for the first 30 years of your life, so pursue something else and chill out. Maybe get some friends and learn to stop pitying yourself and thinking not having sex is some form of torture. You might just actually end up with a remotely fuckable personality
Hunter Brown
PEAK BODYTYPE. Childfuckers and titcows need not apply.
Jeremiah Long
>Only relationships make a person take leaps in mental age. Virgins are mentally 15 forever.
Fuck, this hits deep.
Asher Campbell
You can have the world and still feel like your spirit is crushing it's all about how you perceive everything in your mind Once you become self-aware at all means you look at the world radically different from other people that's why once a robot always a robot
Camden Foster
You're contradicting yourself >not having sex isn't that bad >your goal is to become a fuckable person
So everything does revolve around how much you get laid huh?
Hudson Anderson
We live in a world that overwhelms us with sexuality and pressure to get sex. Even the Internet is 99% porn and the rest is just people fighting over who gets the most sex. Life in 2019 is nothing but sex, sex, sex.
And when a virgin crumbles under pressure you say it's no big deal, man up etc.? Just fuck you. Try to see the big picture. You can't simultaneously say you have to fucc to exist and then say you shouldn't be affected by not fuccing.
Carson Torres
And when I tell fuccbois and low IQ Chads that sex isn't really that important, casual sex makes you a dog etc. they start shouting about how sex defines you as a person and so on.
>Have sex etc
Jayden Diaz
Then we are largely in agreement and I appreciate your words. That said, I don't believe we should leave the weak men out when they have other skills to offer. But in that sense I'm just an idealist who wishes we could all stop being assholes for no reason and care more and truly go beyond our collective biological programming. We can support the physically injured or impaired, yet hesitate to do the same for those socially impaired. It's too bad we will probably not see that shift in our lifetimes unless we have a disaster happen to the West soon.
Kevin Phillips
I've always wondered why men attack virgins as opposed to helping them. >FUCK YOU WEAKLING, GO DIE instead of >I feel you bro, we all have trouble getting women, I'll give you some pointers
Julian Williams
Love & affection is one of the most fundamentally important psychological human needs so fuck any retard that says "hurr durr its no big deal"
It actually is a big deal, if someone goes through many years of their adult life without those things it will result in them being mentally fucked up
Mason Jenkins
God shut the fuck up, no one here gets pussy faggot
Christopher Taylor
>You're not a 30-year-old virgin. This condition is literally worse than a physical handicap
I am. And I don't think that it is. I'd much rather be me than a non-virgin with no legs or downs syndrome or like umm rickets or something
Cooper Sanders
>you expect them to realize that your life is ruined and support you the same way they'd show compassion to cancer patients Don't be entitled >no, they just go "ok dude" and start talking about their own happy lives instead This is encouraging you >they actually expect I could lead a normal life like this You can >they actually expect I could hold a job, be happy and survive without love, sex, validation and a wife to come home to You can