So I went out with my friends today and one of them had a new gf. Now I've never had a gf. And thsi girl I know vaguely two times before.
We are talking about world of tanks the game with my friends and she turns to me and starts talking to me about her day and how she is doing or some shit. Anyway I didn't want to be her buddy she can use as an emotional tampon and I didn't care about her day and I sayd "aha" and cut her sentence in the middle and continued to discuss with my friends the game. She tried this two more times and I did the same.
Was this right to do? If she wants to tell someone about her day let her do that to her bf. I'm not getting to fuck her so I don't see why I should put up with her ramblings. Anyway I think she said something about her cousin who is really hot "noticing me" whatever that means
So I went out with my friends today and one of them had a new gf. Now I've never had a gf...
>And thsi girl I know vaguely two times before.
Met two times before*
thank god my only friend is also an incel type who has never had a gf
>Was this right to do?
You are totally autistic, sorry to inform.
So what should have i done instead?
You probably think you are based but really you are just rude. If you had a reason to not like her it would make sense, but your only reason was because you weren't going to sleep with her. She was just looking to be included, not to use you. Now both she and you friend are going to think that you were like that with her because you're gay for your friend (her bf) and are jealous of her.
Having a one off conversation with an acquaintance doesn't make you a beta or whatever else you were scared of looking like, but being rude doesn't make you "alpha as fuck" either.
>was this the right thing to do
Yeah, although its a bit autistic in how it was done it's still perfectely fine. Usually I just wait for them to finish a sentence or something and just say I'm talking.
I don't see any major problem.
It's called being nice and well behaving. When someone is trying to connect with you, you're supposed to at least aknowledge her presence. While I get that you don't want to become the gay firend there's maybe an in between.
no homo
Fuck her I don't care about her day.
`>hurr durr rude
Fuck her
I'm not obliged to listen to her boring rambling. She should blame herself for not being interesting enough.
There's not always a pin-point reason why a guy is an incel and it sucks for guys like that. I think it's pretty obvious why you are though.
And we don't care about your day faggot.
should have humored her so in the future you might have a chance to meet one of her female friends who has a hole that isn't being used at the moment
Based OP. World of Tanks is fucking shit though
bad b8 kys op
She's not entitled to have OP listen to her.
Thank you 557355
>there's maybe an in between.
There isn't.
Women either want you or your become the gay friend, no in betweens.
Bitch is not entitled to someone else's attention.
She has a boyfriend, she can waste his time with inane bullshit, not anyone else's.
Pathetic behaviour
Even applying incel logic it makes full sense to engage with her as practice to get a qt in the future.
this guy knows whats up. even if you are completely asexual, making wide network of acquaintances wont hurt you. and since we live in the age of social networks where everyone is insecure about themselves it is easy as fuck to connect with someone in real life.
i dont judge you tho. im exactly like you. never talk to anyone unless i need something and if i was in your situation, i probably wouldn't even give her the "aha" since im on wot drug as well
bravo! St. Elliot couldnt have handled that situation better himself! youre a winner op
there may have been a middle ground to abide by , example: turning that sub conversation continually to the original conversation and then your attention and head direction to the tank game participants. it seems like you could have maintained congeniality while communicating your intent with this strategy, but i dont talk to people so not sure.
>She was just looking to be included
This. OP is a fucking asshole. Imagine if you were with some people you didn't know and tried to make conversation but they rudely shut you down and ignored you.
>Imagine if you were with some people you didn't know and tried to make conversation but they rudely shut you down and ignored you.
That's an everyday life of a socially isolated Male