>tfw turning 20 in 3 months
Fuck...where did the time go? I feel so old anons...does it get worse from here?
>tfw turning 20 in 3 months
Fuck...where did the time go? I feel so old anons...does it get worse from here?
well, depends what you do in your life and how well you manage yourself mentally and emotionally.
I was also afraid of aging because I felt like I was behind everyone I knew. I had a constant underlying anxiety and nervousness in me.
I feel a lot better now at 28, you'll calm down and find out people are also for the most part just trying their best going through life and don't have everything come to them naturally.
You'll also see yourself mature over time. It's a constant process even if you don't feel it going on.
It'll get better user, don't sweat it.
>20
What is the average age on this board. Seeing posts like this makes me feel old at 26.
I'm turning 21 this month and feel the same way, it's crazy how fast time is going now. When I turned 20 I remember feeling t more strongly though because of the whole leaving teenage years thing.
Wait till you hit 21 and the liquor stores stop carding you. Dunno how I'm gonna live past 40 desu 21 is already too long
I worked my fucking dick off in college and it steadily got worse after 20.
It's so unrewarding getting good grades in college, I just need that degreeee
I'm 33 and if you're here posting on r9k, trust me, it gets much much worse
If you make the mistake of taking out loans like I did, yes.
24 checking in. You guys are the closest thing to true friends I got
20 is sort of a fork in the road, its not impossible to change your trajectory at that point but it becomes more difficult with each year. Then another fork at 25, and finally at 30 there's no going back.
It will get worse if you do nothing, but it will get better if you do something.
kek shut the fuck up you zoomer faggot. I'm 28 and still feel like im 18. You're basically still in your prime
When I was 20 I had sex for the first time I think with a fembot
>another fork at 25
Can you explain that? I seriously want out of this loop
It was kind of rewarding for me at the time until I realized that there was no job market for sciences.
Only worse. Don't ask how horrible being 26 almost 27 feels like especially when you were a NEET for 3+ years. 20? Feels like great age from this perspective.
At 20 you are only expected to be on your way to making it as a productive member of society, and you are still physically and mentally youthful. The next stage at 25 is when society expects you to have some kind of living locked down and this is also when you start to physically and mentally feel old. Your body and mind deteriorate much more rapidly than they did in the previous 25 years of your life. Then at 30 it reaches the final conclusion where you're supposed to basically have your life figured out and your mind/body are all but falling apart. If you're a loser its still very possible to change that between age 20-25, and more difficult but still possible between age 25-30. After 30 it will basically take a miracle to turn it around.
i'm 19yo and i feel the same, i have a feeling that i'm never going to be happy or at least as good as other people (no gf, no friends ect.) what did i do wrong.
>living locked down at 25
28 and still live with my parents
>have your life figured out at 30
see above
I've got 2 years to attempt to change my life. if its still garbage at 30 im probably just gonna let life have its way with me and ride the waves
The part about getting old actually makes sense. Thanks m8
desu living with your parents doesnt make you a loser if ur capable of being independent. i lived with my dad until he died when i was 28, and if he was still alive i would probably still live with him. even though ive been making enough money to live on my own the whole time. the idea that u have to leave your parents behind to be successful is a jew meme to get people to spend money on extra housing, i wouldnt move out until you find a woman to spend your life with.
but yeah if ur living with ur parents because ur a neet who would otherwise be homeless u definitely need to sort ur shit out in the next couple years or ur gonna have a bad time
nah i get all that. i know paying rent to schlomo is nothing more than it sounds. i have the capacity to be self-sufficient, but i have no skills. i got a worthless degree. its a little painful psychologically. my dads also incredibly soft and its way past the point of doing the bad cop part of parenting. im think that when i have sufficient cash saved ill move to a different state and create the sense of urgency myself
you are 20. you are practically still an inexperienced child who is somehow given adult rights
>housing meme
Not him, but I seriously get that. It should be sub-$10k tiny homes and apartments, in my opinion.
A lot of homes here seem like buyer's remorse.