ITT: stupid things you did.
Haha, I was actually ACTUALLY thinking that people on language exchange websites were interested in language exchange. I thought I could get in contact with japanese women and teach them my mother tongue while also learning japanese.
came into existence
Came into the guy above me's mother.
i didnt ask for this life dad
Had sex with this user and gave birth to the first user
What are they actually like? Just thirsty guys looking for foreign women?
Watched these two have sex and barked at them until they kicked me out of the house.
I feel like women who go there enjoy the attention they get from thirsty guys, bait you and leave you hanging. It's like with any other website put themselves on display, probably.
*website where people put themselves on display
Why would people want language exchange? Finding someone who wants to teach you their language but also wants to learn yours sounds so hyperspecific (doubly so if they have to be female). I bet you could find plenty that would want to speak Japanese with a foreigner.
>get in contact with japanese women
If you were interested in language exchange, you wouldn't care if it's a guy, would you?
>If you were interested in language exchange, you wouldn't care if it's a guy, would you?
BURRRRRRRN.
Fucking incels turn everything into just another thirsty scam.
Confessed to a girl I see every day. Needless to say she said no, and now class is very awkward
Who wants to teach a language for free? That's work you know? Quid pro quo is a nice idea. There are probably lots of Japanese who want to learn foreign languages and the teaching part is then just reciprocal.
>If you were interested in language exchange, you wouldn't care if it's a guy, would you?
Right. But the fact is that most of the people in websites like this are female. I thought this was just because of female preference for social learning and stuff, but maybe it's also because they want the attention they automatically get.
Also I think of Japanese guys as being quite weird, while the women are more normal, but maybe that's just a prejudice.
You understand that you can learn a language for free and then supplement your lessons with speaking to actual foreigners, right?
It would be fun to watch someone struggle without having to teach them
>and then supplement your lessons with speaking to actual foreigners, right?
but which foreigner would actually want to speak to me? how would you get in contact with people
What about the people on your language exchange website?
Yeah what about them? Out of 10 I contacted 2 wrote back. Out of these 2, 2 said they wanted to talk to me only to delay it ad infinitum. I can't really understand what the problem is, too
Were you asking something high commitment like "Teach me Japanese and I'll teach you English?"
Because I bet you'll get more success with something like "Looking for a Japanese penpal" or "Looking for conversation in Japanese"
>"Teach me Japanese and I'll teach you English?"
Why yes, that's what this website is all about. If people actually don't want to do that why are they even there?
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
I'm not at a stage where I could freely converse, and I find it hard to discipline myself, talking to myself, when I don't know if anything will ever come out of it
>LF a kawaii nihonjin on'anohito to teach me the alphabet and read me nursery rhymes so one day I can talk to her about my figuring collection. Must be willing to learn English (possibly move to America???)
Do you also tell a woman that you intend to get married before you go on a coffee date? If you can't freely converse, why don't you come back when you can hang? A lot of people would be thrilled to have a penpal.
>If you can't freely converse, why don't you come back when you can hang?
As I said I find it hard to discipline myself if I don't have a partner
>Do you also tell a woman that you intend to get married before you go on a coffee date?
Yes, why waste your time, huh?
>A lot of people would be thrilled to have a penpal.
I want to be able to talk, not write. Trying to learn writing is madness.
Met a trap at a party and thought it was a 100% girl was to anxiety ridden to say no so ended up getting TOPPED she sucked me off though
Maybe you should stick to warehouse work
Delivery work to be precise
Been there, did that.
I believed I would ever be happy