Tfw tried to have sex with emotional bf

>tfw tried to have sex with emotional bf
He is very dear to me and I don't want to hurt him, but the sex was just... not good. I can't enjoy being physical with him. And I don't mean all physical, just "physical" physical. Intimate physical is alright, in fact it IS what I love him for. A hug of trust and encouragement, a gentle touch now and then, all those little things make me feel at ease. But it never makes me feel like a woman, like I'm wanted. I know he loves me, but there's no passion or spark between us. It's so complicated.

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Teach that beta fag how to fuck you. Otherwise it will never work. Maybe he is just shy?

Awful lot of effort for a bait thread. The return on investment is higher when you type LESS spam per post, you know.

He's probably just too ugly to excite you physically but you depend on him for emotional support because his presence serves as validation of your value, combating your own insecurities about yourself.

Emotional bfs don't really need sex. If you're doing it just because you think it's good for your relationship, you're wrong. You need to have clear boundaries so he doesn't get confused about his role..

Maybe he's not interested in you sexually femanon. It's not your fault but you shouldn't blame him.

It was his idea that we should try it out. I was very hesitant at first because the very idea of having sex with him has never really occured to me and now it's making me anxious for many reasons. This
>Maybe he's not interested in you sexually
being one of them. I understand that he's not to blame but it makes me feel inferior, as if I'm lacking something as his gf AND as a woman. I don't know how to explain this any better, I'm sorry. This has been very taxing on my nerves.

I love him and he is very sweet, I just don't feel IT and it's driving me insane. I don't want this to ruin our relationship.

He is very shy but his therapist says it shouldn't be a problem.

Are you attracted to him? What draws you to him to begin with?

lets just forgeeeeet everything saaaaid
everything we diiiid
best friends and better halves
goodbyeees and the autumn night when we realised
we were falling oooout ooof loooove

>it's another fat retard pretending to be a woman online to carry out his humiliation fetish episode

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I dated a girl in high school, after a few months she broke up with me because she just really didn't feel it. Who he is doesn't work for you, and you can't change him to suit your needs. I think you're scared of that reality but it's a sunk cost fallacy, you don't want to let all the time and effort you've put into the relationship go to waste so you'll hang on to a sinking ship. I'm no prophet so I can't tell you if it really isn't working... but if it isn't working staying with him is wasting the present. The past is the past, make the best of it you can and move forward.

He is very quirky and I like his child-like mannerisms, it's very cute and I just can't leave him alone. And I love his sense of humour.

I don't know... Maybe it can work out if it stays platonic.
I really need to think about it.

Talk to other people about it too, family, friends, even your pastor or whatnot. Hear them out and make your own choice.

I remember the "emotional boyfriend" meme from way back when. Haven't seen it in a while.

This retard keeps posting it every day now.

Imagine sitting at home alone and trying to come up with a post to make anonyous people on the internet angry enough reply to you, carefully looking through your folder of femanon images, and then posting a finely crafted piece of bait. Imagine trying to hurt other people in this way so often that you actually got good at it, enough to get more than a few replies to your post. Imagine doing it for free like the jannies, but not even cleaning up the board.

Here's your (you), OP.

Eh sloppy bait. I give it a C. You have some idea what you're doing but you should have tossed this one out and started over. You're just trying too hard and it's not coming off naturally.

You really should have used the female thot wojak for this baot thread

2/10 bait. You probably got some newfags though, so good try anonbro

>>tfw tried to have sex with emotional bf

Oh wow check out this OC

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>never makes me feel like a woman

this is how I know you're LARPing
an actual woman doesn't say shit like that

Why are people falling for this bait?

It's time to stop posting
Oregano

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do you both a favor and tell him.
i went through the same situation and when she told me about it (very detailed too) i was absolutely crushed.
i'm still not any better even after 6 months.
It's gonna take alot of balls to do it but you have to.

Be honest with him and tell him he just can't please you sexually, he should understand, apologize and help you to find ways to solve this problem