I seriously refuse to believe incels exist, how is it possible that any normal and non-physical disorder-having human being isn't attractive enough to the point that no other human ever shows any kind of sexual attraction towards that individual.
I'm an ugly ass dude with acne scars on my face and a shitty haircut with a depressed cynical attitude towards life, and I still had the luck of finding out that 2 girls crushed on me back in HS
Really, to me every "incel" on this board is just looking like a total jackass, trying to catastrophize his life to the point of admitting he's unfuckable and unloveable
Ye man we just post this shit to mess with you, thanks for finnally noticing, also congratz! 2 chicks crushed on you your life must be amazing.
Brayden Carter
I'm not saying that there aren't people beyond saving but I'm convinced that the majority of self professed incels would rather wallow in self pity and make excuses for their inaction.
Jack Nguyen
It's called not being white, now fuck off
Jonathan Torres
It's hard to find single girls in my area that are looking for an actual relationship. Even online dating most of them want something casual or wont put in a modicum of effort to respond to someone. I dont think many girls actually play the swiping game much since they pretty much all just post their Instagram or snapchat and say to message there Even on Bumble where the girl HAS to message you first, they say shit like "I dont message first" a lot. Its dumb I'm convinced it's this area too, cause a friend had 0 luck with girls on any dating sites here, but as soon as he moved to another state he got a gf through online dating
Nicholas Bailey
Incels do exist. They are really rare and not in Jow Forums. Like 4' dudes and people with real problems. "Incels" here are more like >oh no my wrists are too small women hate me >I'm a degenerate 3/10 but I deserve a 10/10 virgin gf >Oh no I'm half a inch away from being 6' fuck society
Isaac Wood
I mean, I hate identifying as an incel because the community around it is super fucking gay, but I am one. In all honesty, it's probably just out of not trying and fear. I've never heard of anyone being attracted to me, even though I'm fairly average. I dropped out of hs when I was around 15, haven't had friends in a long time. Been going on and off to community college for like 2 years, I work a semi stable job, and even live on my own. The last one, while it seems cool, is actually way worse. I'm now spending more money, and I go outside even less because I don't go out with family. As the years go by, it gets harder and harder to interact with people at a personal level, and it just makes me less and less attractive to people. I've tried online dating, but I've had zero luck, but at this point it seems like my only hope unless I go see a doctor or something. I don't want pity from anyone, or to drown in my misery, I just want to browse the internet and have fun.
Austin Brooks
I'm 6'4 and attractive and women regularly flirt with me and crush on me. I'm a khv because >I can't emotionally connect with people >I have actual standards and dont want go get with a stupid vapid whore I've probably met 5 or so decent women in my life, and they were all online. I dont want to be with a stupid spoiled npc brat
I don't attract the type of woman I like and I refuse to settle for anything less.
Wyatt Nelson
He was a mentalcel, much like me. You can be a literal Quasimodo/10 and have girls interested as long as you can make up for it with an attractive and defect free mind.
Hudson Lopez
I assume that no woman is interested in me and could never be. So if a woman doesn't approach me or message me online, which has never happened, then I will never be in a position to date a woman. I don't understand how anyone that is not Chad can approach a woman.
Alexander Cox
I feel ya user, online dating isn't very effective for me either but I cling to it cause it's all I've got to work with.You seem like a good person and I hope you find happiness.
Gabriel Collins
>I am one >it's probably just out of not trying and fear
You're a volcel then, like said, actual incels are very rare and don't exist because of shit motives like yours
Adam Richardson
I'm super fucking autistic and socially awkward. I wish my problem was just being "ugly" cause it could be fixed with surgery. But I can't fix my brain
Wyatt Nguyen
there's girls with low standards, here in Mexico it's not uncommon to see hot chicks with ugly mestizo crap
I think you're probably one of those faggy dudes that wants to divide things into a billion things. Anyone who wants to have sex and can't have sex is therefore involuntary celibate. Anyone who doesn't want to have sex and is not having sex is a voluntary celibate. It's pretty damn simple, man. I think the whole "incel movement" is retarded as shit, but I'm just answering the man's question. If you wanna get technical, 4 foot guys have had sex, so no, if you're 4 feet that's not a real reason.
Ayden Barnes
Well, not everywhere in the world is shittico. So that's dumb.
Jonathan Thompson
I think it's mostly their shitty attitudes that make them unattractive to women
Easton Morris
you say "them" as if you're not included, loser
Austin Wright
some of us are mentally so damaged that we are simply incapalbe of forming conections to anybody
Noah Williams
???? Originaolol
Dylan Ward
Hi OP 42y average looking single robot here.
I'm a NEET with, have a very low possibility to find because of my age and the fact that I never worked in my life, I live poorly alone on neetbux support, didn't have any social interaction for the past 20 years if you don't count Jow Forums and getting any woman with my current situation is obviously impossible. As you can see just because you don't believe in something doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
Ryan Reyes
The answer OP is autism. Not even joking, if you are anywhere on the spectrum you are at a huge disadvantage with women. Why? Because women are very in tune with their emotions and will use nonverbal cues to show interest. So even if you are otherwise ok, if you've got the 'tism you are gonna miss out on more than half of what people communicate because you take everything at face value. Pile on top of that never gaining relationship experience and it quickly spirals into a self perpetuating cage of isolation.
Imagine not being able to 'read' when someone is happy, sad, angry, aroused, etc. Imagine not being able to show the correct facial and physical displays that reflect your own mood and thus always having the default 'creepy autistic stare' about you. Imagine being obsessed with one or a few topics to the point that it is all you want to talk about or do (and no none of the topics are fun or interesting by normal people standards). Lastly imagine that in general you were ok with being alone and never really felt compelled to interact with other people, imagine if interacting with other people had all of the appeal of interacting with a really bad AOL chatbot. That's kind of what it's like to be autistic.
Yeah, well my problem is finding willing women that find me attractive and that are single and want to date me. Literally how are you supposed to find women that are single AND find you attractive enough to want to date?
Jayden Sanders
there's low standard women all over the world, look over in your country, it may be harder though
Adam Sanders
Most "people" don't have the emotional capability to form bonds for mating or share affection, I've realized. They are all stunted developmentally and only in forced relationships out of survival/habit. Obviously more prevalent in the younger generations since their parents are neglectful sociopath boomer NPCs and this sort of mental illness is now rampant. They aren't packing the emotional gear, so to say.
